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jusRadical: May the good LORD have mercy on you. Don't learn: continue to encourage sin because you commit same.

So because I am a 'sinner' as you wrote means that I should not say the truth. Why are you taking it personnal? Oh! I see, it is because you are wallowing in the same sin of fornication/adultery, and you are looking for justification?

Your ranting can never ever change the truth that she committed a sin of fornication against the MOST HIGH. Your opinion, if at all you have one, is irrelevant: let GOD be true abd all men liars.

I am really really impressed with your words...It makes me understand and believe there are still young folks who obey God's word! Sin, especially sin is always been justified this days...but the truth is that sexual sins had brought so much havoc on lives and yet the devil has blinded many eyes and keep blinding eyes...I have come to understand that when God gave us the rules in His word, He had our best interest at heart all the time, he knew the consequences.Unfortunately, many people have gone against the word of God and turn around to blame God for the ills that happen in the world today!
God bless you reall and may He keep you on this path still we meet Him finally, Amen!

jusRadical: SEX among humans is only for those who are legally married (one man, one wife and no divorce)? Anything outside this is either fornication or adultery.

@poster you should have thought of this before committing the fornication because he that wants to build a house must first of all count the cost before starting. How would you feel in the next 10 - 30 year when you remember the pre-marital sex you engaged in or that you were pregnant before marriage?

I am not condeming you but you need to hear some basic truth to be able to know better, think clearer and plan better .

You need salvation in CHRIST JESUS first before the marriage. The marriage is a secondary issue, while peace with GOD is the primary and also the most important thing now. JESUS still loves you

I am impressed, really! I really did not know there are still folks who hold God's word and do accordingly! God bless your heart! I saw a post saying the bible is written by a white man or something...Nawa ooo...Maybe it is a white man who dropped him on earth! The bible is true and nomatter what happens, the world is changing, the word of God remains foreva the same! God bless you again really! I am impressed!

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Please, what would this do to you Would it put food on your table or earn you any money? I think there are better things to talk about...

ezesun: Go ask Dibu ooooo

Who be that

money-hungry :
ask ur father, he wrote 5 times. #no insults.

Unfortunately , my papa no go schoool...Abeg help me ask your own papa, e be like say na im be the only one wey go school for una village

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Nawa for you ooooo...No be simple question I ask you...Why the insults na...

Babiloko: go 2 www.uREaBIGfool.com

Ahn ahn...nawa for you ooo...You dont have to yahb me now...I simply asked a simple question...

Please how does somebody write Jamb? *no insults

Akiika: He is SMARTER than Jonathan. if he wakes up today and challenges Jonathan in the poll, i'll vote for him.

Wake up In your dreams!!!

Waoooooh! I read the whole of it! This should be published and made available to all to read! I remeber I was in primary 6 when Abacha died and even though I didn't know what he really did, I knew my mum always came home always compalining, graning bitterly of what terrible government he made civil servants go through...As such when he died, I couldn't but help shake my tiny waist and move my small legs because it simply meant to me that mummy was not going to come home crying, groaning and weeping anymore! One lesson I learn frm this is that, no matter how much affluence you have, how much money in the world or on earth you can gather, we all have one life to live! Death is a compulsory call to every mortal person as such it would be wise to move closer to Jesus who can guarantee eternal life even when our mortal bodies are gone! 'Life is short, Death is sure, Heaven and Hell is real' is constant reminder to tell me how each day brings me closer to our graves

sanb: This is my Liverpool gurl; I'm a Liverpool fan as well....

Thanks moi co liverpool fan! Wetin man go do now...I have got to like and enjoy what he likes! Nagging, complaining and fighting is never the key!

Ujujoan: Fist off, if he's in a public bar, the noise will be too much for you guys to have a reasonable conversation. It'll be better if you waited for him to get home.
Secondly, what is so important that you couldn't wait for a 90mins game to be over?
This is one area I don't interfere with in my man's life . .
I used to think football was just a game until I met him . . To these fanatics, it's more than a game. It's like their life!
Every day Chelsea has an important match to play, I pray and fast for them to win cos if they lose, I'll have a lottttt of consoling to do!
I won't lie, it used to be veeeeery annoying, but that's men and football!
Just because he's your fiance doesn't mean his life has to end . .
What will you do when you guys are married with kids crying and running all over the place, and his ignoring you and concentrating on SS because champions league finals is on
Abeg no drink panadol for unnecessary headache!

