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We're always quick to point fingers...

Ogbeni... what were you doing in the club yourself? evangelism I guess

Icekyng:
u sound bitter on this issue asif its a 10 years old girl and a 30yrs old.
truth is a 16years old is nt a kid any longer and they look 20 dese days as long as they are capable of getting pregnant
he has good intentions of norturing her to be ripe for marriage by following dues process nt molesting her and am sure if he nurtures her for marriage and she gets to 21 and dey later become happily married u will kp ur mouth shut
if you're bitter that guys dnt approach u , dnt put it on d girl cos u sound like someone that was heartbroken
NOW GO BACK TO THE KITCHEN!!

Lol... look how he said "go back to the kitchen" like it's an insult or something. Oga swerve abeg...

16 year olds are like 20 year olds... Shameless human... *spits*

jadelyn007:
I only gave 2 instances of cousins who married very early before their university education and yes I have lots of cousins and it's a close knit extended family. Do you have a problem with comprehension or a problem with my post? Which one?

Lol... I knew she was gon come at me...

Smh...

The head will definitely grow back...

jadelyn007:
lol. That's just one of my cousin who was lucky to find a man who is rich, even the one that married an average guy is still enjoying her marriage because the man will rather die than see his wife unhappy. I can swear by my life not because of what I am told but because of what I've observed the countless times I've been thr. He is not rich but he will never break a promise. Sometimes I wonder how he copes with paying fees for a wife, a kid and a maid. That is why I feel if op decides to go ahead with the idea she should try to be the best wife she can be and also be appreciative, it might not be rosy financially all the time but if she's understanding they'll work it out together. For crying out loud she already has a tertiary education, NCE. it's not like she's a jambite.

You sha have allota cousins... they all married at 21... all have a kid and a maid...

This man should try and shut up for just one day...

ttmacoy:
No exactly true. The UK will allow you stay if you get a job with a company who sponsors you. This means attending good universities and being competitive enough to get into such companies who can pay the salary threshold.

if the poster is targeting good schools and believes he is competitive enough he can definitely work in the UK but if he is targeting just the ok schools which are cheap and have easy entry requirements then he will probably not be competitive enough for the top companies able to sponsor for work permit then the UK is not an attractive option.

I do not think Dubai is more attractive than the UK for international students at all. The universities in the UK are better than Dubai and there are far more job opportunities in the UK but you need to be aware that there is a lot more competition from not only Europeans but many other nationalities such as China, India etc

How much (naira equivalent) do you consider cheap?

ccollins:
hypocrites, what will you all then say about audu son relationship with sugabelly and also tuface and annie idibia

If you're going to call someone a hypocrite, you should know the meaning of the word first. If you already do, can you tell me how I'm one?

I don't know their stories but tu face impregnated Annie and still went ahead to have other baby mamas. So... is that like a fairy tale or what?

And oh! You think because your role model banged an underage girl it's cool to do same?

Leave secondary school children alone!!!

Toks2008:
16 yr old is underage but if an 18yr old girl decides to marry a 60yr old man without any form of compelling so be it..she has become an adult.

If you'll also say it's fine for an 18 year old boy to get married to a 60yr old woman then your post might be valid.

Forget the adult age thingy. You will not give out your 18yr old daughter to a 60yr old man will you?

Getting married at 18 is not a bad thing btw I had a friend who did that and is still happily married but let's try to keep it real.

MrsPhyno:
Don't mind the useless paedophiles.... jaysus

Nurturing is the job of her parents, her church/mosque, and her teachers. They don't even realize how disgusting they sound.....

you wouldn't know how much I tried not to curse him... it's really irritating what some of these guys and even men do these days.

Toks2008:
I bind every form of monitoring spirit by fire in Jesus name...Ada abeg kpa chara n yagi.

Lmao!!!

But iz not a lie na? You've been advocating teen and adult type relationships no?

donbenedict:
Women! Always very confused in life!

But can you categorically state how she's confused now?

I do hope you'll be pleased to find that your 16yr old daughter in ss2 is being wooed by a 24yr old??

Some guys parading the streets today are just plain sick in the head. Nurture for marriage my arse...

Anyway... I guess Toks2008 will approve...

But... why are guys always commenting on the issue of single women like they(said guys) dont have lives

It's really shocking... like what is your business

Or better still, how e take concern you

Ha!

MrsPhyno:
Mehn I got so backed up on these shows because of school but since break is fully underway, my bed and I have become best friends as we enjoy these series together

Empire (Adaeze003 where u at madam.... Who was ur favourite again, Jamal? )

How To Get Away With Murder

Quantico

Scandal

Not sure anymore... only the mid season finale measured up to season 1 if you ask me. I hope they're not making me wait till March for nothing, they should better come up with better plots...

