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FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by advanceDNA:
idahme:
Which double standard? His dad has always supported him all through his education until his bagged his first degree. Will he crucify him because he didn't turn up as expected during his masters degree abroad?
he provides for the father monthly ..how is that crucifying him...?? Must he drive a car .?? I don't get you..

idahme:
Are you saying because his dad didn't do as expected during his postgraduate education the dad didn't support him?
he could have done more for his son which would position him for better opportunities but he ddnt despite he could afford it .. but u are trying to make it look like it doesn't matter while It matters and that's why called it a mistake below but yet u are trying to make it seem like he ddnt do anything wrong

idahme:
of you haven't had any responsibility like having a child and wife and you wouldn't know what others go through until you go through that process.
its funny u are mentioning responsibility and trying to invalidate us that supports supporting a child when we can afford it instead of marrying another wife... It's called sacrifice bro Incase u don't know...

idahme:
Fathers aren't allowed to make a mistake, once a father makes one mistake all his good deeds from age zero to undergraduate degree is nullity that's what you are saying which doesn't depict the good memory before the postgraduate education issues
His good deeds shouldn't be forgotten....So why are u too trying to erase the sons good deeds because he doesn't want to buy extra luxury for the man?? He already pays him monthly salary....He provided to bachelors level and refused to do more.....so let him collect Nigerian bachelors degree salary from his son.

Na oh lest I forget ...just as fathers are allowed to make mistakes mistake.....Let the son make mistake too naaa....
PoliticsRe: NIMC Mobile App Dead For Six Months And Nigerians Don't Seems To Care by advanceDNA: 4:17pm On Nov 25, 2024
Pray4meJC:
Does anyone know a better way to print out my digital nin slip? The app is dead for more than 6 months and there seems not to be solution in sight. This morning I sent a mail and this is their response lol.
Nigeria na country so 😂😂😂 😭😭😭

In the next two days, the portal where this ID is needed will close
Lol....be like u just land nigeria..u are sending email?? Hahahahahahahaha!!

If it works ..how do u want them to make money at NIMC office?.....all systems, protocol, agency, government or wateva are rigged not to work well, so that embezzlement and exploitation of the pple can thrive in a seamless manner...

Go to NIMC office..they will charge u btw 2k to 7k depending how exploitable to look
Foreign AffairsRe: Suspects In Israeli Rabbi's Murder Are From Uzbekistan(photos) by advanceDNA: 4:02pm On Nov 25, 2024
Shadomaan7:
The killing of the rabbi is not an act of terrorism. It's personal.

The killers must have had issues with him before

Lol...the rabbi must have offended them...??

Rabbi or no Rabbi,.....everybody na Infidel to Muslims and killable for 72 virgins
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by advanceDNA: 3:55pm On Nov 25, 2024
luminouz:
Lol..it's always funny when y'all fighting over this dude's story. He has clearly made up his mind on who to love more between his mum and dad. He would never buy a car for his dad.

I'm tired of advising!!!
I don't get ..which one is fighting over dropping counting opinions......So we can't catch cruise and give pple sliding back tackle on nairaland again?
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by advanceDNA: 3:52pm On Nov 25, 2024
Karleb:
I find it funny that it's people that give so little that demand the most. I am sure that the mum would never ask him to buy her a car.

On God, what I hate most in this world is irresponsibility. angry angry
No mind them....shameless pple....

U had money to help ur son to position him abroad where he can be fairly stable but refused....u now want to demand for luxury because u paid for bachelors degree.... Like he doesn't know how many bachelors degree holder dey this country that can't afford ordinary food ..

He should manage Nigerian bachelors degree allowance.... car koor, skate board niiii
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by advanceDNA: 3:47pm On Nov 25, 2024
idahme:
His dad sponsored his welfare, education to undergraduate level and if his father's decision while he is pursuing his postgraduate education affected him does it mean all the goods his dad did from zero age till he graduated from school is nullity?
U are just using double standard....

The father ddnt support him when he need more studies abroad.... you are claiming that's okay because the father already supported him for bachelors....

