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ebubeson:
As a married person, share you escape routes to overcoming cheating and how you cope with the temptation to commit adultery.

The fear of GOD in spirit and in thr truth is the only way to steer clear of adultery as a married man.

Easybet1:
This is this okay enough to have a child?

Yes

Starcross360:
Is more that that sir . Last price is 1.4m the car is i good condition Sir

That's what I can pay.

Starcross360:
Active

1m?

Kingadex60:
I just checked online for it now... Pls which one of the product did u use... Is it the MASON or NATURE'S FIELD.... Check image below

the one the doc prescribed is not in a bottle packaging. It's in carton pack. I will drop my whatsapp number via email so that you contact me and I send you snapshot of the one the doc prescribed.

cktheluckyman:
and you think N250K/month is money? You think if the OP was earning this low he will save up to N5MILLION?

LOL, 250k is nothing. I laugh when I read the guy's comment.

ellalina:
New Zealand and Australia if you follow the Scudata pathway.
Simple and fast
Just hold extra 2 million for rent and feeding when. You get there before you get a job

Please throw my light on this insight?

Kingadex60:
this was the same thing the urologist told me it's 50/50... As mine as leaded to Azoospermia and also which supplement did u use pls share.... I'd send u an email...

The urologist prescribed gingko biloba supplement that improves blood circulation around the genital and I took just one pack of it and my wife took in.

EbenezerTriumph:
Omo I laughed hard when I read that line
text me when you're in your room

LOL, very funny.

The part he called her "baby girl" got me chuckling, funny.
The girl is probably from a well to do family and the guy thought he has stroke gold.

Why are Nigerians seemingly jittery about facing Angola in the next game, is Angola a superior team to SE?

didi100:
I feel pain occasionally.A mild pain.I have discussed with my parents about the surgery but I want to be done with my first semester first so that we can be gathering money for it,then I will use my short break to do it. Thanks for the concern.I really feel bad that I have such but I am happy I detected it now and started making moves

Don't be depressed, your condition is not an ailment, just a physiological condition that does not pose any health risk but can be corrected through medical procedures.

I was diagnosed with mild bilateral varicocele a year after I got married because my wife couldn't conceive. It made my sperm count drop drastically and the doctor said I needed surgery to arrest the condition but I was concerned when I learned the surgery is 50:50. I decided not to go in for surgery so I opted for a second medical opinion from another urologist. The second urologist placed me on some supplements, while I was on the supplements I and my wife were also praying. Within the space of 3 months my wife took in and we welcomed our first child 9 months later.

I share my story because varicocele does not always lead to infertility but there could be other underlying factors such as infections and hormonal imbalance. That reminds me, while I was taking the supplement I noticed that my sexual urge increased and the frequency of having sex with my wife increased invariably too. Above all, GOD answered our prayers.
You are young and single, good thing you discovered it on time.. Opt for the surgery if you feel up to it but seek second medical opinion as well.

wunmi590:
I know people like you cry all over the public forum...

Continue crying,

So you think if I don't have food at home like you, I will buy for of more than 150k for my wife..

No be everybody broke like your generation, God has moved me passed food..

I'm not a billionaire, but I bless God I'm not begging like you

I don't blow my trumpet little man. I bet you are a tenant still. I live comfortably in my own house. If you are in enugu let's catch up so that you can sniff a little of my comfort. Even big shots can use a loan at times.

wunmi590:
Somebody thatbsound mature coming to public forum to ask for loan...

You are the most dunce and dull person I've ever quoted in my entire life...

Get a life and stop begging on public forum

see why I said you are not mature? Na the limited thousands you have in your bank account wey dey deceive you?

GOFRONT:

Hubby 2 VS 0 Wife


The earlier women understand that Men are Polygamous in nature, they better for them.

Well, you may contact Obamamessi for a proper shining of your congo. Lastweek,he (obamamessi) has shined the congo of his coursemate who is a married woman too.

Don't use the narrative "men are polygamous in nature" as a defence for promiscuous men.

Women alike can be promiscuous too you know, so is it fair to now opine that women who are promiscuous are polygamous in nature as well? Spell adultery how it should be spelt.

The man committed adultery and instead of feeling sorry that should lead to apology and eventual repentance for his disgraceful sin, he became even hardened.

