₦airaland Forum

pryme:
Well as a man there is this inherent need to take care of a woman, cos it's built in you a man, call it primal instincts.
Luckily there are women that are worth taking care of.

Lol....This one say na primal instinct....

As in.... u mean this small car has 12 fvcking cylinders??

G0Oodharddick:
I am shocked whenever I see a broke girl saying she doesn't want or can't date a broke guy, someone in the same category as she. Someone even go as far as saying he isn't in their level

You're broke, your parents are broke, where do you ladies get your Morales from that a rich man would suddenly see you somehow and marry you? What value are you providing? Do you think rich men drive around town in their Ferraris looking for broke women?

...the average broke girl naturally thinks she's on the same level with billionaires ..
...I saw a hidden camera video of a guy trying to toast a random chick who told him he's not her type.
...nigga decided to move to his lamborgini when the werey girl quickly ran to meet him to apologize for being rude earlier..
...nigga asked her why she changed her mind all of sudden since he's not her type earlier
...and the werey, with no skate board to her name had the nerve to say she can see now they guy is on her level.....like wtf...

Na low self esteem men with captain save a skirt mentality dey cause cause some of these things

Lol.....the victim card playing has finally started..

I was waiting for it...

IamMobisola:
What has a married man looking for loyalty from another woman got to do with the epistle you just wrote? Hmm, foolishness at its peak. No wonder lots of women are involved in DNA sagas. Y'all deserve each other and whatever you get.

The problem with you is that u are talking out of your emotions and just throwing insult that means nothing.. you don't talk based on existing realities......u shouldn't be asking me this question....Ask your gender why they share other pples husband and even birth kids why they do it...
I mentioned earlier that not every woman has the luxury of having her own man ..and thats the fact ..some pple settle for sharing by being the mistress outside because it's the closest thing to marriage they will get.....

U are talking of .paternity fraud ....that's ur gender's normal behavior naaaaa weda married or single or side chic..even the women legally married at home commits paternity fraud so what's ur point??

..we have even seen many cases that the children the legal wife at home birthed are all paternity product but its the side mistress that birthed his biological kid....

See madam u nor get point...na insult u get

mrkings84:
ONLY ME AND THE OP KNOWS THAT THIS STORY IS NOT TRUE.

because Stvpid guys like that don't exist?? Or girls are kind and holy and will never do that to a guy??

Germi9:
Na him the thing happen to , no mind the simp

I know naaa..it showed later in story when he address himself instead of the so called friend.... He wrote that the babe was no longer interested in seeing "me" instead of "my friend"

IamMobisola:
Did you say "loyal to you"? A married man looking for loyalty from another woman not his wife? Lmao. Foolish men everywhere

Lol.. ..u women pretend alot, living in delusion and denial....so u have not seen side chic/mistress gladly sharing another woman's husband...u think every woman has the luxury of having her own rich husband??

So all these women, dating and birthing kids for married men nko??

Or U have not seen men with wife abroad and mistress in Nigeria, with apartment and kids??

Before u start calling pple foolish...mayb u should look at the mirror

tanigororo:
Foreign use with Nigeria Number on it.
Dey Play

Which state in Nigeria is California?? Abi u nor know how Nigerian plates look like??

Lol..

Flamemignon1:
Yea...... because the right cares about the people lol

Try dey read.....it will save u some stress..... I mentioned politicians....I never excluded right or left

Dynoz01:
everywhere drooling over gay threads... moronic slowpoke!

Gay thread??
Sigh!!

I thought this is about trump, minors, vulnerable gender confused pple being exploited by the biotech companies and plastic surgeons ...

....but I guess it's normal for y'all gay folks to make everything about u...pele

Proudlyngwa:
All you said Earlier , Nigerian women are capable of doing, what the don't have is physical strength to see it through.

And Lucifer didn't need physical strength.

That being said Angels are presumed sexless but mostly take on male traits in physical form based on Thier roles.

Yawn...!! ....I didn't know pple need strength to be president and other forms of leadership position or even make a wish ....

..nigga like I said earlier ...opinion is free....

Proudlyngwa:
This confirms you have not really met a Nigerian woman

Lol......opinion is free

badblackgod:
I want to know if this is normal, or it's a set up

Just go with flow ..sometimes attraction can be mutual and real.....return her energy with equal energy but don't be a captain save a skirt and don't be desperate for sexx...let it come to you nigga...
.try to remember if u were in ur neutral state the day u met,..i.e, no flashy car, gadget, or ur status that's influencing her interest in u....

