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Rapfrick:
Read the lady response first

chocolateme:
I initiated it actually because he was too good to be true.. 7 months

ekerintee:
You See the Trend nowadays are single parents,Most of this Kids from single parents are Not being taught Well at Home .appplogies to the good single Parent .i must say there are some single mothers WHO train their Kids Well ,however some dont have time for this Kids .so in conclusion,Not the Location Matters but the Parent or whoever is Training the child .A badly trainned child in Nigeria is almost Same AS a badly trainned child in Europe .however ,some children ,No Matter how hard you train them,they May still Chose to Go Bad,that one is beyond your Power ,but God and everyone knows you did your best

Parenting is a big role but many parents today do not know, most of them pushes the role to school teachers, most of them look for best school thinking they will teach their child moral and etiquette. Nobody does it like the parents cause children trust their parents judgement better than anyone else.
If anyone wants a mannered child, let him/her learn manner first and then pass it to thechildren.

Danhoys:
I know the husband I married, he wouldn't be able to handle this sensitive subject properly.

Despite my immense knowledge in human psychology and behavior, I still came here looking for inputs.

Dealing with teens is complicated, and I want to make sure I don't say the wrong words, or do the wrong things.

Thanks for your input so far.

daddytime:
Tell your friend that rumours are going rife about his wife's indiscretion and you'd advice him to keep his ears to the ground or possibly find a neutral friend or family member his wife knows not to come around and play a spy for a full time job.

The spy could make use of the woman who owns a shop in the neighbourhood's spot as a watch tower. He could simply connive with the shop owner and act as her relative to be able to garner enough evidences from close range.

He could take it a notch higher if he wants and has a spare key to the house which the spy can use to gain access into the house and plant a camera whenever he is sure the house is empty.

This kind matter, to solve and handle am no dey hard.

Na so my guy plant camera inside him car wey him wife use dey fck and carry guys up and down.
This one na woman wey the guy dey carry travel UK, US and everywhere oh...

On a more honest note, most of these stuff boils down to karma in one way or the other whether you agree with me or not because I don to see life to understand to an extent that nothing, absolutely nothing happens by accident.

We plant some seeds in life which we overtime forget had been sown and even when we neglect to water these seeds, nature does its job to help us pour water in the form of rain on them to help them germinate to a bountiful harvest.

When we dey tell people say make dem learn from some of us wey don make mostakes in life by living right and earning right dem say we be mugus or say we no plan our life well.

If you are reading this and you think cutting corners in any guise including yahoo yahoo is your sure bet to a good life, you had better have a rethink and change your ways. It might take take time but trust me, your penance cometh in any of these ways including a jail time and losing all you thought you had garnered before life knocks you back to ground zero for a fresh start.

It has happened to me, the friend I mentioned above and so many others I worked with when we though we were living lavida loca scamming people of their hard earned monies and cashing out.

In my case, even before I lost all the millions and investments I thought I had crookedly garnered because I thought I was so smart, karma had sentna jezebel my way for a wife who was drawn like bees to honey because of the cash flowing. You can only imagine what happened when I eventually fell to ground zero.

Today, I see life from a very different prism and thank God for the experience and also the wisdom to realize my folly and make a swift change.

I live to use my experience to sensitize and educate the youths to the many vices currently going rife amongst them.

The excuse of our politicians being the bigger thieves isn't fashionable any longer and you know what? They all have their karmas but from the outside, you no go know.

This life wey we dey live dey very big and deep but very easy to navigate through when you understand the rudiments/principles including the fact that there is more to it than the craze for easy/quick wealth by any means possible. If your ways get right with God/nature, you won't even be able to place how you survive and get by on adaily. Your needs will definitely be met without much ado so long as you aren't greedy for what you rightly can't afford.
I greet una

Reex12:
ma/sir

IntersexSherry:
I see many posts of guys here rejoicing how they over came their mastubation addiction and giving thanks to God and telling others to stop..

See Mastubation, pornography, sex is not Bad. What is bad is addiction..

Many guys get addicted to this practice, killing themselves. They can't control themselves. Always wanking themselves..

If you can do in moderation, its fine..

Pray to God to overcome the spirit of addiction and avoid bad company.

That is why i hate staying close to young boys. The only they talk about is how to Phuck all the girls in the world. Always flirting around..

Learn to be matured in thoughts and how to control yourself and company..

I'm a girl, i'm into men. i see many handsome men shirtless or even naked, doesn't really turn me on or get me that excited. Even find it disgusting at times. Why is it men think so different, just the sight of a woman cleavage already drives them insane??
God help us..

IntersexSherry:
i will advise men to abstain because they are the ones that
easily loose control

IntersexSherry:
Let the serpent talk. Mastubation is good for the health but the thing is many people get addicted to it which is bad, same way as many people get addicted to sex and pornography. Addiction is bad dear . .
Do it but moderately..

Rickylambert:
you are not without stain as well man,He Bleep up no mean say make we crucify him.

MT:
You are such an idiot and the long arm of the law will catch up with you soon. You want a Nigeria that looks like the US but you want to continue living a reckless life as a citizen.

Get this into your thick skull, all the money he might have stashed away would have become valueless in 10years time as Inflation would have set in. Not to talk of emotional trauma and depression that would overwhelm him.

This Invictus that you see today being sentenced, you will never meet no more as life and frustration would have finished me inside the prison before he is released in 10years time, if he ever makes it out.

Yusufisraelj:
These are very deep

But I think change is possible at any level, I think she should disconnect with the man and work on herself.

michaelpop50:
They won't even be able to date a financially stable guy that is not married because the guy won't tolerate all the trash the married man tolerated. And they will be expecting the guy to lavish money on them which he won't do foolishly like the married man. You see those girls dating married men, they can hardly settle in life.

This OP own done baje

michaelpop50:
OP, I've seen so many ladies who are in their 30s now but dated a married man when they were in the 20s just like you.

They all agreed that the married men ruined their love life. They are not able to love anyone again because the married men gave them too many unrealistic treatment and expectations.

You are doomed already. You will never be able to function properly again. Just find a way to leave this country.

Maryjane001:
Most good guys are too insecure and jealous.
But anyway a good guy is the best choice if he isn't any of those two above

cozyfaithex:
this is bomb nd the poster is 100℅ correct,i think i have one of the bad guy around me,kudos to u