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 Travel / Re: FG Begins Construction Of 700 Km Lagos-Calabar Coastal Road by adexpa(m): 8:15pm On Mar 08 |
Umueme: Capital expenditure is one of the way government create jobs. The construction will create jobs and help businesses. You shouldn't expect government to focus food or one aspect alone and abandon other sectors. Or you expect government to keep giving palliatives/handouts 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Nigeria Must Recruit Selfless, Transformational Leaders – Obasanjo by adexpa(m): 12:00pm On Mar 06 |
For me, I do not think the form of democracy we adopted is the problem, but the people. Africans need new minds, new ways of seeing life. Africans do not understand wealth creation process, and they think money can only be made through stealing. The bottom line of all the problems is money, and until the subject is properly addressed, we will remain a fantastically corrupt place. We need to build young minds who understands that through hard work, integrity, dedication and commitment to a course, success can be achieved. We need to build minds that can create wealth from any field without stealing. When people can build wealth without stealing mindset, they can go into politics loaded with several businesses bringing money for them and not rely on common wealth. The continent that embrace democracy are human like us, but they chose to work unanimously for a single objective (national development) and not personal development. Until mind is free, the whole body remain in prison |
| Politics / Re: FOREX Crisis: Raid On BDCs Ill-Advised, Wrongly-Directed - Peter Obi by adexpa(m): 9:32am On Feb 25 |
The most easiest job in this world is the job of a spectator. He only sit, and watch thing as they unfold and then give the perfect advice on how the person who did it should have done it. Consumption to Production (Demand and supply) is the basic economic mathematics that even the woman in the market understand talkless of the educated people in power. Nigeria Consumption/Production habit has been a major problem for years and you can not expect that to be turned around overnight. Government can not focus only on one thing; while they find ways on Consumption/Production, they need to work on saboteurs who take advantage of the system. We all need to understand that all develop countries got there through different reforms and policies; several trials before they could find the suitable one. Policies are peculiar to culture and environment too; the policies that work in a sincere environment will be tough to find place in a country like Nigeria where almost everybody is a thieve. 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Sanusi Backs Relocation Of CBN Units, Departments To Lagos by adexpa(m): 11:13am On Jan 25 |
Political, ethnical and religious sentiments are the biggest threat to will power. Many leaders got many things to execute but they bow to society outcry due to sentiments. It take a leader who have got the ball to ignore public outcry on every decisions. We need to be more national incline than regional, ethnic, and religion. 2 Likes |
| Politics / Re: $9.6bn Scam: How Government Officials Aided P&ID Directors — EFCC Investigator by adexpa(m): 1:16pm On Jan 17 |
greatness22: Utill you reorientate yourself and accept reality that your idol lost the election and embrace the winner as your president, you will keep neglecting facts because you are blinded with what you never wanted to hear. The corruption became obvious these days because EFCC has been unravelling and unveiling them. Most of these cases had happened years back but no one talk about it. Embrace the reality and begin to pave ways for your breakthrough rather than looking for messiah in human beings like you. |
| Religion / Re: Social Media: A Curse Or Blessing To Christianity? by adexpa(m): 9:28am On Jan 14 |
To every good idea,there's always a bad side. Social media was originally designed to be a blessing, but human magnanimity has explored it to discover the other side of it that the original designer never intend. It is both blessing and curse depending on the user. |
| Politics / Re: EFCC Revives 13 Ex-Governors’ N772 Billion Fraud Cases by adexpa(m): 9:23am On Jan 14 |
Teenaira: Yes, that's my thoughts. They will be probe and allow to pay some portion of the stolen money if find guilty. There's no need jailing. There should be a diplomatic way to fight corruption in a system entrenched with corruption like Nigeria. Our system and ways of life ( culture) embrace corruption. 1 Like |
| Celebrities / Re: Saheed Osupa Graduates From University Of Ibadan by adexpa(m): 5:19am On Nov 16, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: A degree is part of education but it is not enough to become who you need to become in life, there's more to life and degree can be part of the foundation. Education does not have end, you keep learning and keep growing in area of interest on a daily basis, and that may include classesand off classes 1 Like |
