SassyGem101: Hmm..... I like him financially capable Facially handsome Average and well built Very articulate and eloquent Very neat and also smell good Intelligent. Hardworking.
And what exactly would you be offering for all the above qualities?
CeterisXVII: He knew she had kids before the marriage, and even promised to allow them stay in their home, afterwards. So what do you mean by why should "he shoulder another man's responsibilities?"
Is he mad? Why did he agree to marry a single mother in the 1st place, when he knew he could not shoulder her responsibilities? Shioor..... useless stepfather!
He changed his mind. It happens.
She should sort her son out without trying to play the emotional game with him.
Oyindidi: You love the mother but you no want her son in your house. Yeye husband
It's obvious you are a kid, and yet to get married.
So you mean the husband should shoulder another man's responsibilities when the man is still alive all in the name of marriage? Do you know if he has the means?
More importantly, for the wife to agree that her own siblings rejected their nephew is a sign that the boy is not a good example to kids.
YummySuits: An act of kindness, but totally unnecessary in my opinion. After the ring, what next
If he cannot afford to buy a diamond ring, why not empower him so he can be able to afford such in future. Whatever sha, it's quite generous of him.
Btw, this pastor is fine sha, and his height and body build is yummylicious
You don't get it, the motive is to assist in getting them LEGALLY married, and not just to get them engaged with a diamond ring.
Lets assume they end up raising $10,000 ($350 x 10,000 = ₦3,500,000.). How many single struggling men would use that amount just for an engagement ring?
PHijo: Polygamy and fornication is not the same. That I tolerate polygamous people doesn't mean I am one.
I see. So what's your point exactly?
I was cautioning someone who is in support of a single lady sleeping with another woman's husband, and she even encouraged the lady to get more entangled with the man. And the best you could say is what you had spilled twice.
Squillaci: Hello people. I have read several posts this week on reddit and nairaland about depressed people killing themselves. I have wondered how they are able to do it. No matter how hard I try, my brain is incapable of generating such thoughts. These guys are surely not more depressed than I am, but are able to effortlessly kill themselves. Please, is there any drug I can take that can make me suicidal, cos I am tired of dragging my feet. And I don't think I can stay like this for another 50+ years. Cos this life don tire me.
Person wey wan kill himself no dey ask for change when him buy poison.
NwekeUG: Video of the current Governor-Elect of Bayelsa, Diri, celebrating the Supreme Court's dismissal of the appeal application filled against him by former Governor-Elect, Lyon and the APC.
Graxie: You have a bigger problems in your home, change of name is among the minor. You guys are living in separate rooms, no sex for 5years, oga don't you think you are already divorced? You are even training her, she is mixing up with course mates and yet no sex. Please this marriage is gone, face your fears and know you are in open relationship. You can't tell me you have not been having sex for 5years, same with her.
Babatunde40: This issue is tearing my family apart. I need urgent assistance from Nairalanders.
I have this step brother who came back from Libya. He started staying with me in December 2018. Initially, he said he would stay a month and sort himself to move to another country. 1 month has turned to 1 year and 3 months.
My wife wants him to leave immediately. She has being hammering it because we have 3 daughters. The eldest is 12. My wife is scared that one day the guy might molest the girls. The house is not big. It is a 2 bedroom bungalow. This guy has being sleeping in the sitting room all this while. We are very uncomfortable with this.
How can we send him away as soon as possible? The thing here is that this guy travellered to Libya in 2009 with the intention to cross to Europe. But he could not. He stayed backed in Libya and started working. He is an electrician. As he was working and making money, he called me and said he just wants to build a small house to show for his efforts in Libya. He sent money and I bought a small land. Over a space of 4 years, in 2015, we completed a 2 bedroom bungalow. He then asked me to move there with my family. I was previously staying in a room and parlor self contain. He said he has no intention of coming back to Nigeria. So I moved in with my family and we have being living here since.
In December 2018, Arabs attacked him in Libya and robbed him. He had to run back to Nigeria. He said he will stay a month and move to another Africa country. Now he has stayed over a year. He is inconveniencing my family and he is a threat to my daughters' safety. Please how do I send him away?
You and your wife are wicked people and deserves no sympathy. So you are here ranting on how to chase a landlord away from his own house? If you know what is good for you, you and your wicked wife should vacate his property immediately. You are a wicked soul.
