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Romance / Re: Finding A Husband Is Hard by Ajinoride(m): 10:54am On Oct 20, 2016
thesolutions:

Thesolutions
Just stop looking for a man. Its not your duty to find a Man. He is to find you. And when he does, he would be everything you expect him to be.


Amendment: you are meant to FIND the man. you were meant to be DISCOVERED. if you are not VISIBLE enough to be discovered, it simply means u do not possess the qualities of a wife.
Romance / Re: Rate My Bae (18÷ photos) by Ajinoride(m): 5:30pm On Oct 17, 2016
Delicious22:
Boobs; 8/10
Complexion; confusing.

Lips; 7/10 (Mouth Action type)

Remark; Average.
excellent descrption
Crime / Re: Can A Woman Rape A Man? by Ajinoride(m): 5:23pm On Oct 17, 2016
ItsQuinn:
A girl with a big stature can be able to pin down a guy with a small stature easily, same goes for physical strength, some women are stronger than some men smiley



u see, wo en have been cheating men since the days of adam . if u toast them in the office, its sexual harrasment. if u toast them in a public place , its assault(emotional/psychological) but when its the other way round, everybody goes mum. it is well
Romance / Re: Girls!!! , Can You Live In This Condition With Your Boyfriend? by Ajinoride(m): 8:54am On Oct 14, 2016
jopretty:
This one even has a tele and bed frame. We that just listened to a little transistor radio and used student mattress fa? Well, thank God for trust, hard work and commitment. Ife adigo nmma grin grin


most sincere relationships start this way. but with time, they move out to posh apartments. a lot have been deluded that manna still falls. some girls were actually raised in worst conditions(with 6 other siblings sleeping on the mat). you can ask M K O Abiola and Simbiat (may their souls rip).

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Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Honest Opinions On This by Ajinoride(m): 5:34pm On Oct 05, 2016
you have the total capacity to make yourself. whatever you turn out to be, is your making. ask yourself, what do I want

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Romance / Re: Which One Will You Go For??? by Ajinoride(m): 5:24pm On Oct 05, 2016
BlackMbakara1:
Soldier... smiley
yeah. the soldier. she is totally committed. and she will have a better view of the word, REALITY.
Family / Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Ajinoride(m): 4:56pm On Oct 05, 2016
Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse. grin
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.



the truth about this case is entrenched in the adage that says " the executioner is always afraid , seeing a man with a machete behind him" . Most mothers have perfected the art of PRANKS and MANIPULATION on their husbands. they are usually not comfortable seeing that the same scenario is about to play out on their son, via a lady.

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Romance / Re: Man Caught With Married Woman, Beaten By Woman's Giant Hubby In Nairobi (Pics) by Ajinoride(m): 3:43pm On Oct 01, 2016
;Dno sauce?
Romance / Re: Shameless Couple Caught Bonking Inside Bus In Front Of Horrified Passenger by Ajinoride(m): 3:30pm On Oct 01, 2016
agbonkamen:
you see why i said i wish God never created Dick and pussy grin

it is one of the unusual wonders that makes the earth rotate. its like the euphoria u experience by a waterfall. the world would have been too dull.







though they ddnt put it to use in the right place.
..... wait a minute, your face looks too cute for that statement o.

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Romance / Re: Ghanaian Bishop Says It Dangerous For Couples To Make Love Between 12am-3am by Ajinoride(m): 3:05pm On Sep 28, 2016
I keep wondering where some people usually get their inspiration . sex in marriage can take place anytime. it is shielded by the glory of God, because it is done in righteousness.
illicit sex at whatever time is prone to demonic attacks.


angels/demons are always on assignment 24/7.
Romance / Re: 13 Things A Wife Must Not Do Without Asking Her Husband For Permission by Ajinoride(m): 2:52pm On Sep 20, 2016
Igbofirstlady:
Are You a Wife? These are 13 Things You Never Do Without Asking Your Husband for Permission - Jtownconnect Nigeria

Poor Shakira started a firestorm the other day when she confessed that she had to ask her boyfriend, Gerard Pique, for permission before shooting a sexy music video with Rihanna.