But now it's not okay that the son pays him monthly allowance...why should the son do unnecessary extra.....the father should be okay with monthly salary just as he expected his son to be okay with bachelors...
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by advanceDNA: 3:37pm On Nov 25, 2024
Klass99:
Modified to add: Your father did not significantly harm you in any way. That he refused to send you to obodo, should not cancel all of the good things he did or got right.
Not buying him a car won't significantly hurt his father either too..he already gives him money monthly which is also a good thing like u are claiming the father did...
.. U are just guilt trippin the guy to do more than he doesn't have to do...it's not like he's a billionaire because he lives abroad .....
RomanceRe: Man Cancels A Date Because She Wouldn’t Send Money For His Haircut: Thought? by advanceDNA: 1:57pm On Nov 25, 2024
Lol...sarcasm on steroids..


See sliding back tackle....!!!!
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 11:38am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Lol... You can't describe big dreams, for no one will see it the same way as you.

You live dreams for others to see.
U are not doing enough for her to believe...ur woman supposed be ur number one fan...

Oyedepo said he will build thousands of churches fly in the air, and people in far will hear him speak far back as 1980s when he was in kaduna needing 78 naira for rent of church premises, driving a car that needed pushing to start.....of course some wont believe... But people wey align still align because he won't shut up about it and kept making moves
FashionRe: ''Forgive Us!'' South African Lady Apologises To Chidimma And Nigeria by advanceDNA: 11:33am On Nov 25, 2024
UltraSolid:
Dullard. Most Nigerians don't give a toss about you lot or your lousy country mainly famous for xenophobic attacks.

I personally don't want anything to do with South Africans or South Africa in any shape or form. You can tackle the Nigerians who come to your wretched Country. They deserve whatever they get there because proud and principled folks don't go where they are unwelcomed.

The few South Africans I have met are bland and insipid anyway so I really don't know what gives you clowns the liver to come on a Naija site to chat nonsense.
Why do yall like giving this dude attention... I mean ..the nigga is just one person on a Nigerian forum.....u can easily make him non-existent
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 11:27am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
I did and made practical examples. She felt it will be too stressful and we'll have little time to enjoy what we gathered.

All she wanted is a normal life, locate to the abroad and start a family. But I love this country with all my soul and always feel my talents and intelligence is meant to contribute something valuable for the society to enjoy. She felt I'll make too many enemies for myself towing that path.

I love challenges, especially the ones that brings out the creativity in me. I love taking on tough tasks, I derive a lot of pleasure takling what many see as impossible.
All these your so called goal...have u made any tangible move towards it for her to see say no be play play or hobby..as a man if u dreams, calling are big enough and u are pursuing it ..the woman amd even others around you go naturally fall in line without being told or forced.....
RomanceRe: Imagine The Mentality Of An Average Woman by advanceDNA: 11:25am On Nov 25, 2024
SyrusdeHansome:
I just stumbled on this and I must confess that at this point I don't blame any man who deliberately doesn't wanna get married. 90% of women have the mentality of this woman. They rarely take responsibility for their wrong doing. Sometimes u just ask urself whether most women really possess brains.
They have brain....Most of them don't marry for love..they open their two eyes and marry for their gain.......that's why they are ruthless in their moves and no send your papa when the chips are down......

Na una dey marry for lust or love or wateva the fvcK u call it...

What men will never get...is weda na u pour sperm wey make the baby or not...a women naturally feels she has more ownership than you.......so either way, u are just a bankroller
CrimeRe: Inside The Nigerian 'Miracle' Fertility Scam In Anambra State by advanceDNA: 10:47am On Nov 25, 2024
Long con...
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 10:38am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
The thing is I've had this discussions with her many times, but she always shut down the idea.

I always feels my life mission is greater than anything else in life, even marriage. For I believe we are not in this life to just make a family and die, I believe in impactations that affects generations.

