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Travel / Re: What Special Services Do You Receive When You Fly Business/First Class? by Ajinoride(m): 9:04pm On Jun 27, 2017
MadCow1:
Comfort.. That's the primary advantage.

Bigger seats, more leg room, access to an arm rest, more access to a hostess and better meal.

On the international flights it gets even better. You get priority check in, access to a lounge to wait for your flight where you get served a meal and drinks for free. Full recliner seats (your seat stretches fully and you can sleep like you are on a bed). Access to a bar from take off to landing. Depending on the Aircraft, you may even get access to a bathroom on board to freshen up before landing and exiting the plane. The toilets are cleaner and you even get privacy on some aircrafts. On transit you get access to a VIP lounge stocked with drinks and food for free. On some flights access to the Internet as well. On arrival, you get to disembark first and also get premium access to Immigration at some airports even your luggage comes out first..

Yes everyone will land at the same time but the comfort and experience of the ride enjoyed is very different.


If I can afford it, I will always rather be in first class or business class than be in Economy. Bad as easy bad I will settle for premium economy.

If you can't afford a private jet, first class is the next best thing.



you are on point. Airfrance is the best. can't forget the experience.(though my boss paid for it).
Romance / Re: Profile Pix 2017 by Ajinoride(m): 2:06pm On Jun 14, 2017
u look great and funky
Family / Re: Pastor Prevents Wife’s Burial With ‘Bouncers' (Photo) by Ajinoride(m): 6:57am On Jun 13, 2017
please note the following :
1. no relationship is perfect
2 . the woman walked into error by acquiring a property in her own name(and I guess the husband was not aware initially)
3. unless you are tired,and ready to pull out, dnt ever portray your spouse negatively before your people.
4. finally, make sure you are in right standing with your in-laws, before you marry their daughter. IT IS BETTER TO MARRY A BAD WIFE WITH GOOD IN-LAWS,

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Lady Advised Married Women To Kill Their Husband by Ajinoride(m): 9:13am On Jun 09, 2017
sekxy:
if U find out that your husband cheats on u
...better call him to order,but if he refuses just make sure he doesn't have unprotected sex with u..cos of infections,,u can't quench fire with fire..an eye for an eye makes the world go blind.


a wise woman won't even listen to u madam



such a mature comment. nice one.
this is not the age of the Amazon warriors. she may as well go celibate.
Religion / Re: William Kumuyi Celebrates His 76th Birthday Today by Ajinoride(m): 7:43am On Jun 06, 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIR.

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Romance / Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Ajinoride(m): 7:25pm On Jun 05, 2017
The keyword is called COMMITMENT. it has nothing to do with emotions,etc.

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Religion / Re: Jude Okoye's Comment About 3 Churches In One Building (Photos) by Ajinoride(m): 1:46pm On Jun 04, 2017
MINDING YOUR OWN BUSINESS,IS A FULL TIME EMPLOYMENT. its very clear that Jude lacks any viable business. he's been feeding off his siblings.
Health / Re: Photo Of A Mother Smoking And Breastfeeding Her Baby At The Same Time by Ajinoride(m): 1:39pm On May 15, 2017
adecz:
She deserves a hole
in the head... angry


...... and it more saddening, to discover that less tgan 10% of the comment on the thread came from women. if it were slay cum olosho issues etc, the thread would have been flooded by them.
This is an extreme level of CHILD ABUSE.

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Celebrities / Re: Boston Roland: "I Had Sex With Mercy Aigbe Severally, I Have Pictures" by Ajinoride(m): 5:24pm On May 09, 2017
[quote author=Softorgasm post=56358152][b]whether she was cheating with you is not a problem and its not a thing to be worried about, because every man that wants to get married to a female celebrity must know that she will cheat on him once in a while..
its the norm all over the earth for no female celebrity is a saint..
But what the world won't tolerate

....hmmmmm ,so the world sees promiscuity(especially by a married woman)as a soft crime compared to domestic violence?
The end is near indeed.

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Romance / Re: Are Introverts Smarter? by Ajinoride(m): 9:52pm On May 01, 2017
DeLioncourt:


Duhh.. introverts are smarter.



yeah, we are 100% smarter than others,though we tend to respond late to events around us . consistent impeccable characters .
Romance / Re: Why Do We Hang On To Toxic Relationships? by Ajinoride(m): 12:44pm On May 01, 2017
Ineedinfo:
Hello Nairalanders...


I have a burdensome question to ask those in a lousy relationship.

There 're so many stories, incidents I've come across lately that triggered this topic. Last month I came across a post on Facebook where a young man murdered his girl friend in cold blood. What was her offense? According to him, "she cheated." Just this week still on Facebook I came across yet another disheartening story of a police lady who killed herself because her man jilted her while plans to marry were already underway.  There 're still more of such stories littered around the globe. There was also that of a pastor who killed his wife by stabbing her so many times- cause? He said; he suspected she was unfaithful. Ugh!

