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johnydon22:
If the man of God is richer than the people he allegedly is serving, people should ask themselves.

"Is he here to help us or are the one here to help him"

I have always noticed that pastors are constantly preaching to their followers about neglecting the wealth of this world and stacking up their riches in heaven.

But these pastors always has tons of money here on earth, isn't this enough to make someone wonder

"Does he really believe what he preach?"

My brother!!! They will shout vanity up down and center and still immerse themselves in the same vanity and dare I say enjoy it!

That's how one guy was telling me it'll save cost. the pastor is always right.

Anyhoo, my money ain't there and the givers aint complaining so...

Truckpusher:
Sometimes it doesn't turn out that way.

turn out? Like I'm going to be born into the world again to watch how things will "turn out"?

That's my reality... not some wish.

FriedPlantain:
You are a disgrace to the word 'disgrace', heck, calling you a disgrace is like doing you a big favour, anuofia! Post a picture of yourself lying down unclad as well let's judge what you look like. My quess is you won't look too far from a baby quinea pig.

But why are you vexing like this?

[quote author=Truckpusher post=38208292][/quote]I know my place... it's wherever I want to be.

Demmocrats:
I still doubt that the first pic is the same person as the other pic.



She is gorgeous but what makes a woman beautiful is her character not physical packaging and makeups.


Happy Sunday to all the good women with good character, you guys are a blessing to your husbands

Actually, what makes e human(not only women) beautiful is character.

The idea should be "don't get married for the wrong reasons". It's really not about how handsome he is.

Anyhoo... on behalf of the single peeps assoc, we hear ya.

Keep up the good work, do not relent.

MzNelly:
Exactly, sister.

I don't encourage sleeping around.
But what's the worst that could happen?

They call you a hoe.
And this same hoe is what would attract so many guys because they want "a girl with experience."
And so these 'hoes' end up getting married and the holier-than-thou virgins are seen in churches everyday praying.

I've seen sooooo many examples.
I wonder who these male chauvinists are tryna fool tho.
Us?

Lol

He thinks he's talking to 13yr olds...

Truckpusher:
You do have a twisted ideology about the male gender?

What has chauvinism got to do with a simple common sense ?

This is the society you live in and I do not need to force it down your throat - Trust me ,you're living in a fool's paradise.

Abeg no vex , jump into bed like the men are doing(of course not all men) and not getting called names isn't that what you want? To be morally bankrupt because the society looks the other way when men are morally bankrupt , but you've forgotten that the same society set the rules you live by and any attempt to deviate from those norms and values would lead to a clash of ideology and this is the crux of the matter - Then your problem just started.

I would love all the women to do whatever they want and whenever they want but they should also be ready to pay the price - There is no ideology that has a zero cost.

Now, this is what I call reality on paper or on Nairaland.

Look around you Mr, what do you really see?
Society who? Lol.

Guys just like to leave the impression that if you sleep around, as a girl, bad things will happen and then I wonder, what's the worst that can happen? People will see you as a LovePeddler? Is that really new? You won't get married?? Lol, just Lol!

People like to paint a false picture of life, be good and you'll have a good life automatically, be bad n you'll have a bad life but we all know "reality" isn't so straight.

Woulda said allot more but I might end up preaching what I don't encourage... buh you'll have to do allot more to dissuade girls from sleeping around than that lame attempt

esosa993:
I dunno who u are or why you taking, so; personal on me , I already gave her a piece of my advice its kinda wrong to waste a guys money when you knew what he wanted in the first place and still went ahead and made him take u out, of course he's a jerk he would demand for something stupid, but if u are fund of wasting a guys money ....... let me direct this to you stop it before a guy harms you

Talk about who is taking what "personal". Why are you in defense and attack mode? I'm guessing coz I'm female. Lol... smh.

Anyhoo... Happy Sunday.

9.

"I'm not ready for a relationship" gives a false impression of "wrong timing". Sort of leading the guy on.

There's nothing wrong with "I like you as a friend" or if you want him to think about his life the rest of the year, be blunt "I'm not interested".

I've asked out allot of guys...



