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Citytrend:
Please stop by and pray for the world

Prayers? We need practical solutions

Habakus:
Your question is rhetorical.
But again, winning the war is subjective.
A lot of factors come into play in war:
Other interested countries like China,Russia,even North Korea might wade in heavily and change the preconceived outcome of the war.
The question that is pertinent is this:
if there's a full-scale WW3,who stands to lose more: Iran or USA?

I get your point

sagna112:
Dont underestimate their influence iran can ruin a continent

We're waiting for them.

alfasexy:
Vietnam had even less but whipped their asss.

Lols!
I wish they would try it again

Just thinking out loud! :

Budget
Iran: $6 billion
US: $716 billion

Troops
Iran: 523,000
US: 1.3 million

Aircraft
Iran: 509
US: 13,398

Navy vessels
Iran: 398
US: 415

Nukes
Iran: not known
US: 6,185

Missile range
Iran: 3,000 km
US: Any place on Earth

Guy's, who do you think is more prepared?

WIZGUY69:
In church.
Alot of our youth these days disregard God, imagine sprending your cross over night in Beer Parlour and Night clubs
If you don't have the zeal and the vibe to go to church, when not sit at home and plan your 2020?

What exactly are you talkng about? Where is it documented that it's a must to be in church every 31st night? Why are we (Nigerians) religious instead of being Christians?

If you like pack your property and live in the church from 31st December - 31st January. It doesn't change anything

Preshy561:
I hate it when you guys misspell Igbo language.

Like bringing "m and n" together. This thing doesnt exist in Igbo language.

Its mmebi, mma, mmiri etc
And not nmebi, nma, nmiri.
Thanks for understanding.

Ndewo onye nkuzi anyi

Preshy561:
He wants to quit the relationship cos the lady showed him her true colour; that's what I'm talking about.
@emboldened, why bring this up? And yes, that's if he felt entitled to her thighs.

And shouldn't he bolt when it's obvious she's all for the natural resources.
She even warned that he keeps his change untill its meaningful.

Uwa nmebi!

Op, you did well by calling off her intended visit to your family. You need to understand if you she is getting married to your resources or your person. The character displayed appears like one who will bolt on you when your resources goes down for any reason.

Years ago, was with this chick that I was there for and all. Treated her right and made her feel loved 100%.

I am of the school of thought that a woman you share your joy and sorrow with, deserves to be treated exceptionally. So this propelled me to be doing the following for her:

1. I subscribed her cable and data monthly.
2. I ensure she feed fine by buying bulk food stuff for her.
3. Bought 20 litters of fuel for her once it runs out.
4. Bought her gifts almost every month.
5. Take her out almost every weekend
6. Gave her quite a reasonable sum every month just to support and make her feel loved.
7. I comtnuted 80% of her rent then.

Then the evil spirit whispered to her that she worth more. She told me one day during an argument that she feel she was at the buttom of my budgeting, that I am not reaching out as much as she would want me to.
I politely asked her what she meant, she said she needs monthly allowance from me not minding the aforementioned sacrifices from my end.
I told her that she wasn't my staff, and that I do not work for her either, so I will not be paying her any dime.

She's still single at the moment, and said I cursed her just because I told her she will keep going in circles unless she changes her over sense of entitlement attitude.

Our women need to understand that relationship is not poverty alleviation scheme.
Do not go looking for a man who will carry all your family issues on his head like Gala, but get you a man who will not allow your carry your burden alone.

Preshy561:
This is why you people will always end up with the wrong women who pretend they don't like money until they are married.
For your information, she was even genuinely explaining herself to You, while the retired slay queens will wait till they are married before showing you guys pepper.
I don't know why you lots hate ladies sincerities and embrace pretense.

Exactly how my friend pretended not to like money whenever she's with her fiancè then, but now that she's married, na fire for fire.

I just deh pity the husband

This ain't about pretence, but a lady seeing a man as her money bag.

You obviously read were he said he's been giving her some cash whenever she visits, but explained to her this one time about being hard on cash after investing and all.

Was thinking we're looking at the issue logically. Don't tell me you feel a woman is entitled to a man's money once she allows him access to her thighs.

jeff1607:
please read where he explained his financial state to her n how he invested heavily in a biz venture, she is independent and wants to be respected,she should please play the part.

