Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Advancedman(m): 1:13pm On May 22, 2020 |
ellapius: the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point Senseless. This is not rivalry or gender banter. |
Politics › Re: Gur Mohammed: Electricity Workers Protest In Abuja Over Sack Of MD by Advancedman(m): 6:37pm On May 20, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: IGP Adamu Exempts Doctors, Journalists, Nurses From Curfew by Advancedman(m): 4:09pm On May 20, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Man Kills And Buries His Cousin In Edo Over N2 Million (Graphic Photos) by Advancedman(m): 11:11am On May 20, 2020 |
Davash222: Police don starve nonsense comot for this one body. He deserves it. No, Oga read well |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Prepare For The Worst - Osagie Ehanire Tells Nigerians by Advancedman(m): 11:20pm On May 19, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Anita & Jide: Man Who Earns ₦15m Asks His Fiancee Who Earns ₦42m To Quit Her Job by Advancedman(m): 7:22pm On May 19, 2020 |
Donald3d:

In marriage, or in this case proposed marriage, compromise is key. Couples need to start seeing themselves as team players, treating the relationship and marriage as a business. Whichever decision is the best for the team, in the long run, should be the best decision .
Ask yourself, if you were running a business and you have an option of getting an investor of 42 or 15m, which would you take ?
Its not like he is losing his job, he is just getting transferred, all he has to do is "measure up" in other areas of the marriage.
Jide, move to Lagos and be with your wife, as long as you know and you are sure, at least, sure enough, that she isn't a proud person.
Men should stop feeling intimidated by women.
In this case, its not like he is broke, poor or jobless. This is just plain ego and "what would people say"
One of the best ways to succeed in anything, especially marriage is ignoring what people would say.
Marriage shouldn't be a battle field of who is better, but it should be a place where winning and improvement should be the priority.
In the long run, what matters in marriage is that you have more wins than loses.
EDIT :
I can see some people quoting me  If you feel intimated by a woman earning more than you, then mutual respect really doesn't exist and you are basing your control of your home solely on your financial power.
I am not saying a man should not earn money and take care of his family .
But have you every asked yourself, why some women married to wealthy men who take care of all their needs still cheat on them ?
Money isn't everything, there are so many other aspects of marriage besides money.
In this case its funny, because the man isn't even broke at all. He is wealthy, at least by Nigerian standards.
Na wa for una
Make una sha follow me for twitter www.twitter.com/NaijaSteveJobs Hide is a fool and he is not good, not prepared and above all a stupid fellow. just remove marriage from the issue and deal with it as job offer option. Banks are sacking and can sack at anytime without or little compensation but oil company is international offer yet the investment and entrepreneurship opportunity is there. |
Health › Re: 22-year-old Coronavirus Patient Gives Birth To Twins At LUTH by Advancedman(m): 4:33pm On May 19, 2020 |
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Health › Re: "COVID-19 Is A Scam" - Discharged Delta Patient Says by Advancedman(m): 6:39pm On May 18, 2020 |
ddippset: 1. Corona virus is real. 2. Corona virus is in Nigeria. 3. We may have inaccurate test kits. 4. We may have unqualified testing personnels. 5. A good number of the people being quarantined actually do not have corona due to 3 and 4 above. 6. There is no cure for corona. 7. Corona virus is less potent in Africa than in the West. 8. The best option is to keep everyone at home and give reasonable palliatives to go round for everybody. 9. The Government does not have to means to do number 8 above. 10. Corona virus is real and is here with us!
Do not let hunger stand between you and your safety and thereby fall for the trick that corona is audio.
Do your best to stay corona-free!. Campaigner until it kills you I don't believe. |
Health › Re: "COVID-19 Is A Scam" - Discharged Delta Patient Says by Advancedman(m): 6:37pm On May 18, 2020 |
Aditkd: Hmmn, am in the medical profession and I can tell you that this virus is real, already I have 2 of my good friends in isolation so pls everyone be careful. Finito. I was expecting you to be positive not your friends. |
Health › Re: "COVID-19 Is A Scam" - Discharged Delta Patient Says by Advancedman(m): 6:36pm On May 18, 2020 |
Enoch07: so because of this coronavirus is a scam abi oga Since you want to die of its reality you shall surely have it that way and it shall wipe you and your likes away. |
Health › Re: "COVID-19 Is A Scam" - Discharged Delta Patient Says by Advancedman(m): 6:33pm On May 18, 2020 |
Enoch07: no be scam o this shiit is very real Your family get am abi una bi carrier? |
Politics › Re: Governors’ Excesses In Implementation Of COVID-19 Lockdown Measures (PICS) by Advancedman(m): 7:51pm On May 17, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Governor Fayemi Thanks Ekiti COVID-19 Donors (Full List) by Advancedman(m): 7:47pm On May 17, 2020 |
Council of elders 50k is too small. |
Romance › Re: Dutch Official Advice To Single People: Find A Sex Buddy For Lockdown by Advancedman(m): 10:55am On May 16, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Why Canada Denied Air Peace Right To Evacuate Stranded Nigerians - Onyeama by Advancedman(m): 10:12am On May 15, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: US Vows To Monitor $32.8m COVID-19 Spending In Nigeria by Advancedman(m): 9:11pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: COVID-19: Lagos Lockdown Online Vote by Advancedman(m): 9:08pm On May 13, 2020 |
A lockdown is the most brainless way to fight the Coronavirus. Our leaders need to activate their faculties and figure out better, smarter ways.
