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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 11:46am On Nov 02, 2020
TheUndercover:
@Dpsychologist, some men are taking this TRP to the extreme. I've seen some posts and comments that justify these.

They abuse even some redpilled men. They abuse those that are even in a relationship. They see relationship with women as a waste of time. The hate on women in general is too glaring which makes me question what does TRP even mean to some men?

Some men even treat women too harshly for no particular reason because of this and all these attitudes were exhibited by mostly the MGTOW group and very soon lots of men will start showing women deep hatred. If you don't want to be in relationships with women there's no problem with that but the extremism is getting beyond what I don't understand.

What do you think of these?
Nice observation, have been thinking about it also I just dont want to b 3 forward nd dont want to derail the thread...

I think it's the bitterness of the danger they failed to avert which can be easily averted then was now glaring to them u know ow that thing hurt?

Once they digest it nd allow the theory to settle in them they gonna gel with the practical.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 9:39pm On Nov 01, 2020
Fkforyou:
I swear!! I'm impressed with El Neny. I just pray he becomes consistent.

I'm patiently waiting for Elneny vs Xhaka argument. grin

Cc:iamoyindamola tongue grin
No need to argue its obvious who's better between the duos.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 9:37pm On Nov 01, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
Reason I picked the partnership the other day, Elneny moves the ball better unlike static Xhaka
I think it's now glaring to people that Xhaka is not someone Arsenal can totally rely on in that midfield...
Christianity EtcRe: Virginity Vs Character by Akinbahm(m): 8:57am On Nov 01, 2020
IDERAWOLE:
It is never this or that!

You can have both: Virgin with Character, Deflowered with Character.

Being Deflowered doesn't bring your life to an end! You can always begin again.

A lot of marriages based purely on just virginity are all over the place crashing due to the ignorance of the importance of character!
In all honesty bro at the emboldened which one will you go for the former or the latter?
Christianity EtcRe: Virginity Vs Character by Akinbahm(m): 8:48am On Nov 01, 2020
immortalcrown:
This generation makes so much effort to justify some unethical behaviours. This is not the major problem. The major problem is that the same society ridicules ethical norms to make the unethical behaviours more acceptable. People often say "If you want to marry, go for a woman that has a good character. Virginity does not matter".

Do not tell me to stop searching for a virgin as a wife. Stop telling me that virginity is just for a night while manners last for a lifetime. A mannerless virgin is better than a mannerless person that has been deflowered. A wise virgin is more precious than a wise person that has been deflowered. A beautiful or handsome virgin worths more than a beautiful or handsome person that has been deflowered. Bad character is not unique to virgins or non-virgins. So, what is your point?

You better tell me that some people lost their virginity under life-threatening circumstances. You better tell me that not all the persons that have lost their virginity are irresponsible. Stop sounding as if virginity is worthless. Stop sounding as if all the virgins have bad characters and all the people that have lost their own virginity have good characters. Stop using constructive statements to encourage and justify sexual immorality. If you cannot identify a virgin that has a good character, you cannot identify a deflowered person that has a good character.

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 6:04pm On Oct 31, 2020
Jodera:
Your love for guen knows no bound sha.
If dey tell you to name the "amongst others" guen gave, you no go fit talk. Oh, there's a reason you end it with "I can't start saying".

And the worst part is that that's the only defence splitting pass guen gave in his whole 2yrs in arsenal as a central midfielder starting 80% of matches.
At least the guy does sth bro long range pass failed to do since his arrival into the team
Car TalkRe: AirCar That Transforms From Road Vehicle To Plane Will Go On Sale Next Year (Pix by Akinbahm(m): 9:54pm On Oct 29, 2020
freshMallam1122:
my brother they are all the same both PdP an APC
I hope Nigerians wake up and stop being deceived by one useless saint party any election that comes now be it Councilor, Gubernatorial, Presidential or senatorial post we should start rectifying our parents errors in choosing a leader to represent us nd drop sentiments irrespective of party as long as he gonna govern us judiciary...
Car TalkRe: AirCar That Transforms From Road Vehicle To Plane Will Go On Sale Next Year (Pix by Akinbahm(m): 9:48pm On Oct 29, 2020
freshMallam1122:
nigerian politicians will be the first to acquire this.... Especially Dino Malaye... shameless country with shameless criminals called politicians
Followed by Atiku

