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krak101:
when God created Eve, she was put under the man's authority. Don't know where these feminists get their doctrines from #endtimedesires

Actually, this is false... the whole authority thing came up after they ate the apple, it was actually a curse for woman...

That aside, why is it that whenever gender equality is mentioned, the op@tallesty1 is always up and about crying about it? Like why does it make you so angry and bitter, sometimes it sounds like you can't breathe? Do you see women as inferior beings or what? Like what's your anger about

slinkman:
don't think so bro i think it is Anika and she would confess to the family in the next 3 episode, read the story plot in the pic below where it says the family learns a big secret of Anika. This episode is yet to be aired.

The secret is that she's pregnant for hakeem. I think Anika hired someone to push her. I mean the rest of the family were at the board meeting...

I'd do business with an ex but I won't let my husband do same...

Trust or no trust, men are more likely to disgrace themselves and their generations to come...

ITbomb:
I rarely see any dating that leads to marriage, anyone that thinks that he is dating for marriage is a fool including you, O wretched OP (oya come beat me nah).


When you want to marry, get a girl for courtship of 3 to 6 months. Anything longer than that is just for fvck and house cleaner/cooking

So you just pick a random girl for courtship or how?

Mutaino7:
just becos mk10 did not include it doesnt nullify the fact dat matt19 mentioned it. Shebi and am sure john might not even touch the matter at all. What Jesus said was that moses created divorce option because d jews av a harden heart but trust humans 2 abuse priviledges so nah d reason jesus said xcept for adulterous cases divorce shud not b an option. Ce fini..lobatan.

Lesson learned...

What's the full name of the site?

Mutaino7:
Abeg don't confuse others ... the only person not permitted to re-marry is the adulterer or adulteress not the person cheated on. We read bible too

I see what you're saying and you may be right going by the matt19 but mk10 doesn't make any exception. So I'm not wrong too.

All those stating how Jesus Himself permits divorce on cheating grounds should also remember that He doesn't permit re marrying.

Men are generally so one sided in reasoning it affects the way they read the bible. They combine bible teachings with culture but I guess that's not the topic for today.

Anyhoo... its impressive to see a number of guys who won't forgive because they themselves won't cheat. The rest of you are just babbling...

keyman0007:
Bro i think i hv waited enough, finished uni when i was 20 did nysc 21, masters 22 and i hv worked for 5 years now, this year i will be 28.

I think someone needs to remind you that the world doesn't revolve around you. You keep making reference to you, you, you. To think you even did your own masters early too. Smh

Anyhoo, you should let her go if you cannot handle all that. Plenty fish in the sea...

SpicyJosBabe:
Well, u are free to post pictures of igbo girls with sound backgrounds, lets see if they can compete with these women.....many of these women here are average middle class women FYI

Don't you think you're taking things a bit far? Like why the comparison?

keyman0007:
bro planning a marriage takes a while, counselling alone in our church is 6 months.

I have said it before i dont mind her going after we get married as long as her father is willing to sponsor her.

Remind me, what's wrong in getting married come 2018? Did the villagers say they won't accept marriage that year Or did they tie your wealth to getting married this year?

I mean, by then she'll be 24, you 30. Is that too late?

I think there's something more to the story... you don't trust her do you?

They pretty!

This should better be fake gist!!! Seriously, what is wrong with humans these days

Tufia...

Kingsley10000:
i think rape/molestation case only vindicates the female folks

This is rape...

I think I have to see the next episode of TVD to appreciate this one...

But TO!!! I did mention that I will never ever doubt those writers again...

One word for TO? Stunning!! Lol... I'm not sure how that word connects to the show but! Cool

Max withdrawal from ATM is 60k na? Or is it just for savings account?

Pathetic...

dicefrost:
Nope, certainly not. But if we were married then yes. But in a broad sense, men are naturally dominant.

Have we now graduated from bible to broad sense

Smh...

dicefrost:
The point is that the head of a woman is the man. Men have authority over women, that is the natural order of things. No one ever said men where higher beings. Its just like your boss at work. He is not a higher being, he is just a man like you, but he is your boss and you are not his equal. Men did not create themselves, but the creator created them to be the head over women

Do forgive me for I know you were not talking to me but ehm... so what you are saying now is that... you are the head of any/every woman on the street?