Gbosa Gbosa Gbosa. |
Politics › Re: Emir Ibrahim Sulu-Gambari Thanks Buhari For Appointing Gambari As Chief Of Staff by Advancedman(m): 1:24pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Who Do We Blame For A Child's Failure? by Advancedman(m): 12:37pm On May 13, 2020 |
gRESEARCHER: 20% Father 50% Mother 30% Society Do society plan to have the child? |
Sports › Re: Wenger Picks Kanu As His Greatest-ever Arsenal January Signing by Advancedman(m): 11:31pm On May 12, 2020 |
Honor10: Papilo was a great striker, although okocha was more skillful but kanu has greater achievement and was more celebrated.
To think okocha never won African best, was beyond me. Sir this is very important even in informal or casual discussion always stick to the subject and shun third parties in every necessary way, the discussion here is about Kanu, Wenger and Arsenal, so what brought comparison with Okocha? If you take this little advice you will be glad you did. |
Crime › Re: EFCC Returns $4040 To Brazilian Lady Scammed By Yahoo Boy by Advancedman(m): 12:18pm On May 12, 2020 |
Iyiataata92: All these ones go dey spoil hustle for boys. Boy romance chick get money from her, wetin concern you there? babe no fit dash her guy money again? Hello EFCC knocking at your signature. |
Family › Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Advancedman(m): 10:14pm On May 11, 2020 |
How do I post on nairaland? |
Celebrities › Re: E-Money Steps Out In Style With Police Security (Photos) by Advancedman(m): 10:11pm On May 11, 2020 |
Airforce1: E-money is all shades of class as he steps out in style in stunning outfits.
Five star C.E.O, Emeka Okonkwo, popularly known as E-money, steps out in style rocking his finely customised nose mask on a beautifully designed native dress as he steps out in style .
The billionaire business took to his social media page to share photos with his 6million followers .
Do you like?
See photos below.
Link: https://www.instagram.com/p/CAC7D8ynC9G/?igshid=9fe1ss165pty Hope say you no dey Wike domain ooo. |
Family › Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Advancedman(m): 3:08pm On May 11, 2020 |
rhymesu28: My people, I greet you all.
I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.
I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.
For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.
How should I go about this matter please? Her mission is to level you and this is a sign for you. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Several Sailors Killed After Iran Missile 'Accidentally' Strikes Own Ship (Pics) by Advancedman(m): 3:04pm On May 11, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Lebanese 'Mr B' Kidnapped In Rivers State by Advancedman(m): 11:36pm On May 10, 2020 |
Ctorch: They kidnapped Mr B from Owerri to Rivers state yesterday. He is so lucky to be rescued. The guys invited him for a business and then kidnapped him for money.
They told him they were looking for a white man to play a role in their new movie. He drove from Owerri to meet his kidnappers in Rivers state. He's been living in Nigeria for over 30 years.
His kidnappers follows him on Facebook and Instagram - they were his fans too. The only one left to watch over him is the one arrested when police came to rescued him
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=570792220513728&id=295645544695065 Wike hand is in it because he was enforcing lockdown so how did they cross the border. |
Politics › Re: Wike Orders Arrest Of PHED CEO, Sends Him To Isolation Center by Advancedman(m): 11:30pm On May 10, 2020 |
AfroKnight: Wike desperately needs attention. No 15 billion for you bro. You can only punish your citizens and auction their vehicles and demolish their businesses. He will end up putting the state treasury in legal financial mess with litigants compensation. |
Politics › Re: Wike Orders Arrest Of PHED CEO, Sends Him To Isolation Center by Advancedman(m): 11:27pm On May 10, 2020 |
Realcash224: This man no get respect at all. he ask police to take the man to isolation centre, to be isolate for two weeks. Also directed mobile police men on escort with the man to treak home. He is the governor and trekking for the mopols honey my Belle well well. |
Career › Re: N5 Million Cash Or A 100k Job? Help Him Decide by Advancedman(m): 11:18pm On May 10, 2020 |
SageMK: If he's jobless, he should accept the job offer. But if he's employed, he should accept the cash. Brilliant answer. The term jobless is unique. |
Romance › Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Advancedman(m): 9:34pm On May 09, 2020 |
Preciousgirl: My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.
I am not endorsing this, what do you advise? Kill yourself so that the woman will turn 23. |
Politics › Re: Coronavirus: Sanwo-Olu Mulls Another Lockdown by Advancedman(m): 9:33pm On May 09, 2020 |
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Health › Re: COVID-19: 381 New Cases Reported, 4 Deaths And 67 Discharged On May 7 by Advancedman(m): 11:34pm On May 07, 2020 |
Nbote: E don dey red Nothing dey red E never hit 2,000,000 per day. |