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 Politics › Re: Obaseki: I Won’t Back Philip Shaibu To Succeed Me by adexpa(m): 9:34am On Aug 07, 2023 |
He should be acting like God. He needs to remember his second term bid, his master was against him and yet he won using another platform. He should understand that power is transient and it doesn't last forever |
| Celebrities › Re: "Why I Will Never Tell My Mum Any Secret Again" – Tiwa Savage by adexpa(m): 6:14pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
I have come to realised that the only person who can keep secret of a good news is your enemy, because he/she is never happy for your progress, and disclosing it will look like promoting you. Believe me or not, there's never a good news you shared with friends or family that is a secret, they will surely share it with someone. It's very tough to hold good news. If it is easy to hold the news, the owner of the news wouldn't share it. Sharing a good news doesn't mean the person hate you, but they can not hold the joy just the way you can not hold it. Anything you want to keep secret, please keep it to yourself. You scammed yourself whenever you disclosed information and asked the person not to tell someone else 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by adexpa(m): 4:38pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
A man must be financially buoyant before going into marriage. If you can't pay bride price, what would you be able to pay; house rent, baby things, feeding ......... There are too many things to pay for in marriage, and bride price is just token. No matter how rich a woman, the husband is still the financial driver. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My To Be In-laws Are Frustrating Me by adexpa(m): 2:43pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Take some steps backward and relax about the whole thing, reduce your fantasies about the same birth day and liking the same food. Relax and look at the whole scenario before you deep yourself into a pit you will never get out of. It looks like you're been driven by emotion, and that might be dangerous for you. The wife family will frustrate your marriage through your wife with unnecessary demand even if you're able to bribe your way into marrying her. Relax and reset the whole thing, stop pressing for marriage. You will find another good woman the way you met her too. The current person will always be better until you meet another person. Allow yourself to see beyond your immediate environment. You can always start again and move faster with another person if situation call for it. Relax 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Ex-lagos Deputy Gov Blames Nigeria’s Problems On God’s Anger, Corruption by adexpa(m): 10:32am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Wickedness to one and other. Man feeds on man, and government feeds on citizens. We should stop pointing fingers, we are all involve. We all needs to change our ways to get out of this mess. God has nothing to do with our suffering 2 Likes |
| Nairaland General › The Messiah You Need by adexpa(op): 10:15am On Jul 23, 2023 |
I have come to realise that the only messiah you need is yourself. It's important to know when and how to stand up and take charge of your life. The reality is that no one will help you except you take control. Mentorship has been the biggest way through which people find their ways out of struggle and hardship of life. The easiest way to find Mentorship is through book. Read books from great minds, read books from people you admire and look up to. Book has been known to be a catalyst which drives people out of emotional imbalance, financial staggering, intelligence deficiency and more. Read books today and be free from crisis and dogmas. Read books and stop looking for messiah in politicians and government, they will only use you to climb ladders and achieve their long time ambition. Below are good books for you 1) Think and grow rich 2) power of positive thinking 3) Billionaire next door 4) Atomic habits 5) the 7 habits of highly effective people 6) the essence of success 7) The psychology of money  the 12 week year9) the art of getting things done 10) the magic of thinking big 11) the winner effect 12) the compound effect 13) the intelligent investor 14) the 4 hour work week 15) Zero to one 16)so good they can't ignore you 17) The richest man in babylon 18) The E myth 19) How to win friends and influence people 20)the lean startup 21) start with why 22) The blue ocean strategy 23) Steal like an artist 24) Mastery 25) Essentialism I love you all |
| Family › Re: If You Are In Your Twenties, Read This. by adexpa(m): 5:12pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
There's a real need to be serious and focus early and forever. One need to think about the kind of future he/she envisage and how to get there. I long for a powerful future,and looked for book that drives reality and sense to my brain early. I read books like poor dad rich dad, powerful of positive thinking, think and grow rich. I learnt from books that no job is menial, as long as you can earn reasonable money from it. I understood early that my certificate will not afford me the kind of future I envisaged. I understood that relationship with woman(girlfriend) should be treated like business; don't have girlfriend who can not take care of herself, don't listen to people who tells you marriage is a blessing. If you have to allow a woman into your life at all, let it be a woman with clear goal and direction, let it be a woman who is building her life already, don't go for a woman with entitlement; only pussy and appearance. Go for woman who believes she can make money and she's making it gradual already. Please, don't spend your early income on family, friends and woman, please don't start by building house, go for things that will increase your income, grow your sources of income at all cost. Think of what you can invest or business you can do while you're making money from either employment or side jobs. Please, do any job( danfo driver, marwa driver, bike rider, truck driver , goods transport), do not care about what people will say, drop your certificate once no job is forth coming after NYSC and involve yourself in any job that can give you money to move from one business to another. Please, avoid woman that's a liability or avoid woman completely at the beginning. Focus life seriously as a young man, women who have values will locate you with time . 