JasonScoolari: After my switch from Ekpan Secondary School to a more organized Private school, my head just have to calm down.... It was not easy at first adapting to the new environment, but I just have to make my father feel relaxed and not think of oiling his gun because of me...
This beautiful classmate of mine who for no reason finds it pleasurable to torment me with her laughter when I failed the easiest classwork suddenly came to meet me in the open field and request to sit close to me,
For a moment, I thought the beautiful girl wants to repeat her stupidity again, but I just had to allow her... Then she started with her laughter again and said that I was too dull with anything that has to do with calculation jokingly.... I was really not going to have it this time, so I told her to leave my presence at once.. She stood up and looked at the angry dude sitting down with his oversize brown trouser and torn white socks, then she said; "I really like you Jason" then she hissed at me and went to meet her gang of laughing friends.
I felt really happy seeing her sad, atleast, she will behave herself next time.
One day,this beautiful friend that use to laugh me did not come to school for two days, I was really concerned and had to ask her favorite friend, who reluctantly told me that she travelled to see her mom in Benin...
On the third day which happens to be on Valentine's day, she came to school, and I was really happy to see her back but I didn't show it openly. I walk towards her and told her that I was improving and she smiled at me.
Fellow classmates where delivering their Val's present to their crush, some gave that card that came with a rose flower, while some gave toothbrush.
It was closing hours and she said I should give her the gift i brought to school, I just laughed and told her that I don't celebrate Val's day just to cover up for my brokenness... Then she asked me to meet her at Mr BIGGS by 5, I was scared and very shy, I summoned courage and got to the place, I saw her already waiting.... She ordered for the food and that big 5Alive, we ate peacefully and discussed school related issues. Then she gave me a peck on the cheek...Damn! It was as if God Himself was winking at me. I stood up and gave her a kiss on her lips.
It was time to go, then she brought out a gift neatly wrapped, and told me she loves me.
That gift was a Tom Hilfiger boxer then and I really appreciate that gift till this very moment. Good memories of Yvonne.....
OkoYibo: Illiterate, go back to Primary 1. Evans was also a businessman. That man went to prison for involvement in kidnapping Innoson's Chinese staff. You are an illiterate, so I don't expect you to understand.
Was he convicted for kidnapping, or he was remanded for alleged kidnapping and later released?
kunleweb: If you want to break your relationship cause of this nonsense you don't know what love is. Mtcheeew how childish. Your marrying her isn't doing her a favor. If you don't see good enough to keep her someone else would. Quit whining. You're not a baby.bi know you're here to seek validation to break up but you're not getting any today. Grow up
What exactly are you talking about? A lady chose to place a hot pot cover on her boyfriend's body and you are here foaming. Does his body look like wood or cupboard?
This is already looking like a lady with unforgiven and anger management issue
mypains: read her past post. The guy didn't just start coming. But if na me, I would stay away. Most of my female friends, once I hear say dem don marry, I stay far far far away...
The point is that she introduced her ex to her hubby. Was she expecting a trophy?
She even said her hubby kept him close to appreciate him for those years he (ex) helped her.
Please how can I politely stop my ex from visiting my home?
Yesterday was the third time my husband returns from work to meet my ex in our house.
After the incident that happened between us, my ex started coming closer to my husband and they became distance friends. My husband invited him to our child's naming ceremony and that was how he got to know our house.
Eversince then he has been visiting and I am not comfortable with it. I told if he must come he should come when my husband is around.
Please what should I do?
I am still wondering why on earth your husband should be friends your ex, is your hubby insecure in anyway?
As for your question, simply tell your ex to stay away from your home and ensure to tell your hubby that you ain't comfortable with the idea of him coming to the house.
It's not every issue that requires counseling, counsel yourself at times
Mynd44: The major problem here miss is that you don't seem to understand your husband. He is avoiding you not because he does not forgive you or he is punishing you, far from it ma'am, he is avoiding you because he is scared.
Him being scared here is because of the fact that he fears what he might/do if he does not stay away from you. He might have a wicked tongue he is trying to check or be the violent type and everytime he remembers what you have done, he might lash out at you which will eventually make him feel guilty and of course hurt you.
Try to understand this and try talking to him about it after the next round of silence. You will be suprised.