You are a woman that understands that one of a man's most basic needs is recreational companionship, that is enjoying what your man loves! Thumps up to you sis!

pkween: A fiancée called up her fiancé yester night and the reply she got was, this is a bad time to call me because I am seeing a match. Tell me, can his watching of football match be more important than the conversation with his fiancée in a distant courting relationship?

I didn't know how important football was until I met my bobo. I tell myself that the only thing that would make him not pick my calls is if he is watching a football match. I have learnt to enjoy the game with him even though at first I didn't enjoy it. He is a Liverpool fan and so to help him enjoy his game and see what he sees, be happy when he is happy, cry when he cries, I have also become a Liverpool fan. My bobo can skip his books to watch a movie even if he had exams the following day and I hear men can even skip sex to watch a man! It is in them. The best women can do is to enjoy the recreation your partner enjoys otherwise he would be going outside to enjoy such company and God hep you if he meets a woman who also likes his recreation. He would naturally be drawn to her. To avoid all this, I have told him to teach me football, tell me the names of players who play, explain some basic, simple football terms and I have found out when I ask such questions, there is always joy and happiness in his eyes. He is happy I enjoy what he loves. I am happy too. When we get married, I want him to be able to come home and watch a match not go the bar, some place because his wife doesn't enjoy ball. I would encourage all women to enjoy whatever your partner likes. It may not be football. It could be golf, go play golf with him. My sister's husband doesn't like football but he loves his guitar and can stay in his room playing guitar even skipping his meals. Now my sister plays the guitar too and she enjoys all those sounds that come out of it. It wasn't easy at first, but now she is happy and her husband is happy too.If you don't like whatever recreation your partner likes, or you know nothing about the skills, ask him to teach you. It is called recreation companionship. It is one of men's most basic needs after sex and respect. The key is to seek out ways to meet the needs of your partner, this way, your own needs would be met too. Remember, no matter how much complaining you do, how much nagging you do, it would NEVER take football away from men! Enjoy the game with them is the key!!!

alosiby92: @adexomoby: read your post....wow...even his own twin did not know? You see, people close to them NEVER see it coming..
@raynold...I've been just as depressed before...then I would think about suicide...it was not the planning of how i would do it per se but more of who would miss me when I was gone....
I thought about my parents and how sad they would be...how disappointed..how ungrateful it would make me as a child after all their hard work and efforts....I thought of how expensive funerals were and how wicked it would be of me to burden them with that expense~even after my death....
I thought of my sisters....the one closest to me...how sad she would be...how she would never be the same and maybe even never move on with life because of me...about how she would fail school and get deppressed and sad and maybe even mentally unstable~all because of me..
I thought of all the friends I had made and how they would think of me as outwardly I am a friendly, popular and outgoing person......

And then i thought of how quickly they would move on with life without me and then my death would have been a waste....
Selfish me decided to stick it out and get over myself because people will forget about you eventually but what also hit home was:
As a christian, FEAR OF GOD! How dare I end a life that was given as a gift?...it was not mine to end in the first place and I don't see myself heading to heaven after killing myself...I just dont...it is after all murder and in some sense giving up on GOD, like He is not worth living for or something....
That set me right..maybe it could help you?

His twin did not know ooo...Kenny was someone who was always online, always had a way of getting this mtn cheat code and so after his death, we all realised that he hadnt been online for the past 3weeks, this was quite strange and we didn't not even notice it. Likewise, while he was till around before he went for his IT, he reportedly said to another flat mate whose room was opposite his that it is a pity he would not be around for our convocation...and true to his words he wasnt around...We all thought he meant, he would be on IT, we didn't take it serious and who would have thought of the fact that perhaps he meant he would be dead...
I have only considered it once and just like you too, all the things you say you think off are all that occupies my mind too. In all, I know I may never make heaven and that scares ooo!

timpaker: I lost a close friend to suicide few years back after our final year exam, he was an intelligent dude (one of the best in his department), he took his own life with his tie in his room without telling me the problem.
All he did was borrow a text book from me (which i still need if i can access his books or stuff)and complain about a guy owing him money and i promised to help him get it with my influence, the next day i heard he took his own life. Just like that!

