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CelebritiesWhat Are Your Favorite 2022 Songs by Aidejay(op): 1:51pm On Oct 08, 2022
My Favorite Songs This Year


The Weeknd - Sacrifice

Kizz Daniel ft Tekno - Buga

Davido - Stand Strong

Adekunle Gold - Five Star

Fireboy ft Asake - Bandana

Ruger - Girlfriend

Chris Brown ft Wizkid - Call Me Every Day

Omah Lay ft JB - Attention

Asake ft Olamide - Omo ope

Lady Donli ft Lagos Panic - Thunderstorm In Surulere

Mide Kuti - No More Wars

Major Lazer, Major League DJ's Tiwa Savage - Koo Koo Fun

Asa - 'V' Album

Adekunle Gold - Catch Me If You Can Album

Yours?

CrimeRe: Angry Man Chokes Daughter After Video Of Her Lesbian Activities Went Viral by Aidejay(m): 10:48pm On Oct 05, 2022
My sympathy for that lady.
She doesn't deserve this, hopefully one day her father grows up and accepts the fact that his daughter is lesbian and will be for the rest of her life.
CultureRe: Pictures I Created Or Edited Myself. Using Basic Tools. I'm No Expert Or Profess by Aidejay(op): 2:09pm On Oct 02, 2022
Playing Tems - HIGHER

Foreign AffairsRe: Cuba Overwhelmingly Approves Same-sex Marriage In Referendum (Photos) by Aidejay(m): 11:37am On Sep 28, 2022
I'm so happy for them! Best news this week.
RomanceRe: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Aidejay(m): 4:46pm On Sep 15, 2022
Everything you people will stigmatize and shame.

Unwanted pregnancy;Stigmatize
STD's; stigmatize
Abortion; stigmatize
Sex Education, stigmatize
Testing & Knowing status; stigmatize
Family planning now; stigmatize
FamilyRe: My Parents Destroyed My Life In Guise Of Love, I'm Now Depressed Daily by Aidejay(m): 8:48am On Sep 14, 2022
Wow!
Ablemed, I'm also the only male child with elder sisters. Were the same age infact, And our stories aren't different, The only divergence is that my parents didn't pamper me. They made sure I did chores, sent me on errands, put me in charge of things, they policed where I went to and who I went with, dictated all my schools forced me to attend church, hammered rules into my head and basically regimented me.

So basically were the same but with different parenting styles.

You won't believe that I still had self esteem issues, I couldn't talk to women for most parts, I became introverted, hardly went out, lacked Confidence and communication skills, shy and quiet. Had body image issues, speech issues too, only comfortable around people I know, Just like you!

But if you see me today! You'd be shocked. Your parents shielded you bro, But you're on a right path. This is how you begin to come out of your shell. This is how you begin to move forward. Stop blaming them, you've the next 6 years of your life to break their grooming and become the person you want to be. But having 2 parents looking out for you bro is a blessing, accept it embrace it while shedding their influence small small. Nothing happens overnight. You can't undo everything in a week it takes time but it's one step.

Despite the fact that my parents Didn't "pamper" me I still didn't turn out better.

You need to retrain yourself, get a skill, learn something. Instead of moving out now use that money to learn something that would take you out of the house daily, Interact with people, even if it is 1 person everyday. Start leaving your comfort zone, go and start conversations with strangers. Smile!

They don't install confidence like an app. You build it bit by bit. Apologize to your parents because you still need that support structure if you really want to stand strong.

You're privileged and it's a good thing. Start using it to benefit yourself. If at age 30 you're still blaming mummy & daddy then it means you're an idiot.

The things your friends are doing that you aren't you'll end up doing them if you start working on yourself now, they had the opportunity to have a different upbringing that doesn't mean they're better than you. It's people like you (us) that end up doing that most because we didn't start earlier. Learn from them but don't copy them.

In the past 2 years my confidence has increased, I'm not so introverted anymore, I go out everyday to work and communicate with people, I went on a date last week, I'm meeting strangers and we're talking, and vibing, I can go out and come in.

Masturbating & porn has a negative way of influencing how you look at women and men, it also gives you that false perception on how you should build relationships with people. So bro you need to stop that. That one too is in your hands and is totally up to you. I did myself #selftraining #selfimprovement.

