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Maeve7:
Whether you pay or don’t pay, the child still carries your ”advanced dna“ and is innocent in all of this. If you don’t have a conscience, that’s on you. Just don’t come later talking how you had no chance to be a father because the mother bla bla bla.

Yawn!!!!!!! No amount of guilt trippin will make a man marry a woman he's not interested in or be responsible for kid he clearly ddnt wasn't expecting......aat the end of the day it's best to direct this ur preaching to those spreading legs for random niggas and thinking keeping the well make him marry or start sending money for upkeep...

Lol....

U say wetin?? 178M .....

Apostle will hear of this.!!.... Funke!!

bukatyne:
I am talking of a natural universal phenomenon; you are talking of a temporal situation.

Besides, who told you that all women who 'trap' men with pregnancy are looking for child support?

How and when did I say all women trap men with pregnancy??

Sigh......

I'm not going to explain myself...if u dnt get it forget it....

kkins25:
If I were the one who would bear the brunt of a 9-month pregnancy, I'd be very meticulous about who penetrates my body. It just appears so common sense to me.



There's this Kenyan or Ugandan woman on TikTok, who says the same. Women approach the world thinking it exists to comfort them. "Men should be responsible so that I don't have to suffer." That's what's going on in a woman's head.

If you have a lot to lose in any interaction, the burden falls on you to ensure you protect yourself.

I mean, even female lizards ensure only the bright-colored agama lizard impregnates them. Pretty common sense.

You're a woman with no intention of getting pregnant. But you're going to man's house without protection? You see him chuk dick inside, and didn't stop to ask them to wear protection? Just lay there like a bag of beans and collect the contents of the man's sack. It's nuts, I tell you, nuts!

Women are funny.....we all want to fvck...but women always never want to be responsible for the outcome of spreading their legs and not using contraceptives afterwards.....

Yeah no one is denying the nigga ddnt cum......but the decision to let sperm fertilize ur egg or use contraceptive is totally urs..especially when a nigga paid u to get a contraceptive

Like I always say...the joke is always on them because even in saner climes where child support is seriously enforced .....niggas still refuse to pay and some gladly go and receive free food from government and one bedroom self contain in the penitentiary...

bukatyne:
Well, welcome to the leverage nature has given women.

Women can force men to be fathers (at least financially); a man cannot force a woman to be a mother.

I expect every man who doesn't want to be a father to zip up or be 100% responsible for ensuring he doesn't get a woman pregnant.

Welcome to Nigeria where child support is 15k per child per month...and enforcement is weak.... The joke is on the woman who decides to tie down one random nigga that told her to use a contraceptive in the first place

Damian911:
They'll need to vow to the Israeli government that if granted an independent state they'll pose no threat and they must stand by the vow and not try playing smart because they're the pawn in the game.

This is not possible...Islamic pple see fighting and killing Jews and Christians as worship to Allah....they must harass,kidnap, kill whoever they feel is an infidel.....

dominique:
You couldn't abstain?
You couldn't use protection?
You couldn't get a vasectomy or use routine spermicide injections?

If you don't want to deal with the consequences of unprotected sex then DON'T DO IT! Any human being with a functioning brain should know this but they must always blame the results of their stupidity on someone else.

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Y'all just like double standard that ends up blowing up in ur face

When a man want the child but u women don't...u abort without his say and prevent him from being a father....

But when he doesn't want a baby but u decide u want the baby......then you think u can make him responsible by force??

Hahahahaha ...thank God for Nigeria shitty laws... The joke is on u women that think "oga i'm pregnant" should automatically lead to wedding ring and no more bills ..

News flash... child support is 15k per month per child if yall decide to use nigerian court to enforce child support payment...

Loveworld04:
but I gave her money to take care of herself that one is not my business woo

Well... unfortunately a woman can decide to keep a child with or without ur consent....she can easily tell you she took the contraceptive but it didn't work..which happens sometimes...

At the same time.... unfortunately for her u are in Nigeria ...no one can force you to be responsible...

Why sont u call her bluff first by saying u want paternity test......all these girls are sometimes already pregnant and just strategically spread legs for someone else that ddnt know

Loveworld04:
bruh pls I have an issue I want to share with you I jad sex with a girl after the do i gave her 10k and ask her to take pills but now she just called telling me shes pregnant,I'm really angry with her how do I go about this pls

Well..u shot urself in the leg.....when did u sleep her that's she's now pregnant??

..just tell her straight up that u have to be sure the baby is urs......Trick her that u wanna do pre-delivery paternity test and see her reaction ??
Either way....no one can force marriage on u if u don't want...but if the baby is urs u gotta be responsible 50% or more

rightopdeep:
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What would You Advise Pls?

What are u expecting from police? Force him to marry her?
. If single mother life is her choice she should go ahead and carry the baby of a man that doesn't want her or her child to term and face the consequences

EreluRoz:
shut up mtcheww

Lol....Ur schizophrenic prescription has finished again.??...why are u always coming into my mention like a rabid dóg??

omooba969:
In your intellectual mind, this is meant to be the prayer point right?

How have you addressed the poor man's plight by your type of prayer point?

Phew! 🥴

He ddnt ask me..so I wasn't responding to him

.u did....And I responded to you....if that's not good enough...sorry I can't help you further

njelrapheal:
tinubu no send anybody. he is there to consolidate on his assets already achieved.