What’s a grown woman doing asking for permission before making decisions about her career? Well …maybe she’s just being a good girlfriend?

Hey, someone had to say it! If there is one thing I’ve learned in the 13 1/2 years since my wedding, it’s that marriage is a partnership. And at the risk of being labeled anti-feminist, sometimes that means giving my husband the chance to say “eh, please don’t do that,” before I make a decision.

Take a week ago when I decided — last minute — to once again shave my head to fight children’s cancer. Before I signed up, I first went to my husband and asked, “Do you mind if I shave my head for St. Baldrick’s again this year?” It’s my hair on the line, but I’ll have to fundraise and show up the day of the event, plus someone needs to keep an eye on our daughter while I’m sitting in a chair having clippers buzzing around my head. He didn’t say, “no,” but if he had, I’d have respected it.

Really, it comes down to common courtesy. He’s not being “controlling;” he’s having an opinion … and as his spouse, you’d want him to respect your opinion, right? So why not respect his?

Don’t see yourself shaving your head any time soon? You’re not off the hook, hon.

If you want to stay on good terms, you might want to keep him in mind and ASK before you do any of the following:

1. Throwing out his ratty old t-shirts.

I have seen many a wife prattle on on Facebook about how she’s finally gotten rid of his stash of awful tees from college. My husband has his own fair share of those holey t-shirts, but I won’t touch them for one simple reason: I know I’d be annoyed if he ever dared throw out MY “I swear I’ll be skinny enough for these again one day” jeans.

2. Planning a girls night.

I don’t care who is going out, frankly, but it’s common courtesy to check in with your significant other before setting up a night out. Who knows if he has to work late that night? Or was planning to take you out (hey, it could happen!).

The point is, if he’s got to plan to stay home with the kids, or find a sitter so he can do his own thing that night, he should at least get a heads up.

3. Hitting up the joint account to buy something for yourself.

Now, now, I don’t mean you should have to check in with the hubs every time you want to go grocery shopping.

But if you have a joint account, the idea is that the money will be used on things that benefit both parties.

If you’re thinking of splurging on something that’s for you and you alone, do what you’d hope he’d do in the same situation.

4. Planning a family vacation.

My husband hates Disney World with a passion. We’ve gone twice, anyway, because we wanted to do something nice for our daughter, but you’d better believe I made sure he was on board first! Family vacations are for just that — the FAMILY.

All adults involved should have a say in where you go and when.

5. Wearing his clothes.

Some folks may disagree with me on this, and I’ll be honest, I’ve grabbed one of my husband’s sweatshirts from the dryer without asking his permission.

But I stopped doing it after he spotted me in one and said he’d actually been planning on wearing it himself. Oops!

6. Inviting company to the house.

What if he wants to spend a nice Saturday in his PJs on the couch? Not the best time to invite your BFF and her whole family over, huh? (P.S. This goes double if it’s your parents).

7. Pulling the goalie.

WHY oh WHY oh WHY do some women think it’s OK to just not use birth control without telling their partner?

That’s one of the most low down tricks in the book, ladies, and your partner deserves better.

8. Throwing a playdate.

If I’m taking my daughter out of the house, I usually don’t bother to ask.

But if he’s having a tough day at work, he deserves to weigh in on whether some strange kid will be sitting on our couch, talking his ear off, when he gets home.

9. Eating the leftovers.

Ever had a major craving for the rest of last night’s dinner (or dessert!) only to come home and find someone ate it all? Just ask first, OK?

10. Starting an extreme diet.

Now, I’m not saying you need his permission to get healthy. But if you’re going to suddenly ban all carbs from the house, it’s best to make sure the other adult in the house is ready to bid bye bye to bread.