| Family / Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by adexpa(m): 1:54pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Hypocrisy of the highest order. You highlighted the solution yourself (standing up to help with the chores), but you are lazy enough not to start doing what you know is the solution to the problem you mentioned. The truth is that you're enjoying him doing it while you sleep around and keep lying that you are feeding the child. You obviously want him do more, you want him finish house chores and add cuddling and romance. You do not need advice because you know the solution already. 2 Likes |
| Politics / Re: Nigerians React As Tinubu Bans Son, Others From Attending FEC Meeting by adexpa(m): 5:06pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
The president has done what he dimmed right for his image, there is no need for too much uproach because nobody can do anything if he chose to ignore the boy and allow him into the meeting. I guess the boy was trying to deep himself into real politics and leadership through firsthand experience, but his father said he is not allowing such approach. Lets stop the act of holier, majority of us will do more if we have the same opportunity. I can imagine what people will say if he decided to bring his son into government by giving him appointment because this is not new, Trump and many leaders had done such it the past(no law that forbid such). We need to understand that there is no real right and wrong in life. Your right is your reality and mine is my reality. |
| Family / Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by adexpa(m): 3:08pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Please, can you put more light to your submission |
| Family / Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by adexpa(m): 2:02pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Brother, I understand you want to be in charge which is normal for responsible guy, but your case is different, your wife family has it all and they can not close eyes and not take care of their sister. Since she is not using it against you and her family are not complaining, I think you should use your energy to build yourself up and stop complaining. Learn to overlook and ignore most of these things you mentioned. You didn't mention that she's rude. Focus on building yourself and allow her to enjoy her family in peace. The day you start to ignore, peace becomes your identity because she will never stop. You want her to manage when there is abundance, it is not possible. You can not choose suffer when there's excess somewhere. Face important things 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Atiku Misled The Public On Muslim-Muslim Ticket - Woye by adexpa(m): 7:15am On Oct 06, 2023 |
saphiere: Type this question to YouTube, you will find solution. We need to learn how to use Internet to solve majority of our questions 2 Likes |
| Politics / Re: Dino Melaye bagged Doctor of Political Leadership from America University(pics) by adexpa(m): 11:12am On Sep 12, 2023 |
True leadership is not by papers, but by exemplary actions actions. Leaders are people who by no privileges and authorities exhibit excellent results. Leaders are people who do what it takes to make life of the followers better even with national resources. Enough of all these political rascalities, all the papers acquisitions just to prove you're educated beyond your counterparts. Certificate is not the show of knowledge, but the dispensation of wisdom. Show yourself approved, let people know your capacity through your actions. How has he presented himself all this while in the political arena, all he show us is his material possession and not knowledge. I can't see brilliant projects when he was a senator. |
| Politics / Re: Fuel Subsidy: We Played Politics With 2012 Occupy Nigeria – Fayemi by adexpa(m): 5:25pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
I do not agree with fayemi on this, the entire country rose against the idea because we never understood the need for it. ACN only took advantage of people's ignorance of the idea. People like Falana, Wole Soyinka and some other prominent Nigerians who were not politicians were part of the movement then. 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: I Never Authorised Agunloye To Award $6bn Mambilla Contract To Sunrise, Says OBJ by adexpa(m): 10:00am On Sep 04, 2023 |
If we can visit majority of the past deals, some of the guys who are walking around today will be stone to death. Too many unguraded deals just to create avenue to steal. Nobody brought us here other than the greedy people who got opportunities to be in power. Majority of them are going about saying rubbish about the government of today because there is no opportunity for them to steal, they are acting like Saint and someone who cares. The past really needs to be visited and dealt with harshly. We need to send signals to the future by properly dealing with the past. |
| Politics / Re: Atiku, Kwankwaso, Obi Discussing Merger To Wrest Power From APC - AriseTV by adexpa(m): 8:18am On Aug 21, 2023 |
Such merger can not work because Atiku still want to become president by all means. The problem will be the flag bearer. 4 Likes |
| Politics / Re: Obaseki: I Won’t Back Philip Shaibu To Succeed Me by adexpa(m): 9:34am On Aug 07, 2023 |
