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sassysure:
This na one chance house

But, does this kind of stuffs really happen?

Bro, trust me, it does. What i stated above happened to me

madridguy:
He tied three live cocks to three different sticks and allowed them die and decay till vultures came to eat them up.

Where this your apartment dey?

No kidding. Will give you details for free.

The apartment is in Woji, PH.
Go to Woji and ask of Chioma's family. They're the only ones bearing Chioma as surname in the whole of Woji

Some years ago, I rented this beautiful house and was feeling fly. While trying to do some electrical work in the apartment, the guy selling electrical parts close to the crib asked me if i made adequate enquiry before paying and moving in.

We were just 3 tenants in the building.
The first guy that worked in a rig became broke all of a sudden to the extent that he couldn't pay PHCN bill. He eventually lost his job and moved out.

The one by my right was into spare parts and was doing fine. During his child dedication, it was massive and all.

One day, he woke up to see a stranger eating in his kitchen at about 1am or so. The young couple were so afraid to even say a word let alone shouting till day break when they narrated the story to me.

A new lady moved in after the rig guy left since he couldn't afford the rent. She was an HR executive and has this white dude she was dating that comes to see her often.

After few months of moving in, she started having issues with the white dude and they broke up. She got suspended at work and could not meet up with her rent and eventually left.

After I clocked a year in the apartment, the landlord came to me and said It appears am doing well and had not gotten him a drink. I smiled and told him i will do so.
After that visit I had a serious query at work, my allowances stopped coming for months. Then I recalled that there was a day the landlord came to do some rituals in front of the gate. He tied three live cocks to three different sticks and allowed them die and decay till vultures came to eat them up.

After few weeks he came to me again saying that he had checked on me earlier. Then i asked him when as i had been home all through. That was when he told me that he checked on me at about 1am in the midnight. I immediately warned him with loud voice shouting and chased him outside with a warning that, if i ever see him around my flat again, I will kill him.

I left that apartment without seeing through my rent.

Let's hear your weird experiences renting/staying in an apartment.

kerry57:
Hope u can replace these animals u hunt and kill, hunter?

And what are those animals doing for you in the forest?
Why exactly are we preserving it for a country that's more interested in stealing our resources than providing enabling environment for us to survive?

The conman has no choice than to survive so far it's not stealing

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Don't you think you're being mean? If the table is turned around, would he hesitate to reach out?

You are indeed a wicked person for saying what he is asking for is like a chicken feed, yet you need the approval of faceless people in a forum to decide if you will allow your boyfriend that you said is so good to you to starve.

Shame!!!

Jovi123:
What do you mean by I shouldn't preach what I don't know, well you wouldn't understanding until you are wearing the shoes, and mind you there are lots and lots of Anambra ladies that marry from other state

What shoe is there to wear?

We all need to join hands together to stop this tribalism eating up our unity and oneness in Nigeria.

Years ago, my mother tried selling this your weak theory to me which i resisted and ensured she's liberated from it.

By the way, i am from Anambra, married to an Ibibio woman.

Jovi123:
No one is thinking highly of themselves, most Anambra parents have their reasons for declining marriage proposal from other state for their daughters... And am not saying its right, just understand me,

They have no reason at all. They are nothing but wicked tribal bigots.

Don't try to preach what you don't know

Chi59:
Anambra people trended on twitter the other day.
My advice for anyone dating anambra person, if you're not from the place yourself is to see the person's people one on one and find out where you stand before you go any further.
They hardly marry non indigenes.

Why not say "some people" instead of generalizing. I am from Anambra and married to an Akwa Ibomite, and the sky never fell

Hoephase:
Yes you are right by looting our funds so he can afford to hide them in the US while you guys are running rampage on NL asking for food.

I think every single politician in Nigeria deserves coro for what they did to the masses.

How exactly did Ben loot your funds?

Hope you are aware that he was just a one term senator who was already self made before joining politics?

Introvertedmarc:
The toll is climbing while Nigerians are no longer crazy about facemask and gloves anymore, even sanitizers sef.

The second extension.. no one was even panic buying anymore..

Are we no longer concerned?

Panic buying happens with money. Nigerians are hungry and afraid of dying before contracting Covid-19 itself.

Untill the government address the plight of Nigerians like other countries, Nigerians might just die of starvation

reeny2020:
reeny2020: Quote Post
Hello nairalander I need your advice am married with one child but my husband is a government ministry worker and he is lazy and doesn't like to hussel he has work for close to fifteen years and not even a property we are living in rented apartment.All the movie and telemundo he knows all of it now he doesn't go out or visit or have friend after work watch movie he even went to buy fire TV Even dou we have android tv. I don't want my life to be like my parents wasted life without any achievement what or how can I go about making my home an investment home. life is not all about eating food and be comfortable since food is not the problem what should I do.pls advice me

What value have you brought to the table since you guys got married?
It's not enough to complain, bring something tangible to the table. At least he has Android and Fire TV to his name. What have you?

deleSayo:
i work a very stressful IT job (which allows me provide the high standard of living my wife has always been used to from birth). so, when i come home by 6/7pm, i enjoy relaxing with my favourite TV shows and movies. whats the crime in that?
don't i deserve time for my own hobbies?