I feel using my idealistic intelligence to better my society as a greater calling. That is where we have differences.
It's a long term goals right...may be you are not articulating it well to her...you don't talk about it often for her to hear so she'll know how Important it is to you....
mayb she just thinks it's one of those by the way things and doesn't see it as a deal breaker .....
For someone that probably see herself as someone that changed ur life...you haven't put yourself up there for her to look up to and actually take ur goals serious( which could be ur loop hole to break up)

Right now..u just sound like a child doing well in secondary school now telling her mum he wants to become and astronaut yet the mum just feels like weeeeeellllll.....that feeling will pass
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 9:16am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
I believed you read my story. I still live in the apartment the first lady got me even though I paid the last rent.

Moreover, the first lady is definitely good looking and of course we had sex multiple times and I enjoyed it. My only issue here is the demands of my parents and my life mission for she doesn't stand for the same thing as me.

I told her how I intend to retire, she is against that. She want us to live a normal life like others. But the urge in me wants more than a normal life, I always felt the needs to give to my society the best possible ways. She founds those ideas as stressful and dangerous.
Then u have a way out naaa...tell her ur long term goals to align that it feels kike u are wasting time with each other ....then hope she accepts and walk away
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 8:57am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Hhhmmmm... Omo, una dey make me dey fear like this.
There is a reason d statement exist for women

"hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

Just be careful how u discharge her.. if ur story is true

Btw....the truth is....wateva u feel for this new lady is just lust.... Why u nor just try open ur mind to the idea of dating the first lady....?? Is she ugly? She dey smell?? Too old?? Has bad character?? She's not fvckable??

get to know her .....kiss her first, if there is fire works...that's enough to start with

we need to stop all this marrying a woman just becos she make ur testosterone go haywire. It just lust..

Marry for kindness, team playing, respect, peace of mind cos that's what we need in marriage at the end of the day...
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 7:40am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Nah man... I hate getting worried about anything, but I've been worried the past few days than I have ever.

I believe I'll get it right at the end.
U had better be worried...women don't like getting a taste of their own medicine
RomanceRe: How Society Judges Men For Expressing Emotions by advanceDNA: 6:17am On Nov 25, 2024
Most Men don't care about all these ....na another gender dey always cry over everything pple say about them
RomanceRe: She Said She Is Not Romantic , Advice Needed Please by advanceDNA: 2:00am On Nov 25, 2024
handsomeyitayo:
please share more light please
The things is..most women are not usually upfront with the negatives about themselves

... If a woman is upfront like this..it's usually a case of a tip of the iceberg...there is usually something they are not telling you that is being packaged with small truth..

For example...It's like a lady telling you she was a runs girl before but ddnt tell you she slept with every guy on ur street and has damaged womb...
RomanceRe: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by advanceDNA: 1:46am On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
How do I repay back the first lady? At this junction, I found the woman of my dreams, my parents have been so happy with me than ever before. I need your advice guys.
.lol..u sure this story ma real.?? most Nigerian women too stingy for this kind levels.... but if na real........Ur egungun don nearly reach express grin
RomanceRe: She Said She Is Not Romantic , Advice Needed Please by advanceDNA: 1:28am On Nov 25, 2024
handsomeyitayo:
How do I handle this of her not Romantic...am tired of staffing oloshos ... trying to have a serious relationship that will lead to marriage
....she is not Romantic that wat she told me and am a sexually active matured man... please I need advice
Run oooo... Run oooo... she has told u now ooo....
Some women will not tell u the truth...u will hear "don't worry"...when we marry u will see all the romance amd sex u want.....na scam...

This one has told u....and trust me, u can't begin to know the full meaning of what she meant by that statement....u dont want to find out
Foreign AffairsRe: Mali Becomes The First African Country To Be Debt Free by advanceDNA: 6:19pm On Nov 24, 2024
DiamondsAreFore:
But that's not what your headline says. Your headline said that they are debt free without going into details and judging from the reactions here, most believe that you're talking about total debt freedom.

Mali is heavily dependent on foreign aid to finance their budget.