In his own case, I didn't see him as a depressed fellow and I still wonder what drove him to suicide.
Of course, like everyone else who knew him, we suspected a foul play but things just didn't add up well to prove our points.

I have also lost a friend and flat mate to suicide, you can read the details above. Mosttimes, people around them dont see it coming and I dont know why...So sorry about your friend!

alosiby92: Suicide. Self murder. Ending one's life.How has it affected you? how did you deal with it?
A few days ago I lost a friend of mine that I was quite close to. He was the one person I would have never expected to take his own life yet he did. To him this world was just too much and he couldn't take it anymore. depression coupled with being bipolar drove him to do what he did. At times i am angry with him for not reaching out, but most ties I cry and think of how short life is and how any things I wanted to say to him and wished I could have been more than just an ordinary friend to him.

At the same time he never realised how much of an impact he had on people's lives....I myself in the past have contemplated suicide when i felt life was rough. I remember being really depressed and telling my parents and all they said was that I should focus on my schoolwork. I wanted to end it all. But then my faith and the thought of all those who would miss me and be devasted and who would blame themselves for my death prevented me. I'm glad I am still alive today to share this.

How have you handled the suicide of a friend or loved one?
have you contemplated suicide yourself?

If so, do share reasons why (if you feel comfortable)
Let those who love you most know how you are feeling, get help. talk to someone. suicide is not the best alternative. there is always a way, something to live for no matter how little. Life is a gift. dont make it premature or waste the time you have left cherish it. Help prevent someone else's loss. it helps to know someone cares.

[ The story of a friend, flatmate and collegue who committed suicide
Family react to the sad death of FUTA 400 level student *Suicide note's content strange - uncle
Oluwatoyin Malik , Tribune Newspaper, . Date & Time Filed on MyOndoState.Com: 2011-08-27 22:37:13

When the news of suicide committed by an undergraduate,Kehinde Akintunde, broke on Sunday last week, many people who heard it found it shocking, not because suicide was a strange occurrence but the circumstances which surrounded Kehinde’s act, as well as the note he left behind, were incomprehensible, especially to his family members who never believed such could happen in their family, not to talk of their smiling, easy-going, brilliant child taking such a non-reversible step. It was suicide extraordinaire.

Kehinde, a 400 level student of Civil Engineering at the Federal University of Technology, Akure was in Lagos State where he was undergoing industrial training, which was part of his course requirements. With a twin brother who was also doing his youth service, Kehinde found it convenient staying in their sister’s house in Lagos. He had left the house in the morning of Friday, August 19, 2011 as usual, bidding farewell as he stepped out, giving everyone the impression that he was going to the place where he was doing his industrial training.

Not too long afterwards, he received a call from his twin brother who wanted to know where he was. “I am about boarding a bus to Yaba”, Kehinde was reported to have replied. Unknown however to any soul, except himself, Kehinde had other plans that would forever put a demarcation between him and his loved ones forever.

He boarded a vehicle to Ibadan and went to Apata area where he walked into an hotel around 12noon and checked in. He was with a back pack and held a bottle of water. He made enquiries about the cost of the rooms and paid for one. As he spoke with the receptionist who booked him in, he was full of smiles and did not betray any emotion or reveal what his intention would soon be. After he had been handed the key to Room 13, he climbed the stairs and made for the room.

Around 11.30a.m. on Saturday, August 20, the receptionist who was on duty noticed that the key to Room 13 was not among other keys and when the receptionist on duty the previous day resumed duty later in the afternoon, she pointed her attention to this. The duo quickly reported to the hotel manager who told them to hold on as it was possible that the guest forgot to drop the key or still had the intention of spending one more night.
When the situation was still same a couple of hours later, the manager decided to inform the Director of the hotel, in whose possession the spare keys of the

hotel rooms were. The director reportedly ordered that the spare key should be used in opening the room but all their efforts yielded no result as none of the keys used in testing the door made it give way.

