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Happy birthday daddy. more grace.

robosky02:
Good In Bed Or Good In The Kitchen, What's Your Type Of Woman? - Pulse TV VOX POP



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=upgIbag3Eaw

naturally, a good cook will be good in the other room. they are usually romantic and relaxed.
so I prefer , THE ONE , GOOD IN THE KITCHEN.

Queenbeee:
The bible does not talk about courtship, so I believe it's more of a personal belief. My question is, why do churches make the whole courtship stuff compulsory?

courtship is a repackaged term for betrothal.
most churches opted for courtship, because if the city life we found ourselves in. there is a lot of deceit in the air.

NafeesaAA:
Am from Jigawa state and i must confess this my Governor is a Joke, a verified patent failure of oympic proportion. The cost of these Mosques can build a decent hospital to cater to the health of our people, or a decent school to educate our children, or a decent factory to keep our people gainfully employed.

People are starving, dying and committing crimes because of low standard of living and you are devoting scare state funds into building place of worship that virtually litter everywhere in Jigawa state.

this is a nice one.
I hope the leaders of the state, will be bold enough to save the future, by stopping this dubious project.

Iamfrank:
Lemme make it short.... she came to my place, sh was looking all beautiful with enough Mary k weighing up to like 3kg on her face n her weavon abi na wig very long.... I Jst smiled and told sh is pretty, we talked a little while n I asked her she could do sumtin for me, so I took her to d bathroom and asked her to wash her face with my soap, dat I wanna c her without make up... omo na so she change am for me o, c insult up on insult sh give me, sh Jst angrily left my house n said I shud never call her again... am I wrong cz I don't really understand girls of nowadays, cz am scared of being scammed...

you failed the test of a timing " always do the RIGHT thing at the RIGHT time and in the right place.
Option 1: u could have gotten her involved in some activities that will make her sweat,then u can suggest she wash her face.

another way: take her out to the swimming pool.


NB :ladies hate been busted childishly.

mperostar:
A man needs your urgent advice on what to do ... Read below:

I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house.

Sometimes ago, I had serious medical problems and she gave me one of her kidneys to save my life.

However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever.

But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore.

I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

Source: http://www.maestroperostar.com/2016/10/pls-help-she-donated-her-kidney-to-save.html

u are not confused, u are a natural ingrate. I will suggest u return the kidney,ad tale a dive from Mt Krakatoa,into depths of molten lava

viktohmarkz:
my brothers in Christ and those of you who said you can die for that thing they call "GIRLFRIEND" biko have a re_think because once they are given the opportunity brotherly she would deny you quicker than PETER denied JESUS.

brethren I had a girlfriend tho the breakup go be pay back (still in progress) so I say make I share my tori.

she's innocent and calm,you know that can't hurt an ant kinda personality, that's it! she gat it.
we've been friends for awhile so I had to step it up higher (na there I die,had I know).

so we started dating and lot of shit start to happen,which I tried to over look,still on the matter I got to meet my rival in the game who got so angry and dumped her because she was seeing someone else, after she pleaded and advise from my buddies I had to take her back,I tried to fill on the gaps I left previously which I've been working on like RCC.

few weeks ago we went on a date so she wanted to upload some pictures she took with my phone,I got to know her password (gbam gbam na where my heartache start) one of those days I just said I should take a brief pip to what she's been up to on Facebook (don't EVER try this) I got comfy a lil bit because with Facebook you could login your account in different phones at same time,so luckily I was in shadows.

I was just strolling through till one message hit my eye. I innocently opened it,my brethren I crazy,that same old boyfriend deh beg her and her fish brain just deh format like no man business, he was asking her to come see him and she agreed, brotherly no be the visiting pain me oh, na the way the guy go carry hammer the kitty cat na em worry me.funny be say she no add am oh,them just deh roll on soft.

chai,funny that I was chatting with her with my own account and she was not even breaking one bit.

I saw some other harmful matters buh why e no pain me be say I no know none of them,buh if she wants to cheat why the EX eh.

down the line I had a little family problem that got me pissed (her matter too small to make me vex sha) omo she just deh call like say nothing deh play for background. she deh even tell her friends to ask me wetin deh sup why I deh vex.i just snob all.

end tori NEVER EVER GO THROUGH A GIRLS PHONE.

don't even have in mind that she's cheating if not. OYO sure pass

you have said it ALL
NEVER CHECK A LADIES PHONE,EVEN IN.MARRIAGE. if you want to live long. sorry bro

farano:
You find out she eats like this in public. Be honest, what would you do?

she is a WIFE MATERIAL. she is simple and has nothig to hide. if I am the one with her, I will join in the fun

ATK4Joy:
Is not all about the salary is about God's blessing! Why can't I if I knw he's an hardworking guy that is still aiming for the best! With prayers he will get there and marriage changes things! My 2cent

thanks dear.
dnt mind online girls, living on sugarcandy mountain, in Neverland. I know of several marriages that started on far lesser amount . but today , some of them are in millions. thats why they are only been used as stress- machines.

thesolutions:
Thesolutions
Just stop looking for a man. Its not your duty to find a Man. He is to find you. And when he does, he would be everything you expect him to be.