Truckpusher:


Not at all - If you want some form of equality ,then you gotta pay bills, honey.

FYI: Men don't dig for gold ,we hustle.

You have a point...

Truckpusher:
Your brother is sitting on a long thing.

If they can't agree on this simple matter now ,It is important to call off the wedding before they'll end up calling off the marriage after the wedding.

If you want to keep your family name you'll have to be bringing in plenty money into my bank account or plenty connection like that of Dasuki - Or you better find your elder brother and marry him.Simple.....

So you're some cheap golddigger after all...

Well, there are two options the way I see it... agree or call it off... it's really that simple.

Don't know what the fuss is about...

Oh well...

AVRecruit:
1. It causes you to pay half your assets to a woman and pay child support all your life in case of divorce.
2. Most people getting married today have slept around too much already and not the right age. women are supposed to be married off 18-21 instead of the current boyfriend model. this increases cheating rates.
3. the rise of career women has also negatively affected marriage. it is better for women to raise kids first while having a low stress job first and then build a solid career later than the current model.

I'm sorry... "married off"? like little slaves to go cook and give birth right??

Marriage in itself is not scary... buh the thought of getting married to the wrong person and that there's no sure way to know who is wrong or right?? Seeing as you might be blinded by "love"... ayie that's just some scary shit..

Add that to the fact that your own ideas drift from the society's idea of what marriage should be? Double shitload of scary.

Marriage is important and no1 can ever take that away. But! It should not be a place where we hope to finally be happy and be seen to have "made it" in life. Not talking about society here btw but you as a person. We all(ladies especially) should aspire to be more than just "Mrs".

Drops mic...

I think because there's no more crying and shouting about HIV/AIDS people think it's gone with the wind

Well... what can I say? oga eme ha vum n'anya...

Coz rii now? Nigeria is recording a growing number of carriers. Like someone said up there, if you like, wait for a lady to beg you to use condom...

Ihuomadinihu:
Both you and the Op are not being logical at all. I find it quite disturbing that a lady would approve and comend whatever Op has written. Firstly,these are no suggestions or advices. They are points made to humiliate women that would naturally say No to majority of his questions. There are no fixed rules in marriage. I have seen people that answered No to these silly questions who are happily married and People that said Yes and are struggling to remain in marriage. You don't sit down and draw a silly list for Women and suggest that they might never marry if they don't adhere to your points.
There is nothing to understand,sorry!

The bold is what I've been trying to let the op know in/on his other threads...

It's just really not-so-reasonable. It's even more surprising that ladies clap behind him... smh

Have a barrel of words but just avoiding sounding like a broken record. I just might come up with a counter thread to treat all the bullsshit on this thread...

I'm sorry... when did men become puppies that we now need tips to "keep"

If you have a good name, some gold digger won't tarnish it.

Plus, rant all you want, there will always be golddiggers so, what's the point?

Uhm...

EdCure:
Maybe he meant that you're sowing heavenly seeds. Remember what Jesus said about laying treasures in heaven.

So... you lay your own treasures in heaven by paying offering tell me something!

[I don't think I believe that "the money belongs to the both of them" crap... in my world, no1 needs to be "settled" in a divorce. Unless the marriage was not mutual or he insisted you should not work.

Maybe there's a good reason that I'm naive about but I'm just imagining myself parting with 50% of my hard earned money... sheesh....]

2018...
Got the temptation to delete this post coz people are still liking it...

I'd just add that I've had a slight change of mind since I first posted this probably due to exposure to information haha...

ekemini606:
I completely understand u my friend.
But let's not be naïve.

I remember when I was in school, I never thought in my wildest imagination, I would be a mercinery for someone. But when alarm/ school fees came calling..
Well let's just leave it there!


My point is; one can never say what they ar or are not capable of until true test comes.

So, what you are saying is you MIGHT be capable of raping a provocatively dressed girl?

I think anyone who will openly insult another, like real insult oh not play play is just a disgusting person.

Then, he'll insult you on top of your own money again? Aiye...

Then he's now your bf ha!

Oh well... we all can't see things the same way.

sukkot:
why you gotta use both handsome and hot at the same time though ? its like saying that rice is so delicious and tasty. they both mean the same thing na

Nah... handsome = facial structure, hot = bad ass body.

It's rather like saying the rice is colorful and tasty....

hkidola00:
personally, i think wot needs surgery is ur brain actually

Ho my gawd!