He should be acting like God. He needs to remember his second term bid, his master was against him and yet he won using another platform. He should understand that power is transient and it doesn't last forever |
| Celebrities / Re: "Why I Will Never Tell My Mum Any Secret Again" – Tiwa Savage by adexpa(m): 6:14pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
I have come to realised that the only person who can keep secret of a good news is your enemy, because he/she is never happy for your progress, and disclosing it will look like promoting you. Believe me or not, there's never a good news you shared with friends or family that is a secret, they will surely share it with someone. It's very tough to hold good news. If it is easy to hold the news, the owner of the news wouldn't share it. Sharing a good news doesn't mean the person hate you, but they can not hold the joy just the way you can not hold it. Anything you want to keep secret, please keep it to yourself. You scammed yourself whenever you disclosed information and asked the person not to tell someone else 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by adexpa(m): 4:38pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
A man must be financially buoyant before going into marriage. If you can't pay bride price, what would you be able to pay; house rent, baby things, feeding ......... There are too many things to pay for in marriage, and bride price is just token. No matter how rich a woman, the husband is still the financial driver. 1 Like |
| Family / Re: My To Be In-laws Are Frustrating Me by adexpa(m): 2:43pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Take some steps backward and relax about the whole thing, reduce your fantasies about the same birth day and liking the same food. Relax and look at the whole scenario before you deep yourself into a pit you will never get out of. It looks like you're been driven by emotion, and that might be dangerous for you. The wife family will frustrate your marriage through your wife with unnecessary demand even if you're able to bribe your way into marrying her. Relax and reset the whole thing, stop pressing for marriage. You will find another good woman the way you met her too. The current person will always be better until you meet another person. Allow yourself to see beyond your immediate environment. You can always start again and move faster with another person if situation call for it. Relax 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics / Re: Ex-lagos Deputy Gov Blames Nigeria’s Problems On God’s Anger, Corruption by adexpa(m): 10:32am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Wickedness to one and other. Man feeds on man, and government feeds on citizens. We should stop pointing fingers, we are all involve. We all needs to change our ways to get out of this mess. God has nothing to do with our suffering 2 Likes |
| Nairaland / General / The Messiah You Need by adexpa(m): 10:15am On Jul 23, 2023 |
I have come to realise that the only messiah you need is yourself. It's important to know when and how to stand up and take charge of your life. The reality is that no one will help you except you take control. Mentorship has been the biggest way through which people find their ways out of struggle and hardship of life. The easiest way to find Mentorship is through book. Read books from great minds, read books from people you admire and look up to. Book has been known to be a catalyst which drives people out of emotional imbalance, financial staggering, intelligence deficiency and more. Read books today and be free from crisis and dogmas. Read books and stop looking for messiah in politicians and government, they will only use you to climb ladders and achieve their long time ambition. Below are good books for you 1) Think and grow rich 2) power of positive thinking 3) Billionaire next door 4) Atomic habits 5) the 7 habits of highly effective people 6) the essence of success 7) The psychology of money  the 12 week year9) the art of getting things done 10) the magic of thinking big 11) the winner effect 12) the compound effect 13) the intelligent investor 14) the 4 hour work week 15) Zero to one 16)so good they can't ignore you 17) The richest man in babylon 18) The E myth 19) How to win friends and influence people 20)the lean startup 21) start with why 22) The blue ocean strategy 23) Steal like an artist 24) Mastery 25) Essentialism I love you all |
| Family / Re: If You Are In Your Twenties, Read This. by adexpa(m): 5:12pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