Jadekitana:
It's not about inferiority complex madam, it can't work! Go through all my threads, you would know i'm not an asslicker, I say it as it is. This thing about women trying to be equal with men can't work! We ain't in the US,this is nigeria we'v got our norms, laws and traditions. We should focus on developing ourselves as women and not trying to take the place of our men and be equal to them! I'm not in support to such an unrealistic idea. You should know your place as a woman as well.

Inferiorigini? Lol do you know the meaning of that? Of course me I know my place, you too, know your own place. No need to fight. But again, try not to speak for all women. You have you own ideas, I have mine and that is the beauty of being human... have a nice night...

Jadekitana:
I'm not in support of all these gender equality or what have you, i'v never contributed anything to it. Women should know their rightful place in the society and men shouldn't abuse it. A woman can never be equal to a man, God created man to be the head(just that some don't know their duties) a woman should be behind him or sideways as a help mate. I believe when men start doing the right thing and take responsibility for their actions, these women screaming gender bullshiit would keep shut.

Well... the equality thing is not for everyone... you can still be/feel inferior if you want just don't speak for every woman... you should know your place.

ellacute45:
Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your true love

Lol... Really?

MrImole:
Because ladies of my age have been taken by guys older than us.
What're we supposed to do?

You sound like you're dating someone in secondary school...

hope4charles:
lol Nne i am not the said bf, i am just airing my mind as a modern man, women alot of times need coercing to get them working. I can assure u that the bf loves her but is a bit fustrated, she should do the best thing work on her body, i went to ur profile to check u out and didnt see any pix, had it been i saw i would made a conclusion.

I weigh about 72 myself, I'm 5'10 and I'm more than content with my body. So any modern man that doesn't like me should shift na, plenty fish in the sea...

I still repeat that there are better ways to go about it if he truly loves her. Go jogging with her, register in a gym with her or find someone to go with her if he can't coz working out is fun when there's someone else and it'll serve as motivation. You don't motivate someone by kicking them down! I mean, they have been dating for 5 years, I'm pretty sure he knows her and what such words can do to her.

Imagine if your girl told you "see, your mates have cars and ya still jumping keke" as a modern man that you are, will you feel motivated?

I just don't want to give the op any advise before someone will say Adaeze ruined a relationship... but I know I can't even keep such people as acquaintances....

hope4charles:
Worst advice ever, why would she brake up with him, have u ever thought, what if the guy has tried it in a cool way and she doesn't take it serious? Would it have been better if he had broke up with her based on it or to use this means of comparison to inspire her to change, she should be challenged,
If it's my type I don't do comparisons I will just walk out, simple but I will make sure I have told u everything including the health benefits and detriments.

Oga you need to relax or are you the said bf? Why are you all over the thread?

Is 70kg that bad? Talking of health risks?? Is it really that bad? I get that we all got different tastes but if he doesn't like her that way, can't he just let her be? Than treat her that way?

The way I see things in my own world, if you don't like me stay the hell away! Don't come and start trying to order me around and compare me to other people like, since you saw them slim shady chicks, why didn't get go to them? like hell, what if I like my weight?? Seriously?!

What kind of silly love will he claim while trying to make her feel like crap? There are better ways to do things like this!

kilokeys:
Hahaha. Erhmm i was a "late bloomer" .. Didn't start dating until last year.. First was too young, I moved higher.. And its been so much forn .
So some stuff are still strange.. Lol. Na wa o.. Why u feel say i no get babe before?

So much forn??

Oga repent!

Glory to God huh?

The way we’ve reduced His name...

Lord have mercy...

FGGCOW repping!

Oyindebrah:
why do I feel you are being myopic??
every post is an advertthat's very stupid to think of

Lehehehehehehehehehehe... lmao! Myogini? Mtcheew... omoge gaan sit down abeg. I'm sure you don't even know the meaning of "myopic".

Why do I feel like this is an advert? For palmchat??

MarieSucre:
Adaeze003

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.

I actually knew.... laughed all through while reading...

kilokeys:
It's more of a marriage than a patnership

So there has to be a leader somehow.

Even most partnership ain't equal.

If she says no.. Why should the man accept her "no".. Wouldn't that make it still one-sided?