Your parents gave you the best parenting, now it's time to shed the parts you don't like.

Take it from someone who understands this thing.
Music/RadioRe: These Wizkid Songs Were Hit But Were So Underrated by Aidejay(m): 8:42pm On Sep 09, 2022
This List Is So Incomplete. Wiz Is Amazing,
And He Has Sooooo Many Underrated Songs.

I Can Mention 6 From His Made In Lagos Album.
Grace, Steady, Gyrate, Reckless, Piece Of Me, Smile.

The Entire Soundman EP Is Underrated.

SFTOS Had Songs That Went Under The Radar Too.


Then There Are Songs Like

Gucci Snake Which Is Quite Popular And Was On The Verge Of Becoming A Hit.

Gbese With Blackjerzee

MediciNe & Medicine Remix

His Discography Is Outstanding.
Foreign AffairsRe: The Carolean age, money & stamps: What changes with the Queens death? by Aidejay(m): 8:04pm On Sep 09, 2022
klonboi:
[b]I don't see him as a king per say. But I see him as someone who will redeem the image of the family. He will reveal alot of Truth and hidden things. Infact he will
1. Conduct referendum in Nigeria and several other countries. To your tent oh Israel! 2. Alot of secrets will be revealed. Brethren this is the beginning of the end of the world
God! grin SMH...! This Iddddiiiot Is Still Waiting For A White Man To Come And Rescue It.
RomanceRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Aidejay(m): 7:40pm On Sep 09, 2022
The Page 1 Of Posts Like This Are Usually Cringe. You Have To Jump To The Last Pages To Get True Views That Matter. By The Time You Get Here Someone Would've Said What's On Your Mind. Even Better Than You Could've Put It.

OP I'm Sure You've Gotten Your Answer.

But Let Me Chip In As Someone On The Receiving End.

See After The Sex The Entire Build Up To That Moment, The Horniness, The Dirty Chats The Whole Thing Dies Down Immediately. It's The Law.

Most Men Will Loose Interest But You Need To Build It Up Again. They Always Come Back.
FoodRe: I'm Addicted To Eating Biscuits! by Aidejay(m): 10:52pm On Sep 08, 2022
Na Your Frustrations Dey Cause This One.



You're Eating Your Feelings.



Biscuits Obviously Give You That Short Term Rush It's Dopamine.
FoodRe: I'm Addicted To Eating Biscuits! by Aidejay(m): 10:52pm On Sep 08, 2022
Unzerious:
Are you a BABYdaddy?

And by the way, I don't see anything wrong in spending a Hundred Naira on Biscuits... But, I think you should describe how you Ate them! Like Cookie Monster huh
grin nom nom nom nom nom nom. me want cookies grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Uju Anya's Hateful Post On Queen Elizabeth II Death Condemned by Aidejay(m): 10:46pm On Sep 08, 2022
Can't Wait For Year 3022, 100 Years From Now When Nigerians Will Still Be Blaming The Brits For All Their Problems.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is It A Crime To Be Honest In This Country ? by Aidejay(m): 3:16pm On Sep 07, 2022
sammieking2017

What Ever You Decide To Do, Please Gather Enough Evidence Wether A Video Or Audio Recording. If You're Submitting A Letter Get A Photocopy Of It. And Record What Ever Conversation You And The Man Or Anyone Else Have Especially Anyone Your Conscience Or Mind Doesn't Agree With.
If Anyone Calls You From The Company Or Tries To Have A Conversation With You Please Record It.
Someone Is Playing Games And Being Mischievous. They're Probably Sitting Somewhere Smirking At The Confusion And Problems They've Caused. Your Remaining Steps Now Is Evidence Gathering. Snap Pictures, Record Videos/Audios.

It's Time To Start Thinking Like A Criminal.
InvestmentRe: 60 African Startups Receive $4 Million Equity-Free Funding From Google by Aidejay(m): 2:40pm On Sep 07, 2022
See As The Thread Dey Scanty.

Wetin Concern Nairalands With Tech Startups And Advancements.

They Can't Relate.
Foreign AffairsRe: Pope Declares Mankind Is 'experiencing The Outbreak Of World War Three'(Pics) by Aidejay(m): 11:05pm On Sep 01, 2022
This Pope Has To Be The Most Boring Pope Ever.

