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Fedric:
Hi guys, good am.

I'm not in the mood to write much but I will make it plain and short. Please don't insult me because you can be in my shoe.



I have a friend who I later got to love, told her about my feelings, I'm emotionally attached to her, sexually and mentally.

With time, she agreed and we went on with the relationship. But issue started arise when I told her I love her.

She hardly pick when I call her, she always complain she wanna sleep any time I call her at night 8' 9' 10 pm. But she will pick others call 12pm .

She drop my call to pick other people call,

I beg her for everything.

She claim to love me but I can't see it in her as she hardly call me or flash.

Any time I didn't pick her flash when she does flash, she become angry.

She recharge and borrow up-to #1000 from mtn but she can't call me or flash me. Any time she does, she flash.

If I call her, immediately, if I call again. It will be user is on another call or busy.

She pick other guys call Im my present,
And if I confront her to tell them she is in a relationship, she told me that she isn't dating them that I can't stop her from making friends and having them around.

She hadn't make me happy, everytime I think about her, for this reason she take it as an advantage.


She told me last week when she requested I gave her money that, if she had know she would have considered those guys coming to her that now she would have had money at hand from them.



She don't encourage me to do something, she only make me feel bad.

Sincerely I'm not happy and I don't think I'm in a loving relationship. Could it be my too much expectation?

She said things that make me go angry, does something that don't bring me happiness. She could say,
Call me tomorrow, I'm sleeping even if it's 8pm, but receive 20 minutes call immediately I drop the call.

She don't appreciate when ever I do things for her, I have done little but great things for her but no appreciation. Could be little in people's eyes but it's huge and save her from issues, shame and death.


I'm not happy and I tried letting go but I just don't know how and find it difficult to.

I have nothing to worry about in life, I am a student and I make money online.

I'm not just in to girls, not that I can't talk to girl, I just don't have that time and willingness.


Please advice ,I just feel relationship is more like, loving, calling, feeling, happiness, and been there for each other and not been two side person.

I feel bad about how I'm trading my future and how my future is been run by me, I feel bad about my current relationship and I feel bad everytime knowing that this isn't gonna make me happy.

I'm just confuse and I don't know how to leave this girl or what to do.

Please advise me and I will follow your advise with concrete reason.

I'm hurt and I want advise. Please don't just read and move one, please drop comment, bad or good.


I have had Bleep with her 3 times and this happen when I don't request for it, she don't even let me in when I requested it.

It was when I want to give up in her that it happened...

I will be glad if I can meet few ladies and gentlemen in here.....

Advise needed please

Brb

Teemelanin:
Guys when they are toasting vs guys when you agree to date them

Make I book space here...

Chukwudiajibo:
Please i have trust issue when dating a girl, i find it so difficult to trust any girl that come my way, once a girl upset me, first thing that will come my mind is to quit the relationship, and i will take it very serious

You are not alone bro!

samysmoothfresh:
This makes so much sense........

I remember how amaka (not real name) go always wear short gown or skirt come charge phone for my crib................socket dey front of bed beside tv and instead make she squat charge her phone, she go stand con set her volumptous ass for air like kite while her short gown or skirt go rise go up small giving me a full view of her ass and pant.....................she go con still dey wiggle the ass like say she dey do mini-twerk


She did this like 6 times and mumu me na con take am as green light.................the next time she came, i tried to make a move and madam threatened to scream........


As per wise king Solomon descendant, na so i just jeje lock up before dem cut man pikin prick because of rape wey e no rape............


I no know whether na true but i Later find out from one of my guy say she and one other lodge mate (her room mate who happens to be my guy's girlfriend) be bet say she go fit seduce me and i go fall...........


Since then, i no dey too trust these hoes

and even when i hear of rape stories between friends, officemates, lodgemates, aquaintances, etc i no dey believe or just jump to conclusion

the only ones i dey believe na if na total stranger just attack person con rape am........


Girls, fear them o...................i use God take beg una, FEAR GIRLS!!!!

And use your head!!!

Nah so bro fear desperate girls and run for your life if not for your sake at least for your parent sake...

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MRSoftapples:
Bros,, so you mean you can't give or spend 6k on a lady without demanding for sex from her?

Haba bros,, I'm not saying I'm rich o,, but as broke as i am,, 6k is nothing, i mean absolutely nothing if you are a real man..

Kai...

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Goddyss:
$1.5 Billion to explore sun surface when man never see good food chop for this country. Just tell me why being an African is not a curse? Do we really have any purpose here in Africa other than envy, strife, wickedness and evil.







