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Illiteracy and lack of quality education is a big sin. I look forward to seeing Nigeria and Africa to be as developed as USA and Germany. I still maintain my reservation as regards matters of race. We Africans have a big problem of illiteracy, greed as regards our perception of religion and God factor, but its unfortunate we take advantage of each other's ignorance.

I tell people, that when you look for lies, u will get lies in return. considering all the endless mushroom pentecostal churches, Cherubim and Seraphim and the rest of Arch and Mega Churches claiming to be advancing the empire, gate and the kingdom of God, may God forgive our since of illiteracy in Africa. I don't want to mention names. The white man knew we Africans are fetish and believe in myths and folklores that's why we were handed religion. we have turned God to money doublets, liars looking for lies. Christianity, Islam and Traditional Religion, may God save the sin of these world.

I believe someday The light of Quality Education will shine on Africa like it is in The USA, Germany and The Entire Europe. Africa has too many devious wolves that must be ridden off who have profited from the rots of the old system. The reason why our system is not working and why we don't get result in Africa. As far as am concerned, religion is a political cult for political objectives. With the proliferation of religion and suppression of quality education, we Africans may never get any where in the next 100yrs.

We humans are the cause of our own mischief and mediocrity through recklessness, irresponsibility and lack of intellectual cognitive we want others to claim responsibility for our plight, worse still, the seemingly better off amongst us have a problem of insecurity, greed to have the world and to monetize the gate of heaven. In orientation, we are possessive and out to grab anything that glitters and anything our way. Our confusion of Godism or a God head is pilfering, abysmal and tumultuous. Our corrupt society and contemporary Churches and shrine makes us to understand that we only live for money and and the kingdom of God forgetting to underscore that the kingdom of God is the height of your legacy and investment in others and our social obligations for people around us to become better persons through proper education and reorientation programs. Your measure of investment in others is your heaven. And the number of people you help to find peace and purpose in life is your heaven.

Let's not deceive yourself, many pastors today enjoined in the pastoral chain is due to financial insecurity and financial frustrations and challenges as I had to distance such persons as acquaintances when i noticed the bigotry and greed. People need jobs and a better life and not attending Sundays and periodic weekly services when their time should be diverted to productive ventures to take care of their needs and not wasted away in fruitless such services in disguise of financial drain pipes on the unsuspecting victim. The list of Churches and persons indulging in this culpable act are endless. Religion is supposed to make people more peaceful and civil but Ironically More churches, traditional, islamic and religious believes and ocultic circles today has lead to more sin. As Africans, our judgements of good and evil is too primitive, crude, obtuse and mythical. We need more of quality education to alleviate our pains and needs to understand that the peace of your next door neighbour is your peace. Let nobody think me otherwise, am a Christian and not an Atheist, but am more of a rational Christian.

Every blames and credit we want God and Satan to claim responsibility for our progress and retrogression. Science is the study of nature and its either you are objective or subjective in your problem analysis. Religious people are subjective while scientific people are objective with a deep analytical cognizance. With all our plastic, elusive, fetish, tribal, religious and fake life, somewhere, someday, somehow, we will always it the mark of truth and idealism through proper education. It is only in Africa and other developing continents I see highly educated humans behaving and reasoning like stag and confused illiterate, chimps, orangutan and like lower animals.

But as a reformed scientists, I know that 5 million years to come, I know an Orangutan will always remain an Orangutan and a leopard may never change its skin even when crossbreed several times over. Live a rational, calculative and objective life and not like those of the subjective and folklores inclined life as you readily have in your moronic religious book. I tell alot of people, we are in an age of infotech where Jesus Christ, Guatemala Buddha, and Muhammed of Islam wish they were born. The motto of our age is, Innovate or you die; because our world and age today has so much to offer without us been greedy and coveteous in our dealings. The Rave is already on in the USA, Canada, Germany, France, Great Britain and the rest of Europe. Africa must evolve collectively to meet the needs of our time.

Scammers are increasingly unrelenting in their nefarious indulgence in Nigeria these days coupled with the biting economy and to leverage on Nigerians drive and hunger for fast money and unmerited wealth.

Just as its the norm of these con men to change their mode of operation from time to time, the use of mobile communication and social media hangouts are now safe haven to dispense and demonstrate their vices to their unsuspecting victim. Since the white men no longer listen to the pathetic story of these acclaimed Nigerians and African fraudsters called yahoo guys, these yahoo and 419 guys have now diversify to look inward to operate and perpetrate their frauds locally targeting the home based and unsuspecting Nigerians. If you have never been scammed before, you may call this yearning a super story.

Scammers take advantage of potential scammers, gullible people, greedy people and people who like free things and those that enjoy special alms and handouts and also people who don't believe they can achieve anything without the provision of divine and unmerited or special favour. Scammers take advantage of religious and fetish people and people who believe they can make #20 million naira out of the blues with #20 naira.