At about 6.30p.m. the owner of the hotel directed that a carpenter be brought in to break the door open so that another guest could be lodged in. However, as the carpenter went about his job, he was said to have noticed that the door was bolted from behind. A suspicion arose in him and he called the attention of the manager to this. Since they had no choice than to break the door open, the manager told him to continue.

Even if they were expecting something serious to have happened, the sight they beheld was beyond their comprehension. They found the body of their guest, Kehinde, hanging from the hook of a ceiling fan. Stifling the scream that wanted to escape from their throats, the hotel management quickly put a call across to the police at Apata Division. Detectives from the station were sent to the hotel and when they searched the room, they found some belongings of the deceased including a modem, a wallet containing N5, 245, three handsets, a bag, a school identification card, a voter card, some textbooks and a comprehensive suicide note which was written on seven pages of a small jotter.

Scrolling through his phone, the police were able to get Kehinde’s sister’s number and as a way of prompting their steps quickly without raising suspicion, she was told to come to Ibadan as her brother, Kehinde, had been arrested for robbery. Very sure that her brother could never be involved in such, she called her uncle who resides in Ibadan, intimating him of what she learnt. Also convinced that his nephew’s arrest could have been a case of mistaken identity, the uncle went to the police station at Apata that very night but was told to report back in the morning.

Next morning, Sunday August 21, the uncle and policemen went to the hotel and it was there that the news of Kehinde’s death was broken to him. The uncle, shocked with disbelief, went limp. It was as if he was dreaming. After regaining some composure, he was invited to come and see the body but the uncle shivered, saying he would not be able to stand seeing the dead body of a boy he was so close to right from childhood.

Shortly after, Kehinde’s parents who had left Lagos for Ibadan after being told the story of robbery, were brought to the hotel where the news was also broken to them. The mother who had all the while suspected that something terrible must have happened to her beloved son, with the way everyone went hush hush, let out an exclamation immediately the news was broken to her by some clergymen who were invited by the uncle. Crying, the woman who should be close to 60 years lamented how she had suffered over the deceased, asking God rhetorically, “My God, why did you allow this to happen to me?”

Of all that happened, what baffled the family members, police and journalists who were present was the content of the suicide note left behind by Kehinde, which gave no cogent reason for his action, except a portion of it which implied that he might have suffered depression. He had asked his brother who is medical doctor not to bother to research on the causes of depression while also saying in another portion of the note that for those who might think he was depressed, and should have been placed on medication, the medication would have only added to his problem.

In the suicide note, Kehinde addressed all his family members and gave each a parting message. He also expressed his philosophical views on some issues.
Finding the contents of the note unbelieveable, the uncle said Kehinde had no reason to do what he did. “This boy was a genius. He cleared his WASCE result at one sitting with nine distinctions. He gained admission thereafter and his CGP in school placed him on Second Class Upper. Even his doctor brother used to consult him on some areas in his field of medicine. I could recollect that about age 10, Kehinde’s father bought about six books and brought them home, telling the children to go and read and narrate the contents to him. Kehinde had immediately answered his dad that he had read all the books and went ahead to narrate the stories therein.

“At a young age too, whenever he played computer game with his sibling and they became stuck at a point, he would wake up in the night and continued where they stopped. He would eventually solve the problem and call my attention to it so that I could be his witness in the morning when he would relate his feat to others. He was always smiling and I was close to all of them, or so I thought. I can’t just comprehend what has happened”.

Kehinde’s mother while lamenting the loss of her son wondered aloud how she would cope with his loss. “Whenever I had problems that I could not solve with my patients, it was Kehinde that I would call to give me a clue. My God, why did you allow this to happen to me, with the way I serve you? From day one, I had been suffering over this child. As a baby, he had diarrhoea and was very weak. I had to fix an infusion set into his vein while I was also driving. Anyway, I will not deny you (God)but you must avenge the enemies who did this”, she wailed. Her husband who was also weeping profusely tried to console his wife saying “Please my wife, God will comfort us. This does not mean that God has forsaken us”.