Dark continent!

Bro, u 4gt to include suffering, greed nd Ignorance to your list. Truth to be told one's must not live his entire life in Africa and still end up in Hell...

Arsenal fans with Emery we can!!!

[quote author=BRMN post=70051572]My people, this is a serious matter oo, and i want all of u to be part of it & contribute.

Has Nigeria become so bad dat a self acclaimed relationship counsellor would now resort to advising women to double date in order to find a husband?

Have men become so scarce in Nigeria that the only way women can get married is now to have back up boyfriends?

I read a thread where many Nairalandlers were commenting about a certain guy called Joro who claimed to be a relationship counsellor where he advised women to double date & have spare boyfriends. And I noticed that many people were condemning him & craving for a genuine relationship counsellor instead of what the so called Joro had to offer.

Well I just searched the net & found this article by Nigerian activist & Relationship Counselor Tayo Demola, which I hope will interest many of u & so I decided to share it here as always.

Should ladies truly have backup boyfriends?? Lol!!

Pls read & share ur views, let's discuss the issues. Drop ur comments.




TEN COGENT REASONS WHY HAVING A BACKUP BOYFRIEND IS DANGEROUS FOR WOMEN -BY TAYO DEMOLA over to the backup boyfriend.
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Lilknight:
Funnab, school of yahoo boys and btc scammers.

What should we call Lautech, school of advance yahoo boys?

Flickzvill:
Evening everyone names James, let me cut the long story short. I have been dating my gf for the past 3 years and we love each other so much. Recently my gf alerted me about my best friend how he flirt with her and I really don't know how to go about this i can't fight my fellow man bcz of a woman and on the other hand I can't take nonsense but how do I act. The thing is I like my best friend bcz we been together way back and wouldn't want to do something stupid i just need someone to advice me what to do. Thank you all

Guy what advice do u really need? In the first place why would ur friend have access to ur gurl numb(not really bad though) they r even having deep conversation, better converse with ur girl to block that fuckboy up now b4 i cme down there to tear u slap

undefeateds:
There is this girl i ve always admire since part 1,we are both in the same level,same faculty, but different department,I always want to talk to her,but I don't have d courage because she is so flashy and she mostly walk alone.
so one day I decide to change the seat where I used to read and sit down where she use to read,when she saw me,she didn't sit there,then she went far to me to read,but all through that day,I can't read anything,my eyes is just catching her eyes till I leave the place that very day.
Now one day,I summon d courage to talk to her,she look at me from head to toe b4 giving me her number, and since that time I do try to chat her up on WhatsApp, but she will just read and ignore the message without replying.
Now,in one of our tightest class which i do arrive b4 her,i notice that she always write on standing in d class,because b4 they leave the other class,and get to the current one,the class would have been filled up,so I now start reserving seat for her which i will not let anybody sit there,and when she finally arrived, she will head straight for my side and ask if there is space for her which I do agree,but i do not tell her i reserve the seat for her nor ask her out,but I do try to talk out some other things with her but she will just frown her face each time i am talking to her and she will not respond in appealing manner. Am now wondering,why is she doing this,could it be I didn't worth her status or she is not interested in me or she is trying to form too hard to get,cos she is of this high fashion class,and doesn't move with people,even some of her dept guys that do try to walk with her,she do tried to avoid them what does she really mean.

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Kimcutie:
How much do you earn monthly?

Earn ke? Abi what job is he into...

seunny4lif:
They don bite this one

My woman never introduced me to her friends becos her friends never introduced thier men to her.
If she upload her friend pics and I comment
Na bomb that day

You sure say this gurl ain't using ur brain dey play piano? Nah another format cheating holes dey use b that shine ur eye ooooooh

Caseless:



He was really the one used to distract opponents' defenders. He was at this WC what Drogba was to Chelsea in his first season under maurinho - just lift and contest for ball with defenders. And he did that so perfectly well.

In all of this, I just pity benzema.

You were right bro... All the same he lifted the trophy for them as per say e be first France strikes.

abiodunalasa:
Top Striker that cannot score just a single goal 2ru out the World Cup... Is that one a Striker ?

He created assists at least... Giroud nah Foreign Ighalo

CodeTemplar:
Change is constant indeed! Some of these folks going to Europe via desert are a disgrace. Some passed through fed university where the govt spends over 300k per annum on them (N1.2m at least for 4 yrs) and they are going to wash dead bodies with all their grammar.