The thing is - when a relationship becomes toxic, anyone involved in it notices.  The decision to move on and the courage to follow-through, is what matters. One being able to make the right decision for him/herself, is what makes one mature.

Was he or she unfaithful? Does he/she exhibit unconscionable attitudes? Irreconcilable differences?  These are just few signs of an unhealthy relationship- its list is quite long. Lol.

So, what's my point? Well, being in an unhealthy relationship doesn't happen in a flash. It takes a while to grow from a tiny little reptile to a full blown dragon. One is bound to notice, the not so subtle changes along the line.

Well, If the distressing situations 've become like weeds- that keeps sprouting back on. If it has become something  unforgivable for you. Why not move on? Are you glued together? Why take someone else's  life over a relationship? Why commit suicide over a lady/man? You're heart-broken? Are you the first? Someone that would find someone else within months and move on. Is it worth the "selfishness" of putting your loved ones through unspeakable misery? The irony is- just few years down the road. You may begin to wonder, what you ever saw in him/her. No one is worth dying for. No one is indispensable. I mean it. Haha...it may seem like an unbearable/impossible feat to accomplish at first but with time, you'd realize it probably was the best decision you ever made.

Toxic relationships are dangerous although the victims in such relationships often keep making excuses for the partner while seeing the handwriting clearly on the wall. Why hang on to something that binds one to anxiety, distress, depression?

Self love is important and necessary. I've come to realize that everyone in life is treated exactly as he/she portrays him/herself. If your disposition- kind of screams, "I'm worthless- I don't deserve any better." You'd realize that such mind-set attracts, exactly those that would think- "of course you're!  A good thing I came along. Who else would've you?" Lol. Are you getting the picture? But once you have self-love; self-respect; know your worth. Once you grasp the simple fact that your happiness is entirely yours to achieve with a positive mind-set. You won't tie your happiness, your progress, your fulfillment and goals to someone else. You'd exude confidence in whatever situations that turns up in life. And believe me, confidence is admirable. It effortlessly bestows respect, admiration from others. No one dares treat you anyhow when you respect and love yourself.

There's this thing that bothers me though - gentlemen /ladies. This might sound like such a cliché but it's the damn truth. A broken relationship is better and less messy than a broken marriage. If the thought of that current relationship churns- twists your gut with dreadful panics. It's definitely unhealthy. Don't plunge in headlong to a wretched life.

Quite a percentage of people who became casualties in their relationships all saw it coming. If he/she isn't right for you. If you're not compatible. If you walk constantly on eggshells around this partner; to avoid confrontations; to avoid battery; if he/she is temperamental;  mercurial in nature. Hanging on won't change any of these traits. A partner can only work on traits that threatens his/her relationship if he/she values that relationship.

Nobody has a right to hold you ransom emotionally. Shake off that fear/uncertainty and move the heck on! Who knows? What you need may just be around the corner. If you don't shut that toxic door you called a"relationship,"another may not open. That's all I've to say for now. If this write up helped you in anyway, then I achieved my aim. Also don't hesitate to share your thoughts with me, on here. Have a good day!
http://kareninspirational.com

a lot of them, are suffering from the STOCKHOLM syndrome. a situation where the captive begins to see his/her captor helping them to 'achieve' and maintain a sense of belonging.
also,the cultural burden is there as well.

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Romance / Re: Women Who Beat Up Husbands by Ajinoride(m): 12:30pm On May 01, 2017
Smallville10:
I hear that as comedy or in comedy videos but i have never heard of it in real life. So i want to ask, are there truely women who can beat their husbands? When i say beat i mean beat sense out of him. Are there women that strong?


I have seen it happen. the guy fainted,and while he was been rushed to the clinic, his mother was busy railing curses on him,calling him a weakling. funny enough, it happened on a street ,named FLORIDA (located here in Nigeria).
Romance / Re: Does Submission Amount To Foolishness In A Relationship by Ajinoride(m): 12:26pm On May 01, 2017
MrSavage:
Every guy loves a slay queen but am not sure if there is a guy that loves an insubmissive lady. Attended a conference in Nairobi where the speaker demystify feminism as an agent of insubordination. Every lady claims that they can do it all ( including sex) on their own and therefore proving to have equal right with their men in a relationship.
Am not an antifeminist but I feel women are taking it a lil further no respects anymore for their man no honour or whatsoever... Gone are the days where culture had it that a woman had to be submissive a good example our parents... now the trend is we both have equal right ....if the guy shout the ladies screams if he stays out pate and comes home at12 the lady locks the door and doesn't open until next day if he doesn't have money no food for the poor dude.. this got me thinking what happened to culture ... or is it me just leaving in the past or do ladies now tag submission as foolishness.

marriage is all about fulfilling PURPOSE. and until you understand that someone must play the lead role,you are bound to fail. SUBMISSION is not a sign of inequality, its a sign of FOCUS,on the PURPOSE. Two captains cannot sail a ship, it will soon go aground.