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Peter Obi Tells Obidients How To Celebrate His 62nd Birthday by adexpa(m): 7:32pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Gullibility......it's so easy to fool poor masses because all they expect is a messiah. When people lost their rights to think, when they are clueless about the direction of their daily meal, they look for messiah. PO is like every genuine human, he is not different nor special, but because majority of his followers are not genuinely genuine, so they saw him as a messiah who is holier than everybody. PO is not different from the likes of Tinubu, Atiku and the rest. PO has taken advantage of Nigeria state to make wealth like every other successful business people. PO was never interested in politics until his lecturer encouraged him. Was Nigeria not in a bad state in those years he went to sit in UK and enter Nigeria as uncern citizen. He is a good guy like every other guys out there, but he is not the messiah people painted him. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Nigerians In The UK Are Really Suffering by adexpa(m): 12:27pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
The earlier we realise that grasses never green on it own, it requires water. No place is better other than the place you embraced and nurtured. There is economy crisis all over the world, and government can only try their best. No leaders has the right solution to economic crisis, they are only trying 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Career › Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by adexpa(m): 11:06am On Jul 06, 2023 |
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| Career › Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by adexpa(m): 8:51pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
OvertheTop:I will blame Davido because he was not ready to settle down when he publicly declared Chioma has his wife. Why doing such when you are not ready to commit yourself to the woman. The same with this guy, why bringing a woman on board when you are still struggling to discover path and purpose, you want her to suffer while you're struggling to find your fit. It's a no no for me. Find your path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then find a lady who is interested in that path to go with you |
| Career › Re: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by adexpa(m): 3:23pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
A man does not need any woman in the first place until he can define his path. Let him define his path and purpose, then he can invite a woman to journey together. I can not blame the lady because she was with her based on his previous path, and he has discovered a new path, he will have to walk the path to a reasonable end and them bring in a woman who is ready to go that path with him. It's foolishness when men complain about women leaving them for economically stabled men. Nobody wants to be suffered. Find a path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then bring a woman on board to walk together 5 Likes |
| Education › Re: Liang Shi Fails 27th Attempt At Passing University Entrance Exams by adexpa(m): 5:29pm On Jun 27, 2023 |
One of the beauty of life is the room for constant challenge. Life gets more interesting with constant urge to do more. I wish him success in the next trial 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Oil Theft: Navy Counters Asari Dokubo, Asks Him To Mention Names by adexpa(m): 2:38pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
His submission are true. Mr President only needs to thread with care. Nigeria military are all involved in all criminal acts in Nigeria. Nigeria military is powerful, and they can curtailed all atrocities in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Reuters: Baba Go-fast? Nigeria's Tinubu Stuns Wary Investors With Quick Reforms by adexpa(m): 10:01am On Jun 16, 2023 |
LegendHero: 2 Likes |
| Food › Re: Chef Dammy Surpasses Hilda Baci’s 100-Hour Cook-a-Thon Record by adexpa(m): 12:16pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
No need to hate, the space is there for everyone to exercise thier right and talent, but great credit to Hilda Baci for opening their eyes to the possibilities of the endless opportunity and grace. We are strong, passionate and determined people. We can do the unthinkable once we can imagine it. Thanks to both of them, more door and grace 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: After Meeting With Tinubu, Senators-elect Queue Behind Yari by adexpa(m): 7:30pm On Jun 11, 2023 |
Aside zoning, akpabio is not really showing the capacity. Senate leadership is different from executive leadership; Executive leadership has limited disagreement, while Senate leadership comes with many disagreement and opposition from the floor members. You have to be strong and tough in decision making to be a successful Senate leader. He can not be judged through his antecedents as former governor because he used executive powers has governor. |
| Politics › Re: Fuel Subsidy Is Organised Crime, Should Be Removed — Peter Obi Backs Tinubu by adexpa(m): 8:53pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
The one with perfect solution to a problem is he the spectator. Everyone continue saying Tinubu should not have made the decision immediately, some were saying he should plan before taking the step. Did we all realise that there was no plan for subsidy in the current budget from July; we expect the government to continue the trend of borrowing to take care of subsidy while planning to end the fraud right? We need to face reality sometime. Not everything you have to waste time planning, you take the action simultaneously with the planning sometimes. Difficult moment calls for Difficult decisions. |
| Politics › Re: Senate Approves Tinubu's Request To Appoint 20 Special Advisers by adexpa(m): 2:46pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
kerry57:He needs to wait for the 10th assembly before sending his ministerial list. The 9th assembly are winding down sessions and their sittings now are not for critical engagement any longer. |
| Celebrities › Re: Bashir, El-Rufai’s Son Mocks Falz For Doing Surgery Abroad (Photo) by adexpa(m): 9:18pm On May 11, 2023 |
Seriously, anyone can lay the path, it's not necessarily be the people holding public office. Falz can be a good example, he can use the opportunity to speak more to power. It will take Nigerians to build Nigeria. We should not be hypocritical with truth 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Miriam Onuoha Joins Speakership Race, Asks Male Candidates To Step Down by adexpa(m): 8:26am On Apr 13, 2023 |
