Stephen2324: Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.
Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.
The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.
More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.
We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.
Please clap for yourself šš» Well said! You describe every relationship today.
Tntsi: This is 2023. Africa has woken up. Autocratic democracy is no democracy. State capture democracy is no democracy. Unconstitutional democracy is no democracy.
If we can't have a clear election and our elected leaders, then we don't need democracy.
If you like sack everybody and bring in anybody. You will only succeed in putting the people that will take you down. The wind is blowing and it will blow you away.
Had bank issues and doesnt have access to funds this weekend. She was the first I told and didn't even bother to ask her for money since she is always claiming that she doesn't have.
Only for me to overheard her female friend on phone telling her āthanks my love, God should keep blessing you so you send me more ā
She sent her money yesterday when we had non at home thinking I won't find out.
You are waiting for your girlfriend to give you money? What a LOOSER
TheUnsure: I need sensible contributions please, no trolls.
I met a man recently who likes me a lot, maybe even love sef. Heās really serious and he wants to marry me but Iām not really feeling the whole thing for a few reasons.
Heās probably a dream come true for some women, rich, caring, generous and there is a possibility of him becoming a king in some years (which I'm not really a fan of, royal families, royal issues). But my issue is that he has a wife already but they donāt have kids (the issue is from the wife) and he wants to marry me as second wife because he does not want to continue waiting after 10 years of marriage. And I know he would give me the world if I have kids with him.
My main problem is attraction, it is not there. He has a small stature and Iām naturally drawn to tall guys. Iām taller than he is and I just canāt get over that. I know I would enjoy the relationship but I feel like Iām always going to be feeling like I settled. Please note, Iām a single mother of 2 in my early 30s and Iām not doing bad financially too. Heās been begging to be intimate and Iāve been responding with a firm No. Iām not interested in starting what I cannot finish. I know if I give in, I would grow to love him because he's actually a nice person but....
I told him No firmly last night that it can't work between us but this man has been relentless, Iām just wondering if I'm not making a mistake...
No insults please, sensible inputs. Thanks
A single mother of two in her 30sš³ Do you even have a choice?
iwaeda: Tinubu's Palliative: What can you do with N8,000?
I donāt know what people think of the palliatives, but this is just āpetrol subsidy Palliativeā if you consume 20,000 Petrol a month, 8000 will cover about 40% of your total consumption, is that not an ease ?
Why will you not dress decently, why are you soo eager to look like a LovePeddler, why will someone go to Immigration office nakedly, you canāt dress decently once in your lifetime?
Corper in shock after receiving allowance alert of N330k instead of N33k and doesnt know what to do.
Take a listen!!!
#wetindeyhappentv
What is she afraid? Nigeriaās money no be anybodyās money! At least she didnāt looted it, people will loot trillions in this country and still work freeā¦ so what is 330k? I will chop am! Authorities come, I chp am wetin una de du? If you are still playing by the rules in Nigeriaā¦ sorry okay, cox they will continue to fry you! LEARN TO LIVE LIKE A NIGERIAN!!
Well thatās not their decision to make. If not for the Kingdom, they wouldnāt be standing there being proud of been a British citizen. The west has lost its senses, where is respect for history?
IyaebeTheGreat: Will you leave your child with a mentally deranged woman? Be fair please. He indirectly killed the boy
You are mad!! You always find ways to blame men. Be sensible and stop this nonsense, If it were a case of custody you will now say the woman should be given custody. She now committed a crime and you are now finding a way to blame the husband.
tonye33: Hi Dickson, I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.
She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naĆÆve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.
After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.
Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.
Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming. Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.
Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.
She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.
After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?
I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.
This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.
They provoked russia with its NATO and EU allies, they went to russia's doorstep and pilled Ukraine out to allign it to west while they made it very clear that russia is an enemy, you cant accept western puppet in your regional influence. Remember the cuban mesile crises?
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