While many were saying that the young man must have suffered depression without it being noticed by family and friends, others believed that those who would too much on the quiet side could be going through things that would be hidden from others while they are be seen as being ‘gentle’ or ‘easy-going’.

Speaking on the incident, the Police Public Relations Officer in Oyo State, ASP Femi Akinlawon told Sunday Tribune that the remains of the deceased had been deposited in the mortuary at State Hospital, Ring Road for autopsy after which it would be released to the family for burial. However , Sunday Tribune learnt that the deceased had been buried on Wednesday, August 24.

You can follow the news on: http://www.myondostate.com/myondostate/newssend.php?id=1328

The guy in question was ma flat mate. We lived together...His room was just opposite mine. He was very cool, very brillant was on a C.G.P.A of 4 point studying Civil Engineering. Our rooms were self contained, so we all stayed alone. He never acted depressed and always had a smile. He was always very helpful, assisting us with internet issues and all sorts. To me, he seemed perfect until...He was on IT (Part 4) while I was in part 5. Orikenny, as we fondly called you, I still miss you till date. Rest in peace! Your memories are cherished!

edogu: 2 all who think i ve d intention 2 snatch her man u all got it wrong. When i told her abt my interest in her she ask me 2 giv her time dat she has a boyfriend. I wantd 2 find out hw strong d rship wz so dat i can move on. Well she told me at d@ moment dat she wz having problem wit her guy. Reason? He doesnt not giv her d attention d way she wants. I even encouragd her 2 cont wit d rship n dat we can both b best of friends. One certain time i even sent her a text asking her if she wz bored she can visit her bf. Her reply wz d@ am pushing her 2 do what she doesnt want 2 do. She followd it up wit whether i want her 2 enter one chance. One val day, i bought a gift w i courierd 2 her. I got text dt 9t dt i shld giv her chance 2 resolve all complication involvd in her current rship n dt she doesnt want me 2 get hurt along d line. During dis easter i spent so much time wit her b4 going back 2 ph 2 cont wit my MA programme. I got a text a 9t b4 d day i traveld dat am lovely, good person, awesome..bla..bla..bla. 4 me dis is pretenc, by pretenc i mean she likes me but she is trying not 2 show it. How do i know? Sometimes she always is d one dat calls my line all d times even when i try 2 warn her abt spending her airtime recklessly. According 2 her family hates her current boyfriend. Ironically, d ve acceptd me may b cos d re our family friend. Like i said in my earlier i ve tried giv her all d attention she deserve- i took her out which her current boyfriend never did 4 her as well celebratd her birthday wit. 4 me my next action is ignore her 4 lik few months n wait 4 her reaction. Above all i ve committed everything 2 God.

Would you mind keep waiting for her to sort it out with her boyfriend? If you do not mind, you can wait ooo...For me, like I said earlier, you need a more specific answer than all this...

Zinosalexander: as a rule, if a girl says she has a boyfriend, you should leave her alone.

If she says yes to you, then she is either a cheater or she left the boyfriend because you are "the greener pasture" and she will leave you the next time she find "a greener pasture"

Else, she is the faithfull type, and will not leave her boyfriend for you.

Its a lose-lose situation for you.

And no, you cannot be "just friends". It's just torture.

#mycrazyadvice

It is not a crazy advice, it is the plain truth!I am in a relationship. For guys who come ask my hand for a relationship, I simply tell them, I am hooked ooo, look else where. No need for trying to rethink of bother my pretty small brain. For those who wanna pester me, trying to know if I am a cheat or am looking for greener pastures, I tell my bobo about it, no secrets and I also stand my grounds. If the guy wanna be my friend, it up to him. If he does not, it really up to him.Most times on the other hand, guys leave me alone once I say am in a relationship and that beautiful. No unnecessary! pressure

edogu: @aluta: pls u misunderstd me. By proposal i dont mean settling down wit her immediately but asking her out as in boyfriend/girlfriend rship. I tried 2 find out abt her present rship so dat i can wait or move on. Well she told me she is not happy wit his present boyfriend cos of reasons best known 2 her. But then she keep mentioning him whenever we re chatting on d phone, though not often. Now do u think four months or more is too long 2 wait 4 any girl or should i move on. Am ready 2 wait since she wz d one dat ask me 2 giv her time but my other mind tells me she's just playing along So what do u think

