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DevelopNaija:
There are lot of factors that impedes Sustainable Development in Nigeria but today’s focus is on ignorant things Nigerians do that hinders development in Nigeria.

2. Voting Leaders Due To Petty Reasons:

“Awwn! He comes from a humble background.” “Let’s vote her, she is the first woman to ever contest for this position.” “He schooled in Harvard.” “This man is from my community”. “Let’s vote him, it is high time we had an Igbo President.” “He is the youngest candidate” “The man is so cute”. Aspiring leaders should be voted based on their Strong and Impactful Leadership Profile; their Positive Impact on the Common Man; and their contribution to Sustainable Development/Humanity in Nigeria.


5. Attaching RELIGION To Everything:

It is saddening to hear that we have more religious centres than industries in Nigeria. Many shout ‘AMEN’ to prophetic declaration without working for such prophecies to come to pass. We have become extremist of our religion, thus, preventing our brains to work and allowing our religious sentiments to inform our decisions. God has a reason He gave man a brain. If we keep praying without working, we’ll keep on complaining and development in Nigeria will continually regress.


6. Converting Serious Issues To Jokes:

I know jokes are good to lighten up a sad/negative mood but too much of everything is bad. It’s high time we reduced the rate we create jokes/memes about sensitive issues and corrupt practices on social media. Let us take advantage of social media in exposing and condemning silly acts of the government as well as advocating for economic growth and better living condition. The way we react to sensitive issues in Nigeria determines and influences the way our leaders rule us.


If we fail to heed to the aforementioned points, development in Nigeria will continue to be in regress mode.

Source - http://www.developnaija.com/600-2/

This thread suppose to be making first page everyday to make Nigerians think from another degree. You said it all mind u numb 2 & 5 r d major factors contributing to Nigeria problem. We claimed to be the most religious country apart from Saudi yet we didnt put into practise what we r preaching we still have a longer way to go to make things right in this Nation...

austyn0:
Nna,,.fashion your thinking into more profitable inventions not some awkward story.

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Tallino25:
@akinbahm we are course mates like i said earlier how do you think i should react or behave when i see her in class in trying to distance myself from her

Every mistake is a lesson neva try 2 risk dating a girl 4rm ur dpt cause it gonna affect u gaming another chic except u r a GMC, try to game another chic a gurl that's hotter than her not some1 who gonna drain u emotionally financially(a average gurl she cud feel inferior 2) from another department/faculty entirely and try to divert ur attention 2 another gurl in ur dept with time the feelings u've 4 d other gurl gonna start to wane down nd dont 4gt to keep the friendzone role(u av 2 maintain this role 2 av access 2 her 4 future purpose).
Lemme chip in this b4 i forget all the work nd d spending u called small aint small to me, u gat to stop doing them and learn to say no to girls (i didnt say d gurl alone "girls". You can call her one day to sign attendance for u in a sarcastic way just to make her do some work for you...

Tallino25:
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester. We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl but a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much
pls help me with your ideas

Bro, you shouldnt av profess ur love to her u ought to av allow things to flow naturally no dey ask girls for dating relationship (am not talking abt marriage proposal) that awkward moment u ask her 4 relationship u gave her the power to manipulate ur feelings/emotion. Girls love it when u sneak into relationship not when u seek for it u shud av assume the boyfriend role without professing ur love towards her....
My advice goes thus; Never disturb her again about her dating u maintain the role of bestie nd things gonna flow naturally she's trying to play d victim card cause she doesnt want u to toy with her heart nd for u to be free from heartbroken also. Hence start treating her as ur girlfriend don't go extra mile trying to please her and do give her d attitude of her missing u(try to distant urslf from her do it manly) u r to do this to make her do the chasing not u chasing her cause ladies tends to value more things they chase to what chase them thats why they av alot of friendzoned guys in their custody bcuz those guys do d chasing most...

HonestAndre:
The other day my younger brother called and said bae broke it off with him simply because she asked for the new infinix phone and he said no. These women are something else.

Never say no to girls request it make them think u r leaving nd it sound to them as if u r rejecting them or running away from ur responsibily towards them and no one like to be rejected next time u want to turn down girls offer u gat to do it manly...

illegalking:
Lol and my story goes the other way round I killed her inside. I man up and after a little smooth conversation I asked for the digits she said OK the I gave her my Tecno Y4 she was like what! in a very embarrassing way, she said sorry she will think about giving me some other time. Immediately I brought out my main phone IPhone 6+ then foolishly and unashamed she said now am talking I should bring the iPhone for her number. I lost all feelings for her and played along. To cut it all short I dealt with her generation with proper wanking

Laughing out loud, those materials girls we gonna continue teaching them not until they start making use of their brain rightly since the vein that runs blood into their brain has been ceased...

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Czar01:
As I shot my shot with one fine girl that I'd been crushing on, the conversation went very well o. That's how she said I should bring out my phone so she can give me her phone number. As soon as I brought out my Infinix from my pocket, next thing I heard from her was "Sorry I only put my number in S8 or iPhone". Omo I died inside no be small

Bro, u r not alone. Nah similar thing happen to me i summon courage go meet this girl nah e i request for her numb nd she talk say make i bring my phone may she gimme her number i jokingly give her my Nokia105 make she strike her numb as she con see d phn nah e make her talk say she go gimme her numb later i just borne am say d day i get anoda phone nah d day i go get her numb and register for her company...

ShadowFighter:
i don't see anything wrong with that. I do buy for my sister most times.