Do you have to refer to a married woman as Miss just to pass your point?
For me, the issue shouldn't be about gender but about the quality of advise received here. It may interest you to know that both genders have their faults and all.
60% of the people here are kids who are still being fend for. And with access to a device and internet facility, they will spill baloney. While some adults who are simp's will come online to form champion.
Critically analyze the content of the counsels you get here to avoid ruining your life and relationship.
SmellingAnus: I invited my friend and his wife for a party in the neighborhood I live in on December 21st last year and a particular man who happens to be my neighbor and I know he is very wealthy collected the phone number of my friend's wife when my friend went to ease himself... I didn't tell my friend then but maybe I should have told him after reading this ... What do you think
You are obviously a bad friend. What's holding you back from cautioning your friend's wife if you ain't same with your destructive neighbor?
HarunaWest: Shut da fvck up Dude..many men reason that way, you and I reason that way.. It's the ones that follows it up with an attempt that we call goat or dog..Stop yarning carelessly like say you a from Jupiter.Obviously, you just wana garner likes...
That you are irresponsible does does not mean all men are. Learn to be civil in a public domain.
My sister is at the hospital with one of her twins who is seriously ill and I'm in her house taking care of the other twin. I have been here for a week and her husband has been disturbing me for sex. I refused but he is not listening. He touched me while I was asleep and I felt it then I immediately woke up. He pretends to be covering the baby sleeping beside me. I told him i will report him to my dad in the morning. He has apologised and promised not to do it again but I know he is lying because this is not the first time it has happened since I came here.
I can’t go back to sleep and I'm afraid if I close my eyes and sleep, he will come again.
Please should I report him to my dad or give him another chance?
I am afraid your brother in law has no respect for your family (his wife and in laws) hence, the repeated attempt to have carnal knowledge of you.
You may need to advice your sister to allow you take care of her child in your father's house. This will prompt her asking why, then you tell her you ain't safe in her house as her husband attempts to have carnal knowledge of you.
Realist5: The former Governor sounds to be Tambuwal.
Meanwhile, as we are reading these atrocities committed in years back, I believe we will also be reading some related stories about this administration in some years to come.
This is Nigeria, a country where we have recycled thieves as leaders.
Jochabed: When God said to ask him of anything there were no restrictions. I've seen HIV patients get cured, SS turned to AA, an amputated leg growing back. Trust me, whatever you think is " seemingly impossible" is actually so so easy with God. You just have to have a right standing with him, to get him answer your prayer. Ps somewhere in psalms or Isaiah God said and I quote " A cattle upon a thousand hills are mine, if I were hungry I will never ask you". What can't he do?
The op simply asked that you share your personal experience and not the scriptures. We all have Bible
Punch keeps acting like child denied of his candy.
The FG did what it needed to do when Uzodinma was a common man by preventing him to travel. Now that he is a governor and enjoys all rights and privileges that come that office, including traveling with diplomatic passport, there isn't anything the FG can do about that case as it stands.
Do we need to remind Punch or PDP that Uzodinma now has immunity against any prosecution just as Fayose could not be prosecuted despite all his crimes against the country?
Joke of a media outfit.
What are Fayose's crime? Learn to use allege if you cannot back your claim with evidence
NaijadrivaCars: I wonder what part of Nigeria does their food smell I know that ofe Nsala, Oha, Egusi Etc do not smell but has good aroma. Maybe they can't Cook or obu Ndi ihe no na mmanu
TheArchangel: Send him a genuine and apologetic SMS taking full responsibility and stop hiding by using pregnancy excuses to unleash evil behavior. What you did had nothing to do with pregnancy. You got mad at him and lashed out, the earlier you own up and accept your mistake the better.
Pregnancy is no "condition", learn to control your tongue and you will be fine.
You don't sound remorseful one bit, one minute you are asking for advice, the next minute you are dishing out threat. You even said you won't want to see him if he waits till you deliver. Aunty, go and shape your mouth
Psalmy2cute: China already disassociate themselves from this issue.... and I dont see Russia fighting for an Islamic cause.. Iran has got little to no support on this one
Romance › Re: What Qualities Do You Look Out For Before Agreeing On A Date? by AFONAMARO: 2:49pm On Mar 14, 2020
