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blacq2009:
Hi house, I'm just confused on a matter and wants your opinion.
There's a girl around my office that I'm seeing that happens to be my boss's crush. The girl, before we got into a relationship, was showing in me. I was 'shockprised' one day when my boss told me blatantly he loves the girl so much ( My boss is like a friend to me). I was so lost as to what to say that moment. He now talks every minute about the girl to me and I just play along.
But the girl told me she loves me so much and wants to marry me. What do I do, respected Nairalanders? Cos I'm more confused than Confuse itself.


CC: Lalasticlala, abeggi!

Do you love her more than your job? Bro, women full this country. Job is not abundant like that o.

Senator how much do you take home every month?

this is strong

There is some truth to this. I certainly wouldn't want my wife kissing and hugging one pretty boy on camera for the world to see. No way. I certainly don't want a weightlifter.

I like female lawyers though. They can provide you with interesting angles to different situations.

We are in agreement concerning strippers.

The issue I have with female soldiers is the way the beautiful ones are harassed by their male superiors.

Be careful what you wish yourself just because you want to create an interesting thread.

sorry for laughing at your situation bro. I know how you feel. Some girls get so real that they just turn you off instantly. I remember one fine busty girl that I was tripping for some years ago. She made a vivid joke about farts and I just lost interest right away. Anytime I think of it, I just can't imagine why she had to say that.

Bro, warn her. She should not seek to disgust the man she loves. It's counterproductive.

Estharfabian:
Lmfao... iffa hear!

You don't believe me? Oh, I'm heartbroken. If not because I don chop night food, I for no chop again dis night. Baby how can you doubt me? After all we've been through together?

No be naija babe. She for don leave tey tey.

Estharfabian:
I think you just said My part...

...U abandoned me...

I'm a baby daddy. Oya follow me go.

PunkyVeer:
Lol @ he didn't look like he even had one kid. How does a man with kids look? Bloated tummy? Moobs?

Lol.

Estharfabian:
Uh... No One wants to Date A baby dada..

So you are here? After abandoning this young man for months.

Waiting to read lies.

The man should just divorce her and marry the maid abeg. Stop punishing this woman.

He is not a married man. So there is no wife anywhere to contend with. However, you think you need a man who will be both lover and provider. I think you already know what you want. It's just a pity that he was unprofessional at work, pursuing a relationship with you to the point of earning you a sack and leaving his job for a less lucrative one.

You have made a decision already. Carry it out.

Sometimes you go out and see so many ladies looking like all they have to offer is sex and nothing else. They just want to be sex symbols by all means. The artistes are only singing about their observations.

Honestly, I find sexy girls attractive and that's normal. If your appearance keeps drawing my attention to how well rounded your bumbum is or how full your breasts are, you really cannot blame me for seeking a "one nightstand" arrangement with you. You certainly won't blame KCee for singing about your bumper and rear lights. Nor be in fault.

Tales by moonlight

Congrats brother. Your hustle paid off. More progress.

House helps are human beings with dignity and even ego. We must be careful how we treat them.

Sometimes you don't want to explain stuff to them because you don't feel obliged but that explanation may go a long way to clear many assumptions. She thought she was no longer allowed to go to school because she did not understand the reason for the impromptu relocation.

Generally, a younger cousin or sister is often preferable to a total stranger when you need someone to mind your children.

It is a difficult situation bro. It will hurt the pride of some men to hear such news from a neighbor. They may even tell you to your face to "mind your business". I think you should not let the woman know that you are aware of her affair. She may be desperate enough to harm you.

It's a pity. Some people don't deserve the kind of spouses they have. Just act oblivious. Believe me, if you tell the man, he will confront his wife and if she denies repeatedly, he will reveal you as the source just to prove a point. Then it will get ugly for you bro.

If you can inform the man anonymously, do so. If not, stay out of the picture for your safety and dignity.

PDP and fiction...bread and butter.

CaroLyner:
Abegi!!! I've seen Nigerians post this pic and others about physical looks using different "not so good looking" men. Have those men said nonsense about it. NIGERIANS TAKE EVERYTHING TOO PERSONAL.

Exactly.

When comedians were performing jokes about Obj's so-called ugliness, where was he? Besides, I don't find her post offensive. Mr Ibu has always played the ugly, uneducated, funny man in movies. He is a professional at it. This is just extra publicity for his already trending brand just like Mr Odega who created "Gerrarahia".

Ali baba should not have taken this personally.

Thank God there is precedence from a PDP case. Amaechi did not even contest at the general elections but was sworn in. The same thing must apply here.

Jesusloveyou:
d inconclusiveness of d election cannot be unfavourable to audu, it is wada that suppose to be shock,

No. A man that thought he was winning later hears that the result is inconclusive. Bro, that's a disappointment. Anyway, the news came after his death.

Too many loopholes in our laws.

Whether he lived or not, the results were inconclusive. The detail of the time of death in relation to the announcement is irrelevant.

Perhaps S.R only intended to debunk the mirthless rumour that he died as a result of the unfavorable news.

One thing I have learned painfully is that revenge cannot sooth you. Revenge is empty. So you "do your own back".... Then what? Did it return lost time and opportunities? Did it erase the incident from your memory?

I am a very rigid fellow who believes in restitution but life keeps showing me that things don't always turn out the expected way and that in spite of it all, we have to move on. It's painful but it has happened and you're still alive.

What if she died after school? Would the money not still be lost? What if she committed crime and got deported before graduation? Bro, the money is gone. The time is gone. Let the hurt go as well.

Danfuster:
Lmao... I don't know this condom still exist. By the way any girl who accepts this kinda condom to be used on her is cheap. I'd rather not f*ck than use this condom... Unless I wanna punish the girl.

Lol. Gold circle is subsidized that's why it's affordable. It is certainly safe. This way, even the poor man would be able to have safe sex.

grayline:
My brother, things are that bad o.

Bro, why are you making this story look true? You wan make Nairalanders hammer you?

kunbit:
The grayline guy can still show his face.

Smh for this generation

Lol. You believe this convoluted story?