You know there is this things about a lady feeling special when a guy is asking her out despite been in a relationship. I think that is what she is up too...She didnt give you a specific answer as such you cant keep waiting forever. In as much as I tell ladies that their response determines whether the relationship would start or not, they also have to understand that guys CAN NOT wait forever. Please ,move on. Obviously, she does not know what she wants, if she does, she would have given you a more specific answer like, 'Okay give me some time to break up with my bobo, or 'Please, I am not interested. I am in a relationship, if you came earlier, it would have been better'. If she had told you she is going to break up with the guy she is presently dating, that would have been a better response than saying she is not happy with him because of reasons best known to her? What reasons and why cant she tell you? Please move on oooo...Secondly, 4 months is not too long because some ladies really do need some time. However, such ladies are those who already know what they want and are specific. When my bobo asked me out, I told him I would go out with him but however, he should give me some time to finish school because I did not think I would be able to cope. He waited 6 months because I had already told him I would go out with him when I am ready(Finishing school). He waited because he knew his waiting was not in vain. That is a kind of response you need oo my friend.
Do not mind my long stories! Take care!

donroxy: Amnesty and the Qur’an
April 5, 2013 | 12:10 am
Facing The Ka'aba
By Ishola Balogun


Many are coming to terms with the fact that the activities of the Boko Haram is un-Islamic. With the way the terrorist group go about their heinous crime, except for the stalwarts of jahiliyah (ignorance) and those whose vested interest in the society is to fan the embers of discord, religious and sectional acrimony, and those who want to make people believe their religion is superior and who are blinded to the development that these insurgents kill without regard to the faith you belong; they know the fact.



Reports indicated that more Muslims died in the Kano park blast. We gathered from reliably source that many of the health workers who were killed for administering polio vaccines were Muslims, the Emir of Kano Ado Bayero narrowly escaped death but his driver and three of his guards who were Muslims also died.



The northerners who are predominantly Muslims are constantly living in fear as bombs do no discriminate. Every reasonable Nigerian who has blood running through his vein will also empathize with hundreds of other non-Muslims who have been killed gruesomely by Boko Haram.



Their decoy was to make it as though it is a religious battle much more when some of the perpetrators will go on YouTube even speaking Arabic denoting they are Muslim. Yes! there are bad elements in every religion, but they do have the mandate of every Muslim? Does the Qur’an and Hadiths support this carnage? Obviously not. Muslim scholars here and abroad have continued to condemn all these acts of terrorism.



I must say that all those who do mischiefin the name of Allah will be punished. Qur’an Chapter 5, verses 33-34 says: ‘Thepunishment of those who run around and spread mischief about Allah and His Messenger is this: execution, or crucifixion, or the cutting off of hands and feet from opposite sides, or exile from the land: that is their disgrace in this world, and a heavy punishment is theirs in the Hereafter.” The Quaran does not condone these acts of killing and maiming in the name of Allah. In factno religion does.



The rejection of modern education is nota creed in Islam as the Prophet (s.a.w) ordered that seeking of knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim. The imposition of Sharia law in a multi-religious society is also not acceptable. Itis a contradiction of the verse: La ikraa-fi-deen; which means: No compulsion in religion; with other verses clearly stated. The killing of people is a great sin beforeAllah (SWT).


The Quran teaches that whoever kills a soul has killed a nation and whoever saves a soul has saved a nation. Again, the destruction of state property is antithetical to the teachings of Islam as the Qur’an teaches obedience to constituted authorities. So, why should anyone who is informed link Islam to it? It is nothing but grand ignorance of grandeur.


Today, we thank God government is taking positive steps in dealing with the situation. In fact, information less than 24hour ago indicated that government has decided to offer amnesty to the group and engage in discussion with the group in order to bring lasting peace.


