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This is serious... I just have no words.

koboko69:
LOL..ITS JONATHAN,

BUT WHEN BOMB GOES OFF ANYWHERE ITS BUHARI


SUPER CLOWNS

But you haven't said how Buhari fixed the light. Just saying...

lonelydora:
"The beauty of a woman is her husband"......... So they taught me.

WEEK...... women's education ends in kitchen. So I heard in primary school. But my wife's own didn't end in kitchen though.

Proverbs 31......... told me something about being a virtuous woman. And verse 11 says "The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that He shall have no need of spoil"


I assume you are a christian, read it first and come back let's talk.

See Op, all these rich ladies are not happy they are not married. They cry in their secrets. Some of them confided in me and told me so. Ask Linda and Genevive, you think they don't want to be like Omotola?

The beauty of a woman lies within her actually.

Secondly, Paul in the same bible advised men and women to stay single but to avoid sin, get married.

The point is not in any way to undermine marriage and all that it stands for. It might be to change the mentality and orientation.

Man and woman are dependent on each other and not one more than the other as we have been made to believe. The man and the woman need marriage equally and not one more than the other. So, girls should be brought up to find value in themselves first and not hoping to find value WHEN they get married.

Another point is, some poor women are also unmarried not just the wealthy ones so I guess it is safe to say that not everyone will get married. That said, what will you rather have? A woman gnashing her teeth, living in penury because she is unmarried or one who is actually excelling in other aspects of life?

And please, enough of the "they cry all night " talk, some people who are married cry as well! Marriage is not a sure route to happiness and fulfillment. Such is life so, let's stop deluding ourselves. But then again, I guess it is better to cry "married" than single abi?

nitane25:
d film is majorly centrd around a powerful musical god...d high $ mighty stuff is justified. Cnt wait to see what Lyon Dynasty wil do wt dmslvs. Ludacris ws kinda annoyin. And Andre is either not their child or Luscious' mistake child frm a short relationship. Speakn of d lawyer dt got luscious released, m yet to understand dat one. A much better episode dan the ep1

Definitely a much better episode than epi1. Andre is definitely their kid. Or maybe cookie's alone because cookie loves the nigga even though he didn't visit her in jail and all that. She even wants him to run the company.

Maybe He reminds Lucious too much of his mother. Looks like lucious' mother was bipolar as well from the "itsy bitsy spider" scene.

I have a feeling Andre will finally run the company tho. Jamal can't cope and Hakeem is a brat. Oh well...

nitane25:
he looks hotter. Sexy n grt build

He definitely hit the gym after season1...

Egwusi, afang and edikaikong soups.

Senate president Bukola Saraki.

President Muhammadu Buhari.

The waterfall is in cross river state.

Olumo rock.

pTomz:
jupita rocks

What about Saturn?

Lupita for moi...

Oh, I forgot to mention ma nigga Ludacris! I love that nigga silly. He was forming boss for lucious of all people. Lol

When you're dirty, you totally need a dirty lawyer...

I don't like the idea of a new label tho, I don't know how that will turn out.

You guys need to chill on the gayness coz you aint seen nothing yet. They are trying to "normalize" gay-dom so you're going to see it in more and more series, movies, books, billboards. It's just the beginning. Like someone said, unless you wanna drop all things American.

Not saying I like the scenes tho.

Lucious got no chill yo...

Lucious: you still going to church?

Andre: yes sir.

Lucious: you still believe in God?

Andre: yes sir.

Lucious: well, you pray to God that he forgives you coz I don't.

I don't like the nigga but that scene was dope.

Still sympathetic towards Andre tho, and is it just me or he looks hotter? Still wondering what lucious' problem is with him.

Tiana... that baby girl fine.

Acidosis:
Ada, what's happening?

Lol... what's happening as in?

tadedayo1:
Try also not to be like man. You can't even be regardless of how much you earn hourly and if you force yourself to be like man, you're saying that God made mistake in all His wonderful and beautiful creations.

Me, try to be like a man? Lol! I don't need to, I'll never have a peniss but I'll tell you what, I can be whatever I want. God didn't make anyone inferior to anyone and didn't prohibit anyone from having a career. So please, again, do not drag God into your pettiness!

