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 Romance › Re: What Could Ever Make Guys Beg Girls?... by addictiv(m): 11:26pm On Dec 26, 2014 |
chudez0147:Then you are dating a child. Who will always want to be begged so that her over inflated ego and pride can be fed. I strongly believe that no one is indispensable. Why should you beg someone to love you, or care about you or stick with you when things are not smooth. Is it that you regard yourself as one who is less deserving of love and happiness as a person or is the person doing you a favour by loving you? I value myself as a human being and anyone who won't see the value and appreciate it has no buisness in my personal life. Someone who wants to leave you will always leave and there is nothing you ll do to stop it once her mind is made up. |
| Family › Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by addictiv(m): 11:02pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
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| Career › Re: Top 10 "Go To" Guys Of Career, Jobs/vacancies & Education Sections Of Nairaland by addictiv(m): 8:09pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Very thoughtful op...The efforts of these exceptional gentlemen are immeasurable. Am an religious follower some threads op mentioned. I am confident that in the nearest future I would have the honour of meeting some of them personally. Merry Xmas 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Kanu Nwankwo's Family Unveiled!!! by addictiv(m): 9:53am On Dec 25, 2014 |
I keep telling my friends..If you want smart and cute kids...get a smart and pretty woman as wife. |
| Family › Re: Your Views On This Pls. by addictiv(m): 10:16pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
The husband is my kinda guy....no need to shout, let suspense do the killing for you. At least I bet her blood pressure is over the roof by now while she wallows in her suspense and worry. It ll eat so deep into her coupled with a little *malfunction* of the car brake system. She looses focus while driving and has an accident. Hubby sheds crocodile tears at funeral...and smiles at the young lady who comes to console him. And the rest is on nollywood. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Check Out The Most Expensive Nigerian Wedding Of 2014 by addictiv(m): 9:22pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
All I see is money being lavished...no style or swag. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Who Is Mr.Right : Does He Really Exist? by addictiv(m): 12:55am On Dec 18, 2014 |
i don't believe in perfection because there is always room for improvement. however you are what you think and you attract what you tolerate. there are basic qualities we all want in our partners but in truth what most folks do can be likened to a homeless man wishing and praying for a rolls royce phantom. even if he fasts for 6 months he cant get that because his capacity hasn't been built to maintain a rolls royce. but if he begins to build his capacity, gets a job, invests, works hard and has unwavering belief in himself and his dreams. within a short while even without prayers his wish materializes. he ll build an empire that can easily afford him a phantom. one of my mentors Darren Hardy, Author of Compound Effect made a list of all the qualities he wants in a woman from her looks to her personality every tiny detail. Then he asked himself what kind of man do i need to be to attract such a lady? He made a list of qualities a man would need to have to meet up with such lady's standards. from the list he was able to see areas of his life that he needed to work and improve on which he did and when he eventually met her, it was as if she walked out of his diary. he says he knew she was the one immediately he saw her. he was able to attract his dream woman because he built his capacity to accommodate such a wife. you can have your Mr /Mrs Right if you are ready to become the person Mr /Mrs Right would want to be with.. |
| Sports › Re: Martial Arts by addictiv(m): 10:39pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
learning martial arts has been on my mind for a while now. Any professional centres in Port Harcourt? That black belt may come in handy some day |
| Celebrities › Re: Meet The Sultan Of Brunei- Owns Over 7,000 Cars Which Includes 1,932 Luxury Cars by addictiv(m): 12:10am On Dec 13, 2014 |
His son may be worlds first trillionaire. ..ie worth $1000 billion and bill gates is currently worth.........omo these guys wear their pants one leg at a time like everyone else. With that kind of funds I can buy a continent. |
| Romance › Re: The 16 DEADLY Women by addictiv(m): 11:28pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
Quite insightful OP. Couldn't help laughing as I read through. Take a drive through town and u see that 80% of women fall into one or more of these categories. However I have come to understand that people attract whatsoever and whoever that comes into their lives...now who says I can't find my perfect bride? |
| Family › Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by addictiv(m): 12:08am On Dec 07, 2014 |
Everything we need to succeed as a nation is here with us.All we need is time and a positive mindset. I really wonder why people will go through the needle eye just to live in the US. Donate body organs, marry expired jagudas, smuggle themselves in illegally. Is it really worth it? |
| Romance › Re: Is A Woman An Asset Or A Liability....please I Need Answers Picx by addictiv(m): 11:34pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
According to my mentor Robert Kiyosaki. ..An asset puts money in your pocket and liability takes money away from your pocket. Your asset could be my liability and vice versa. It's relative and depends on the value the person adds to your life |
| Romance › Re: Professions That Have Less Dating Opportunities by addictiv(m): 8:35am On Dec 03, 2014 |
sistrunk:Doing incredibly well dearie.... |
| Romance › Re: Professions That Have Less Dating Opportunities by addictiv(m): 12:08am On Dec 03, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:I really admire lawyers...yea they may keep u on ur toes for a while but they eventually make a great companion |
| Romance › Re: Don't Get Married Until You Read This! by addictiv(m): 11:02pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
^^^If you can transfer ALL your funds to her, you can as well give her a loaded side arm and pray she doesn't put it to use. To me women and funds are two parallel line that must never meet. Same as buisness and pleasure. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Don't Get Married Until You Read This! by addictiv(m): 10:24pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
In simple terms without much explanation mine will be as follows. 1. Will you be comfortable transfering all your money into my bank account? Ans: No. NEVER.. 2. If we eliminate physical attraction from our relationship, what will be left? Ans: friendship 3. Could any feelings of attraction or romance be revived if you met a previous boy friend or girlfriend even though you are commited to me? Ans: Yes.its normal feelings could flood back however deciding to act on them is a different thing entirely. 4. Are you comfortable continuing this relationship if there are things in my past that i wouldn't like to share with you? Ans: No 5. What do you dislike the most about your previous partners... Ans: disloyalty and lies 6. Do you anticipant maintaining your single lifestyle after we are married? That is, will you spend as much time with friends, family and work colleagues? Ans: No 7. Is there anything about marriage that frightens you? Ans: Hooking up with a traitor. |