RomanceRe: Corper Pranks His Girlfriend With Stomach Ache Before Proposing To Her (Video) by Akinbahm(m): 3:51pm On Oct 29, 2020
Tmat:
This kind of proposal get as e be o... The lady was so worried, but chai, the guy suppose chop one romantic slap before he hears yes. And our brother that hugged them grin grin grin, warris his own na wink
In all, may your relationship be blessed

EducationRe: Why Do MOST Nigerian Parents Rush Their Kids Through School? by Akinbahm(m): 2:45pm On Oct 28, 2020
Azord:
I experienced that kinda shid when I was small and it affected me.
Its not just necessary.
I will never advice any parent to do such.
Majority of parent believe school is the key to success
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 5:20pm On Oct 27, 2020
Fkhalifa:
grin grin
Shurup and enjoy your Arterta to the left to the left football..
Atleast your Headache Guen is gone and Emery is enjoying life in Spain now tongue

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 6:55am On Oct 27, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
We fcking played with 4 defenders, 3 DMs, 2 CF and 1 natural winger. What kind of line up is that.
DEFENSIVE COUNTER ATTACKING FOOTBALL wink wink wink
RomanceRe: How Hard Is It To Forgive A Partner That Cheated On You? by Akinbahm(m): 11:37pm On Oct 24, 2020
Dipzz:
I nor understand why this thing they pain men like this oo..me I am a guy and I understand..but lately I don't feel or think of cheating partner anymore oo..like it's only sex na..if she still love me and respect me..do what I want when I want..I really don't care.. me too, go do my thing outside but still care for her and love her..person fit get different sex mate and still love one person in particular...we too dey think deep na make e dey pain us...this life is very simple but we complicate things for ourselves...
Ps..this is not go for everyone..
Baba, calm down, you yourself read what you posted but this time around take it slowly does it make any sense to you?

No dey take wetin u indulge when typing that shit again e no good for ur health.

RomanceRe: How Hard Is It To Forgive A Partner That Cheated On You? by Akinbahm(m): 11:29pm On Oct 24, 2020
Marvyx:
Any guy that still keeps a cheating spouse supposed to get a free pass to heaven no matter the sin he commits afterwards.

Ladies just have to understand that that's the highest disloyalty to a man. You can never look at her again the same way.
You cheated on me with another guy as my girlfriend nd I caught u we are done with the relationship, u cheated on me with another man as my wife forget about the marriage am filing divorce straight up...
RomanceRe: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Akinbahm(m): 10:55pm On Oct 23, 2020
DryMouth:
Mehn nigga!
Dnt ever try it!
I repeat, DON'T!
If u love ur sanity, dnt ever try it. The reasons are jst too long so i won't bother telling you
I get your points bro, dont forget they are single mother out there who lost their husband through death, a toxic husband, a man not worth to b with and many more...

Baba, most things I do I try to be just though am not perfect and remember nothing is bad completely.

Truly, some single Mothers out there one doesn't av to look them once not to talk of twice that should not take the fact away there are God-fearing own out there also...
RomanceRe: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Akinbahm(m): 6:10pm On Oct 23, 2020
chinchonglee:
Dnt ever marry a single mother!
Then who should?

In as much as I doesnt tolerate second class behaviour from ladies it doesnt reach the level of treating single mother badly or relegating them away from dating/relationship arena.
RomanceRe: What Should You Do If Your Girlfriend Continues Denying You Sex In Your Relation by Akinbahm(m): 5:58pm On Oct 23, 2020
funkmrflexx:
What do I do and she's not ready to get married now.

She's in school and I'm basically the one sponsorship her.
At the italicized I remain silent till further notice.

At the emboldened I don't know when some guys will realize the fact that you dont sponsor a lady you are not married to in higher institution cause it always end in tears.

No more ditching out advice anymore cause u might end up doing what dey ur mind...
FamilyRe: What Do Some Men Gain From Sleeping With Other Men's Wives??? by Akinbahm(m): 5:29pm On Oct 23, 2020
JovialJune:
You are so evil, marriage of barely one month and you want Op to doubt his wife? Someone truthful enough to tell him what's going on? Why are you like this? Most of you are so damaged it's a pity.
Between you and I, you yourself knw very well what you Jezebel are capable of... in all honesty if the woman actually slept with their landlord is she gonna come out clean capital NO so, aunty stay off completely or u advice op.

Baba, I will advice you try nd relocate away from that vicinity cause the landlord might be planning on how to bed your wife at any slight opportunity and dont forget women are weak minded...
FamilyRe: What Do Some Men Gain From Sleeping With Other Men's Wives??? by Akinbahm(m): 5:11pm On Oct 23, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
SHE TOLD YOU THIS BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE, AND ALSO BECAUSE HE DIDN'T OFFER A REASONABLE DISCOUNT FROM THE NEXT RENT.