Actually one sensible mention from a guy/man, no insulting word or comment... me likey.

Actually, marriage is a union. I mean, even the whites, as rational as they are know this, why do you think every asset is split down the middle in divorce?

Now, you must understand that no one is sharing "head of house" with man. Also, I don't subscribe to african type marriages where I'll live my whole life stroking a man's ego. Well if you subscribe to it then ignore the rest of the post. But if you're talking Christian type marriage go on...

Now, on the submission issue, you have to agree that men are also to love their wives like their own body/self? And even unto dying for her Do you think it's that feeling of the heart pumping faster when you see her? Do you really think women have the hardest part? Love is synonymous to selflessness and putting her/her needs/wants before yours , overlooking her flaws(even if one of those flaws is not being submissive ), I can go on but I think you get the picture after all bible says "like Christ himself loves the world"!


But hey! What the average Nigerian man wants is slavery, the right to never be questioned by their wives even when they poke other holes, ultimately, they want to be gods of their wives. It might work, but only for sometime even for the insecure women then, there's friction(fact!).

This is the reason marriages are in trouble, men have decided to not see their own part and they hold on to the submission part and carry it on their heads like agege bread.

Complete the equation or let it go completely, if you want submission, love like you're supposed to. That's it! If not, you're in for a whirlwind of a marriage.

Oya where are all them mentioners, read and digest...
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MarieSucre:
Adaeze003

My dear, as a woman you must submit to your husband, in all things. I tell you from experience. You see even if you had a twin brother, by virtue of him being male, he will grow to be more sensible than you are. It does not matter whether he has made grievous mistakes in the past or he has indulged in rash decisions. once he gets married and he assumes that title "Head of the House" or "Husband", he automatically gets magically imbued common sense.
Now you must understand that your husband is the God you see, throw away all talk of partnership, is there any partnership between God and Man. NO!! God is forever above man, as your husband is forever above you. You must grovel at his feet, contort yourself to the point of elasticity and numb your emotions, because the only feelings that should be your primary concern in that union should be his. You must do everything for him short of worshipping him. You are lucky to be married. Some women are still single and anytime they pass a bustop or junction, people spit at them and throw rotten tomatoes at them. Do you want to be one of those bitter single women?

Listen, any thing that is wrong with any relationship is the woman's fault. She needs to check herself to make sure she does not lose him like a toy to some other woman. Is he cheating on you? Then you must either be dressing like an old woman or not giving him enough blowjobb. Is he beating you? Then you must either be a nag or a stupid housewife who brings no monetary value to the union except maybe do all the housework and take care of both your children. Check yourself. Men are too rational unlike emotional and confused women. Check yourself Nigerian Woman.

Finally. concerning this topic, here are some definitions of what submissive means.

adjective
-Being subjected to an action without producing a reaction.Taking no action.
He remained passive during the protest.(grammar)
-Being in the passive voice.(psychology) -Being inactive andsubmissive in a relationship, especially in a sexual one.
(finance) Not participating in management.
(aviation) Without motive power.

Here is another definition--
Submissive

One who gives over their rights, their desires, and
themselves to another. As a gift.
Of the two, Jane was the most submissive.
by. Anonymous November 02, 2003

submission /səbˈmɪʃ(ə)n/
noun
1. the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force
or to the will or authority of another person.

Some men here will want to wrongly deceive you that there is power in submission. That is a bloody lie. There is no requirement for how he is to reciprocate. Even if the Bible tells you that Husbands should love wives as themselves, you know some women, they will try to take advantage of such love. Don't let her cross boundaries. Plus we as women, what do we even need the power for sef?
We are helpers. If He need sex we give it. Why do we need to stay on top? What else. We start asking our husbands to give us mouth job, cunninlingus? Start demanding that we also have orgasms? That is un-african. There is no power in being submissive. You are a woman. You do not need to have any. Thank God you have a man.

So this is not a case of him getting your opinion, he doesn't bloody need your input. Did David need his previous wife opinion before marrying a new wife? NO! If he wants to bring in the whole village into his house, then he bloody well can. He is the head of the family. Its his house, he paid a lot of money on you, you're his property. You will host his guest, cook and clean after them. If you cannot do that, then he gets another girl to do it simple. /

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I literally laughed till I had tears in my eyes... Nice...