If she fake..u will know with time.. ..if she start asking for food stuff, hungry things, house rent, or that her birthday is Nov 26th...baba ...na broken arrow..... Jappaaaa

Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore

She should go to hell naaaa.....So all the other money nko?? Otilor?? Sigh!!

Btw..why u just sending money anyhow to a girl u met online and hasn't proven to valuable or loyal to you....u just opening urself to easy exploitation..... Do u just feel u have to pay a woman to make them think u are serious...? Paying makes them think u are mugú

Make a women like u first, see that she's really into you, before u start being nice with your urgent 5K

Proudlyngwa:
I don't think you have met Nigerian women before

Nigerian women...?? Nigga u just yarning for yarning sake, instead of yarning based on existing realities....
Ask an average Nigerian girl to make a wish that will surely come true...and she won't wish for her own truckload of money or to be the most powerful....she's gonna wish for rich amd powerful man...

The average woman prefers sexually transmitted wealth, things handed to them to free....
.if u doubt me ...how female leaders do we have? All most of them do is play victim they men ddnt give them chance on leadership seat. How many female billionaires do we have??

Veetee:
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

So ..baba did u get ur money back or u just simp for nothing??

castins:
Yes, the plan is for her to get permanent residency, and the family may join later on.

Egungun be careful...u don dey nearly reach express way...

hush15:
What happened to being the best version of ourselves and not what we are not?

they are technically taking ur advice....they are "living their truth"

Proudlyngwa:
Why do you feel the devil was a man

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because women are not that ambitious & crazy to pull off what lucifer achieved and tried to achieve..... 🤣🤣

Pharaoh4rin:
You countered him without saying anything tangible

Countered him?? Lol
. comprehension level isn't the same across board, so its all good that u dont get it

Pochettino:
We women have 2 seconds women amongst us

U and ur friend don settle??

Mopeola:
U should have a way to calm her down in other for you to cum because in few days u might be having a bladder pains

Bladder pains?? In a few days??

Is this the scam ur man use for you??

JASONjnr:
But Kamala is a straight woman and she's married to a man.

Why is she supporting gay people?

Don't be naive..everything is a game of politics and numbers to politicians......

.they don't care about the people...every move is a strategy.. They only care about themselves and their party

Softmirror:
Now you get my point. As simple as A,B,C.

Get ur point?? ...I was only explaining mine...

Softmirror:
Exactly the narrow mindset I am talking about. Lol 😂. Most of you have this mentality that once a woman is married as a virgin then that equates to fidelity but in reality

i never said virginity is a guarantee of anything...u nust assumed whatever u liked.... I specifically said the ops suggestion is just basic risk management....but its clear u dont get the context of risk management

Softmirror:
. A virgin married to a man who after a few months travelled out of the country and have been there for years. His virgin wife unable to hold herself any longer soughted for a sexual comforter.

like i said earlier..u can create as many hypothetical scenario as u like.. doesn't nullify the place of discipline in chastity
.....and this discipline is not something that just jump out of things air after a wedding ceremony or a ring in the finger..... It's usually an over the years practice......
If u want a decent, sexually disciplined woman for marriage which many pple want ....u can decide to chose a random woman you have no idea what her body counts and hope for the best or make take a more calculated risk, even though u dont have any guarantees.

Softmirror:
Being a virgin doesn't define Sexual discipline because it is very subjective to circumstances and the truth is some people who before marriage who avoided sex before marriage do lack that 'discpline' after getting married also subjective to circumstances in their matrimony. Men are too deluded about 'VIRGINITY' so much that they get carried away from REALITY of what makes a successful marriage.

Lol.....u read my comment, saw that my context is on women who are consciously sexually disciplined, not throwing their bodies at available penis....., but u are creating ur non-existence circumstances just to nullify the discipline as part of journey of lady that consciously refuse to sleep with men enticing her...

Baba.....wateva version makes u sleep well at night is totally fine by me

Softmirror:
In Northern Nigeria it is a FACT that girls are being married at very early puberty age very most likely Virgins. What is their success story? I understand your point but there is more to marriage than narrowing it to a piece of HY-MEN

Lol....You are the one trying to make it about only the hymen...... it is actually about sexually discipline

different levels of sexual discipline exist.. what the op is suggesting is just basic risk management, but everyone, weda man or woman is free to choose to a life partner based on their risk appetite and ofcourse live with the consequences....