11. Buying new sheets.

Can he sleep on flannel or does he find it to be insanely irritating? Worth finding out if he has to sleep on them!

12. Painting the walls.

What if that pretty purple gives him a headache? Just saying … it’s a lot cheaper to just ask first.

13. Hanging out with an ex.

He’s a jerk if he forbids it, but if he asks to go along, well … isn’t that within his rights?

Source: http://www.jtownconnect.com/2016/09/are-you-wife-these-are-13-things-you.html


wonderful write up. the summary is GOOD HOME TRAINING
Religion / Re: You Are Not Condemned by Ajinoride(m): 12:47pm On Sep 18, 2016
am not CONDEMNED
Family / Re: Lesbianism: Nigerian Family Disowns Daughter In Italy by Ajinoride(m): 12:25pm On Sep 18, 2016
switmay32:
There is nothing wrng to b a lez. Try and encourage her.

but u carry your own pikin o.
God is watching u in 4D.

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Romance / Re: Please Has Anyone Heard Of Dapoxetine & How Can I Get It? by Ajinoride(m): 10:32am On Sep 15, 2016
missKiffy:
What is dapoxetine used for, then I will tell you where u can get it
it is used in treating Premature Ejaculation. it is a rapidly absorbed synthetic drug.
but I will advise u stay clear of it. it is addictive, and will soon send your kidneys packing. Sex is not by how many hours. learn the true art of lovemaking, and u wont need drugs to satisfy yourself or your spouse.

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Crime / Re: In Warri, Husband Stabs Wife's Lover To Death by Ajinoride(m): 4:50pm On Sep 12, 2016
StephanieLuv:
If you are free from Women you are bound to succeed in life




We girls are terrible, she deserves to be killed just wasted the life of two young men


wow! arw u sure u are a lady? ........cause your statement is devoid of sentiments. so true
Science/Technology / Re: Earthquake Hits Sambang Dagi, Kaduna State by Ajinoride(m): 4:40pm On Sep 12, 2016
hakeem4:
But my geology lecturer told me earthquake can never happen in Nigeria because of our plate
your lecturer is correct. Africa has a continent, is located on a COMPLEX BASEMENT ROCK. that is why we do not have shallow and expansive CONTINENTAL SHELF. though, we can still feel the after shocks from the RING OF FIRE(ASIA). I guess the kaduna case is associated with human seismic activities in that zone.

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Car Talk / Re: Funny Memes Relating To When You’ve Just Learned To Drive. by Ajinoride(m): 9:18pm On Sep 02, 2016
ennyhola:
People can lie sha
they said bag of rice is N20,000
that is how they'll be misleading people,
I priced it today and it was N19,990

Thank God I went to the market myself


.............. na wa o. na who u do u dis one? that 10 naira go fit pay for tp right?
Romance / Re: I Saw A Price List Of S*x Services In My Wife’s Box…was She A Prostitute? by Ajinoride(m): 2:24pm On Jul 26, 2016
maturity looks beyond the past. if she was once a prostitute,that is no big deal. every man wants a virgin prostitute. if she makes you feel fulfilled in the bedroom, congrats to u. some who were big time prostitutes(unknown to the hubby), are usually the ones who create all manner of excuses about sex. this is all in a bid to prove to the man that they are still 'fresh'.
Romance / Re: Why Men Don’t Forgive Their Cheating Partners by Ajinoride(m): 7:52pm On Jul 16, 2016
Dreamwaker:
Truth is real men forgive a cheating partner. It's only a boy in a man's body that will end a relationship that the partner cheated.