Oga, just brush your mouth well and engage in exercises

deleSayo:
Our marriage has always had issues from the beginning (as you can see in my previous threads) but we passed it off as normal marital issues which we eventually resolved (or so i thought).

Just when i thought things had began to improve between us, i noticed my wife is no longer interested in sex with me and counting now, it's been 6 months since we had anything to do with each other intimately. I tried to joke around about it just to find out her reasons and she joked back with me saying that for the past 6 years she's known me, i haven't changed from these habits:

1. spending all night in front if the tv, sometimes till 3am in the morning and when i eventually come to bed, i snore so bad and this made her go buy earplugs to help her cope with it. when she said this, i felt so offended that i began to sleep in the guest room and she never apologised or begged me to come back to our matrimonial bed (for 3 weeks now)
2. she always complains that i eat too much and my weight has skyrocketed within the past couple of years. and that my late nights in front of tv means im snacking throughout the night . yes this is true to be fair but the truth is that ive ballooned so much in size that i now lack motivation to do anything about it .
3. she has also complained about my breath to the point that she purchased tongue brush for me which i refuse to use as i find it quite rude that she would say such to me.

The only time we spend together as a couple is when she comes to join me in front of the tv after work. Then by 9pm she's off to bathe our son and put him to bed, from there she's goes to sleep, leaving me alone to watch tv into late hours of the night/morning.

I know for a fact that my wife isnt cheating and apart from sex we have a good friendship. but my problem with her is that her overt and covert behaviour towards sex shows someone who is irritated by me and that makes me feel quite offended.

Why are you chasing shadows when the real image is before you?

You are aware that your breath stinks, and instead of accepting help that's already been extended to you, you're here forming Alpha Male.

Landlord, it's called Love Making and not wrestling nor boxing. Shed that weight as it ain't sexy nor healthy.

Practice proper oral hygiene and engage in exercise to be better and get your wife back into the game.

Love Making isn't meant to be managed, but to be enjoyed.

dobrinswizzy:
Hello nairalanders

A married man is woeing my babe o
Saying all sweet things to her, promising her different things, although the man is quite wealthy, he said he want her to be his wife

Guys what should we do?

If you are dating a responsible lady, i bet you wouldn't be here disturbing our peace.

A mature and responsible woman would warn a married man firmly to stay away from her as she has good morals and proper upbringing.

You mean if you marry her in the future, you'd always be here asking for our help to keep men away from her?

You need to be more productive

VivleBriella:
Good day everyone
I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice

My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him, yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially, I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough, this is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back, is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?

I'm only 24 while he's 31.

You need to quit this relationship ASAP. Your man is already pushing his family's responsibility as well as his to you, and this is a very bad sign. No responsible man with good intentions nags his girlfriend (not wife) for not assisting his family.

You may also need to decline any further monetary assistance from him to ascertain if he's in love with your or your money.

If he wants to die carrying a load that's obviously bigger than him, then he should carry it alone and keep you away from it

Eulalia:
But does it mean that people cannot control their attractions or what? That's preposterous. I mean... I can never be attracted to somebody I know is dating a friend or to my guys friend. That's greed of the highest order.

It happened to me. Like my blood line today is married to a guy that chyked me for years.
This my blood line knows that this guy tried to date me. As in he kept coming to our house look for me for months. My mum and all my siblings knew him very well. It got to a point he threatened to harm me if he sees me with any other guy but luckily, we relocated to another place. Only for my blood sister to bring this same guy as a suitor. dang!
I just keep wondering, so she had been attracted to him all this while? Someone I dislike to the core? Hm! Fear human beings.

Till today, if I go visiting this guy will be telling me him and I have an unfinished business and some annoying silly talks. So most times when I visit, I'll hide away until I go back. Mehn... It sucks!

So your relatives should stay away from any suitor you turned down because you are the Queen Mother?

Akuko uwa?

Ishilove:
If I can't tell him, is it you I will now tell?

Even you?

slyfoxxjoe:
Story. I must Bleep either the best friend or sister of my wife to be before our wedding.

I’m sorry it’s just in my bucket list of things to do in this life.

Your wife will be in another silly guy's bucket list to smash.

Unam-ikot

Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

Be knacking another man's wife untill they cut your young John.

Mpama!

sreamsense:
You are comparing this with Ibadan, are you not ashamed? Onitcha by landmass is 52km square while Ibadan alone is 3,080km square by landmass. If you put all these your beautiful houses in Ibadan, it can not fill one local government in ibadan.