You are there wetin i dey buy for my sister wella na e i no go buy for d girl wey dey do me normal?

GAZZUZZ:
why run?

Nigerian fraudsters can be so silly.

What stops you from wearing a shirt and tie and driving a corrola?

Are u trying to promote fraudsters with this opinion of yours?

Massmike:
Generally, people don't value things that come easy but beware. As you are working less someone is out there working more.
Don't end up loosing your partner.

People tends to value more anything they get in a hard way and de-value things they get in a less way... Thats why I dont sound desperate for things I crave for.

HNO3:
A job well done Argentina... send those black monkeys back to their shithole jungle

Wetin b this black sheep dey yarn no b your fault nah the buffalo(igalo) wey we put 4 pitch dey make u split rubbish... Omo ale jati jati

highqueen:
there are ladies that offer those aforementioned better than a guy could.


things aren't how you always think they should be.

that's why some guys feel intimidated when they meet a high intellectually placed ladies.

Those guys aren't Manly enough if they are they wont feel inferior. Well, have never felt inferior to any Lady except my Mother bcuz i was wired to man Ladies not Ladies manning me...

highqueen:
don't bother about what I think if you don't fall in the 90% category.

No matter how a lady can become independent she still gonna depend oh her Man either emotionally, financially or advicially lol... A Man and Woman are wired to offer/depend on each other by the Supreme God

highqueen:
90% of men in this contemporary are lazy, stupid and mad.


what can a man offer an independent lady ?

nothing.

Don't tell me you didnt think at all before spilling out those trash from your mouth...

Kingsley1000:
THE MEDIOCRE PLAYERS HE SURROUND HIMSELF WITH IN BARCELONA NOW IS NOTHING TO WRITE HOME ABOUT...i miss guardiola's era from2009-2014 when all club fear to play messi

Messi wasn't the best player but an exceptional player(that player that can show he's gifted on football pitch) in Pep squad cause Guardiola doesnt put much pressure on him(that's he doesnt build his squad around Messi alone) unlike Argentina who always build team around him alone expecting magic from him. Can't wait till tuesday, For Croatia to do it successfully I strongly believe we can Nigeria!!!

I wont be happy if i was told about this great man. (happy all his greatness happen in my generation) My bro do says Messi comprehend Football just d way Soyinka comprehend Literature... HappY Birthday Barcelonia Legend!!!

mgdimagaladima:
What is this one saying

He is a confusionist even his word's confusing himself...

I prefer Granit Xhaka out to Jack wilshere (especially d way he attack nd defend i av believe he gonna improve if Unai Emery handle him tight) just that his injury prone and he has made change to that side of him...

pelicanbeau:
I don't think I will take it easy catching my man on our house help...this is why I have to court my man to be for a long time to know his character.

Those that their husband was caught cheating with their house maid was'nt courted well b4 they end it into Marriage right... Better change ur mediocre mentality before it 3 late and hand over your Man to the Supreme Being name God to guide him rightly...

At least he's better than Joel Obi and maybe Onazi...
Nigerian players getting good moves from this world cup season.
from Ebuehi to Balogun now Etobo. .
next is moses simon to Liverpool...
Go eagles...
like if you believe rohr will take over Chelsea after the world cup

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Advice to my niqqas in the building....

Don't let their online posts move you..they are all the same..

You can see some of these babes are venting anger on this thread..

Don't be moved by innocent face or cool posts.. Be warned.

Nice and a deep one there from barrister...

Its high time Nigerian youths delved in politics with positive motives...

We have been tricked with the false stories of "we are the future leaders of tomorrow", but our leaders kept on recycling one another to power.

The barrister's advocacy of youth in governance should be widely supported..

Enough is enough.

Daboomb:
Please permit me to summarise for those people that can not comprehend more than three lines of post!

- The man is the MAIN provider.

- Only very few women can be main provider without being disrespectful or showing attitude.

- If you ever remind her how you laboured to sponsor her, she'll accuse you of being jealous of her success or insecure.

- In the eyes of most women, your ability to provide is what makes you a man. Otherwise you're basically "impotent".

- Most women are used to things being done for them, so long they open their legs for you once, they consider their debt already repaid.

- Success makes men sexy. Nothing else.

- In the same way women will tolerate their men having many women as long as he's rich and generous. -


I call the above, "Men's Handbook" in the 21st century!

I sweriGod that post sense make, guys need to consume this day in day out.

Toks2008:
In fact bro they did not hide it on this thread...they came out boldly to say YES they will remain with him if he makes them financially happy but not with a struggling guy...

I thought it's a case of zero tolerance to cheating as they made me believe all this while when they will troll my threads to rant.

A big shame.

A big Shame bro, I remembered how most of them sounded against men being polygny in nature on many threads but now changing tones.

it just shows we shouldn't believe much of what we read online....

Some of these online tigers are side chicks to a married man, many are aspiring to be 4th wife, some stomached pride and allow their men frolicking..so far money is involved...

Most just rant online with frustration of the reality they are facing, have faced or will face but can't help.

They will agree with the men are polygamous in nature ideology, if money In involved...

forget online gragra, many of them are coded.

vizkiz:
Allah Does not punish the dead. Lizzy is just a dumb Muslim whose fast is a waste of time.

She is even saying the small girl shall never "no" (Olodo can't spell know) peace.

Religion of peace my foot.

I'm sure you have Muslim friends/persons you have benefited from,had related peacefully with abi...

it just goes to prove you are your likers are full of hate and inciters of violent.

This is what I mean

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