Those Nigerians running away from Nigeria for greener partures do they think we others dont know how to chase greener pasture. Grass aint greener on the other side truly... May Almighty Allah ease your predicament.

thesicilian:
The money they spend in going to Libya is enough to start a small scale business in Nigeria.

You are right bro, what if he actually succeeded over there well, luck ain't on his side though...

spycee1:
There is a popular saying that there is no romance without finance in Nigeria, leaving several matured men to grab their pillows all thorugh the night due to their inability to run a relationship with the opposite s*x.
A report shows how it is expensive to manage the financial affairs of a lady in the country, in the face of a dwindling economy and country which has become the poverty capital of the world ahead of India.Joro Olumofin who is a relationship expert and self-acclaimed love doctor has this to say:
The Average salary of a Nigerian man with Bsc & Msc is N120,000 a month. Is this enough to maintain a relationship?
Based on Direct Observations and Psychometrics men complain that ladies are not bringing a lot to the relationship to support their income in dating & courtship.

Here are a list of things that most girlfriends demand from their boyfriends with his N120,000 Salary

1�. Monthly Hair & Beauty maintenance - N30,000
2. Monthly Outings (Cinema, Clubbing, Restaurants). -N25,000
3. Data & Airtime - N12,000
4�. Monthly Allowance - N25,000
5. Miscellaneous- N30,000
This sums up to N122,000 which is more than most bachelors salaries. It’s sad that N120,000 a month is not Enough to maintain a girlfriend.

Lalasticlala Mynd44
fynestboi

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mespusinglez:
No Time For Long Story.
Girlfriends are Domestic Prostitutes disguise as "so called girlfriends"
while
The other are the Public Prostitutes
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Argue with your brain

Bro, I must confess that hole do u strong thing no vex baba but welcome to the team!

BrainnewsNg:
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France abeg make una dis qualify uruguay make Lucas Torreira come finalize his deal at arsenal...

extendedtrends:
Portuguese superstar, Cristiano Ronaldo, 33, has reportedly signed for ‘Juventus from Real Madrid and passed a medical.’



The news of his transfer to the Italian club was revealed by disgraced former Juventus chief Luciano Moggi who claimed that Cristiano Ronaldo has ‘already signed’ from Real Madrid and passed a medical.



The 80-year-old who was Juventus’ chief executive from 1994 to 2006 before receiving a lifetime ban from football for his part in the ‘Calciopoli’ match-fixing scandal, told Italian TV network Tele7Gold: ‘In my opinion, he has already signed and passed the medical examination with Juventus in Munich.



‘This is what I think after talking to important people.’

This follows the strong speculation that the Five-time Ballon d’Or winner has been the subject of an £88million bid from the Italian champions, which Real Madrid football club were considering.

Watch Video
https://extendedtrends.com/breaking-cristiano-ronaldo-has-reportedly-signed-for-juventus-from-real-madrid-and-passed-a-medical/

Wake me up once its official...

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ProsperOkec:
Guy everything I wrote there is nothing but the gospel truth. That's my picture there.

Bro, as i dey read your ordeal sleep just dey catch me...

ProsperOkec:
I met this girl in my street. I just love her shape. You'll understand. So I talked to her she acquiesced. First day I met this girl she asked me for money to eat I gave her
Second day she came to my house uninvited. Begged and collected my perfumes, body spray, air freshener, big pack of omo N650, my detol. Note she was wearing a sexy gown that day I saw her panties due to conventions I didn't touch because it was her first day. I gave her feeding money. That same day she asked me for 30 thousand and money for hair. And asked for second feeding money in the noon time.
Second day I was about traveling no food in my house she took my half carton of indomie and all my hangers in my wardrobe.
Third day being today she came very early in the morning I was feeling cold I couldn't open my windows. My ribs were shaking I never wanted to go to work due to the inclement weather, so I decided to lock my windows so I don't fall sick. When she came I was elated like and exuberant. So she sat down on the bed as usual I tried pulling her of the bed so she can at least lay close to me she fumed up de haut en bas that is too early.
That we are just knowing I told her I never wanted any sex but a cuddle it resulted in expostulations. I then told her so is too early to ask for sex but not too early to ask for 30k. She fumed up. So refused to pick my calls. Friends am at the verge of moribund. Do I proceed with this relationship. Or let me just have sex with her and vanish.

Guy you sure say u read this trash b4 posting it? Attention seeker spotted...

ademide0710:
I know UBA will be among. Very USELESS bank.

UBA is the ring leader when it comes to illegal charges, UBA fit charge u for parking in their premises as long as u r banking with them...