Amendment: you are meant to be FOUND by the man. you were meant to be DISCOVERED. if you are not VISIBLE enough to be discovered, it simply means u do not possess the qualities of a wife.

thesolutions:
Thesolutions
Just stop looking for a man. Its not your duty to find a Man. He is to find you. And when he does, he would be everything you expect him to be.

Amendment: you are meant to FIND the man. you were meant to be DISCOVERED. if you are not VISIBLE enough to be discovered, it simply means u do not possess the qualities of a wife.

Delicious22:
Boobs; 8/10
Complexion; confusing.

Lips; 7/10 (Mouth Action type)

Remark; Average.

excellent descrption

ItsQuinn:
A girl with a big stature can be able to pin down a guy with a small stature easily, same goes for physical strength, some women are stronger than some men

u see, wo en have been cheating men since the days of adam . if u toast them in the office, its sexual harrasment. if u toast them in a public place , its assault(emotional/psychological) but when its the other way round, everybody goes mum. it is well

jopretty:
This one even has a tele and bed frame. We that just listened to a little transistor radio and used student mattress fa? Well, thank God for trust, hard work and commitment. Ife adigo nmma

most sincere relationships start this way. but with time, they move out to posh apartments. a lot have been deluded that manna still falls. some girls were actually raised in worst conditions(with 6 other siblings sleeping on the mat). you can ask M K O Abiola and Simbiat (may their souls rip).

you have the total capacity to make yourself. whatever you turn out to be, is your making. ask yourself, what do I want

BlackMbakara1:
Soldier...

yeah. the soldier. she is totally committed. and she will have a better view of the word, REALITY.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

the truth about this case is entrenched in the adage that says " the executioner is always afraid , seeing a man with a machete behind him" . Most mothers have perfected the art of PRANKS and MANIPULATION on their husbands. they are usually not comfortable seeing that the same scenario is about to play out on their son, via a lady.

;Dno sauce?

agbonkamen:
you see why i said i wish God never created Dick and pussy

it is one of the unusual wonders that makes the earth rotate. its like the euphoria u experience by a waterfall. the world would have been too dull.







though they ddnt put it to use in the right place.
..... wait a minute, your face looks too cute for that statement o.

I keep wondering where some people usually get their inspiration . sex in marriage can take place anytime. it is shielded by the glory of God, because it is done in righteousness.
illicit sex at whatever time is prone to demonic attacks.


angels/demons are always on assignment 24/7.

Igbofirstlady:
Are You a Wife? These are 13 Things You Never Do Without Asking Your Husband for Permission - Jtownconnect Nigeria

Poor Shakira started a firestorm the other day when she confessed that she had to ask her boyfriend, Gerard Pique, for permission before shooting a sexy music video with Rihanna.

What’s a grown woman doing asking for permission before making decisions about her career? Well …maybe she’s just being a good girlfriend?

Hey, someone had to say it! If there is one thing I’ve learned in the 13 1/2 years since my wedding, it’s that marriage is a partnership. And at the risk of being labeled anti-feminist, sometimes that means giving my husband the chance to say “eh, please don’t do that,” before I make a decision.

Take a week ago when I decided — last minute — to once again shave my head to fight children’s cancer. Before I signed up, I first went to my husband and asked, “Do you mind if I shave my head for St. Baldrick’s again this year?” It’s my hair on the line, but I’ll have to fundraise and show up the day of the event, plus someone needs to keep an eye on our daughter while I’m sitting in a chair having clippers buzzing around my head. He didn’t say, “no,” but if he had, I’d have respected it.

Really, it comes down to common courtesy. He’s not being “controlling;” he’s having an opinion … and as his spouse, you’d want him to respect your opinion, right? So why not respect his?

Don’t see yourself shaving your head any time soon? You’re not off the hook, hon.

If you want to stay on good terms, you might want to keep him in mind and ASK before you do any of the following:

1. Throwing out his ratty old t-shirts.

I have seen many a wife prattle on on Facebook about how she’s finally gotten rid of his stash of awful tees from college. My husband has his own fair share of those holey t-shirts, but I won’t touch them for one simple reason: I know I’d be annoyed if he ever dared throw out MY “I swear I’ll be skinny enough for these again one day” jeans.

