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@Simonwal

How can you come to this place and brag about raping a child. Im pretty sure that poor girl was not up to 21, you are really sick. I hope God repays you with the same action that you commited against this little girl, i guess your daughter will most likely get what you caused against this young girl. My previous comment should be disregarded and i hope the girl's boyfriend gets his hands or weapon if he pleases. And how dare you bring God's name into your unspeakable action. Go to hell

WOW!!!! Honestly this is jucier than a nollywood movie.
My advise is to confront her about what her boyfriend said and tell her that you are going to the police. Make sure that you take precautions that would help you because the girl seems crazy. Either way let your uncle know "you may have to dumb the whole act between you and the girl make it more um, innocent."
good luck and i guess watch your back

My boyfriend and i had a discussion about this topic today while getting brunch after church and he seemed really cool about how i felt until he asked me" Whether i would still feel the same way about a family if i were engaged but waited until i was ready to get married.
I guess he didnt understand what i was trying to tell him so i just left the topic alone. I have a feeling that he is into getting married now than ever.

@ adconline
he is the baby of the family. He has 2 older bros that are married and a sister that is kinda close. His mom loves me so she is so sure that im the one for him, we've known eachother for a long time just started dating this past year so we havent been together that long.

@Radiant
thank you for the advice i really know now that i would be doing him an injustice to keep these feeling to myself.

@ Radiant
He is in law school. I dont mind us being so close in age cus im not a big fan of much older men.

I still get scared and nervous after seeing this video. I thought that child was finished, he really had an angel protecting him. And the people in the station that saw him roll and then the train were so shocked you could see their body language. Thank God

I am not selfish, at least i dont feel that way. Im not cheating on my bf or tryiing to leave him i just dont feel like getting married. He didnt ask me to marry him, he just talks about it more now than ever( maybe his family is influencing him).  Im going to be 23 the end of this year and finishing my first degree. I just feel too young to be in this predicament. Here in the States i know people who get married at 40 to their one true love after being married and divorced early in their 20s. I dont want to rush into something and then end up in a divorce because that is the thread now.

Rosabelle:
Well Im 27 and I feel the exact same way as the poster. In fact at 23 I so felt like I was ready to do the whole marriage thing, but it left me after a while and right now, I want to travel the world and see places and people. I feel some people are just not cut out for the whole family-scene thing even if as a woman, she might love children.
My folks always say the most important thing for any human being is to have genuine friends and strive to be happy. So getting married shouldnt be the ultimate goal for anyone. Theres more to life.
Each person has their path to follow and its never the same as the other person's path.
@Poster, Ive got a friend who's 32 and she's a pediatrician too. She loves her job and as of today is not in any mood to talk about getting married. So its not abnormal. You might even wake up in 4 yrs and decide you are ready. Or you may never want to. Theres nothing abnormal about it.
In the meantime though, dont lead a man on. Let him off.

Thank you for your advice, ill think about it. i just dont want to end a good thing, without knowing for sure its not going to work

toba:
I av similar challenge.My girl friend is 7yrs yonger than me&she says i must wait for another 6yrs to get married 2her.But we've reached an agreement to wait 3 instead of 6yrs.So sit/reach an agreement,if u truly love d guy,

I do love him, i dont see why everyone is making a big deal about your age gap my parents are 11 years apart and are still together. Im glad you guys were able to compromise. My bf and i are only 3 years apart but i love him the same. I just wish i can tell him my feelings, i dont know if he would leave if he knew my feelings about this whole marriage thing

macfarland:
@poster,
I guess you are a female between the ages of 18 and 23, have lived or mingled in a culture that is not yours, things going well with you and it likely you are also a pretty girl. You will agree with that 85% of other girls in your category feels same way too. Otherwise, when you will have reached like 27, 28, or 30years and probably have had good times and bad times of the intricacies invovled in jumping around with different men in the course of a relationship and tasting all the waters, you will definitely appreciate the fact that a man you love so much and have enjoyed good relationship with finally have asked for your hand in marriage! You are not ready for now marriage simple! Wondering what you are waiting for. All the same best of luck, a little wait you mght hit it off with a bigger boy, u never know!

yes you are right im 22 but the guy is only 25 three years age difference not much.And i do feel 30 or older is the right age for me to consider marriage. He thinks im crazy to wait that long, but i love him. Who knows if we will even last that long so i just want to make sure its the right time and age for me.

Is it ok for me to cringe when my boyfriend brings up marriage and kids in the future. Its just that i dont see my self as a family person, i love kids in fact im going to be a pediatrician (odd i know). I love him, im not looking else where but i dont want him be that serious. Most girls i know want their boyfriends to look at them as potential wives but i dont like it.