Lol.....

omooba969:
Your comment shows how insensitive and incoherent you are, and when you couldn't communicate, you threw up the trolling card.

You Nigerians really deserve a slot on Netflix. 🙂

Sigh.....
How am I insensitive?? Please explain??
Incoherent?? Are u sure thats the word u want to use or u don't just understand my comment
Or context??

I couldn't communicate?? Lol....this is funny.. u asked me for prayer point and I told u to do what u would expect others to do to you... How is that being insensitive or couldn't communicate??

Prayer is not hard... asking my for prayer point when u can pray the prayers u would want someone else to prayer for you is why I said u were trolling....

Nairaland is tiring ...u will comment and still have to explain ur comment...

njelrapheal:
you wan buy the car... you see say it is bloody...

Na tinubu amd his policies cause all these wickeness

Lol....everywhere just dey red

helinues:
Why not travel outside Nigeria and have experience with other nationalities girls.

I am talking from experience

U seem to think foreign woman are completely different from nigerian women... Baba u are mistaken.....

Women are intrinsically the same everywhere,

chose ur punishment or stay single.....

omooba969:
Can you help with the prayer points please. 🥴

Do unto others what you want them to do unto you......pray the kinda prayer u would want someone to pray for you...

. It's not hard when u are not trolling

helinues:
Wetin this one dey talk

You said "Infact Nigerian ladies are still amongst the best in the world that still keep things real"

U are either delusional, highly confused or simply trying to impress a woman with this devilish kind of fallacy......

I mean, what do u mean by Nigerian woman are the best in keeping things real...which research did u conduct to arrive at this baseless truckload of rubbísh

helinues:
. Infact Nigerian ladies are still amongst the best in the world that still keep things real

Who are u trying to play Mr good guy for?...is ur wife or babe monitoring ur nairaland comments?

njelrapheal:
this got me laughing real hard. to think its one thing on my front burner

Baba....if u know u have found a good woman ....as in... good woman by the right yardsticks, .....as in team player, kind, empathy driven, and actually supportive human being ...not all these support that women assume they give by just being your Mrs amd chopping ur food,....and u know it's not yansh and brezz, and great sex that's driving you....... Baba go ahead and marry her ooo .....marriage dey actually favour some men pass single life......nor let anybody bad experience impair ur judgement

One of my cousins that just got married last year not up to 12 month said......."Government should make marriage compulsory for every man"

I'm like.....guy!! wetin happen??

Werey said "no one should be allowed to escape punishment" everyone must collect

long story short...choose ur punishment wisely or remain single to avoid all these headache

This one eye just open....

GboyegaD:
Oga, go make the best of your life. Nothing can be more myopic than you who is drawing conclusions based on your thought on people you don't know.
Don't let's derail this thread any further.

U don dey vex...??.we are talking about simps and simping...how is that derailing a thread that is about simps??..

GboyegaD:
Let's assume I am a simp, it is my life. Why take panadol for my headache? One thing I know is that those who call people simps are the simps. A non simp doesn't need validation of people on how to live his life. Let people live the life they choose. They bear their consequences, not you.

I totally understand u... simps are myopic ...they don't see the implications of their actions..they always think their action is all about them....that's what the king of England said when he was relinquishing the throne of England for a pvssy....for u to even think that i am worried for you or other simps is another pathetic, myopic view ......I totally get you my guy

GboyegaD:
Love is sacrificial and you surely would sacrifice for those you love and vice versa. In it all, life is about moderation and moderation in itself is relative. Therefore, the one you think is a simp might not be because he decided to sacrifice to that extent for whatsoever benefit he yearns for in return.

Lol...one of the reason women like simps is the inability of simps to draw the line between being stvpîd and being sacrificial...

Simping is when the king of England relinquish his right to rule and the those of his unborn children because of pvssy https://www.nairaland.com/8201050/one-greatest-simping-moves-all

Simping is when high earning footballer hands over all his money and asset to his woman, all to prove love and to make a woman that doesn't love him stay..

A simp will tell a woman thats obviously using him to use condom when she's sleeping with other guys...he calls it being understanding and caring....lol...

Simps don't reason...simps are not objective, simps have low self esteem, which makes them never consider what's at stake because of pvssy

They can see they are being used, but their low self esteem always makes them do what they should not because they want to be with a woman that's not even worth it. ......simping should be illegal.....60years in prison for the simp in the thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/7231888/simping-should-crime....it-should-illegal

Baba..don't be a simp under the guise of love and sacrifice.....the sad part is, women only stay with simp for gains.... women eventually detest simps..because women dont like weak low self esteem men.....in the long run simps always lose....

Cromagnon:
What lesson.

Lol.......once they say yes to dating you...they have done the greatest favour on earth so u must marry them unless they don't want marry you..... Na only them get right to walk away

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to him!

Sigh!

This wèrèy again....your prescription don finish bah!!

Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged. She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me. She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me

Pray for her...u will reach peace after a while when ur prayer becomes genuine

EmekaStanley:
That's all you picked?

Sigh...

EmekaStanley:
When I was in primary school, I was seen as a bright kid, and was very reserved too. So parents around my street knew, and would never mind their kids associating with me.

ES

According to ur story......the guy is not failure from primary school he even did better than you at some point....so why are u using him as an example of failure in school but made in real life.....??