₦airaland Forum

SILENTandSMART2:
Ohh my gad,

Boys like you is scarce in the mass, you spoke wisely, I'm blushing right now


Your wife gonna enjoy you, you're not heartless like those werey boy wey full nairaland.

Thank you,

SILENTandSMART2:
Most of nairaland boys are werey aswear , any beautiful girl like me wey marry dem nogo last longer at all,


Them get the moniker wey dem dey use beg we girls but they will switch to the alpha male moniker to start forming kaku ,

I saw the thread also dem , they can't be Happy with other people's success, they will be claiming dat the there's no real love again ,

I can't really blame them because there mother and father turn house to shaolin kingdom dem dey fight each other morning and night ,them think say all family get commaa like their own,


.most of those boys no get joy at all,


Thry are mad crazy stupid and useless ,

I pity those useless girl dat will settle with dem,


They're just useless,


Though some maaa be good but dem don't comment because dem go call them simp,

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Crazy boys,


They will still be claiming dat they won't marry to girls ,abeg who force them ? ,


Broke, ugly , depressed and frustrated boys everywhere

sod09:
And he added xhaka,willian then fvcking ozil

Organsmuggler:

doggedfighter:
Akin, this your dog and his side eyes

Yes we have transport money but even when we don't have and want to sit our asses at home, you guys won't let us be

Kriss216:
Ashawo dey find fire dancer as a boyfriend. Lol



Dating a Nigerian girl is the greatest mistake on earth!

doggedfighter:
Hahahahahahaha.


Anyway if she tells you she doesn't have money and you encourage her to come that you will pay the bike man.

That's fine

Theslumflower:
I'm happy you understood my point.


This goes to say, men are the problem not women. Femininity is costly if u don't have enough money as a man to finance it, just forget it or date under your class. Unfortunately, men's ego won't let them. Which shows they are the problem not women, so you guys with not enough money to finance feminine women should just stop wailing.

A lady can't be feminine with a broke guy. That's the fact. And please we are not talking about management here, there is no room for poverty in any type of femininity.

So please you guys should leave girls that don't show their femininity, life is hard; allow these girls to hustle or build a life with an average girl. Life is not ABC

Hathor5:
That's exactly what it is and that's why it appeals to boys with insecurity issues.

Theslumflower:
Bossing you around because of financial issues lol

If you have money, no woman will boss you around because of financial issues. That's why you are the man. So go get the money and see her feminine side

Ubunja said it clearly, when u as a man plays your masculine role, then her femininity comes out naturally.


P.s I'm a lady

stanliwise:
That is your own religion

stanliwise:
Where is the part God said the male gender is superior?

I think you’re confusing “value” with “role”

stanliwise:
How has soft skin describe a women nature?

More so you should read about estrogen

Theslumflower:
So basically being feminine is associated to being a dumbo. SMH

I hope all of you men raise your female kids to be one. Raise her to be highly dependent on men, raise her to be have a notion that being a housewife with zero skills is what makes her more "feminine".


Human nature has it to always prey on the weak. When a man find a woman as weak, a "yes sir", naturally instincts has it that she's gonna be taken for granted. Ask housewives with no source of income how it is for them at home.

Ubunja is an intelligent man, I give him that but being versatile in explanation and not using one aspect to explain is what he really needs to work on or rather consider.

A lady can still be feminine without acting like a dumbo. Sometimes u need your woman to act smart and be able to defend and take care of serious things when you are not around. And please I'm not talking about fixing bulbs and shiii, I'm talking about real business.

There is nothing like a feminine lady with a little bit of smartness and a little bit of "bougieness" in her. It's sexy.

The main thing is knowing the right time to bring out these two sides.


Maybe you should teach these men how to stop being insecure. That is the underlying factor here. Insecurity because they "feel" their masculinity has been ripped from them, when rather they should appear stronger and take charge as the men they are.

Lana1:
Omo
Kokaneprodigy shey na warapa catch this one for field ni abi wetin??

https://images2.imgbox.com/28/f2/pWb6VSQO_o.gif

DontBullshitMe:
Another 10/10 masterclass.



100%.

What women fail to realise is that right from time, a man's life is always about the opposite gender - to satisfy and impress the feminity in women. Appear helpless to him and allow him be the saviour.

Funny thing is : this article benefits women more than men.

Faultless writeup. Ubunja

Akposy:
I agree to disagree here.

This is just a post to make women feel weak, totally dependent and have no say in a relationship.

