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Had same issue with my 06 Corolla. Changed the front shocks and stabluzer linkage, noise disappeared.

Since you are in ph, try koya autotec as if you are going to Abuloma

Got a flooded 06 Toyota Corolla from US(Florida) October last year. When the car arrived, I used an old battery to start it. Since then, car has been serving me without any issue

ElPadrino33:
Emeka Ojukwu Jnr is not Ikemba's first son. His first son is Chief Debe Ojukwu whom he had out of wedlock

And if you know the tradition of Obiuno, Umudin nnewi very well, you would know that a child out of wedlock can never be a legitimate child(can not bear his father's name, except the said father pays the bride price of the mother), which I believe you know Emeka senior never did as regards Debe's mother

ivolt:
This entitled lazy man is still pained that Bianca got part of
Ojukwu's inheritance as against the backward tradition which
denies women the right to their husband's inheritance.

As the first son, Emeka fought tooth and nail to convert all his father's
properties to his own, but a smarter Bianca took him to the cleaners.

Please which inheritance are you talking about? Emeka senior had nothing in his name, except his father(Louis).

Emeka senior only possession was an Oxford certificate and other academic qualifications. The said inheritances belongs to his father Sir Louis Ojukwu, and in my tradition, the first son inherits most of the father's properties. In this case, Joseph Ojukwu happens to be the first son and have more right to those properties you are talking of.

Need I equally remind you again that, Emeka senior lavished most of his Father's properties chasing Biafra without accounting to his other brother's.

Mind you, I am not only from nnewi, but equally from same family with the Ojukwu's. So I am giving you first hand information.

Stay clear of what you know nothing of, TUPU ANA ETIGBUE GI!!

Pidgin2:
You don't want your in law to eat your food?

Kindly read through the post I responded to

Diamond23:
[color=#770077][/color]Taking a first step z beta dan procrastinating....he needs to man-up.

God will help him

Diamond23:
[color=#770077][/color] Exactly my point, if he doesn't wanna pack out he should also start to contribute

Is well. I wonder where he will start when he leaves

ladycomfort:
should we really say he is stingy or is it just because he has acess to free accomodation, feeding and other good things of life

people like this are very stingy and like free things a lot...if you throw him out today, watch how he will go and plead with another relative of his for free accomodation

I just pity for him, because I have already made it known that he has to go

Saverin:
Truly evil. Odin will be pleased with his daughter

Stop echoing on cyber deck.

kokoA:
hah! You never jam .. Those Ezzaa women from Ebonyi are the strongest set of women I've seen in my life.

Actually, Ebony and Enugu women are the best in Igbo land. Very responsible and hard working

ladycomfort:


4 bottle water.... op, trust me, he will soon get married... get ready to accommodate his wife


too many lazy mean here and there....

Someone that is stingy to feed himself, how can he feed a family?

Heebah:
As u saw him taking it what did you say to him?

What will I say na, a man that has decided to be a baby

Diamond23:
[color=#770077][/color]Op dat ur broda inlaw stingy die even to d extent of taking water wit him as if he z still in creche. He needs to grow up, start fending for himself and stop being a leach or parasite or he should also contribute in buying some of d house stuffs

Contribute you say, when he has never gotten even matches at home

blank:
Inasmuch as you want him out, tty as much as possible to do it without creating bad blood. Before being aggressive about it, try and have a nice talk with him. Don't assume that he would react negatively.

I am sure after seeing his sister being asked to leave, he would have already started making plans but just saving up money to move.

I doubt he is making any plans. Been on leave for some weeks now, so i am opportuned to see him making arrangements while leaving for work. Today he went with 4 bottle waters, I say 4 bottles of water. Isn't that greed? Just to ensure he doesn't spend a dime of his cash on anything.

ifyalways:
This is wickedly hilarious.
Pele, follow @ Blanks suggestions

The young man is just lazy

mrphysics:
The problem is always the beginning. Things you allowed at the beginning of things will always affect you at the long run.
You should speak up like a man in your home and set boundaries. No one have the right to go to the kitchen save your wife or anyone she sends there

It seems to me that your wife is in their plan and do not really want to end it. If you are the one buying the foods, then you must speak up like a man. There comes a time you don't care what any one does to you or how anyone looks. Its a time you speak sharply and take decisions that will change your life.

You don't love people more than you love yourself.

I clearly get your point. From the get I was in the picture of him coming to put up with us to look for something doing.

My mom in law pleaded with me, which I consented to. But I guess the young man is just lazy.

Not that I can't ask him out right now, but considering that he came through my mom in law who has done so much for my kids(raising them single handedly while I and wifey works). I always want to consider her.

But in all, he has to go as he has decided to forget he is a man

babythug:
Stop hammering on this after December matter get it done now!

So by December he would have left!!!!

Is well. Will work on that.

Wifey cried the day I asked the sister to leave. Imagine staying for 3 months after gradually moving in

frostylook:
If you think this guy will leave without a shove, you are on a long thing. Family members are the worst when it comes to overstepping and entitlement mentality. As far as he's concerned, it's his right. There's no how you will make him leave without looking evil. Why not just get it over with already?

I quite agree with you. Will stand firm about him leaving after December

DanseMacabre:
This even further buttresses how much the confraternity system, established by Prof WS for lofty, if grandiose ideals has been bastardised.


See touts and lowlives, most of whom have never smelt the four walls of a higher institution dey head decks, nests and temples.