Ha! Who is this again? When your mates are wailing on the other thread that young women are becoming more successful than their male counterparts ...

You should be hoping that your wife will see you as a worthy investment instead of coming here to spew trash...

"Don't invest in your wife" like she'll sit there and hopelessly pray to you for her daily bread. Mtcheew...

And those shoes... ughh...

Total disaster.

tadedayo1:
Eneze, I know and quite understand your point but the truth of the whole matter is, gender equality is obviously doing us (humans) more harm than good. Gender equality is not in God's design for humans.

Try not to bring God to your pettiness.

Oh jeez, why can't people read before commenting

freecocoa:
Just see the nonsense he is spewing, I find out that men like him are very insecure, lazy and broke, just see how a person thinks in this century.

They want a woman that's hardworking but sees them as a god and literally worships them, that way they can cage the woman to do whatever they want, very selfish, inconsiderate and ugly people, the thing dey annoy me sef.

What rubbish, some women struggle hard to get a job and this mofo is here saying they had to sleep their way in.

I don't even know what to say about the women, singing his praises.

Ugly humans indeed!!! Like WTH?

These guys have not talked about what's disturbing them! They're still searching for control like their brains have not evolved to the 21st century.

Shallow, tiny minded people. Mtcheew... lemme leave here abeg.

holocron:
If its shallow then...
what would you advice the ladies do - before menopause arrives?

Feel free to think outside the box.

Trust me, I had more than that to say to you but tried to be as respectful as possible given the situation.

So, on that note, I think you should tell all the girls you are related to to stay idle and not go after their goals just so that they can get married(again, how shallow can a human get?!). Also extend my sympathy to those that will listen.

You lot are just too sad.

freecocoa:
Just imagine! So women should lower their standards because you couldn't get a job? How about creating jobs for everyone? So those women couldn't have gotten the jobs on merit? Only men get jobs on merit, and people are shouting kudos such misogyny.
Smh.

I was looking for the words, I just couldn't find them. Like what do I tell this "wailing wailer"? I guess he goes home with the CEOs to watch them sleep with the female staff. Well, I won't be surprised if he washes the sheets too...

I think it'll be better if we just stayed home and forget school or work, I think that will make them(Nigerian men) happy! But wait!!! They also want independent women, not liabilities

Confused lot...

As for those ladies who allowed themselves to grow above marriageability, I dont advise any young man to subject himself under them. If you are manly, you will surely regret being spoonfed by a woman; except you are not. Those ladies are best served being single mothers. Society should be realistic enough and accept it.

Uhhm.... how shallow can a human get?

I guess I'm the only one who didn't enjoy the episode as much.

The hostile takeover is over... Frank Gathers/Gavis or whaever is gone. Hmm... anyway, I hope it'll get better(for me).

lagmostkuit:
I ain't misleading anyone here..

In a situation like dis, u mustn't tell ur partner that u cheated on her!


I'm not saying a relationship should be filled with lies buh @ a point in our relationship, we really need to lie to cover up some things just to save it!

Then it blows up in your face...

Kingsley1000:
is not pessimistic,in life you have to do some evaluations,b4 u take certain decision......u jilt him because of the slap ,as if you have a spare guy out there

Before you ask who I am or why I'm quoting you, lemme spare you the trouble. I'm just another nler airing her views.

Now that we got that out of the way...

It was easier for women to stay in abusive relationships back then because the belief was that the woman was inferior(directly or indirectly). Now, that no longer works so men now insinuate that other men are even worse or there's no other man at all. This in my opinion is really silly.

I see it as my duty to remind such men(or guys) that they will be fathers one day and I encourage them to give their own daughters that same advise. I can only but imagine...

"My daughter, you know you are a mere woman so, if almighty man manages to find you attractive, don't bother if he hits you or even sleeps around like a pig. Afterall who knows if any other man will find you worthy to be with and even if there's one, he won't be any better"- love father.