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Romance / Re: BOYCOTT United matches If They fail To Honour The Victims Of Calabar by Ajinoride(m): 2:20pm On Apr 22, 2017
do the needful,post the tragic event on the fans' site. they may not be aware.
rip to the dead ,once again.
ManU for live.
Education / Re: Lady Bares Cleavage At University Of Port-Harcourt Matriculation (Photos) by Ajinoride(m): 2:11pm On Apr 22, 2017
adajoe555:
that's the pics

congrats. stay sharp

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Romance / Re: Shameless Couple Caught Bonking Inside Bus In Front Of Horrified Passenger by Ajinoride(m): 11:41am On Apr 21, 2017
agbonkamen:
you see why i said i wish God never created Dick and pussy grin

ha! baby, u harsh o
Romance / Re: Nairaland Easter Party (port Harcourt, Bayelsa And Akwa - Ibom) by Ajinoride(m): 5:14pm On Mar 27, 2017
[quote author=2SWT post=55003596]You're the only one

serious question. a gathering of this magnitude should not be left in the hands of an individual. and how spacious is CASABLANCA?
Romance / Re: How Does It Feel To Be Depressed? by Ajinoride(m): 8:33am On Mar 22, 2017
Bibi294:
What causes depression? I've this feelings this night and it is eating me deep... Nothing seems to entice me... I mean life is tiring... I'm not the type that brings private issues on the internet but right now I have none to talk to... Am I even in the right section?
the feeling is quite complex. you feel caged,worthless etc.
1. check what you feed into your heart: are they positive or negative.
2. stop comparing yourself with others.
3. locate that activity that makes you feel happy
4. Never expect so much from anyone
5. Trust God to bring you out.

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Romance / Re: A Lady Wishes Her Ex All This On His Birthday,broke Down In Tears by Ajinoride(m): 4:56pm On Mar 15, 2017
Alondrah:
Unresolved feelingssmiley
you are absolutely in point
Romance / Re: For How Many Months A Married Woman Can Remain Without Doing Sex by Ajinoride(m): 2:27pm On Mar 09, 2017
except they are fully BONDED. if not,trouble go bust in a few days.
Religion / Re: Happy 75th Birthday To Pastor Adeboye by Ajinoride(m): 7:51am On Mar 02, 2017
Happy birthday daddy. more grace.

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Literature / Re: Which Are The Books You Read When You Were Young by Ajinoride(m): 7:48am On Mar 02, 2017
spicy007:
so many , hmm lets see: Enid Blyton collection James Hadley Chase Eze Goes to Schol Death in the Family the Concubine Sangba fo Ogboju Ode ni 'gbo Irumole Sugar girl, i think , the protagonist is called Koku Baboni The entire Eze series Novels by PaceSetter etc
also sherlock holmes, hadly chase,. the motion pictures have messed the current era
Romance / Re: Good In Bed Or Good In The Kitchen, What's Your Type Of Woman? by Ajinoride(m): 2:57pm On Dec 05, 2016
robosky02:


Good In Bed Or Good In The Kitchen, What's Your Type Of Woman? - Pulse TV VOX POP



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=upgIbag3Eaw

naturally, a good cook will be good in the other room. they are usually romantic and relaxed.
so I prefer , THE ONE , GOOD IN THE KITCHEN.
Religion / Re: Is Courtship Biblical? by Ajinoride(m): 10:37am On Dec 01, 2016
Queenbeee:


The bible does not talk about courtship, so I believe it's more of a personal belief. My question is, why do churches make the whole courtship stuff compulsory?

courtship is a repackaged term for betrothal.
most churches opted for courtship, because if the city life we found ourselves in. there is a lot of deceit in the air.
Politics / Re: Jigawa To Construct 90 Mosques, Opens Bid by Ajinoride(m): 10:02am On Nov 11, 2016
NafeesaAA:
Am from Jigawa state and i must confess this my Governor is a Joke, a verified patent failure of oympic proportion. The cost of these Mosques can build a decent hospital to cater to the health of our people, or a decent school to educate our children, or a decent factory to keep our people gainfully employed.

People are starving, dying and committing crimes because of low standard of living and you are devoting scare state funds into building place of worship that virtually litter everywhere in Jigawa state.


this is a nice one.
I hope the leaders of the state, will be bold enough to save the future, by stopping this dubious project.