There's a real need to be serious and focus early and forever. One need to think about the kind of future he/she envisage and how to get there. I long for a powerful future,and looked for book that drives reality and sense to my brain early. I read books like poor dad rich dad, powerful of positive thinking, think and grow rich. I learnt from books that no job is menial, as long as you can earn reasonable money from it. I understood early that my certificate will not afford me the kind of future I envisaged. I understood that relationship with woman(girlfriend) should be treated like business; don't have girlfriend who can not take care of herself, don't listen to people who tells you marriage is a blessing. If you have to allow a woman into your life at all, let it be a woman with clear goal and direction, let it be a woman who is building her life already, don't go for a woman with entitlement; only pussy and appearance. Go for woman who believes she can make money and she's making it gradual already. Please, don't spend your early income on family, friends and woman, please don't start by building house, go for things that will increase your income, grow your sources of income at all cost. Think of what you can invest or business you can do while you're making money from either employment or side jobs. Please, do any job( danfo driver, marwa driver, bike rider, truck driver , goods transport), do not care about what people will say, drop your certificate once no job is forth coming after NYSC and involve yourself in any job that can give you money to move from one business to another. Please, avoid woman that's a liability or avoid woman completely at the beginning. Focus life seriously as a young man, women who have values will locate you with time . 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics / Re: Peter Obi Tells Obidients How To Celebrate His 62nd Birthday by adexpa(m): 7:32pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Gullibility......it's so easy to fool poor masses because all they expect is a messiah. When people lost their rights to think, when they are clueless about the direction of their daily meal, they look for messiah. PO is like every genuine human, he is not different nor special, but because majority of his followers are not genuinely genuine, so they saw him as a messiah who is holier than everybody. PO is not different from the likes of Tinubu, Atiku and the rest. PO has taken advantage of Nigeria state to make wealth like every other successful business people. PO was never interested in politics until his lecturer encouraged him. Was Nigeria not in a bad state in those years he went to sit in UK and enter Nigeria as uncern citizen. He is a good guy like every other guys out there, but he is not the messiah people painted him. 1 Like |
| Travel / Re: Nigerians In The UK Are Really Suffering by adexpa(m): 12:27pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
The earlier we realise that grasses never green on it own, it requires water. No place is better other than the place you embraced and nurtured. There is economy crisis all over the world, and government can only try their best. No leaders has the right solution to economic crisis, they are only trying 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Career / Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by adexpa(m): 11:06am On Jul 06, 2023 |
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| Career / Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by adexpa(m): 8:51pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
OvertheTop: I will blame Davido because he was not ready to settle down when he publicly declared Chioma has his wife. Why doing such when you are not ready to commit yourself to the woman. The same with this guy, why bringing a woman on board when you are still struggling to discover path and purpose, you want her to suffer while you're struggling to find your fit. It's a no no for me. Find your path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then find a lady who is interested in that path to go with you |
| Career / Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by adexpa(m): 3:23pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
A man does not need any woman in the first place until he can define his path. Let him define his path and purpose, then he can invite a woman to journey together. I can not blame the lady because she was with her based on his previous path, and he has discovered a new path, he will have to walk the path to a reasonable end and them bring in a woman who is ready to go that path with him. It's foolishness when men complain about women leaving them for economically stabled men. Nobody wants to be suffered. Find a path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then bring a woman on board to walk together 5 Likes |
| Education / Re: Liang Shi Fails 27th Attempt At Passing University Entrance Exams by adexpa(m): 5:29pm On Jun 27, 2023 |
One of the beauty of life is the room for constant challenge. Life gets more interesting with constant urge to do more. I wish him success in the next trial 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Oil Theft: Navy Counters Asari Dokubo, Asks Him To Mention Names by adexpa(m): 2:38pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
His submission are true. Mr President only needs to thread with care. Nigeria military are all involved in all criminal acts in Nigeria. Nigeria military is powerful, and they can curtailed all atrocities in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
| Politics / Re: Reuters: Baba Go-fast? Nigeria's Tinubu Stuns Wary Investors With Quick Reforms by adexpa(m): 10:01am On Jun 16, 2023 |
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