I won't generalise but most times some ladies don't care how you spend or what you save for emergencies,it's all about what you can give.

A child raised to be self reliant make or female doesn't behave that way

75% of ladies don't even care to know how you make the money or how much you have saved or invested, they just want the money to be spent on them

SEGLIZ:
see bird of same feather claiming saint.
with that your yeye advice up there, the same way you were in support of in-laws frustrating women in there matrimonial home in another thread. watching you in HD var.

You saw his negative epistles in the other thread too? Dude is mixing political analysis with family matters

kestine:
Guy u be idiot... Na thunder go fire you for this advice...

No mind the guy. He's mistaking family issue for political squabbles

TonyeBarcanista:
How did you conclude that the wife ks wicked? Let us watch what we say towards people's spouses.

I am very sure that the wife acted the way did because of the discomfort she feels with a second "woman" enjoying the attention and niceties of her husband.

Honestly, I can NEVER fault her! I have seen first hand where lovely and nice househelp got pregnant for oga and he was asked to marry her as second wife - which he did!

What are you even talking about? Didn't you read were he said he gave her money to purchase clothes for everyone? It baffiles me how you choose to wear glasses when reading important points that would aid your decision making.

So if he had gotten the clothes for her personally, the wife would have told the whole world that she caught him making out with her relative?

TonyeBarcanista:
Bros, honestly, you are crying over nothing.

Your wife is a woman and you should understand her own position. She doesn't want her relative help to enjoy same privilege as her and her children before things get out of hand. Also, she isn't comfortable with the affection you are showing the girl. You were even wrong to quarrel her and say nasty things to her. Your good intention was spoilt by your action.

Guy, na you find trouble! Even me sef de suspect say your eye de chook for the babe as you don de reason her as second mother.

BTW we have seen relative househelp "chanced" madam in their homes or get pregnant for the oga for house.

Guy, apologise to your wife, and ask her to send the girl to her people.

Mr BTW are you married; it baffles me when I read the type of advices you offer to people as regards marriage and all. I think you are better of in the politics section.

You mean the solution to the op's problem is to send the innocent girl home, then apologies to his wife because of her own insensitivity and wickedness to her distant relative?

Again, kindly remain in the politics section before you turn a man into a sisi with your beer palor advices

TonyeBarcanista:
So a sister shouldn't visit her brother because of the arrival of a wife abi? The problem is that those of you family that are close knitted think differently.

Did the OP tell you that her husband isn't caring for her and his kids? Your problem is that you'all want the man entirely to yourselves

If that's how you see it, IT IS YOUR BUSINESS

I won't be surprise if your wife spends every weekend visiting your people so as to bow down and worship them.

Why not take her to the museum at once.

Ndi nmadu self!!!

TonyeBarcanista:
I am very much aware. I don't expect everyone to love me in life! However, she should play her part rather than expect her husband to war with his family

Except we ain't reading from same script. Married women are meant to be in their husband's house and not in their brother's matrimonial home causing trouble for their sister inlaw. The op's sisters should stay away from their brother's family, and learn to mind their business. He is married and his wife and kids are his number one priority. He should grow some balls.

Don't tell me that your wife is an article purchased to be smiling to both willing and unwilling family members just to gladden your heart.

TonyeBarcanista:
The only way a woman can win my heart fully to hers is by showing love to my blood. There is no way a woman can love and respect you without showing same to your family

And are you aware that there are some family members that will never love your spouse no matter what? In this case, are you going to strip your wife naked for them?

BTW, before you come asking your national anthem, I am married with kids

bukatyne:
Incase you have not noticed, I do not have the time for juvenile discussions especially with peeps who do not have idea about life.

I am also not responsible for your mistrust in women. You can resolve your mummy issues and leave my moniker off your whinning.

Those posts you quoted were a discussion with someone and if you are not intelligent to follow them, stay clear.

If you understand resolution tactics, you should know ideally that if DNA test proofs a man not the father,

they should test the mother if she is also their mother

. Baby switching is not a new thing.

So you mean they should test the mother after she had admitted to be adulterous?

She should do that in her father's house

doitforyou:
But at least you can buy a one way ticket and self deport. From what I read on this thread, you can’t self deport in the UAE, you will be thrown in jail because you’re owing fines from your overstay. If that’s true, that’s crazy!