Next Pope Should Be A Woman. Spice Up The Dying Tradition A Little Bit.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu, Shettima Distancing Themselves From Buhari's Failure - PDP Mocks APC by Aidejay(m): 10:24pm On Sep 01, 2022
Moh247:
cool



Wait first let campaign start officially many projects are intentionally being delayed so that they can commission it before February

You obviously don't know Tinubu's Lagos strategy

Tinubu that has very bad mouth he is keeping silent for a reason

Osinbajo spoke grammar, travelled, Ameachi lobbied all the Cabal.. Yet just two words from Tinubu " Emi lokan" "Olule" their gra gra ended

*When Buhari , Fashola, Tinubu and Shettima Go to commission Second Niger Bridge PDP would cry blood

*When the complete Lagos Ibadan expressway way they would almost faint

*they are intentionally stalling Manila power plant and the installation by Siemens

*Lagos light rail they are keeping for a purpose

*Dangote refinery when Buhari follows Tinubu and Shetima to help commision Dangote's refinery


.
grin

This!!!!!!!!!!
PoliticsRe: Where Have All The Insults Gone? by Aidejay(op): 10:20pm On Sep 01, 2022
NothingDoMe:
But una Emilokan go visit the person una dey call goatluck. cheesy cheesy cheesy.
All of una go dey alright in the end cheesy grin
The Same Goodluck Wanted To Be APC's Consensus Candidate.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu, Shettima Distancing Themselves From Buhari's Failure - PDP Mocks APC by Aidejay(m): 10:10pm On Sep 01, 2022
GEJ That Was Happily Jumping And Waggling His Tail Like A Puppy When It Became Clearer That Some Elements Within The APC Were Trying To Foist Him As A Consensus Candidate Before The Primaries.

Lol! To Distance Himself From Buhari's Failures Seff Dey Hungry Am.
TravelRe: Incredible New Footage Shows Titanic Wreck In Highest Quality Ever (Video, Pics) by Aidejay(m): 9:42pm On Sep 01, 2022
I Haven't Seen The Titanic Movie Ever.

I Intend To Go Down In History As The Only Person I Know That Hasn't Seen The Movie Yet!

Besides That, Seems All The Plans To ReFloat The Ship Have Been Abandoned. I See They've Opted For Diving Tours Now. At A Huge Price!
TravelRe: Incredible New Footage Shows Titanic Wreck In Highest Quality Ever (Video, Pics) by Aidejay(m):
Uprightness100:
[i]The Castrophic Disater of this Ship should be a lesson to humans.
Many people today run their mouth anyhow against GOD and they pay dearly for it.
]
god Didn't Sink The Titanic A Mere Ice Berg Did.


It's A Tale Of Human Error, Bad Communication, Over Confidence & Resilience Not Some Pedigree To Tell Us About How Your Imaginary god Kills People.
PoliticsWhere Have All The Insults Gone? by Aidejay(op): 8:07pm On Sep 01, 2022
It's been long I saw

"Hydraulic Soup" grin
"Ewedu and Amala"
"Cone head"
"Skull miners"
"Yaribanza"
"Yaribas"
"Coward"
"Betrayers"
"Fake pastor"
"Awolowo drank rat poison"
"Fulani slaves"
"Sophisticated morons"
"Bullion"
grin
/
"Foolanis"
"Jubril Alsudan"
"Bullhari"
"Foolhari"
"Head slammers"
"Religion of piss"
"Hoodlums"
"Capital of poverty"
"Terrorists"
"Poverty ridden....."
/
"Contraption"
"Shithole"
"Unity Beggers"
"Ndi One Nigeria"


Among Many Others.

Who Remembers When These And More Were Popular Lingo On This Platform.

They Seem To Have Been Replaced With

"Agbado & Casava"
"Yekini Amoda"
"Tinubu"
"Atiku"
"Urchin"
"Pee Poo"
"Drug Baron" Etc.

My Point Is, Same Set Of People But Different Lingo, Though A New Obsession, Same Patterns, Same Approach, Same Insults.

I've Said I Won't Say Anything Till Election Day In 2023, I'll Let My Vote Do The Talking.

But You Seff Reason Am.
Person Wey Dey Abuse & Insult You For The Past 8 Years, Come Carry Market Come Say Make You Buy!