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Romance / Re: I Did This To A Girl And She Never Came To My Place Again.. Am I Wrong?? by Ajinoride(m): 3:18pm On Oct 28, 2016
Iamfrank:
Lemme make it short.... she came to my place, sh was looking all beautiful with enough Mary k weighing up to like 3kg on her face n her weavon abi na wig very long.... I Jst smiled and told sh is pretty, we talked a little while n I asked her she could do sumtin for me, so I took her to d bathroom and asked her to wash her face with my soap, dat I wanna c her without make up... omo na so she change am for me o, c insult up on insult sh give me, sh Jst angrily left my house n said I shud never call her again... am I wrong cz I don't really understand girls of nowadays, cz am scared of being scammed...



you failed the test of a timing " always do the RIGHT thing at the RIGHT time and in the right place.
Option 1: u could have gotten her involved in some activities that will make her sweat,then u can suggest she wash her face.

another way: take her out to the swimming pool.


NB :ladies hate been busted childishly.
Romance / Re: Pls Help! She Donated Her Kidney To Save Me And Now I Don't Love Her Anymore by Ajinoride(m): 3:02pm On Oct 28, 2016
mperostar:
A man needs your urgent advice on what to do ... Read below:

I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house.

Sometimes ago, I had serious medical problems and she gave me one of her kidneys to save my life.

However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever.

But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore.

I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

Source: http://www.maestroperostar.com/2016/10/pls-help-she-donated-her-kidney-to-save.html

u are not confused, u are a natural ingrate. I will suggest u return the kidney,ad tale a dive from Mt Krakatoa,into depths of molten lava
Romance / Re: Some Girls Sha!!! by Ajinoride(m): 3:13pm On Oct 22, 2016
viktohmarkz:
my brothers in Christ and those of you who said you can die for that thing they call "GIRLFRIEND" biko have a re_think because once they are given the opportunity brotherly she would deny you quicker than PETER denied JESUS.

brethren I had a girlfriend tho the breakup go be pay back (still in progress) so I say make I share my tori.

she's innocent and calm,you know that can't hurt an ant kinda personality, that's it! she gat it.
we've been friends for awhile so I had to step it up higher (na there I die,had I know).

so we started dating and lot of shit start to happen,which I tried to over look,still on the matter I got to meet my rival in the game who got so angry and dumped her because she was seeing someone else, after she pleaded and advise from my buddies I had to take her back,I tried to fill on the gaps I left previously which I've been working on like RCC.

few weeks ago we went on a date so she wanted to upload some pictures she took with my phone,I got to know her password (gbam gbam na where my heartache start) one of those days I just said I should take a brief pip to what she's been up to on Facebook (don't EVER try this) I got comfy a lil bit because with Facebook you could login your account in different phones at same time,so luckily I was in shadows.

I was just strolling through till one message hit my eye. I innocently opened it,my brethren I crazy,that same old boyfriend deh beg her and her fish brain just deh format like no man business, he was asking her to come see him and she agreed, brotherly no be the visiting pain me oh, na the way the guy go carry hammer the kitty cat na em worry me.funny be say she no add am oh,them just deh roll on soft.

chai,funny that I was chatting with her with my own account and she was not even breaking one bit.

I saw some other harmful matters buh why e no pain me be say I no know none of them,buh if she wants to cheat why the EX eh.

down the line I had a little family problem that got me pissed (her matter too small to make me vex sha) omo she just deh call like say nothing deh play for background. she deh even tell her friends to ask me wetin deh sup why I deh vex.i just snob all.

end tori NEVER EVER GO THROUGH A GIRLS PHONE.

don't even have in mind that she's cheating if not. OYO sure pass


you have said it ALL
NEVER CHECK A LADIES PHONE,EVEN IN.MARRIAGE. if you want to live long. sorry bro
Romance / Re: You Take Your Dream Girl Out On A Date And Discover This (Pic) by Ajinoride(m): 6:22pm On Oct 21, 2016
farano:
You find out she eats like this in public. Be honest, what would you do? cheesy
she is a WIFE MATERIAL. she is simple and has nothig to hide. if I am the one with her, I will join in the fun

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Romance / Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Ajinoride(m): 3:08pm On Oct 20, 2016
ATK4Joy:
Is not all about the salary is about God's blessing! Why can't I if I knw he's an hardworking guy that is still aiming for the best! With prayers he will get there and marriage changes things! My 2cent

thanks dear.
dnt mind online girls, living on sugarcandy mountain, in Neverland. I know of several marriages that started on far lesser amount . but today , some of them are in millions. thats why they are only been used as stress- machines.

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Romance / Re: Finding A Husband Is Hard by Ajinoride(m): 10:55am On Oct 20, 2016
thesolutions:

Thesolutions
Just stop looking for a man. Its not your duty to find a Man. He is to find you. And when he does, he would be everything you expect him to be.


Amendment: you are meant to be FOUND by the man. you were meant to be DISCOVERED. if you are not VISIBLE enough to be discovered, it simply means u do not possess the qualities of a wife.

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