DON'T GET CARRIED AWAY. THOSE DETAILS SHE DOESN'T TELL YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT.
Take 5

PoliticsRe: Wikipedia Lists Killing Of Protesters Among Nigerian Army’s Engagements by Akinbahm(m): 2:59pm On Oct 22, 2020
Oladdesigng:
grin....nawa ooo

See wetin buhari Don cause
Which Buhari, the one wey dey Aso rock abi the one wey dey with Baba God?

Make them sha tell us who dey Aso rock enough of the disguise...

SportsRe: Arteta Excludes Ozil Totally From The Arsenal Squad, Says "I Failed With Ozil" by Akinbahm(m): 11:13am On Oct 22, 2020
stag:
I have always thought Ozil to be stubborn and radical. Now, I have no doubts.

Some of our political alliances or religious views shouldn't be brought into football.

Goodluck to him.
At emboldened tell that to Ighalo.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 8:54pm On Oct 21, 2020
Pstarogood0100:
Its a pity Some men believe that every greenlight from a lady is a good light. Only the bad boys can discern the true light.

I pity people that are looking for greenlight b4 making advance.

Greenlight are traps most of the time, only the bad boys can go successfully with it.

I respect men that have the ability to create the desire in them to like him not the ones waiting for greenlights.

Influencing them ladies mind to like him is the best skill a man should have in the dating arena.
I guess he's trying to say he respected those guys whose ladies fall for without those guys doing the chasing and in all honesty that's the secret let ladies choose you dont choose them.


#alexistaiwo
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 4:31pm On Oct 21, 2020
kodded:
but they told him to leave the team since last year
If he actually leave truly then, wont you come for his neck?
SportsRe: You Are A Shame To The World - Ighalo Blasts Nigerian Government by Akinbahm(m): 9:56am On Oct 21, 2020
Web2020:
The yorubas have seen what their slave master is doing to them. All the strength and energy the likes of Bakare, Tinubu, Wole and others exerted on GEJ because of shared hatred; is no where to be found.

What are the yorubas benefiting from the North. At least there are a lot of mutual benefits between the yorubas and Igbos interms of trade. Who is aboki when the west team up with the East.

Buhari will sent southern soldiers to boko Haram and leak their plans to the bokoharam to ambush them. Southern soldiers are perishing in the hands of Bokoharam. Yet the yorubas are still not wise. I am yet to know the huge amount of money the Fulanis paid to buy the yorubas as slave. Please pardon me if I insult any tribe; I am angry.

Let rise up, My fellow Niger Deltan, let rise up! Enough is Enough! The only people Buhari fear is the Niger Delta.
Baba, this is not time for ethnicity war let what's going on presently get solution first and remember the divide and rule tactics being used by our polithief(cians) to govern us.

Let's us wake up enough of dividing us with religion, ethics and co...
SportsRe: You Are A Shame To The World - Ighalo Blasts Nigerian Government by Akinbahm(m): 9:49am On Oct 21, 2020
alsudan:
Odion put out this video while still at the Parc des Princes for the Champions League date against PSG. Shows how urgent he felt the need to express his disgust against the barbaric dullard.

Southern and Middle Belt sports personalities should henceforth boycott National assignments, starting with the Tokyo Olympics next year.

Buhari was never meant to go anywhere close to the Presidency. As it seems, there won’t be 2023 elections, because there will be no Nigeria.
Sorry for digressing small, some Arsenal fans wey believe wetin ozil did for Uighur people is unprofessional wetin we go call wetin ighalo did now...

Someone talked about people being oppressed u dey fight him am sure these hypocrites fans will be masturbating on Ighalo Tweets.

Ighalo God no go shame you, if Man u like make them do like Arsenal we dey with u...
PoliticsRe: #EndSARS: Tinubu Justifies Use Of Force On Protesters by Akinbahm(m): 7:47am On Oct 21, 2020
Aboki99:
You demanded for #EndSars, the FG ended it and proposed SWAT which exists even in your worldly paradise, America. You insist no former SARS will be part of SWAT, the FG agreed . Yet you are still on the rampage setting hardened criminals holes up in correctional facilities free. Abeg wetin you want? I support the FG on the use of lethal force, protests are no licenses for anarchy. Let FG clear them all.
Stop that thing wey u dey indulge e no good for health imagine e don dey affect your brain..
RomanceRe: An Average Nigerian Guy Has This Mentality by Akinbahm(m): 11:22pm On Oct 19, 2020
bobokeshington:
I GET IT BOSS! NAIJA GUYS NEED LIBERATE THEMSELVES FROM THIS MENTALITY !!
Baba, person wey go learn go learn I no get time to dey liberate person me wey no liberate myself finish go come add another person join...

