₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
I disagree. Cos no wealthy married man would fly a divorced woman to the Bahamas or buy her a house in lekki. Those privileges are restricted to young and fresh girls.

Divorced women are usually ravaged in hotels and paid off. Married men hardly keep any relationship with them aside calling them to satisfy their sexual desires.

Just Say u cannot do it..... All those nolly wood single mothers buying house up and down in lekki who do u think is paying...

Sometimes to be side chic pay pass wifey at home... Go and ask well...sanwoolu side chic na confirmed single mother of 3kids

Mitsurugi:
Oh so they later became wifey 😂😂😂

Sigh...

Bunnatex:
Thank you for your clarification. I love when someone argues logically. Thanks...

But I would think that for someone to accuse me of drunk, then the person must have at least heard a part.
However, Acts 2:6-12. More emphasis on best 11 ‭Acts 2:11 GNBDK‬
both Jews and Gentiles converted to Judaism, and some of us are from Crete and Arabia — yet all of us hear them speaking in our own languages about the great things that God has done!”

This is simple English. All heard them in their own tongue or language. I understand the explanation you're trying to give but then, the Bible was clear. Not the incoherent words we here today.

I must salute your coutesy and politeness.

We are not proficient in all languages....so i don't think anyone should automatically tag anyone's tongue as fake just because it's sounds as gibberish to us or the bible gave an account of what happened in a particular place that people heard them speak their own language.. the holy ghost moves in diverse ways

There are other places act 19v6 & acts 8v17 ...where the the apostle played hands on people to receive the holy ghost, spoke in tongues and it was not recorded that others heard them in their own language..


For example ....should we should all now say....tongues of fire must also show up on people's head...or a sound like a mighty rushing wind must also be heard as proof of the holy ghost baptism

onumadu:
You only proved my point by attacking me and not my point.Black man.

U talk like a woman....who's attacking you.??
It's called a counter opinion becos ur reasoning is flawed, full of fallacy and doesn't look at existing realities .....and that's why u result to condescending comment..

onumadu:
Try to THINK a little. Use that brain that God gave you for once!

u are the one thats not thinking.....and thats why all u do is trade insult to add more point

onumadu:
Ask yourself this question: Which man is most likely to have a side chick? A man with many wives, or a man with one wife?

all u have is fallacy.....saying a man with more than one wife is likely not to cheat......look around u...married men have more side chicks than single men because more married men have money these days cos they are established men.....and the greed of women in these modern times makes them who have money..... Doesn't matter if single or married.... There is moral decline everywhere

onumadu:
You say that monogamy is not enforced, and that can only mean you have your head firmly inside the sand....

u have no point ...u are just insulting...and i dont trade insults

onumadu:
It is enforced in MANY ways in Nigeria even if it is not illegal....

..it's not illegal so why are crying exactly??

onumadu:
Social sanction (enforcement) is the worst form of sanction because it comes from social circles.

what stvpîd sanction .?? ..if u want two wives or more avoid certificate marriage ..it's that simple...but u just came here to drop baseless point to make it look like someone is forcing you.... U see ned nwoko marry with certificate.... U see Dangote marry with certificate....Atiku use certificate...??

onumadu:
Only few men withstand such societal hypocrisy/blackmail, and simply marry more than one wife to save society.

u dont have point.....any pple are practicing polygamy in nigeria ...so what do u mean by few.....even christians do it....


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arantess:
this is a warped mentality.

nothing good about being a sidechick no matter how you try to paint it.

Yawn......!!!

Go and preach your holier than thou opinion to the many side chicks enjoying their life..... Many side chicks have even become wify seff..

Life is not black and white....so all these fallacy wey u dey yarn na dust....

Righteousness2:
Place your Hands on your chest and make this Declaration @ bold tapping your chest.
Say
I AM A CHOSEN!
I AM A CHOSEN!
I AM A CHOSEN!

Abnormal painful menstrual , Who are you?

The GOD of CHOSEN Deliver me

Which prayer u dey pray..?? When Dem dey dey give Adam apple chop them nor know say Dem go collect.....

They have it easy in other ways.....

onumadu:
This is why I keep harping against enforced monogamy.

Wait!!!!!!Who forced monogamy on you?.... Is polygamy not legal in Nigeria?? Or what are u driving it......the way pple arrive at conclusions without premise is weird...

onumadu:
In my humble opinion, enforced monogamy is an indirect causer of this type of societal problem.

.there is nothing humble about ur opinion
..both single and women in marriage sleep around in this modern times....there is a general drop in morality across the world......it has nothing to do with monogamy..u are just spitting fallacy

onumadu:
A married woman , even if she were the tenth wife, cannot be as free as a divorced wife to be a sidechick.

another reaah fallacy...
look around u....paternity fraud is every where..yet u said marry women are not free like single.... There is no more morality from the young age... Is it not the single morally bankrupt that becomes married.....?? Garbage in garbage out is what we have today

onumadu:
Black Africans find it hard to mentally decipher these things, and would rather attack you for pointing it out.

the way u pple insult ur own race is weird .....even in America, polygamy is there....nobody force certificate marriage on any body in the world

Solid042:
Can someone that got CoS on IT go with dependant ?