Most long term marriages have experienced a cheating phase at one time or the other.



u are
absolutely
correct.
Romance / Re: Advice For Married Women by Ajinoride(m): 3:45pm On Jun 15, 2016
most times we confuse romance with love. love is beyond making your partner happy.it has more of a long time benefit than the fantasies of 'romance' been portrayed by western media.
so back to the question. the answer is, african men know how to show love, but not in the western sense of it
Romance / Re: Check How This Girl Celebrated Her Birthday Today(pics) by Ajinoride(m): 12:26am On Jun 14, 2016
decatalyst:
If she is a South African, I have not comment! undecided

she is a ph babe. I know the studio tha uses the background. na wa for girls o
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Business Ideas And Career Talk Whatsapp Group by Ajinoride(m): 3:23pm On Jun 11, 2016
08062151936
Romance / Re: these questions need answers ASAP by Ajinoride(m): 9:39am On Jun 08, 2016
mimzy:


Op.. The woman is a photographer..so she shoots(takes a picture of her husband) her husband, develops the negative or what's it called under water then she hangs the picture of d hubby to dry...

2. The only logical explanation for this one is if there were other players asides the two men hence they can both win three games each out of the five...

2. they both had a 2wins and a stalemate.
Romance / Re: For The Guys: Why Do You Find It So Hard To Be In A NO SEX Relationship? by Ajinoride(m): 9:05am On Jun 04, 2016
Ginaz:
I don't know why guys hate it when toasting a girl and she goes: "no sex". in fact for some, they will say : "stop joking jooor" and I wonder if really is the sex they say they love or you

for girls, it's like a dream come through when they find themselves in a no sex relationship but for guys, it's like hell fire on earth!

which brings me to my question, guys why is it hard for you to be in a no sex and no touch relationship?

Most "no sex " relationship that ends in marriage are usually a flop. I know of several cases. in one of such cases, the wife did not allow the husband to have access to her breast. it was so bad ,that the husband was not aware yhat his wife has been diagnosed of breast cancer(she later died from the complications) . women always take advantage of men , who maintain a no sex relationship.

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Romance / Re: For The Guys: Why Do You Find It So Hard To Be In A NO SEX Relationship? by Ajinoride(m): 8:58am On Jun 04, 2016
Ginaz:
I don't know why guys hate it when toasting a girl and she goes: "no sex". in fact for some, they will say : "stop joking jooor" and I wonder if really is the sex they say they love or you

for girls, it's like a dream come through when they find themselves in a no sex relationship but for guys, it's like hell fire on earth!

which brings me to my question, guys why is it hard for you to be in a no sex and no touch relationship?

most men who engage in a 'no sex' relationship always regret it at the end of the day. I know of a case. the man got married to her after a no sex courtship. after the wedding, she refused the man, access to her b**bs, for no just reason. their sex life was a flop. it was so bad that the husband was not aware that she has been diagnosed of breast cancer(she later died of complications from it)after abouy ten years into the marriage.

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Romance / Re: Wife: How To Attract And Revive A Husband Who Is Not Interested In Sex by Ajinoride(m): 3:49pm On May 25, 2016
IRserveMyComent:
Well spelt out. Also bring it on for "How to attract and revive a woman who is not interested in sex".


the IRONY of this write up : MOST MARRIED WOMEN DNT HAVE THE TIME TO READ STUFFS LIKE THIS. its the unmarried ones who do.
Romance / Re: Are There Really Men Scared Of Talking To Women? by Ajinoride(m): 7:03pm On Apr 11, 2016
yes o. although, its usually a temporary thing. it stems from the temperament and social development. I was in a boys only, school. we hardly see girls come around, so we find it quite tasking, chatting a girl up. also , guys with phlegmatic core, dnt socialise easily.
Romance / Re: 90% Of Guys Does This True Or False ( Pics Inc) by Ajinoride(m): 6:35pm On Apr 11, 2016
its a good practice. it will help your partner too. so that both of you can cum together. else your partner will only feel, USED.
Business / Re: Aliko Dangote Celebrates His 59th Birthday Today! by Ajinoride(m): 8:16am On Apr 10, 2016
wow! so we are birthday mate. wishing u LLNP. My billions on the way, though.

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