Without been to detailed, all I can tell you is that scammers are everywhere employing different means to extort from their unsuspecting victims. You have them every where this days in the social media, on facebook, here on Nairaland and on other social media hang outs. Some may call you feigning familiarity just to get at you and some could call claiming and feigning to be big prospect clients having gotten your contacts online but mind you, these people are fake. Some may go about claiming to help with admission like one porpular Babatunde kazeem Adetipe Fowowe residing in Ibadan and Osun in Ife, who claims he helps with OAU Ife admission and Adeyemi College of Education Ondo who whisked away over #20 million Naira at a point in time from his victims and now very much at large on the run and now on the Nigerian police top most wanted list.

like wise some scammers go about of Facebook claiming to be genuine travel agents, recruitment agents and customs officers claiming to be in charge of The Nigerian Custom auction proceedings. it is imminent to note that lots of this junkies of con men are male feigning female online and for those who maintain their male status are daring as some even go as far as claiming pastors, imams and religious clerics. If your into online business, beware of your vulnerability and exposure to such devious men. You should be able to tell who is a potential and genuine client and who is truly out to suck you dry in disguise of a client. Scamming ventures is now a norm in Nigeria as its a pathetic story that people are increasingly falling scammer's victim everyday. Before patronizing anyone online, please go extra mile and do your findings well to a satisfactory limits. For those looking out for fast money and overnight money doubling ventures beware!!!

Why There Should Be Special Schools Built For Marriages To Include Both Married & Intending Couples: Marriage is an institution, but the question I often ask is that where are the mandated physical structures and orientational programs targeted at marriages, married and intending couples
To me, In an African social setting context, I see marriage as a war front where people are recruited or enlisted without any formal knowledge of martial art or strategy to maneuver the decoys, storms and rough part to victory. Sometimes I see African couples and marriages as a crusade whereby people are gullibly or gainly led to the slaughter without their knowledge.
Its like having a war to fight and you recruit under age children to war front and arming them with fire arms, guns, TNT, Avtomat Kalachinokov, RPG, Anti ballistic missile without even teaching them how to use it.

Marriage in Africa is meant to be a bed of happiness and peace but over the years the definition of love has waned due to the challenges and demands of civilization making us have a plastic and synthetic version of the word love and mutual commitment. The is the reason why over the years, a lot of marriages has become a death trap and a grave yard for alot of people and its the reason why its as if life is sniffed out of alot of men and women many years after marriage.

Alot of well window dressed marriages on the outside do suffers alot of undisclosed rots from the inside due to emotional pressures after probably 8 to 20yrs after down the struggle line. The molestation and domestic abuse, the intermittent rabbles, violence and mob acts as reported daily in the news and media has become an increasing concern.

Relationship once started on blossomed Rose flower often ending up in withered roses. It is so terrible that alot of lives has been lost due to the fact that a once Noble, reserved, Angelic, gentle and amiable spouse end up been a demon and a stranger in your bedroom that you wake up to see 1st thing every morning and the last thing at night culminating in bewitching nightmare. This ugly routine can be exhaustive such that alot of it die in the process and in the name of marriage. I write this because I have lost a close relative to this. Especially when the man has lost his job, the frustration, aggressions and sense of territorial and dominance worsen because most men often want to take a defence stance to salvage their seemingly lost place and sense of value in the family that could warrant suicidal, violent and mob act. This constitute to the bulk of extremist, societal unfit, miscreants, touts, nuisance, prostitutes, broken homes fall outs, juvenile deliquencies, foster homes, terrorist, con men, criminals, bastards and vagabonds and the lots of the socially and mentally unstable lots.

Its not enough to be educated in the regular four walls of conventional school, we need to have marriage and companionship inclined program in some specially designated institution to review and checkmate the pace and sanity of social and marital companionship for a more productive and safer partnership. The schools, Churches and mosques in Nigeria should integrate this in the routine program and we should have special schools dedicated for this purpose to review marital path from time to time.

Please, this is a question that has baffled me over the years as regards what informs aggressive tendencies among some Benin homes coupled with the high sense of desperation and potential and possible mob acts.
Its so terrible that it results in almost day to day quarrel and rabble that draws in the attentions of the neighborhood, shamelessly ensuing public duel between couples and rivals. The worst of it is that the men do dearing and life threatening things when angered such that they can't tame and prun their anger that often results in serious battering and molestation. At a time, I thought it was more of an illiteracy and low self esteem thing, untamed emotional threading as such jealousy and infidelity, unchecked use of liquor, spirits or dry gin but with careful observations over the years, I realise that some educated men and women among them are far worse. I want to believe its as a result of some cultural fault lines and cultural deficiency. The issue of wife battering and domestic violence seems to be more common in some part of the South South and Niger Delta area of Nigeria, but the major cause of this act and traits remains yet unknown to me. Sometimes am made to believe that its part of the tradition for show of dominance between the male and female. This is not to say such act is not visible in other parts of Nigeria, but the question remains, why is it rampant in this few selected part of Nigeria.

