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How can someone have s₹x immediately after giving birth??

As for the prob, try watching romantic movies together..<didn't say p¤rn o>

Read your story sha. What you did was kinda right (a lil childish in my opinion). Lets reason together, she thought you were cheating on her so there is a possibility that she decided to flirt 'online' out of anger. So unless you have proof that it extended to the real world, you should reconsider i mean 3 years is too much to give up for online flirting if you truly loved her. Don't get me wrong o I'm not in any way supporting what she did.

@laila
so your bf must be your provider?? What are your hands for? Can't you find a job and provide for yourself? smh

neyostica: The truth is he can get a gal, but shudnt expect ha to be faithful, cos naija gals need to pay bills

what if the girl can pay her bills with her own cash or what if her papa is loaded?

Chris4sure: go stay wth his mum under 1 condition, dat he wl travel wth ur dad. Hehehe! His mum watches ur back whle ur dad watches his back. Lmao...

seconded! Lol!

[quote author=Kevin_II]Adaeze no try. the topic says pretty girls. it is not for every tom dick and harry[/quote]uhm did my post begin with 'o I'm very pretty'?? Why don't you mind your business?

flairlady: i go through lots of topics and all i can conclude is that nairaland guys hate nigerian girls.y is it?do u guys ve to sound so derogatory all the time?u guys generalize it,that means ur mothers and sisters are included?and by the way what wuld u achieve?u guys really do think u re better?cos to me it is like a pot calling a kettle black.

hehehe.. I think most of them believe that negative publicity is better than no publicity at all so they just wanna be known/ famous on nl that's their goal in life.. lol!

Goldieluks: . I prefer making friends with guys instead. Less drama, less gossip and so on.

same here btw I love your signature. Makes sense!

You mean the type of guy that lived a reckless life and chased 'every thing in skirts'? No thanks!

Well English is our official language so being a graduate its kinda weird that she can't speak it well. Its not a flaw and its definitely not part of who she is so my advise is that you let her know, get her books and try to correct her but don't correct her often coz it can be really annoying. Don't know how you're gonna tell her, anyone will be embarrassed by that but in the end she'll realise that its a good thing because people will also take her seriously outside, in her work place etc.

I only brought up a point stated clearly in the bible and instead of answering the question i asked you peeps are babbling. Lol. You know what? Why don't we all focus on Jesus and follow him instead of telling people where to worship? I mean who r u to tell what belief is an insult to Jesus? I've noticed that what some protestants do these days is to say come to my church instead of to say 'follow Jesus' is this right?? Even when they know you are a Christian. What is your own definition of Christianity? Will the fact that you are not a catholic take you to heaven?? Lets focus on what us important and recruit people for Jesus and not for church. I rest my case!

Hmm all these protestants sef na wa o. Una tire me. This is the second time I'm seeing this topic. So what exactly did Jesus mean when he said ' whosoever sins against the spirit shall have no forgiveness both in this world and in the world to come?' does this not prove that there's still forgiveness outside this world? There are other passages backing up this belief. Anything you wanna know about the catholic church is in the online catholic encyclopedia just Google it and you'll see that there's no catholic tradition that does not have biblical backing. Btw all these traditions did not start today remember that this is the church Jesus and his disciples left behind. And uhm since we all are followers of Christ why not leave Him to be the judge??

For the poster above me may God forgive You!

skydeep: u think so?

yea!

@op i guess after this thread you'll be the one crying for bed aktion..... Hehehe

Eloquence! Eloquence!! Eloquence!!! I mean looks matter too but being able to speak good English seals the deal for me...

[quote author=Inked_Nerd]Ogini? [/quote]that was a harsh one

Was gonna say toilet buh its already taken so 2nd choice **in a keke na pep**

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Smh @ Love = Sex
No Sex = No Love
Love Got Cold = There was no sex!

How about love that went colder than Job's turkey even with all the hot steamy sex?. . .

Sex is fccking overrated. . .

Op, if she uttered those words with her own mouth and in your presence, suck it up and move on. You have nothing to lose. The worst mistake you'll ever make right now is to think you,ll never find anyone like her. But guess what, you'll find someone better than her. Don't act too clingy as if you cannot live without her. If you dated a lady for four years without sex, that is one mighty proof that you really love her, and not because she gives you sex. Guys like you are one in a million, so forget whatever "jackshitculated" comment or comments anyone makes about your sex[i]u[/i]al status. When you really value a lady, you value her for who she is, and not what she gives to you. It's a quadruplicated pity, that even ladies think that a guy having sex with them proves his love for her. . . Bullshit in 3D high Definition! Why rush into sex when you had plans of spending the rest of your life with her, having sex with her till infinity? What's tha fccking rush? Why rush into opening a gift you know is yours? I tire for some kain yanings, i swearigawd.

Now, listen up and listen good. IT'S HER LOSS! Ok? You have a good heart, but most times people tend to see patience as weakness. Whatever flimsy reasons she might have given for her love going cold, let it be. Don't bother chasing her, or making her see reasons. The more you beg her to come back, the more pathetic you become to her as she would realize by your actions, that she has the remote control to your emotions, and she'll decide to push your buttons whenever she pleases. Don't give her the chance.

If the love is going to be re-Ignited, she has to do the re-ignition, but don't you ever base your hope on that. Channel your energy into fruitful things and don't use that energy to chase someone that OBVIOUSLY doesn't give a sh[i]i[/i]t about you, or about how you feel or about the emotional quagmire she has put you in, by declaring a 4 year old love colder than ice fish! Stay off relationships for a few months, be a better man. And then resume your search for the one. Another truth of the matter is that, guys with good hearts attract. . . Brb[/color][/quote]That's my BM.. Just don't know why people think love=s₹x.

A thread for mature peeps.. Unfortunately some of the guys here got baby brains so can't think like adults. You guys around try n grow up. I mean I'm tired of seeing stupidity displayed all over the place..

Why don't you ask her what you can do to make things work? She know's what she wants it might not be about the s₹x.

Yea yea yea from begging to glasses how shallow can you get?? Well i guess in my 16 yrs according to you i know stuff you don't. Ever heard about genes?? I guess not. Your just a shallow bitter person. Have fun getting sucked.

Í'm kinda shy and quiet but outspoken around friends and family so someone like me <minus the shy part> will do..

Beync: Jobfroint honestly u sound so bitter. Who did this to u?

my dear ask him o.. i'm actually sad 4 the dude

jobfront: Ada, mu ga etipu gi obara na onu gi ma ikporia mu iyi ozo. obu na imaghi onye toro gi ka obu gini biko. amam ihe kwesiri gi Ada. obu iwere amu ukwu raa gi ofuma ofuma etu oga afugbu gi na ufu iwere kpuchie onu nsi gi ahu, ewu! Hahahaha....ogini kwa!!

what did i say?? You are what? You are frustrated! Pls don't pour it on me rather take it up with those girls.,

6 yrs? How about putting a ring on her lonely finger!

The op is probably frustrated and his account in the red coz of girls. My advise is that he should relax for its Nat the end of the world...


Btw what amount of money can a guy give me that i can't get for myself?? Some girls just don't realise what they are capable of and that's y they keep running after guys! WAP!!

Hardunnii: I dislike hairy guys, i will puke at the sight

puke??now that's harsh dont you think??