The woman on the other hand should had employed a different approach towards addressing his infidelity instead of fleeing home leaving her kids behind just like that.

Both parties lacked wisdom in this context.

wunmi590:
Food is not my problem...

I've enough food that would last me for 6-7month...

You don't sound mature.

dankorode:
No be Ghana flag I dey see so? bad belle people

LOL, I noticed it too. Those Ghanaians no get joy at all for 9ja matter. Lwkmd.

65k back in 2015

joshjc:
The only team in this afcon that's less entaining is the super eagles and I think oshimen is a bit overhyped

So far, SE are the most defensively compact team in this tournament, they are yet to unleash their attacking prowess and that is why it seems as though they are the least entertaining team to watch.

Offpoint1:
I'm not faulting the foot soldiers, I'm faulting the army itself.
Let's face reality, these boys are not poorly equipped because someone is somewhere embezzling funds made for equipment.

They're sending our boys to their early grave, they didn't leave any equipment behind to losen weights. If that was even the case, their commander wouldn't let it happened.

Hmmm, okay o.

Offpoint1:
The 2 videos released so far clearly show they can't win this war.

Imagine common protection gear our army did give to our soldiers, see them in war zone without bulletproof or helmet.

Even 500k drone to gather information, they don't have.
No binocular, zero tactics.

The 2 videos is like suicide missions.

In a terrain such as The one those brave soldiers were fighting in that video it is very difficult for an aerial reconnaissance to take place because of poor visibility attributed to scattered trees forming obstructing canopy over the terrain. So the use of drone to garner real time information will be a challenge.

The shootout is also a close quarter one making it impossible for aerial assault to take place. You talked about soldiers lacking defence armor and again I fault your point because those soldiers were giving defence armor as part of full gear but some of them would rather prefer to drop them behind to avoid being slowed down due to the heavy armor. If you look well you can still sight some soldiers on protective helmet and bullet proof.
Those soldiers are men like you, can you show bravery in the capacity they are showing bravery? I doubt it.

mrvitalis:
Why Nigerian Army they fire gun without tactics like they don't basic formation training?

This is very poor... Zero coordinations

They just use number and heavier fire power to overcome their enemy... Is that the tactics

This is poor we can do better

You are a foolish critic. Have you heard of guerrilla warfare?

That is what those brave soldiers are up against, I am sure you are just about the same age as some of those brave soldiers but I doubt you even have the balls to fight your fellow man fist to fist not to talk of wielding a gun to invade enemy territory.

IronGalaxy:
For one, South Africa is not a tribalistic country, yours is..

You claim we're "Xenophobic" in the same breath, "our girls are running after Nigerians" (which is not true btw) how does this happen since we're supposedly "Xenophobic"?

South Africa has forums like these ones. I prefer this one

Nobody's crying. I said we were going to lose this game because this team was weak., They still had Mali chasing shadows in the first half though

Nigeria is a hotbed of tribal hate. You can scream till you turn beige blue. we all know this

The only thing I like about you south Africans is your written and spoken English. Quite standard.

That's how they bragged before they met super eagles back in 2013 Afcon and ended up loosing to SE 2:1. I see a repeat of same result come Thursday.

cucumbar:
TB Joshua was a voodoo master. I’m sure you had not been given birth to when they used to air his program on N, otherwise you won’t put TB Joshua and man of God in the same sentence.

Your spirit is affirming wrongly . As in, wrongest affirmation na I’m your spirit give you.

I was in my early teens then, and could tell that this person’s powers were not of God.

You could tell his powers were not from God you say. So tell me, by what means were you able to tell that his powers were of a dark source, through the same spirit affirmation?
Mind you I was born in the mid 80's.

Gandollar:
Wahala dey o.

Those other pastors that had a lot of doubt about him are now vindicated.

But I can't blame anyone who still fight for the dead man because he was overly generous.

In my view though not firsthand but drawing from the testaments of those who had firsthand encounter with TB. J and his ministry on earth, I am inclined to say that he was a true man of God who struggled with his perculair set of human weaknesses.

TB. J was not a perfect servant of God just like the rest of us still walking the earth but he strived to fulfill his Devine mandate on earth. Whether he was able to fulfil it or not only heaven knows.

My spirit affirms this within me, I want to believe that I am right.