Mind you, I have alot of people as well from these region that are quite hospitable, reserved and socially amiable people.

Please I need Answers to this baffling question.

Hmmm, funny Students and funny schools, a school where students maintains a sense of desperation and strive is not a school. We have over thousand schools in Nigeria with this same core objectives. This is why all Nigerian schools must be completely overhauled. Our schools are only creating youths with evasive and moderous social ethics.

you guys should go to farm and Stop wailing.

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you guys should go to farm. Stop wailing When d recession bites harder into your bones, am sure u will be forced to retune your transmission and reception frequency !!

you guys should go to farm. Stop wailing When d recession bites harder into your bones, am sure u will be forced to retune your transmission and reception frequency !!

you guys should go to farm. Stop wailing!!

go to farm

Good for him, the same guy that said he wants to have 20 wives and 30 kids as his only charitable means to help single ladies and unmarried women This guy is a stag clown. Let him face the consequence of his music. Mr 9ice guy indeed trying to escape robbery attack. People are watching you whatever you do and every step you take, Mr Celebrity.

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I am 100% certain that Lagosians spend more than that on food daily:

27,000,000 people × N300minimum = N8,100,000,000.

That's why food sellers are big boys in Lagos, you could send your children up to the university frying akara alone in Lagos e.g Mama Uche

Bro ur 200% right without controversy. By my calculation it's exactly between #8 Billion naira to #10 Billion naira everyday that goes down into food consumption in Lagos state. Yet Nigeria are shouting recession and wailing poverty and dollar rising and naira falling. Please let the recession continue. Sooner or later, both the lazy rich and the lazy poor's eyes will be opened and forced to do the right thing by going to farm. It amazes me that some rich imbeciles will resort to real estate and hotel business in Lagos when you have lesser risk options and opportunity in Agricultural sector. Yet d lazy poor ones, youths and graduate are looking for white collar job and complaining that there's no job. A Graduate who cannot provide jobs for others should be ashamed of himself. Wait until ur Baptised with the Pandemic Zimbabwean Economic shocks.

go to farm

For A lot of good reasons, I hate to talk about religion nor preach my religion to others as i believe anything religion should be personal and the only thing that must preach or project your religion is your character and conduct. In my search through different text about the orient and advent of Religion, I came a cross a text from an acclaimed religious book that says, Why look for God when he is always with you but your always far from him the more we search for him within us and every where else?? My question is this. Is it a sin to preach your religion to others cos this sounds contrary to the Bible and to alot of religion. As almost every religion preaches superiority and perfection of religion over other religion which i believe its the major reason for strife and counter peace results. A lot of religion preaches peace but yet it seems more the churches and mosques are built, sins are doubled. If truly religion preaches peace, heaven and hell then my question is always this, what and where is peace? What and where is heaven, what and where is hell?? what is sin, good and evil, who is the devil the God u believe who, what and where is he? and after you must have taken your time to answer this, could u please kindly relate all this to your personal life??

Its ok to believe whatever you want as the world is live and lets live, but please instead of verbal preaching, let your actions and attitude preach your religion and not your mouth.
As regards Religion and Education, I believe we Africans are still 800 years backward. We need to open our eyes

Why Most Married Men & Women Wake up 20 years After To Realise That They Have Married The Wrong Choice & Why 90% of The Women Fall For The Wrong Men: Most women enjoy d sugar in men's tongue and not d man, when d sugar finishes and d truth surfaced, they run and in d end blame d man for having deceiving them. 90% of women don't appreciate men wu gv them d bitter and ugly truth but instead enjoys d sleek and trendy guys who entertains them with plastic and puppet shop lies along with d angelic lies from gentle and innocent looking men who are Satan in disguise.

I believe its the nature of women to enjoy hanging around entertaining and synthenthic, fabricators and make up men that glitters their darkest corners and fills their insatiable needs for errotic escapades. Men lie not because they like it but felt its a score card or a requirement that must be implemented if or when they want to sleep wt women just for d fun.

This is because human social history and animal anthropology has it that for male animal to sleep, make love, feign companionship or mate with the female folks or sex, they must be able to woo or seduce. Women find men who tell d truth too boring but those who give them a heavenly or elusive impression and finds such companion amusing, entertaining and welcomed. Apart from cultural, educational and social orientational traits, Alot of bewildering storms culmunate break ups in relationship and marriage.

