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Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2023 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 4 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed two of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

The family might want to use you get there daughter to travel abroad, study them very well, and be sure your wife love you.

You can start the processing of travelling out before your marriage.

Once it click get married and leave but try everything to somehow cut your wife from the parent but take good care of the parent.

Before 700 but now is 2100 with begging driver's.

I will buy
Gari: one congo #400
Kulikuli: #150
Sugar: #50
Okro: #100
Dried pepper: #50
Maggi: #50
Sachet vegetable oil: 100

I will chop eba and drink garri for the next three days.
For the remaining #100 I will hold it Incase of any little emergency.

Wetin NNPC MD wan talk abeg forget about that one.
Nigerians we don enter Second chance no be one chance.
May God 🙏 help us o.

That is why most marriages are destroyed this days. Nigeria women as forgetten there culture and accepting another man's culture .

May God help us,things are just hard this days.

Westernlove:
Hello Nairalanders.

Due to the Current Situation of the Nation.

Kindly Check on some of your family men friends ooo.

We Singles that are also doing Well are having and living the best time of our Lives.

Thank You and God bless Is All.

Face your business don't carry another person load on your head And hold your own.

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?

Ever8090:
E hard ooo....but who get mind dey pay him fellow human being 25k for this Nigeria wey we dey soo?....people wicked shaa

Some people are paying 18000. Things are happening in this country.

God only you can do this.

Rice 200 beans 100 fish 300: total 600

LittleBigDick:
That hair style is for broke ass bitchs


My woman won't never go on that bleeped up hairstyle

I hate when people talk this way, some people hate sitting down for hours, the will prefer this kind of hair style because within 30mins you are done.
But watch your speech life know balance.
who knows maybe you beg for ₦100 recharge card.

ProfXena2025:
Can you reject a federal government job in another state, because of marriage.

If you are doing well in your business you can reject the FG job. But if otherwise dont let the job go.
You need money to take good care of your family.
Have been searching for this job since but no way.
please don't take it for granted.

I need data for my online I.T course. Thanks God bless you

I remember the day I trek from eleyele to moniya In Ibadan to submit my CV, on getting there I was told submission of CV Is closed.
I felt like heaven should come down,But I don't have a choice I have to trek back home.
I got home Around 6pm I slept immediately without eaten any food.
I woke up the following day around 12pm. People that know this area can relate. But we are still moving.

[quote author=IyaTola post=124159080][/quote]I will prefer CANADA, because Canada has been a country I love to stay with my family.
With two weeks visa I will go and come back and look for ways to get Visa that will relocate me back to CANADA.

CANADA AM COMING

12:03 am is the closest to midnight.

Skyview01:
Sent

Thanks God bless you...

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I will use it to sub for data for my online IT course.
Because the way I consume data is high.

Purvan:
Why choose IT when there are other fields you can make big dough

Because the world is going digital. To my own knowledge Ten years ago there is nothing much like working from home.
That means with time people might start losing there Jobs if you are not an IT personel.

May God help us. Government should have put in place palliative before removing subsidy.
The just come over night and remove It,
The hardship is just to much.
Spending close to 1800 everyday ontop how much salary.
May God help us.

b3llo:
some people say Chineses are better than Indians. I don't know of Lebanesse and Palestinians, I can't say much for them.

Lebanesse are the worst . Wicked souls and most corrupt people. I don't blame them because our government has failed us.
People at the top collect bribe from those people.

Why now, why this audio meat? Give us location we will be there .

My mama na number 2.Gone are the days.

Nice one to Grandma.
Those computers you are surrounded with let me have one out of it.
Just trying to switch career into I.T
THANKS.

Go to the Dean student Affairs, Your SUG president and lodge your complain. If it's not well address go to the Deputy VC Academics And your VC.
Just tell them you want to recall for your exam script.

Nice2023:
I am simply a private financier.

Can you please call me on 08021164591

Nice2023:
If u are not close to the market u can't do this business.

Can you please elucidate close to the market?

Jennyclay:
Indeed men are white stainers, look at how banky W stained Adesua’s white despite having the perfect wedding. Shame!!!

But on a serious note, Nigerian men are wicked, evil and heartless. Honestly, I have nothing good to write about Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are randy, stingy, rape apologist, women beater, murderer etc. I can’t even list them all, the list is long

Just avoid them! Shikena!!

This girl state of mental health about men has been affected.
If men are cheat did men cheat with fellow men.
Capital no but men cheat with woman.
If you want a good man it depends on where you position your self.
Always position your self at the right place so that you will meet a good man and not a man that will put you into depression when you are at the wrong place.