2. Planning a girls night.

I don’t care who is going out, frankly, but it’s common courtesy to check in with your significant other before setting up a night out. Who knows if he has to work late that night? Or was planning to take you out (hey, it could happen!).

The point is, if he’s got to plan to stay home with the kids, or find a sitter so he can do his own thing that night, he should at least get a heads up.

3. Hitting up the joint account to buy something for yourself.

Now, now, I don’t mean you should have to check in with the hubs every time you want to go grocery shopping.

But if you have a joint account, the idea is that the money will be used on things that benefit both parties.

If you’re thinking of splurging on something that’s for you and you alone, do what you’d hope he’d do in the same situation.

4. Planning a family vacation.

My husband hates Disney World with a passion. We’ve gone twice, anyway, because we wanted to do something nice for our daughter, but you’d better believe I made sure he was on board first! Family vacations are for just that — the FAMILY.

All adults involved should have a say in where you go and when.

5. Wearing his clothes.

Some folks may disagree with me on this, and I’ll be honest, I’ve grabbed one of my husband’s sweatshirts from the dryer without asking his permission.

But I stopped doing it after he spotted me in one and said he’d actually been planning on wearing it himself. Oops!

6. Inviting company to the house.

What if he wants to spend a nice Saturday in his PJs on the couch? Not the best time to invite your BFF and her whole family over, huh? (P.S. This goes double if it’s your parents).

7. Pulling the goalie.

WHY oh WHY oh WHY do some women think it’s OK to just not use birth control without telling their partner?

That’s one of the most low down tricks in the book, ladies, and your partner deserves better.

8. Throwing a playdate.

If I’m taking my daughter out of the house, I usually don’t bother to ask.

But if he’s having a tough day at work, he deserves to weigh in on whether some strange kid will be sitting on our couch, talking his ear off, when he gets home.

9. Eating the leftovers.

Ever had a major craving for the rest of last night’s dinner (or dessert!) only to come home and find someone ate it all? Just ask first, OK?

10. Starting an extreme diet.

Now, I’m not saying you need his permission to get healthy. But if you’re going to suddenly ban all carbs from the house, it’s best to make sure the other adult in the house is ready to bid bye bye to bread.

11. Buying new sheets.

Can he sleep on flannel or does he find it to be insanely irritating? Worth finding out if he has to sleep on them!

12. Painting the walls.

What if that pretty purple gives him a headache? Just saying … it’s a lot cheaper to just ask first.

13. Hanging out with an ex.

He’s a jerk if he forbids it, but if he asks to go along, well … isn’t that within his rights?

Source: http://www.jtownconnect.com/2016/09/are-you-wife-these-are-13-things-you.html

wonderful write up. the summary is GOOD HOME TRAINING

am not CONDEMNED

switmay32:
There is nothing wrng to b a lez. Try and encourage her.

but u carry your own pikin o.
God is watching u in 4D.

missKiffy:
What is dapoxetine used for, then I will tell you where u can get it

it is used in treating Premature Ejaculation. it is a rapidly absorbed synthetic drug.
but I will advise u stay clear of it. it is addictive, and will soon send your kidneys packing. Sex is not by how many hours. learn the true art of lovemaking, and u wont need drugs to satisfy yourself or your spouse.

StephanieLuv:
If you are free from Women you are bound to succeed in life




We girls are terrible, she deserves to be killed just wasted the life of two young men

wow! arw u sure u are a lady? ........cause your statement is devoid of sentiments. so true

hakeem4:
But my geology lecturer told me earthquake can never happen in Nigeria because of our plate

your lecturer is correct. Africa has a continent, is located on a COMPLEX BASEMENT ROCK. that is why we do not have shallow and expansive CONTINENTAL SHELF. though, we can still feel the after shocks from the RING OF FIRE(ASIA). I guess the kaduna case is associated with human seismic activities in that zone.

ennyhola:
People can lie sha
they said bag of rice is N20,000
that is how they'll be misleading people,
I priced it today and it was N19,990

Thank God I went to the market myself

.............. na wa o. na who u do u dis one? that 10 naira go fit pay for tp right?

maturity looks beyond the past. if she was once a prostitute,that is no big deal. every man wants a virgin prostitute. if she makes you feel fulfilled in the bedroom, congrats to u. some who were big time prostitutes(unknown to the hubby), are usually the ones who create all manner of excuses about sex. this is all in a bid to prove to the man that they are still 'fresh'.

Dreamwaker:
Truth is real men forgive a cheating partner. It's only a boy in a man's body that will end a relationship that the partner cheated.

Most long term marriages have experienced a cheating phase at one time or the other.

u are
absolutely
correct.

most times we confuse romance with love. love is beyond making your partner happy.it has more of a long time benefit than the fantasies of 'romance' been portrayed by western media.
so back to the question. the answer is, african men know how to show love, but not in the western sense of it