See small small children for my hood, keke riders, bakery workers, artisans of all sorts dey echo 'ayikperere', 'egede', etc. and some mumus wey call themselves graduates go follow lubbers dey form XY. When rough seas set, why dem no go use your head take count scores



Whither

From your yarnings, e clear say you carry bag. Enough OT in cyber deck

Heebah:
My guy do the needful. When next i see ur post i want to read dat u have taken necessary actions. I dey vex!!!

He won't exceed next month. I have seriously tried.

At first I kept mute about him taking meals to work because he just started working and might not have been paid. But after 9 months he is still doing same.

LadySarah:
wow.34 and still livig comfortably in the sis home.bros abeg we are squatting with uooo.he has no shame sef.
call the man and tell him its time to go,what fuckery.he may even be one of those nairalanders that claim i'm my own man and mind my business.

The thing tire me. Personally, I have made up my mind and equally inform wifey, that he isn't staying beyond December.
Someone that moved in 3 years ago. I fed him, cloth him, provide transportation and some pocket change to feel cool. At least he has gotten a job for the past 8 or 9 months.

Seriously wondering if he has plans of growing up

Heebah:
Forget about bad blood and push dis young man out!! Who bad blood epp,na today??. Isnt it obvious dat dis man is using u guys. Na so e go dey una house build him own mansion with his savins while u pple keep feeding him.
Funny enough,its people like him dat would always talk bad about u pple in d future,even wen u supported him all thru. Oga,stop being sentimental n do d needful!!!! Ur brother inlaw is very selfish

I weak my brother. A complete man living off his fellow man

babythug:
Like you were told on the former thread quit worrying about the unpleasantness that will come after you tell him to move out! It will be unpleasant either way you decide to do it so..............Just tell him!!!!


instruct your Mrs to also stop providing food for him to take to work- he should buy with his own money!

Nobody dishes food for him to take to work. He will wake by 5am to microwave soup and make garri he will take to work.

blank:
Tell him that you want to talk to him man to man.

That he has started working for some time, has now reached the point he should be talking of settling down and getting married. To aid this, he needs to now get his own apartment so that he can bring home visitors freely and generally start life. If you are generous, you can tell him that you would support him in this endeavour by giving him a certain amount. You would be expecting that by xxxx (mention the month), he will be able to get an apartment.

If the month you mentioned comes and goes and he doesn't move, you have to give him an ultimatum. That you have given him accommodation until he got on his feet, it is now his time to do same for others. He has xx months to leave your house and be firm on it.

The guy is something else. Not even behaving like he has plans to start a life. Someone that will soon be 34
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Marvel1206:
Tell him yourself then, not plainly though.

You can just ask how far has he gone with his accomodation plans.. In your way

Then if his sixth sense doesn't come in.

You have to tell him point blank. You've tried

Thanks. Will try talking to him. The problem is that he is so laid back. Maybe because he is seeing free food, water, and a comfortable room to sleep in.

Marvel1206:
Your wife is in the best position to handle it

Wifey is so attached to her family that she can't even talk to them. Always wanting to show sympathy for them.

Few months ago, I was here asking for ideas on how to reduce the crowd in my house. A situation that saw my sister in law, her son, as well as my brother in law all camping in my house.

Currently, sister in law left 2 weeks ago, after insulting both me, her mother and my wife. Just because we addressed her ill characters.

The current issue now is my brother in law. He's been with us for 3 years plus and not talking of moving or starting his life.
Every morning while leaving for work he takes food along with him as well as enough water(3 or 4 bottles of water). He has been working for almost a year now, and at least changes his phones every 2 months which even baffles wifey. I initially said he should leave after December. But the young man is not showing signs of leaving.

Please how do I handle this without raising bad blood?

biacan:
Sex should not be a thing in a relationship......so don't expect it

Let me simplify it, what contributions are you bringing to the table as regards a relationship?

biacan:
If you think that when you give a lady money......then you can sleep with her Oga you better go have a rethink cause you can't try that shit with me

Like I asked earlier, what is your contribution in a relationship aside sex?

biacan:
And which lady in her right sense would allow a guy sleep with her just because he gave her money

The type that said a guy can only make her happy with money

biacan:
Even though I don't give broke guys a listening ear.......if want to make me happy........ you don't have to steal to make me happy there are some ways you can still meet up to my stands by working your ass off..... real hustle not by stealing

So the only way a man can make you happy and meet up to your "stands" is by giving you money?

It's so sad your primary focus in a relationship is money. If I may ask, what else can you offer a man in a relationship aside your unclothedness?

Trust me, allowing a guy sleep with you because he gives you money is simply prostitution(exchange of sex with money)

Honour2:
Sir, I earn in cash so I bring my tithe to Jesus,He is the one who receives my tithe and blesses me in return, It is not my business how it is used when I bring it. All I know is that I bring all my tithe into God's storehouse out of the abundance he has given me. He blesses me, opens the windows of heaven,rebukesthe devourer and my vine does not cast her fruit before the time in the field. I tell you I have been paying my tithe for so many years and I enjoy these blessings and more.Stop running the risk of telling people to disobey God, there is a curse attached to it. If you are not sure of God's stand on an issue, ask him with a sincere heart. What is my business with what pastors do with it, my place is to obey him and I am walking in abundant blessings. [b][/b]

Again, I never asked anybody to disobey God, only asked you to read your bible and make meanings from it. I bet I wasn't the author of any of the books in the bible.

Again, ensure you read your bible and gain understanding, instead of relying solely on the teachings of man without asking for divine understanding