Yes

Octrem:
Please house, has anyone experienced this?

I made a mistake in my Visa application, UKVi got in touch that I should withdraw and apply under correct category otherwise, they will make a decision based on available info in my application.

I have since sent a withdrawal notice to the email given but it's been 4 working days now and haven't heard from them.

I am devastated and feel so down now.

Log into your visa application account ....I can't remember but I think that's where u will withdraw the application from

Akpabio22:
What's the fault of the car

Becos the guy ddnt say it's 8.5million....

Tinubu...u see ur life for aso rock....

Sometimes..it's sweeter to be the side chic that goes on regula trip to Bahamas





.....than the to be wife at home being disrespected at doing all the work of mummy, wife, daughter inlaw....

Side chic don dey collect house for lekki oooo..

MyAmericandream:
Abeg na lie. The one way I witness way dem marry for 1998 Omo na devils incarnate.

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I ddnt say all those before 1999 are all good...

I only said after 1999 na werey....


But u can follow wateva narrative

validplanet:
So Daddy Freeze is going to pay 5 million.

Okay

I feel for the kids

Law is all about arguments jàré.....if a good lawyer can pull off new technical grounds with an buyable judge......they might get a new judgement

The mistake freeze made was meddling into the man's family, taking his kids out of school without his consent as if he adopted the man's kids....the judgement isnt just about fvcking the woman while married

validplanet:
Lol.

When the actual divorce is taking forever

Divorce can be messy and draggy, if ur divorce is not yet finalized by a judged, bigamy or adultery card is still very much valid.....

many couples change their mind & reconcile after judges give them six months

Ninalowo the nollywood actor and his wife is an example...they will breakup and serve each other divorce notice in fact start fvcking other pple...next thing the two werey will get back together and chase whoever they are dating away...

If u never marry as at 1999.... Just forget it.... na werey full outside now...

Petalss:
Would you attribute the choice of not wearing a robe and sandals, or not marrying your cousin, to the influence of civilization? These practices are often determined by traditions unique to specific geographical regions during certain historical periods.

But u guys still marry 10year olds...
U guys still kill people becos they insulted you, something u call blasphemy.....
U guys still kill to take territories, calling it jihad

I'm talking what ur religion still allows and ur people do it in 2024, u are trying to hide it under culture and location ....nigga please!!!

Petalss:
One thing many of you don't understand is, what century was the age of consent reviewed to the present one now?

Which age of consent ..Lol...as if ur Muslims brothers are still not marrying 10years old girls in the north....

Oga leave matter for Mathias... Those of you not doing it are just influenced by civilization... Ur religions still permits it....

Sapasenator:
From the premise of all the people around me who spoke in tongues never amounting to anything in the long run other than the excitements. I don't do religion anymore.

Permit me to ask...what do u mean by never amounting to anything? Or what were u expecting it would amount to in their life or ur life??

Sapasenator:
Honestly, I will never make mockery of him, the most of my life was spent in the church just like OP, I was once like OP praying, thirsting and fasting for the Holy Spirit. I was much younger and deluded with years of continued religious brainwashing.

Nope, not mocking at all, The tongue are mostly gibberish lacking any meaning and I say that absent of mockrey or malice.

Are are speaking from a premise of try and fail..hence u accuse everyone speaking of being fake??

... Like all those that say school na scam....when we know school isn't scam

Sapasenator:
"Jump in" in a public forum? Na I think not.

I don't need to understand a language to decipher gibberish when I hear one. Most of the togues in Nigerian churches are gibberish and if you think them representative of any real language anywhere in the world, you are greately mistaken.

Then u are just invalidating someone without proof just because u want to make mockery or because u don't have the experience

Like the other guy I was talking to before u rushed in after several comments.... He was trying to mock the op that if the op's tongues is just bli bli bli or ble ble be, then it's rubbish..

To buttress my point..I Googled "bli"..and it turns out the "bli" he was just using as a random example means "to become, or "to grow" in Norwegian language....so if a random word that was supposed to be gibberish turns out to have meaning..why will u assume what someone said is nonsense without auditing it?

Saying u don't need know more than English before u conclude another tongue u hear gibberish is total fallacy..
.I have watched discovery channel of discovered new territories and the language of people there ddnt even sound like humans speaking .....
Again my point is... Just because a language gibberish to u doesn't mean it is automatically eto everyone.. ....because some pple heard the disciples speak correct languages, some pple mocked them for being drunk and speaking gibberish in the same passage....

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Sapasenator:
Guy, you no get leg to stand on. Your position makes no sense whatsoever.