| Romance › Re: Is The Lady Worth Waiting For? by addictiv(m): 11:25pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
I always apply the rule of thumb. Is it female? if yes, then It cannot be trusted. |
| Romance › Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by addictiv(m): 11:11pm On Nov 28, 2014*. Modified: 11:47pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
The earlier young men begin to invest the time,energy and money spent on women in their personal life and self development the better for mankind. Women will always be women you can't change that but you can decide on the kind of women you want to attract by becoming a man such a woman deserves to be with. Women are like children. You give them candy n chocolate too much and they start messing around so you scold and straighten em up when they err and you see them fall in line. As a guy you must know how to lead. Leadership earns you the respect and accolade of everyone around you. You lead by serving and by example. When you jump at a woman who doesn't have proper morals and values because of the size of her backside or the colour of her skin, The results are always stories that touch. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Ladies,can You Marry For Money? by addictiv(m): 10:29pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
grimandevil:18BC close na. I think you mean 1800BC. |
| Education › Re: Top 6 Guarded Vaults In The World by addictiv(m): 9:07pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Dawn. ..you go fear heist. |
| Family › Re: Something You Saw As A Child, That No One Saw Or Believes You Till This Day. by addictiv(m): 9:40am On Nov 27, 2014 |
So many crazy experiences here. Am not looking forward to meeting any of you guys here esp those who say they can tell if someone will die soon. Yeah I have experienced deja vu at some point in my life however I can't shake of this feeling that I have experienced this life before. I feel Like I am an old soul trapped in a young body and it's reflected in everything I do. All my friends are older than me but my reasoning is still advanced and more mature compared to theirs. People even my parents usually meet me for advice both business and personal. I can predict a person's behaviour by just observing you. This has really guided me in picking folks I associate with. But apart from my mum I am yet to meet someone who can really understand me. Got some experiences my dad told us abt which I ll share later. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by addictiv(m): 10:17pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Why would I be worried if women like nice guys or not...how does it add to my bank account and my general well being? They can fall in love with a donkey It won't stop me from enjoying this hot Pepper soup right now. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: The 15 Richest Doctors In The World by addictiv(m): 12:20am On Nov 25, 2014 |
pro01:Just read about him, Really inspiring. He gave up his profession to follow his dreams. Am just at that cross road. Thanks for mentioning this here. 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: The 15 Richest Doctors In The World by addictiv(m): 12:09am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Nigeria doctors still have a long way to go. The medicine they practise here is old school. Btw I don't think any practising doctor in this country earns up to 100,000 usd monthly |
| Family › Re: Do You Talk To Yourself? by addictiv(m): 11:44pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
herald9:Then again this has nothing to do with religion. My pastor has never told me to start talking to myself. however I have discovered what works for me and how to program my mind to get whatsoever I want in life. I have discovered that most successful guys adopted a kind of mindset that made them resilient when faced with a challenge. Being successful has nothing to do with religion. You can keep bringing up arguments to buttress your point but that doesn't mean people who practice it are crazy. There are so many things I can say on this that requires in depth understanding of the human mind. Perhaps you could try reading " the secret" , "the law of attraction". These books aren't religious but makes u see things from a different perspective. |
| Family › Re: Do You Talk To Yourself? by addictiv(m): 5:46pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
herald9:the formula here is your programming determines your Thoughts which decides your beliefs which bring about your actions and gives you result. Then again you have to have a mental picture about where you are going to before you determine to get there. Visualisation and speaking it out just makes you more determined to get there. It's like inducing the results you want on your mind so much that it figures out ways to achieve it. |
| Family › Re: Do You Talk To Yourself? by addictiv(m): 5:21pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
5minsmadness:There is a book titled " what to say when talking to yourself" if you read it you will understand better. People who speak positive things to themselves attract those things literally. |
| Family › Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by addictiv(m): 5:55pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
1stCitizen:Certainly flesh and blood did not reveal this to you..I have a saying if it's not factory fitted, it can never be like factory fitted..why will I go for a fifth hand tokunbo when I can get brand new with clean mileage huh?  .. |
| Family › Re: What's On Your Bucket List by addictiv(m): 1:13am On Nov 17, 2014 |
Billionaire by 30..... Have a meal in three different timezones in one day. Take someone out on a launch date in a different country and bring her back.. Same day..need a private jet for that get a world class architect to design what a proper Nysc camp should look like and build six in different states Own a shipping line Retrive my grand fathers artwork from the british museum Take a look on the Mona Lisa Visit st peters basilica visit the north pole Give out a million dollars to a complete stranger...who will never know me Dinner at the white house Drive a rolls Royce ghost Build a 40 floor tower in Phc Become a real estate mogul Play the pipe organ Watch Manchester united live from old Trafford These are just a few out of many.. 1 Like |
| Autos › Re: Range Sport *autobiography* (19million) Cotonou To Naija..save Money!!!! by addictiv(m): 10:06pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Am driving this ride next year 1 Like |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by addictiv(m): 7:56am On Nov 08, 2014*. Modified: 8:57am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Job = modern day slavery......no matter how colourful it is n glorified the pay looks.... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What's The Most Suitable Job For A Married Woman? by addictiv(m): 8:22am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Lecturing, law and networking seems to have the luxury of lesser work hours.......still prefer a doctor or naval officer. |
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