This reminds me of a course mate of mine wey go carry all he foodstuffs go he babe house on top say he no wan he babe die of hunger. I warned him tire say nah stupidity e dey do u no go believe say he go tell he babe say I wan part them.
RomanceRe: An Average Nigerian Guy Has This Mentality by Akinbahm(m): 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2020
bobokeshington:
BOSS, ALL I'M TRYING TO SAY IS THAT GUYS SHOULD STOP TRYING TO PLEASE OR IMPRESS WOMEN BECAUSE OF PVSSY. IT'S COMPLETELY ANNOYING! IMAGINE HUSTLING SO HARD JUST BECAUSE OF PVSSY.
We are on the same lane it seems u didnt get my sarcasm there, I always fight my niggas when they rant hustle make your bae no cheat on you and/or hustle make you get better babe
RomanceRe: An Average Nigerian Guy Has This Mentality by Akinbahm(m): 1:34pm On Oct 19, 2020
bobokeshington:
AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN GUY WANTS TO WORK HARD OR HUSTLE HARD SO THAT THEY CAN MARRY BEAUTIFUL AND WELL ENDOWED LADY.

I AM NOT SAYING YOU SHOULDN'T HUSTLE O, BUT LET IT BE BECAUSE YOU WANT THE BEST FOR YOURSELF NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO IMPRESS ONE BITCH.

ANYONE WITH THIS ABSURD THINKING SHOULD CHANGE.
Baba, Yahoo boiz opened our eyes that once one is financially buoyant one can get any bitch to do the unthinkable and game taught us ow to spend the money wisely...
RomanceRe: Why Is It That Most Naija Ladies Don't Appreciate Their Boyfriends(Pics) by Akinbahm(m): 12:00pm On Oct 18, 2020
marvelck:
A lot of Naija ladies find it difficult 'remembering' and appreciating their boyfriends or any other man, despite all the wonderful things he might have done for her.

Cos anytime they quarrel, the first words that would come out from her mouth most times are "what has he done for me". Chisos! Despite all the goodies she's been collecting from him o. Some would still have the nerves to utter such words just cos of a small quarrel o. Mbanuu!

We need to stop having such mindset.. even if he hasn't really done much for you, still appreciate him. At least he is trying.

Learn to appreciate people, your boyfriend or husband, no matter what!
From Messenger of Allah (PBUH) he said it 1400 years ago

"I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052).

Don't over do, just do your best and leave the rest
PoliticsRe: #anonymous Releases Emails And Phone Numbers Of Nigerian Senators by Akinbahm(m): 11:33am On Oct 18, 2020
kilonshele101:
I have never been in support of these anonymous clowns.

I can't believe some of our youths are supporting this anonymous sh!t.

Our youths are supposed to be better than the older generation.

Someone! or some people is/are throwing sh!t to our country and we dey shine teeth like fish dey celebrate them.

Forget say you dey do am for the greater good, what is illegal is illegal, what is bad is bad, you don't correct illegal things with illegal things no exceptions

Meanwhile this is what our criminal code says
Kudos to you for pointing and/or waking us up to order, I agree with you partly and disagree with you partly...

When this useless Government are terrorizing us where were you and your law quotes?

These clueless people are driving exotic cars, embezzling our monetary funds where were you and your useless law quotes?

These polithieves(cian) are on monthly allowance for doing nothing and yet they left us who voted them to lead us in abject poverty where were you and your useless law quotes?

...why is it when sth is not going Government ways u and your co always come with trashy law quote to protect them?

They were killing protesters protesting peacefully where is your clueless law quotes to attack the Government what they are doing is uncalled for.

Lemme stop here, in as much I'm not in support of treason let's not support #bad Governance

If you are looking for the real definition of Hypocrisy come to Nigeria and dialogue with a Nigerian without explaining that word to you you gonna comprehend it
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 3:53pm On Oct 17, 2020
xfactordv:
How do I loosen up a girl who is pretending to be holy as in she's telling me all these "sex is sacred" kinda thing. But I swear I don't buy her act. This girl is super hot and I know she is already collecting gbola somewhere else. How do I unveil the slutty side of herhuh Real niggas in the house.
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