Im not trying to stand on anything....my tackle is simple and u dont have to agree, especialky when u jumped in after several exchange of comment...
.. U don't understand all languages, neither did u hear the op... u are the one that has no standing to say he spoke nonsense

Dtruthspeaker:
Na lie! I don't need to meet everyone to know that blebleble is not under anybody"s language, for this fake act is so notorious that everyone has been waiting for years for someone neutral to come out and point out and say, "no that pastor is not faking his tongue, he is speaking .Kiev langiage, exactly like what happened.to our beloved Obahiagbon with his higgi.hagga, and Crinkum crankum

I just said Google it...yet u said na lie ....

Lol...nigga....i don't know what ur ishh is....even though i am playing devils advocate here, u have no basis of invalidating the op.....

U did not see or hear him in his house speaking in tongues, yet you were quick to invalidated his experience by claiming he's speaking bli bli bli

So because someone has not come out to confirm a random speakers tongues makes it fake?? ....u even said u dint have to hear all language to know its fake.....lol did u do logic & fallacy in GNS in college??

Guy.....Ur pride is more than ur knowledge of scriptures

Bunnatex:
I think you fail to understand the point. The Apostles spoke and all heard them IN THERE LANGUAGE.

However, what we hear ain't speaking in tongues.

All ddnt.....go and read the place again..in the same passage..they were accused of being drunk speaking nonsense.....and peter had to come forward to explain they are not drunk..
If they all heard them clearly...why accuse them of being drunk...or u ddnt read that part?

Not every one will get u when u speak in tongues paul made that clear in 1cor 14v2 ...

which is why Paul said that tongues should be appropriately used ...if the church won't be edified or blessed....speak your tongues to God alone in prayer....

Leemzyy:
Ameen tho am already a girl,and also don't forget to tell your sisters to keep up themselves,and dress decent but not naked as they do,and 2 avoid whoring around as they do as well

So All Muslims dress well and don't LovePeddler around because of dress ??
Madam....there are those who don't dress well everywhere irrespective of their religion.. and there are pple who LovePeddler around irrespective dog their religion also...

claiming ur religion is good and ur women don't LovePeddler around is just self deception....

alfredfrddy:
Can you just show an example of a language in the world whereas ble ble ble or any other gibberish you speak has a meaning?

Lol... news flash.. bli or ble whatever way u want to spell it means to grow, or to become in Norwegian....google is ur friendd

alfredfrddy:
Most times, we Christian *speak in tongues" to make ourselves feel good and that gibberish make sense at all.

I am a devil's advocate here.....I don't understand all languages ...so I don't think it's necessary to say someone's tongues is rubbish because I don't understand it..Remember the acts of apostles pple quote also said the disciples were accused of being drunk because they don't understand....
I watched discovery channel one day and I saw a newly discovered remote area...u need to hear the stúpid language they were speaking...doesn't even sound like human being conversing

tungamaje:
What we are saying is that the speaking in tongues by modern Christians is fake

Devils advocate here...how do u know its fake

tungamaje:
. The origin of speaking in tongues is in Acts 2. The disciples spoke foreign languages understood by the people who heard them.

because u don't understand it doesn't mean someone else cant.....never was it said when a person speaks in tongue someone beside him must know it....paul said...speak between urself and God if no one is available to interpreted or understands....because it will always be possible someone won't understand around you...

tungamaje:
Remember Jews were there too. So the foreign languages would be strange to them as many of them didn't understand what the disciples were saying

Are we not saying the same thing..??
.... So why do people keep saying when pple speak in tongues u must understand it otherwise it's fake and rubbish??

Bunnatex:
He doesn't need to understand all languages. He just needs to hear it in his own indigenous languages as is in the Bible, Acts of the Apostles

Oga..u don't know what u are saying....so someone speaking in tongues in his room must be understood by everyone in this world that listens to him....?? Oga..u don't understand what u read in acts of apostle... ....

Everyday247:
well according to the Bible when the disciples started speaking in tongues everyone could understand them.

I understand more than one language, so If his tongues make sense in both the languages I understand then it is legit, but if it doesn't well...... I don't really know what to say.

Lol.....go and read that place u quote again

Some understand them , some ddnt because they accused them of being drunk and speaking gibberish..... We don't understand all languages, there is no point trying to form vandame

Dtruthspeaker:
No.one has come out to say.blebleble is a language spoken by a particular people we can check to see and hear.

Ble means something ooo....Google it..

U have not met everyone..and there are many undocumented and unpopular languages in the world..
My funny get valid point is...there is no need invalidating someone's tongues as fake or rubbish because we can't audit or compare it to a popular language we know..

For example.... "Bli" which can sound like gibberish to u ...also means to be come, to get, or to grow in Norwegian

Everyday247:
This tongues you speak, can you record it and post it so that we can all listen to it? I want to see if it is different from gibberish.

Lol.....so how are you going to audit his tongues?? Are u proficient in all languages of this world, both popular and remote village language

Dtruthspeaker:
And the people who.heard.them heard.natural languages not ble ble ble. Stop deceiving yourself.

How do u know ble ble ble doesn't mean something in a particular language??

Abi u know all languages in this world?