The average Nigerian man is always seeking to control the female. This ain't supposed to be. The only control a man need is SELFcontrol. Control yourself, everything will fall in place.

Poverty makes men weaklings...i agree with this. But this does not mean your wife or girlfriend shouldn't be successful! Many African men have been applauding Mrs Harris (USA VP - Elect), these same men will not allow their wives and girlfriends grow, succeed and become a lady of impact because of their huge insecurity, envy and love of dominance. Everybody deserves and should aim for Independence.

Although you made some good points, you should quit trying to miseducate youngsters. A woman is never your property to control.
Respect, trust and loyalty is the key not these dominance and weakling things.

Spy360:
Our failure to sign Aouar was our undoing. It would have eased the pain even more had we gotten a cheaper one or even create one- there is Willock, Ceballos, even Lacazette can adapt the position.

Fkhalifa:
Europa you no go see with that boring attack..
Arsenal is cursed sef,
Sort Midfield, Attack go get problem
Sort Defense, keeper go get problem
Sort AM....Winger problem
Sort First11....Bench and squad go get problem.

Problems everywhere

Fkhalifa:
I'm afraid Gabriel will be begin to look ordinary and/or start committing the typical Arsenal errors at the back.

Defence/keeper will suffer if your attack and midfield ain't dominating, causing havoc and burying chances.

Fkhalifa:
You just dey use Arsenal catch cruise
Win,lose or Draw, you no even send them...

How far, I hear say since the defence is sorted, Arsenal's deadly attack will push for the league or top4.. Wetin con happen again

iamoyindamola:
Martinez, I like you but you must drink goals like kunu this night

dederocs:
Do not be deceived young guys, forget the fake hair, fake clothes and makeup they wear, they are still broke, bitter, proud and desperate, they are very selfish and only want what they can get...they see 'fun' as a reward, and not a natural romantic expression lovers engage in...how can you be paying a girlfriend, to come see you, pay her cos you made love, pay her for spending time,my brother your money go finish and she go run, wakeup. They will shower you with fake affection when you are spending money, all they want is for you to finish your money on them, and they leave you... If you want to reach your ambitions, run away from such, forget thier fake hair, clothes and makeup, na bend down select, all is less than 8k, they want your own to add to their little savings

alexvic12:
True! It is completely amoral.

alexvic12:
REDPILL and MTGOW is about teaching males how to manage their emotions and masculinity to avoid manipulation from the opposite sex, as well as from fellow men.
It is an idea that seeks to help men grow and become better without falling prey to the wiles and traps of feminine manipulation.

Sadly, the recent trend I have noticed is nothing short of PURE HATRED for the female folk and this is very wrong. Nothing done with hatred can last or be fully effective.

This is the same trap that has caught FEMINISM in Nigeria and some other countries, making it difficult for the real feminists to pass their message.

A lot of disgruntled guys are passing off hatred as Redpill and MTGOW on here and it is scary. If not checked, the movement will go the same way Feminism is going -complications and potential failure.

Offpoint1:
I wish I can give details...

But it's a terrible time for sexual acts, that's all I can share.

SimplyFacts:
Insightful

Guys,,,, over to you,,, let the battle begin

Kizito2nv:
Bro writing so much and talking about her brought me to this point.

I feel keeping things short and simple is the way out for starters

I'm one of those guys that loves to write epistle on woman matter but after reading uptil page 10 I realized men they are not worth that stress

I'm at page 19 and don't even know if really want her back

What are my gaining from the relationship sef mtweeee

Have even shared the link to my friends on WhatsApp guys need to wise up our mumu don do

Kizito2nv:
I stumbled on this thread cos I knew I'm a certified simp.

My girlfriend just broke up with me for a stupid reason saying we have different ideologies


The break up was last week, I pleaded for acceptance up till Monday this week she refused that she can't be in a one sided relationship,

Which means e don tey wey she lose interest.

I stopped asking for her back, but then I felt my ego has been bruised.


My question is how do I get back to her and regain my lost glory.

Bashing is allowed cos I messed up big time

Vyiecyie:
My babe still sent me some cash some weeks back, she ain't just doing it for the first time. Whenever receive salary or get any cool cash after duty, she gets her share and whenever salary delays or she noticed i don't have cash or broke, she sends any little thing she has to help me too.
What makes it cool is 'mutual understanding'. You don't blame all men for the misfortunes or mistake of your own man. You mentioned "animal", well let me not ask about your dad.
Not all men are like your man, either you are dating a goat, or you are the goat.

Rebekah029:
Tried showing me his dick during video call......... what insolent !!!!