The idea of any African country being debt free is so absurd that only a fool would believe it
The owner of the topic is a blogger trying to drag you into his YouTube content ...it's jist a sensationalized headline to draw pple in
CrimeRe: Verydarkman Opens Secrets About Missing Money, Faults Access Bank With Evidence by advanceDNA: 5:18pm On Nov 24, 2024
Next of kin..?? ..lol...
Foreign AffairsRe: Mali Becomes The First African Country To Be Debt Free by advanceDNA: 5:11pm On Nov 24, 2024
DiamondsAreFore:
I get my news from credible sources
Lol..credible source??....u are trying to form papaz on top what's all over the internet...

...what their finance minister meant by debt free is internal debt....they owe 322million from.internal sources ....so its technically not a lie

They still owe external debt tho...
Foreign AffairsRe: Mali Becomes The First African Country To Be Debt Free by advanceDNA:
DiamondsAreFore:
Only a fool would actually believe this story
It's a lie because a low profile Debt of 322 million dollars is impossible to have been repaid??
FamilyRe: How To Handle A Situation A Wife Feels That Husband Shld Bear All Family Res by advanceDNA: 3:12pm On Nov 24, 2024
..Open your eyes and marry strategically...una nor hear....


See how ruthless this woman is?? No gree for anybody......even ur partner...
Christianity EtcRe: Some Of The Most Hilarious Placards From #WorldaSexualPurityDay (Photos) by advanceDNA: 10:26am On Nov 24, 2024
Mindlog:
The random nigga who is very likely hypersexual...that is the hypocrisy of it. cheesy cheesy wink
There is actually no hypocrisy in this issue....u are the one commiting fallacy by assuming every man is hypersexual and that men should approach marriage the same way they approach casual sex....Even companies don't use same criteria to hire full staff and contract staff.. grin
Christianity EtcRe: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by advanceDNA:
FuckYeyeMods:
I'm married but sincerely, marriage is not all it seems.
If you're not very strong, the institution can break you. Married people are really trying.
Women are smarter than y'all..... Na una dey marry for love while most women marry for business, weda you are Ned Nwoko or just a regular guy making 350k or 70k per month, it's just business, love is by the way....
......which makes them see clearly and act ruthlessly while y'all are being patient, quiet, being frustrated, being walked over.. grin grin

Men need to start marrying with two eyes open...all these love or lust or wateva y'all call it is what makes men suffer in their marriage
Foreign AffairsRe: Mali Becomes The First African Country To Be Debt Free by advanceDNA: 3:31am On Nov 24, 2024
Kdon2:
All these vitriol because you want to shade your country. How do you expect the country to prosper you☹️
Y'all supporters and placaters of bad leaders won't face the real problem...u won't. tackle your leaders embezzling our revenue away with lies of reforms and building bridges and 1km road for 80billion naira .... It's angry citizens you will be tackling for speaking about the wrongs in the nation....

Shading koor, drawing niiii
PoliticsRe: We Will Soon Begin Raid On Betting Shops - Hisbah by advanceDNA: 3:22am On Nov 24, 2024
ivandrag0n:
Gambling is a Jewish vice? Whathuh What a wicked statement!!!

May it never be well with you for that statement that tarnishes an entire race!!!
That's what they yeah them in their mosque..
RomanceRe: To The Guys About To Get Married by advanceDNA: 3:18am On Nov 24, 2024
Factcheck0001:
just Dey play
Lol...sadly, the nigga has fallen for the mood swing excuse.. I hope his patience can boil stone because he will need it in his marriage
RomanceRe: To The Guys About To Get Married by advanceDNA: 3:09am On Nov 24, 2024
tunnyl:
Thanks sis. Amen 🙏. Its not easy o. Its a very hard job, you guys should take it easy with us men also. Especially the teachable ones.
Sigh! ...its not supposed to be a very hard job because it should be two pple being kind to & helping each ..but over time, women and even stupid marriage motivational speakers have turned marriage into a one sided duty where a man needs to do all his can, be patient all the time, be unhappy, condone bad behavior, leave his house to avoid trouble, etc because marriage has automatically been tagged "very hard" grin

lucky for your wife... and, otherwise for you, you have packed both present & future fvck up under the umbrella of mood swings

They like men like u a lot...they will soon come and praise u because they averagely don't like being responsible for their actions,

I hope u married a kind, fair woman, otherwise .....the lord is ur strength oooo...

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