It's good as she declared interest, but why asking male to step down. The best thing canvas members to support her rather than been gender psychological. I wish her the best 6 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Tinubu To Present Action Plan To Private Sector Leaders In Lagos by adexpa(m): 7:00pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
MasterShifu010:You have said the bitter truth, non of them can solve Nigeria's problem. Nigeria is a complicated entity that can not be easily solved. |
| Family › Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by adexpa(m): 11:54am On Dec 07, 2021 |
I think whoever that knows how to eat should know how to cook. There is no way you can enjoy eating outside all the time. Cooking is a skill that can easily be learn this days except the person in question is extremely lazy. |
| Phones › Re: We Should All Be Making Whatsapp Calls Instead Of Regular Phone Calls by adexpa(m): 8:20am On Nov 24, 2021 |
Op, it's like that in saner countries,calls off WhatsApp is seldom and majorly for short business or official conversations because of its clarity and other factors but most unofficial conversations are done majorly through WhatsApp. It's possible because everyone is either accessing personal data,office data, coffee shop data or restaurant data.....there is always room to be online all the time, but it will kinda tough in Nigeria due to cost of accessing internet, majority of people switched off data once they are not doing anything online to prevent underground data consumption. I hope we get there cus it's less expensive and better for long hour conversations 1 Like |
| Business › Re: Is It Possible For One To Retire In His 40s by adexpa(m): 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
It's possible but you have to start early (18 possibly) and it will have to be in a sane country where you will be able to raise loan along the line or grant. Jeff bezos, elon musk, mark, Dangote etc started early. You wouldn't have to stay in school for years cus school cut destiny short. |
| Politics › Re: IMF Tells FG To Remove Electric And Fuel Subsidies, Give More Jobs by adexpa(m): 2:47pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
The IMF advice is right in a saner/transparent system where everything works. You can not remove subsidy with the current minimum wage, the country with no subsidy works on minimum wage year in year out. The two bodies(nnpc/phcn) should be a total independent bodies. |
| Career › Re: Should I Further My Education Or Learn A Skill To Help My Family? by adexpa(m): 6:26pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Go find money first and possibly go to school later. School is for kids who are still figuring their route in life, you should be in serious pursue of life @29 n not talking about school anymore. If you can take a tough decision, I will advise you go into transportation either driving bus or Uber or whatever relating to transportation. You need to make money from dirty and hard jobs and later push them into business/something else. The earlier you realize that school will not give you the kind of life you hoped for the better..except you want to work for people. |
| Family › Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by adexpa(m): 7:42am On Nov 13, 2021 |
I do not hate any gender but truth be told, women marries their husbands most of time because of their selfish needs, they married because they found someone who can ease their burden(finance majorly), they do all kind of stuffs for the man in order to keep him footing their bills. I have a question for most women, Would you marry your husband or would you marry the time you got married suppose you are financially stable? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: I'm in love with a girl at my workplace. by adexpa(m): 9:34am On Nov 07, 2021 |
This is your problem. You are under pressure due to your age......Go and see 30s who are making good money but never think about marriage, you need to calm down, person wey get money and ready emotionally de marry. It's dangerous to be thinking of marriage base on your age. I no dey look any track...i belong to redpill fam, just that nigga needs to settle down. 29 already.[/quote] 2 Likes |
| Career › Re: Start Uber/Bolt As A Side Hustle Or Get A Piece Of Land : Your Opinion Please by adexpa(m): 5:57pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
I don't think this should be a debate for a reasonable person. How can you buy land and start building house with all your capital, house is not an asset if not for rent or sale. The first thing is to invest in what will give you return over time. You can always build house with your returns. 2 Likes |
| Career › Re: Why Women Should Get Into Male Dominated Jobs by adexpa(m): 7:19pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
The entire ideal is ...... women should jettison the orientation of dependence under disguise of no jobs. Until women can totally embrace the idealogy of what man can do a woman can do so, they will remain a slave indirectly. Seriously, many women would have become business owners if they could venture into some jobs they sees to be for men. With background knowledge in a particular field, it's easier to enter offices and convince directors to win contracts as a woman. This thread is not critics but a wake up call 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by adexpa(m): 8:00pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
The only person that should be looking for who to marry is a man/woman who's ready to marry, a woman/man who understands what it takes to be married and ready to face the responsibilities, a man/woman who's ready financial and emotional. Relationship/courtship for this set of people should not more than 6-12 months. A relationship with clear objectives coupled with specific definition. These set of people knows what they are looking for and can identify those things in few months. Any other relationship outside this is a waste/fun and not meaningful. People who are not ready for marriage should not be looking for something serious, they can have fun with whoever that got the time as they got too but there shouldn't be commitments because heartbroken is guaranteed, somebody will waste money and somebody will waste body. 1 Like |