Slap him right back and run away...

cyberdurable:
u sound like a cheap b!tch, u even bear an igbo name, disgrace to our tribe, *spits*

K

dechandel:
She is not a NLander to start with.

The only thing Kossy is good with is Instagram and Facebook

Ok then. She could have gotten the info from Facebook anyway.

dechandel:
LOL
LIAR!!
The girl on her profile picture recently graduated from a university down East!
We went to same secondary school, FGGC IBUSA
she was my senior though, my seat mate's school mother back then
And her full name is Kossy Otti!!
She studied Theatre arts and not Mass-Comm

She said she graduated from unizik and the K.O initials match... hmm.

But everyone has an insta account naa... it's possible she's the lady.

Missnora oya na, clear ya name.

My own is, I didn't breeze 6pages of crap for nothing.

NL drama...

munchfani:
Nothing is certain except change...READYMADE GO BROKE SOMEDAY

So, all the ready-made people you knew when you were lil are now broke I guess?

That's not always the case but feel free to use it as consolation prize.

Oh well, the day I'll listen to guys making fun of girls for wanting a guy with money is the day they(guys) stop going after girls they fancy.

To each, his/her own.

I guess the person has a telescope for eyes.

Oh... I think I just saw something. "A man is your superior"... there's just allot that implies including the woman is inferior. hian! I don't agree but I guess that's my opinion.

Truckpusher:
The highlighted is something you really need to consider and look at it from another angle.

What happens if your spouse or bf understood clearly that there are red lines that shouldn't be crossed no matter how provoked?

So,once again do not put yourself in an awkward situation where anyone would even think of raising their hands on you.

That ego thing isn't really ego but a romantic way of encouraging your own, abi you and your boyfriend na competitor?

I will not tow the line of "never hit a woman" but you gotta admit, if a man did the same thing the woman did, the bully will not fight him. A woman beater knows he's physically stronger and that's the only way to "subdue" his woman. If she fights back? Even better. It'll give him greater joy when she's down.

Such men are loosers, check them! They're unsatisfied with most things in their lives therefore even your smile will annoy them. Ever wondered why the beating happens over and over again? I'm sure you just figured the woman is brainless and continuously screams at her man. Smh.

But somehow, other men will still make up excuses for them and anyhow, it's the woman's fault.

lifegiva2:
yeah, i totally agree with you on the "giving false impression" part, but what is wrong with just telling the plain truth? i dont like you, i am not interested

Uhm... that will be easier but it messes with their ego.

Then girls don't wanna be seen as bitcchez

Truckpusher:
Some women don't just know how to bring out the best in their man and vice versa.

But this thread is all about the women so please folks shouldn't see it as thread to bash ladies,I have already seen some stubborn girls already taken it out of context and making superfluous comments and assumptions.

The truth is that if you want to enjoy your relationship or marriage you also have to give in your best - Nothing sweetens a man's heart like the sweet talks and compliment of a woman that encourages him with the words of their mouth and a little massaging of that our ego and you'd always see such men making progress because there is someone out there that they don't want to disappoint.We understand that some men would never appreciate such kind gestures but hey! have you really put in your best?

cc

Adaeze003. come shoot me down,I know it's your hobby these days since you're jobless.

O gini kwa? Lol.

I don't have a problem with the post but you see what I was talking about according to you "a little massaging of our ego". Your(guys in general) ego is just too easily deflated.

Oh and btw, the effort has to come from both sides. Everyone blames the woman for a failed relationship even when the man cheats, is unemotional and a bully. You'll hear people say(like you once said) "don't put yourself in a position for him to hit you" or related crap like that. That's just really really silly and selfish(yes, men are selfish for other men sef).

Well, I will not put in my best if he's not doing same. It's really not worth it to me.

You can shout "amen" to this post all you like but don't expect what you don't give. Do unto others....(well, you know the rest)

Truckpusher:
Lol, stop twisting my comment to suit your ego that I'm about to deflate now.


I said soemtimes we don't always turn out how we planned to turn out despite all our genuine effort and hardwork - Life fuccks everyone of us differently.

What are we even arguing about here? - Let's just kiss and make love and not war.

I'm not a guy, my ego is not easily deflated...