@ poster

Its your body, do what you want with it. Just because you were a virgin doesnt mean you cant explore your sexuality after you've lost it already.
Dont mind the rest

Aloy~Emeka:
Because they don't want their kids bleaching like tpia and Akala. Biracial kids will automatically solve the Akala syndrome.

https://www.stuffnigerianpeoplelike.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/fade-cream1.jpg
tpia

LoL

@ poster
Well im from Southern Nigeria but for some reason i dont see that many of us marrying white people its an abomination to our parents lol

Kenny_G:
i wud like her to do the asking, on her knees, infront of the whole family,

HaHa did you tell her about this? i would like to know what her respond to you was

190:
Is it two love Birds or TO love birds~

It T-O lovebirds, two can work as well but i meant (to)

Popular in demand women only exsists in hollywood (my opinion), i dont know a girl that a lot of men lust after like that in the real world. There are girls that guys give attention to for one reason or the other (ex: hour glass shape, big butts, big boobs, flirtatious kind of girls, not necessarily the most attractive facial features type of girls )

Akwa Ibom Isongo

na2day?:
i say we are on topic, read my lips, i mean read my fingers

Wtf? Keep your lips and five dirty fingers to your self. I left it alone yesterday.

I would not give anything, i will become lost in trying to do every single thing to please him which will most likely have him think im crazy because i can read his mind lol.

Shola2009:
Probably when its just the two of you.OR u can send an sms or e-mail, sms preferably

wow an email, that would definitely be a huge surprise

tomaagy:
just the two of us!

how cute

I know valentine day is still 4 months away but i couldnt help it
How would you pop the question to a girlfriend/boyfriend and where would you do it (example in front of family, friends, public or just the two of you?) 
just curious

My guy didnt want to tell me (even hypothetically, hmm), but i would like to be asked on my birthday in front of family and friends, best gift ever.
if only he comes on nairaland lol

like a famous song said 419 is just a game, I say Hell No not when it has to do with my money.
Too many nigerians are trying to opening credit cards with my name already so im not going to add one more to that list
No thank you

Ebonyeyes:
Wow some Nigerian guys look like they could be 50mths pregnant. Now who the hell said American girls have flat tummies? America is one of the countries together with the UK  in an obesity crisis. You probably are watching too many Hollywood movies/tv shows because I guarantee you the average American girl is a size 14 or 16.

Some countries are in an obesity crisis because of excess food and little activity.

I've figured that some of the guys here serectly hate women and they only come on here to express here.
How could they talk about women having a stomach and over look the fat men all over Nigeria Europe and the U.s. with their stomach large enough to carry another grown man. smh

OMG this guy is deranged, who thinks like this? talking about raping women?
And after seeing your profile picture its all in perspective now. There are so many weird people on this site

Ok this is the romance section what does pot bellies have to do here doesnt this belong in the health section?

FYI: Have you seen nigerian men lately, they have the pregnant bellies, people think its because he is rich no its because he is carrying the couple next child

mantiete:
Can a man die for love? If your answer is in the negative, a man has proved you wrong. Nnamdi Odoegbu, a resident in Lugbe,a suburb of the Federal Capital Territory believes no price is too much to pay for love. Penultimate Thursday, Nnamdi demonstrated this. He took his life after his lover, one Jumai reportedly decided to jilt him. Neighbours woke up to find thelifeless body of Nnamdi,aka Iron Iron hanging from a rope.

An eye witness told Daily Sun that the deceased decided to end his life since he was unable to effect a change in the attitude of his lover, Jumai. Nnamdi had reportedly accused Jumai of frequenting night clubs, an allegation which forced her to end the love affair.
Unable to bear the separation, the late Odoegbu was said to have resorted to always threatening to commit suicide if he was unable to bend Jumai’s mind. Not even the intervention by some of his family members and friends could help the situation, it was further learnt.
Police in Abuja confirmed the story to Daily Sun and said they got involved when Jumai reported a threat to her own life by the deceased.

“Quite naturally, the deceased was arrested and later detained and released to go and settle his crisis,” Police said.

But the deceased was said to have gone to the extent of physically assaulting his lover after the intervention of the Police. Apparently frustrated by Jumai’s unyielding attitude, the deceased was said to have confided in his friend called Peter that he was going home.
Unknown to Peter, the deceased “went home” the next day. Authorities at the National Hospital were said to have pronounced Odoegbu dead.

Police told Daily Sun that Odoegbu has since been buried in his home town, Okpuje in Nsukka Local Government Area of Enugu state.

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2009/oct/05/national-05-10-2009-019.htm

He went to beat her after she reported that he assaulted her to the police?, yes he seem jilted. Suicide is such a serious act becaue there is no undoing it. He should have had someone there because he obviously was not thinking right. When its love its hard to think straight. The guy sounds like he was controlling, most guys would not go to that sort of extreme like he did. Hope he rests in peace

posakosa:
Put this in the mental illness/Crime section.

Only fools kill themselves for love.

heartless

Yea 18 years old is a legal age here so, hey if he is cute and mature then we are good. Under 18 is a stretch when i was 19 i dated a 17 yo but he was turning 18 later in the year

Rosabelle:
LOOLL. Looks like youre new here. Thats what people do once a thread goes past page 3. They flirt and then take over like a whole page on basically no-talk. Relax. We might be online, but these are still nigerians!

Oh ok, i guess im out of luck