Recall that it was first the Sultan of Sokoto, His Eminence Sa’ad Abubakar who advised the government to offer the group amnesty. Although there were divergent views on the issue of amnesty but suffice to say it cut across religious feelings. In fact, some Muslims were even opposed to the call for amnesty for the group.



Sheikh Gumi said “the call for amnesty is hypocritical adding that the sect has disrespect for the Qur’an or Hadith or even Scholarly fatwa. They have their own interpretation,” he stated. Again, Roman Catholic Bishop of Sokoto Diocese, Matthew Kukah, joined the list of those calling for amnesty to members of Boko Haram. The cleric, in his Easter message, said though the offer would not solve all the nation’s problems, “it will bring us closer to a new dawn”.


Since Allah is the Most Forgiving and Merciful, those who call for clemence for the group are in order and that is the way to go. The Qur’an further states: “Except for those who repent (referring to those who cause mischief in the land in the name of Allah as stated in the above verse) before you apprehend them. And know that Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
The perpetrators should come forward and seek forgiveness.



Over politicisation of the matter will not help the situation. There should be a sincere approach to end this carnage from both sides. Allah isthe Most Forgiving.

www.vanguardngr.com/2013/04/amnesty-and-the-quran/?

Abegi .....Next story please...Tell this to those who have lost lost ones!!!!!1

Timijo: I strongly believe that premarital sex is sinful and I know that other bible believers know this.
It is clear that many xtian believers abstain from sex during courtship, but some cannot do away with hugging and kissing. Many believe that it is not sinful while others believe that it is sinful. Look, am not talking of pecking here. But the real bedroom kissing and hugging that can lead to the next scene.
I want mature christians to shed more light on this. If it is sinful, give biblical support to convince me and if it is not, give your reasons and support it with bible verses.
Thanks.

Its an appearance of sin. Sex doesn't just happen...The guy and the lady dont just start to penetrate inside each other...It stats with some pre-sex moves...Its in stages...This stages start with kissing. pecking, smooching and all that...Hugging is fine but intense hugging that brings sexual arousement is not so healthy for any relationship...Soon parties would discover they want something more, they would realize that they aren't just satisfied with just pecking and hugging...They wanna kiss and do some intense hugging..They want to do something more...sexual feelings are coming up more and more...they are no longer interested in just hugging...they wanna smooch...and that where the devil sneakingly gets christains!
Its an appearance of sin which isn't sin itself and the bible warns that we should run from all appearances of evil.
Secondly in the book of songs of Solomon, the Bible says we shouldn't awaken love until its ripe. Means we should not awaken some sexual feelings until we can fully express it in Marriage. For me, I would personally not wanna smell what I would not be able to eat NOW...

Something like this has happened to my elder sister. Our mum dropped us (three gals) at her friends place because she needed to travel to school to write her exams. All the kids and I were all playing (about five of us) this hide and seek game...You know the game of going to go and hide and wait for someone to come get you where you hide. So my sister went to hide inside the wardrobe and locked herself inside. We did not know...Much later after the game had ended and the parents of the family we were with including all the kids wanted to go to church, We noticed that my sister was missing. Immediately, we started searching. My eldest sister who was the eldest amongst all of us told everyone that the last they saw of my older sister was when we were all playing hide and seek, but since she was just also quite young, she couldn't say much as well... The parent started searching. God simply was involved because somehow, somewhere somebody found my sister sleeping soundly inside the wardrobe, she was sweating already! I would say God saved her!! Things could have gone wrong... What of if there was no place to go?
Till date when we bring up this story to my sister, now that we are all grown ups, we all smile and laugh over it!
It so sad that such a thing happened to the kids. Kids have to be watched constantly because they can do and undo things...I also remember running in front of a moving trailer when I was young, I thought it was fun...But God kept me!
Blaming anyone wouldn't bring the boys back...I sincerely hope that God gives the family yo bear the loss and may God restore them with triplets boys, Amen!

ItsModella: My parents are mad that I call them once a week. They think I should be calling them everyday or once in 2 days. They don't seem to understand that I'm very busy with my studies and social life. So all you guys schooling abroad, how often do you call your parents?