In my head.

Mama says never to go after a man. Mama has a great man so I believe her.

esosa993:
Who said she should go to his house, am talking about something else ,so its right to go out and spend a guys money when you not planning to date him





Who is talking about going to a guys house

Actually, going to the guys house is what the thread is about.

Toks2008:
Ada trust me you no try at all.

Anyone has right to create a thread on any topic of interest and you have the right to state ur opinion which you have done but please let this sink...ANYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO HIS OR HER OPNION AS WELL AS THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS IT.

No one should be called names for airing their views ok.

Air your views but try to be respectful about it. You are not happy I called the thread(not you btw) childish but you inferred that another human is "brainless" and a "colossal waste".

Seriously, if it were one of these online brats that bash women to feel good about themselves, I woulda walked away but coming from someone mature?

klassiquette:
I don't think its dumb to create a thread about it.... It's actually going to help some ladies wise up

How about you try this experiment.

When you have a child, anytime he does something bad, tell him he's stupid... see if he'll not end up stupid.

You do not change or influence people positively by cursing/insulting them, it just doesn't work! You want girls to wise up? You start from those around you, make them friends and inspire them. Or if you can't, you create an Educative thread and not this.

I repeat, this is childish.

Truckpusher:
Then I guess that for every quarrel at home the first point of call is to abandon one's marriage - Everyone would end up divorced then because it is practically impossible to stay with another human being under the same roof without one of the parties involved not losing it completely one day and that isn't the end of the world.
Well, like I said before you guys only heard the op's version and I know that you are aware that anytime people have any problem ,they all have an explanation that would make them appear as the angel while the other fellow is always the devil - But as humans with some level of intelligence it is absolutely ridiculous to encourage a divorce just like that when you have no idea of what transpired but again it is the op's decision and not mine neither yours so stop the rants.

Yep, I know I'm ranting probably because I'm still awake by this time (no thanks to my neighbors). But more than that, you started by watering down every other person who said she should leave and then really didn't say anything.

You didn't address all the questions in my post but then I guess I know why.

Btw, I didn't ask her to leave her home or get a divorce. But just wait until someone threatens to murder you(no matter what you did), if your first instinct will not be to steer clear.

Truckpusher:
Most people in an online forum actually think that they have an opinion when it comes to relationships and marriages.

You guys haven't heard from the op's husband and listen to his own side of the story but right here you guys are already advising the op to run away from her marriage as if any little problem with any marriage the only solution is total dissolution of such union.

Op ,kindly go back to your house and figure out how you guys ended up this way because one thing I can assure you is that most people that appears to be happily married do have problems that are much more bigger than whatever you think you're into right now. And your topic talked about being cheated on but gradually migrated to domestic violence and threat to life.

Go home and fight for what you believed in and worked so hard to achieve - Do not put yourself in an awkward position that would present to your husband the opportunity to raise his hand on you and that solely lies on your tongue.

There is no perfect marriage and it is usually different strokes for different folks.

@bold, what about you? Are you part of the "most people" or you think you have an opinion on relationships and marriage that should count

Secondly, easy for you to say! Because you are not the one in the situation. If you have been threatened by your wife before with a knife do share your experience. If not, why should anyone regard your own advice?

Say by chance she was your sister, will you just tell her to go back to her husband's house and figure out how things got bad or YOU as her family will take active steps to ensure she is safe?

Then most importantly, how should she "fight" for what she has worked for exactly? Like, what should she do? You just sounded like a politician "vote me in and I'll make you comfortable", by doing what??

I know maybe the response will be the hypocritical "pray for him, it is well" but if not, tell her how exactly she should "fight" taking into account the little child.

If only they had eyes... if only they had eyes...

esosa993:
one thing I know is,if u don't like someone don't go out on a date with them......sorry for the disgrace tho

So, if you "like" a guy, you'll go home with him after hanging out for the first time? Just like that?

Berra be careful before someone does the unthinkable.

Oh... op you shoulda given him back the 7h.

I guess if you don't like "dumb" girls, you should avoid them. Creating a thread for it and cursing @ them is really childish.