You Go Buy?

This Should Explain The Skepticism Some People Have.
CultureRe: Pictures I Created Or Edited Myself. Using Basic Tools. I'm No Expert Or Profess by Aidejay(op): 10:05am On Sep 01, 2022
Hey it's a new month.
Putting texts on pictures seems to be my forte.

PoliticsRe: Funke Akindele Almost Goes Into A Trance While Dancing In Church (Photos, Video) by Aidejay(m): 7:12pm On Aug 29, 2022
Best Actress In A Comedy Role.
WebmastersRe: Fisayo Fosudo Interviews Arun Maini (MrWhoseTheBoss), UK's Biggest Tech Youtuber by Aidejay(m): 8:43pm On Aug 26, 2022
Nairalanders Scrolling Past The Thread Cause They Don't Know Who MrWhoseTheBoss Is Or Fisayo. What They Go To Watch On YouTube Is The Usual Trash.
PoliticsRe: 2023 Elections: Nigerians Will Rejoice, Says Kumuyi by Aidejay(m): 7:18pm On Aug 24, 2022
grin LOL!


The Same god That Was Watching 50 Of His Worshippers In Owo Getting Slaughtered And Did Nothing. LOL!
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Holds Meeting With Party Loyalists Ahead Of Campaigns (Pictures) by Aidejay(m): 10:18am On Aug 23, 2022
mycar:
Did the event not hold? that shows that he is not actually important but the greatest surprise is the level of importance you placed on Peter Obi that you even failed to notice that Tinubu was not there. You are happy with everything despite his absence, that shows how much importance he is to his supporters.
That's My Point. The Event Held Regardless Of BAT's Absence. You Should Focus On What Was Discussed Instead Of Wailing That An "Unimportant" Person According To You, Was Absent. How Will The Absence Of An "Unimportant" Person Be More Relevant & Newsworthy Than What All The So Called Important People Said. It's A Pity.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Holds Meeting With Party Loyalists Ahead Of Campaigns (Pictures) by Aidejay(m): 8:25am On Aug 23, 2022
mycar:
Highlight the talking point, right?
If every other person was absent like Tinubu, I wonder what you will be highlighting?
Okay, So BAT's Absence Is More Relevant Than The Presence Of PO & Atiku. Wow !!!
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Holds Meeting With Party Loyalists Ahead Of Campaigns (Pictures) by Aidejay(m): 11:52pm On Aug 22, 2022
How About Y'all Highlight Some Of The Talking Points From The Events Rather Than Concentrating On BAT's Absense Or Shettima's Dressing. Cause It Seems Those Two Things Have Somewhat Overshadowed Every Other Conversation. Further Putting Battima In The Spotlight Some People Judge Them Undeserving Of.
PoliticsRe: The Insult Is Too Much by Aidejay(m): 11:13pm On Aug 22, 2022
grin Ignore Them, Let Them Get It Out Of Their System. It's The Usual Mentality Displayed By People Of Low Institute. This Is Their Only Weapon. Everything Else Failed. They Are Now Throwing Tantrums. I Just Hope They Don't Resort To Violence In The Coming Months, Cause That's Their MO.
You Just Laugh Cause Some Of The Things They Write Are Actually Funny.
PoliticsRe: Shettima Trends Over Outfit He Wore To The NBA Colloquium In Lagos (pictures) by Aidejay(m): 10:33pm On Aug 22, 2022
Meh! Just Noise As Usual.
He Should Probably Hire A Styling Team. They Should Also Get BAT A Styling Team Too. Those Agbadas Everywhere Everytime Is Becoming Quite Boring And Lazy.
I'm Half Sure Shettima Orchestrated This Himself For The Buzz Cause You Can't Tell Me No Body On His Team Adviced Him Against It. Regardless This Is A Refreshing Look For The Candidates. I'm Tired Of Agbadas And Kaftans.
Foreign AffairsRe: LGBTQ: Singapore To End Ban On Gay Sex After Years Of Debate by Aidejay(m): 10:38am On Aug 22, 2022
Stay In Nigeria And Continue Your Bigotry In Peace They Won't Hear.
Give Them Visa To Singapore Now And See Them Rush To Church To Thank god.

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