Why crazy? You wan leave free after your visa don expire, then kawa come back in the name of self deportation.

Oga, dem go catch you throw inside jail ho ha!!!

LordVarys:
Inside life. See Sylva who GEJ removed �. Nigerian politics is weird.
Sylva showed more respect than the stooge Dickson who they fought for and removed Sylva for.

Dickson's candidate was equally stopped by same Jonathan. He is only doing what's good for the state

BlueRayDick:
Can ihedioha just go to court please? All these naked village square dance ihedioha and Okorocha are dancing is just rubbish.

Why not just recover these alleged stolen government properties within the ambit of the law?

If ihedioha truly loves the people like he claims and he's trying to do right thing, then he should know he's endangering the people he was voted to govern by pitting his supporters against Okorocha's. Now u are claiming u Will storm his estate with "citizens". What if he has plans of repelling Ur "citizens" with another set of "citizens"?. Then it degenerates into total fracas and the state becomes ungovernable. Will that be in the best interest of Ur administration?

If state of emergency is declared in the state I hope he knows it won't serve his best interest

Was it not the court notice they went to summit before Okorocha's men attacked them?

EdiAbali:
Tiger is called Agu, even Lions are now called Agu. since you lack understanding

Wise fool, you finally provided the simple answer.

You truly reek of understanding and wisdom hence your moniker.

Ewu Hausa

EdiAbali:
Originally, Leopard is the main Agu we know,

Igbo people now call all animals of the big cats Agu, even lion that is Odum is stylishly replacing Agu

So Igbo"s have main and fake Agu?

You are yet to answer my question. What's Tiger called in Igbo language?

EdiAbali:
Leopard is Agu

I don't know what Hyena is called

Tiger didn't have Igbo name, because there was no Tiger in West Africa or even Africa as a whole

So igbo language have names for only animals within Africa/West Africa?

Nna, gwa m Okwy!!!

EdiAbali:
Leopard is Agu

Igbo people are never came in contact with Tiger

My question is straightforward. What's Tiger called in Igbo language?

No one is asking if you have seen or come in contact with a Tiger.

NnamdiN:
do we have tigers in Africa let alone in igbo land?

Landlord, my question is simple; what's Tiger called in Igbo language.

Are you trying to say that all the animals with known names in Igbo language are all in Africa?

NnamdiN:
leopard is agu, lion Odum

Edi=Hyena

Are you sure you are from Igbo? If leopard is called Agu, then what's Tiger called?

hammerVJ:
WAT I SAID IS TRUTH.


IF U CLAIM OKOROCHA LOOTED AND BUILT US UNIVERSITY, I PREFER THAT TO THOSE THAT WILL LOOT AND SEND THEIR CHILDREN TO STUDY IN LONDON AND US.


LOOT AND USE THE MONEY TO DEVELOP ABUJA OR LAGOS OR SEND IT ABROAD.


IS OKOROCHA THE FIRST OR LAST?


WILL IHEDIOHA NOT LOOT?


MIND U, AM NO SUPPORTER OF OKOROCHA. ABAGWORO CAN ATEST TO DAT HERE

What's your point exactly? If Imo State needs a private university, it should be funded privately. An individual should not use state funds to open an institution and claim ownership at the same time.

If the East are in dare need of a private university, let them approach private individuals to invest and operate one as its applicable in the West

Infinityk:
I'm from ekiti and don't really like APC
But fayose was a disgrace to ekiti,it made me to become ashamed of my state
Now a governor who is serious is in power
I hope he develops ekiti state

Where were you 8 years ago when Fayemi was the governor? Where were you when you people massively campaigned for Fayose which made Fayemi loose his second term bid then?

You just found your voice?

Banmeallday:
They have sold out their people to Yoruba and ARewa and pretended to be fighting among themselves...SEE DEM. No seaport, no airport for their side

They did not succeed. Amaechi and Akpabio were practically disgraced and wiped off the face of politics in their respective states. As for Nsima, he is a serial looser.

ExcelDeBaron:
Stop dividing people along state lines. FYI, the richest Igboman is from Abia state. Ebonyi is doing just great at there own pace. Not every state is rich like Lagos in Yorubaland. Osun is there as the poorest. #FactsOnly

Oga, abeg tell us the richest igbo man that's from Abia