What do you really hope to achieve with this thread

DAVIYJONESS:
I believe that's the way it has been from
Innovation, feminism is empowering women wrongly and that's what you have been advocating, tell me mr ronald4lif why are men elligible to marry as many woman as they can and a woman can marry just one man at a time?

If you allow her make her choice there is 2million chances she might make the wrong one, a girl's life should be vehemently supervised. I know I will be a father of a daughter someday

Anyman who shags anything in skirt has less to lose than a woman, that's should prove my point and as a man if you didn't caught me having sex there is no evidence that I've had sex unlike woman.

They have so much to lose the world is envolving around their sexuality and its changing everything.things are geting worse, they are more of sex object these days.


Men will always be superior.

With this mentality, I doubt you are superior to lizards...

Elena or no Elena, TVD is just over dragged. Dunno how else to say it.

Like, "E don do!"

Define "selfie". - 100marks

I don't get, is he now spokesman of the sect? Is he one of them?

Like, where did this pop out from?

PunkyVeer:
Yeah, the trust just gets ruined. TBH, I tried staying in a relationship like that. In this case I was the side chic It only lasted for about 2 weeks after I found. I just couldn't stay with him. I felt disgust, deceit & it was just too much to handle. Even in a marriage I think I'd walk because something inside me refuses to be with someone I can't trust. Because I'd always be suspicious of him & that's not fun.

To think I pulled down that post ... felt like my opinion should stay with me for some reason. lol.

It not only breaks the trust, it's very disrespectful and shameful. Yes, I take it that seriously.

Like you're gonna sleep with someone else and come lay on the same bed with me? Cuddle me? And claim you still love me? And expect me to "persevere" and "pray" for you?

To hell with you nigga... i'd rather be alone and know I have no1 than stick around to earn a disease.

The only problem I think will be the kids.

Easier said I guess? All in all, I hope for a good man.

And if you don't have a best friend, stay single...

No comment.

landinfo:
One wk to go sha!!!!!!!




Thix question is nut good to ask....why wud he not kill him when hiz wealth & life haz been threatened 4get that Bunky was a helper in the time of trouble (drug biz), when someone threatenz u, u don't kid the person with soft gloves

U think Dangote, Adenuga, Otedola, Uba, Dr Dre, 50, etc would let a so-called friend (who doean't have any impart AGAIN in your life) live after threateaning their well being

There is no friend or brother in thix jungle world that we live in, just make sure u watch own back cos thix life weda u go ur own way or obstruct another, life has guaranteed us that someone somewhere is ready to PHD sydrome.....no difference weda White or Black

Ever heard of a shake down? It was just a threat.

25geez aint too much money, he woulda paid him the first time. I mean, he was a real friend and probably didn't have enough credentials to contribute to the company that's why he stuck to driving him around.

He practically raised his kids for crying out low.

Anyhoo... I guess that's just me.

mrsmith11:
"If I had known what I now know some 4-5 years ago I would have dropped out of school to face life squarely, or I would not
have paid as much attention to studies as I did"

Please don't send your children to school......let them face life squarely from what you know now

Thanks

Education is not the enemy... But thinking all things will work out well just because you went to school.

MrsPhyno:
Weird is my MO babe.... what can I say

I normally dont like 'eldest sibling' characters, but yeah. He's in an unfair sitiyation.

So if not andre who? Lucious I presume

Uhmmmmm.... i deeply dislike lucious. his pride, pettiness, selfish ways and all.

Why did he really kill bunky? Beats me.

Oh well, 2nd runner up has to be Jamal. Yea I know he's gay n all but he's cool. Hakeem is rubbing off on me tho.

MrsPhyno:
Our moda in da lord, Cookie of course. Ur head dey dere

But Andre is kinda a close second hehe

I'm only sympathetic towards Andre. I mean, you're the first and you literally work your ass off but your younger brother is going to head the company you worked for.

But! I don't like the nigga. His character is just too weird.

MrsPhyno:
Yeah me too

Sorry if u said it before but whos ur fav character

Definitely cookie... the show will not work without her .

Who's yours?