Just as a writer said that women are object of pleasure looking for comfort, and for the men who can't afford this comfort fake it to have this seemingly aubergine like acclaimed women and female version of men

Men in other words sees the women as an assets to patronise their ego and to trumpet their dominance and for dissipation of territorial traits. This answers why most men feels more powerful the more they explore and acquire more women so as to later count their conquest and ruminate or reflects their conquest of trophy dames to project an heroic prowess.

Just as alot of men are attracted to different women for alot of wrong reasons, alot of women also marry for the wrong reasons and for material needs as a lot of women and men only wake up to realise their mistakes 20 years after marriage.

The treats and dangers in such unproductive and unhealthy relationship is highly unhealthy, a lot of lectures and orientational programmes should be initiated nation wide and across the boarders to save alot of homes and healthy relationship from falling apart for a progressive social and family values. Relationship and marriages are suppose to be mutual and partnership affairs and not about dominance of who is the head and who is the subject or subordinate.
Marriages and relationship is not about sex or dominance but about companionship and total commitment with values though with some measures of reservations. I ask people who says its all about the sex this question time over and over again who says, its all about the sex that what comes next after sex but most cant provide me with satisfactory answers.

There's a scientific finding and research that proves that men who cannot control their Libido and greed for sex and more women are likely and possibly traitors, infidels and bad manager of any venture, deligation or portfolio you appoint them to handle. Such men always make a bad business man cos their will always be more room for loss, bigotry and excesses.

I thought of taking the time out to pen this to paper because alot of people have died from domestic violence & molestation, a lot of homes has been shattered and battered and alot of beautiful dreams and resourceful hearts and minds have been broken over the years.

I leave your with a quote from one of my favorite Bob Marley's track, Pimper's Paradise. "Every need has an ego to feed." 95% of our times as humans, our greed and demands outweighs the supply.

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My dear, for me, Igbo women are the best ever as a wife material. one man's meat is another man poison. I hv dated over 4 igbo ladies in my life and i had no regret at all. though i hv my taste and know d type that suites me without any need for prophetic nor, oracle consultation. My dear, not all igbos are troublesome. the success of a marriage is a question of management and the consenting couples in question to include a sum total of human psychology, so lets not made a bad stock of the igbo tribes at all, for someone like me, i have a big phobia for my fellow yoruba ladies and sisters though they are fantastic people. without argument or controversy and much detail, igbo women may be heady and stubborn affirmatively, but they still remain the best wife material idle for marriage in Nigeria. if i find a decent one, I think i will have to invite all my well wishers and back talkers to join me to grace the conjugation in my woman's village, in church and at the registry ASAP!!

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this is what happens when lazy Nigerians wait for foreigners to come and spoon feed us and develope our economy

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I concur

I know that Politicians share money among themselves like its tissue paper, if u hv ever worked in Sheraton, Eko Hotel and Transcorp Hilton hotel, Nordic Residence, Hotel Bentley, Protea Hotel, The Nordic Villa, Grand Towers Hotel, Agura Hotel, Berk Shire Hotel, Madugu Hotel, Grand Ibro Hotel, Oak Place, u will see the bigotry of our Nigerian politicians sharing constituency allowances and project allocation money or sitting allowance as if its Salah ram, and how they corrupt and perverts peoples daughters and wives and give them token for the night as compensation with claims they are helping them and providing job opportunities by sleeping with the women in these hotels. Blv me this people are people like you and I, U hv your voters card to make them pay and vote them out come 2019 be it PDP or APC if they meddle in your pace of progress and businesses. Please let the senate do what they want, just note their names and faces, they will never near nor smell that Legislative house again. At least, I know alot of Nigerian politicians realy don't care about the masses. A lot of these politicians have businesses in different African countries which they operates with the ill acquired wealth they made away with while they were or are in power, public office and at the time they were service chiefs in government ministries.

D way these politicians make a mess of money will make u wonder if they are realy human being or something far worse. I could recall at some point in time when some countries were demanding that Facebook should be registered in operating countries so as to pay royalties to government of host countries but Ironically Mark Zuckerback made them a laughing stock. The world is fast evolving but bulk of our politicians finds it hard to adjust to changes and the demands of technology and IT changes and challenges.

Let the senate house stake in their career and do their worst. The people are the real government. U hv d power to vote in or vote out any unfavourable representative and government who forget that they are appointed into office to serve and advance your interest. Your Voters Card is your power use it wisely come 2019. Take note of their faces and names, its very important. the same politicians who allow sport bets, gambling, baba ijebu and invest their stolen cash in Dangote stocks, nestles stocks, coca cola stocks, cardbury stocks and banking stocks and heavily in the Capital market will not allow the poor masses to rest with their choice to patronise what they want. once again, the power is in your hand.

Pimper's Paradise. Every need got an ego to feed. Carton talk. Childish talk

Carton talk, Childish talk. Pimper's Paradise. Every need has an ego to feed

pimper's Paradise