Moi parents are fine with just a text to tell them whatever I need, greetings and hellos. I hardly call them because when I do, they would say I should be saving my money rather than using it to call them...And if I have to call to pass some VERY important information, its always very 'buisness like'.

The truth would be revelaed on the last day...But then, hope it would not be too late for some?

Tolexander: Seems the guy has a dirty motive aside the birthday party which he intentionally didn't want to disclose, but the facebook friends' intention outsmarted his.

He just use the birthday party to justify and support his intention.
I wonder why a guy will be so close with another person of the same gender with him and decides to pay him a visit in Warri from Enugu. The guy needs to be thoroughly and severly investigated.

I really think so too...U are the only one who is seeing it in the way I am seeing it too! 3 Gbosas for u!!!

KingsleyCEO: I'm not surprised, because we live in a world where righteousness and sound value are becoming abnormal. Even those persons whose deed are wrong are proud of it. A sex worker can look at a virgin in the face and make her believe she is a fool for keeping herself, oh! What a world.

U have said it all oooo.....Wat a world!!!

paris10: Met my wife a virgin, but that doesn't mean I never tried to disflower her before time. It's been 8 years and our love still continue to glow. My darling actually left her boyfriends after too much pressure from them to see the under. They never wanted to wait and insisted on doing it before marriage. She refused their advances and on each ocassion cancelled such relationship.

I was lucky to have met her that way. I tried doing what other guys tried, but when I insisted on doing it, she gave in, but with a warning. "You must be ready to marry me if you do it". Was a bit scared but then, I was too honey and couldn't care less. I tried penetrating 3 times, no way.. tight as hell. Then I gave up.

Here we are today happily married and enjoying life to the fullest...Glory to God

Good! Am proud of you both.

KingsleyCEO: I'm not surprised, because we live in a world where righteousness and sound value are becoming abnormal. Even those persons whose deed are wrong are proud of it. A sex worker can look at a virgin in the face and make her believe she is a fool for keeping herself, oh! What a world.

My sister, may God have mercy on this generation o oooo!!!

jmoore: sex is an instinct, you don't need a tutorial for it. Who taught you as a baby how to suck your mom's bre@st? That's instinct. Two virgins have no problem at all when they get married

Thank u for this. U deserve an applause .

league11: I CAN TRUST N TOLERATE MY WIFE TO ANY LEVEL, FOR D RESPECT THAT I MARRIED HER A VIRGIN AFTER HER GRADUATION. WE STARTED DATING WHEN SHE WAS IN SECONDRY SCHOOL, SHE REBUFFED ALL MY ADVANCES TO HAVE SEX WITH HER. SHE TOLD ME THAT IF I TRULY LOVE HER THAT I SHOULD MARRY HER, AND IF I DONT WANT HER TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN THAT I SHOULD ALLOW HER TO REMAIN A VIRGIN TILL OUR MARRIAGE. IT DOESNT STOP US FROM BEING VERY INTIMATE AND EVEN SLEEPING TOGETHER WHENEVER I VISIT HER IN SCHOOL OR WHEN SHE VISITS ME DURING HOLIDAYS. MY FRIENDS ALMOST DISCOURAGED ME THAT THIS GIRL MUST BE CHEATING ON ME OR TRYING TO HIDE SOMETHING FROM ME, MY SISTER EVEN CALLED ME MUGU D DAY I TOLD HER THAT MY FIANCE IS A VIRGIN. BUT AFTER 8YRS OF COURTSHIP LO N BEHOLD SHE WAS A VIRGIN AT 24. AT FIRST IT WAS DIFFICULT MAKING LOVE AS SHE LACKS D EXPERIENCE, BUT I GAVE HER D FREEDOM TO LEARN N EXPRESS HERSELF. TODAY SHE IS AN EXPERT AND A FLIRT, FLIRTING AROUND OUR HOUSE WITH ME ALONE. AFTER 2YRS OF MARRIAGE WE REMAIN D BEST FRIENDS. AM ENJOYING MY MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so impressed!!! God was not lieing when he said, the Marriage bed should be undefiled!!!!

jadajada: virginity is nt a pride, it's simply a lack of opportunities.

Then you say God is a liar?