If you divide Ibadan by Onitcha i.e 3080/52 = 60; this implies you will see 60 Onitcha cities in 1 Ibadan. Beautiful houses are spread in Ibadan because of landmass while Onitcha houses are compacted in a small landmass area that can not fill half of one local government in Ibadan.

Out of 33 local governments in Oyo state, Ibadan alone has 11 local government areas. If you divide 60 by 11, you have approximately 6, it means Onitcha city as a whole can only fill 1/6th of a single local government in Ibadan.

Can you now see how funny you people are when comparing Onitcha with Ibadan? Google is your friend, you can do the calculation and research by yourself. Empty barrel makes loudest noise! And upon your empty noise, if you never reach that brown roof republic to hawk gala and hustle in multitude, you never reach your 'Obodo-oyinbo'

Are you actually comparing a state capital with a city?

Anyways, the businesses and infrastructures in Onitsha alone will develop Ibadan

Vyolet:
We are in this same country and NO, 50,000naira is not enough to run the house in this same country at this present time. It isn't sufficient but manageable.

I see!

Vyolet:
Respect to those that earn that little, I do not mean to spite anyone.

What i am saying is, that 50,000naira is not enough monthly in Nigeria of today so if someone spends that kinda money, the man has no right to call her wasteful.

Hello Her Royal Majesty, the Queen of England.
What exactly would you be buying monthly with ₦50,000?

You guys talk like we're not living in the same country

MrMacinterchi1:
Either the guy is stupid or just seeking attention. Very stupid way to think. he will do worse if he is a father or become one.

Dont mind the attention seeker

Omobada:
No, he's right. One can deliberately assist the man once in the presence of his children purposely to teach them something or to prove a point or at least to see what their reactions will be.

If the man had raised his kids properly, there wouldn't have been need for another person's child to come show his kids example.

sweetrace:
I actually weep for you. You’re obviously not refined, well brought up or well schooled. Instead of coming to Nairaland to wail, if he is so concerned, he should help the man. Maybe the kids will join. Olofofos who can’t mind their business but keep looking for entertainment in the lives of others. Don’t bother with your uncouth response as I won’t read it.

You clearly lack manners

Bluehill1051:
Why don't you help him sometimes?
In my own opinion, you're worse than those children. It is your type that will rather take photos of a dying person than actually saving them.

I weep for comments like this. You mean he should go do chores for a man with 6 irresponsible fools so he could be taken serious?

I bet you go around looking for people to assist with chores in your vicinity.

Father Christmas!

Naturally, when you do your laundry you pour the used water in the water system which eventually goes into the septic tank. I bet all other tenants including you may be pouring used water into the water system or your floor drain as the case may be.

Oloye, your septic tank is faulty and needs a good plumber to address it ASAP.

Leave your neighbour alone

TheGiftedOne:



See weapons of warfare littering everywhere.





Even Burutai go shock.... What the giant of Africa cannot do small Chad is doing...Wonderful!

Not that they cannot do it, they are compromised and poorly equipped.

A clear case of sending a child ro hawk salt and then sending rain after the child

born2begreat:
A sensible person seeing everything that’s happening all over the world won’t even think so stupid today to crack any joke. Borrow sense and get your ass off here boy

A sensible person seeing the panic and tension all over the world, would seek for possible ways to put smiles on the face of their love ones.

Dont be a sadist before you encourage people to die before Covid-19 nears their dwelling place.

Stay safe

Cleanworld:
Brother, Some truth are better taking to the grave.

Sit down Look. if you can.

Not this type of truth.

What if the biological father comes for his son, or sues for custody claiming that the child was kept away from him by the man and his wife?

The man should find out why the boy was pushed to him by the wife

movement2020:
Good the court are not in process. Good, you also have patience to ask on how to handle it perfectly. I appreciate that in you. You are manly.

Now, to the solution. It's going to be a hard one. I don't know how you can handle what am about to advise but with your patience and manly stand, I think you would be able.

Op, this life, we are faced with different tribulations. Yours will differ from mine. To be frank, you went too far and now you have to be bold enough to face the consequence. It's just like couples checking each other's phone. They will definitely see something they never planned. Either get depressed or break up.

You have two options but before you take any, let the children in question be your first reason to decide

The first option is, tell your wife and seek for divorce. If you divorce, your daughter would live separately which is a problem to you because rarely would have the chance to train her.

Second, take it as your destiny. The greatest secret you will take down to your grave. Accept fate, forgive and move on as if nothing happened. It's easy said than done but that's the truth. We all have secrets and this should be added to yours. Love your wife as well.

I don't quite follow. Why should he live separately with his daughter?

Option 2: Why should he take it as his destiny?
We are really funny with our assertions in here.

@op, a woman that can push another man's child to another (a son at that), is capable of killing you.. You need to separate from that woman. But before you do, trace the origin of the boy and why he was pushed to you.

I feel there is a wicked plan between your wife and the boy's dad

Just saw this on Instablog9ja.

Can someone verify?