Pecoleee345:
Baby wardrobe is 1million

Those of us that spent less than 200k to buy baby things are poor nah.

Celebrating total wastage and bragging about it.

Don't mind the pedantic fellow. Going by his submission it would seem as though preparing to welcome a baby is only meant for the rich.

I hope they won't go rogue in the future by getting involved in graft related dealings.

Duyt1798:
Hi guys!

I hope this my post gets to the FP, so I can get insights from a wider audience; even I know some might not make sense, but one thing I've learnt from the short time I joined this platform, is that - sense dey inside nonsense.

Pardon me, my write fit dey a bit lengthy.

I currently work with a multi-national startup coy. My net pay is a bit above 400k naira (this's at the moment), I've worked for about 2 years. I'm married with two kids and expecting the third.

Now my dilemma is that, I've not been able to save up funds, I feel like my living condition doesn't reflect what I earn. Shingbai like this, I no get for account. The last I could remember, I go deep hand for forex, e nearly give me hypertension (I lost about 2m). I still dey pay debt wey I incur as a result.

Now where I need assistance is, looking at the amount I'm earning, how do I spend? Please for those that will be kind enough to give suggestions, let it practically explained, as in help me break am down to the amount wey I suppose spend, how I suppose spend am, and wetin I suppose save.

I believe say many family people dey here wey get better experiences.

Thanks 🙏.

Don't be hard on yourself man. With the current economic reality in Nigeria, 400k salary won't do much for a family man with two kids, expecting another. If you were single i for put blame on you.
Shaa double your hustle by branching out to other viable and sustainable sources of income.

tosinhtml:
Extremely NOT.

I used to be that person that over show poor people kindness, but recently I have realised that poor people see what you have and believe you don't deserve it, they look at you & ask themselves why they are not in your position. Anytime someone notices my freehandedness in giving out money, they always try to come up with issues from the family that is of no business of mine just to syphon money out of me.

Today their mother has a broken leg, tomorrow their sister is pregnant but doesn't have money to pay for hospital bills, next tomorrow their Dad is in the hospital and needs 250k for surgery. Their needs are endless.

I still have an open hand to giving to the poor but strategically, I do it to buy loyalty now because the only thing the Nigerian system understands is MONEY.

During Xenophobia retaliation attacks in Jakande Lekki, I saw poor people looting out franchised Shop Rite and their usual tone & consensus was that the Rich owns the place, they buy from there. Why should they be able to purchase those things while we are not able to do the same. I saw old women in their 50s, Men, Ladies & other able bodied men loot electronics and goods from honest people's market with an excuse that they are poor. Random big cars on the road in Jakande were attacked & the excuse was that they are rich, they are the ones stealing Nigerians money.

The poor lives on survival instinct, I can never feel guilty for enjoying the riches God gave me & also from the work I did.

Let them go & work!

Everything you said up there made sense and morally acceptable but the part you said "let them go and work" did sound arrogant, callous, and insensitive to the plight of those in that needy category. Most of them are actually working very hard and smart even harder and smarter than you but for some reasons beyond them they do not have the privilege that you are enjoying. Even you yourself can be needy someday, maybe not in the material sense of it.

See, in life all fingers are not equal so my advice to you sir is, don't hesitate to help the needy who have genuine material needs. Don't presume that the needy are lazy beggars and lastly, be modest about how you enjoy your privilege.

OROSUNBOLB:
"Typical Nigerian" ? With this your comment,I hope you won't wonder again as to why you're set aside for special screenings by immigration officials at a Point of entry in a foreign country ?! You guys need to learn how to be mindful of what you say about yourselves as Nigerians, there are many non Nigerians here who are taking notes of everything ! It may shock you to know that there are some foreign diplomats on this platform,I know of one in particular !

Majority of Nigerians are not corrupt and they don't "have traits of corruption in their genetic makeup",please ! There are millions of honest and hard working Nigerians out there who are well respected all over the world !

Nigerians are great people !

Don't mind the fool.

BadBradley:
when people shout, give the youth a chance at leadership, I laugh.

Corruption in Nigeria is not tied to any age bracket Mr. The systems in Nigeria is to blame for fostering corrupt practices.
If you can go down memory lane you can recollect that the worst of corrupt leaders in the history of Nigeria are well above the youth age bracket. So like I said, it is not an age problem it is a system problem.