Souqwaqif:
I Want The Best For Her But She Seems Not To Understand, Pls Advice Needed

Dear All, good evening.

When I first met my woman, I met her decently dressed, since she is from a Christian background, likewise my very self.

But as time goes on I discovered she puts on dresses that are either too tight or too short. I have corrected her in love several times and even reported to her parents, she adjusted for a while and continued again.

She even promised to stop such dresses because of our baby girl.

This time around she put on a very short gown that makes her look like a prostitute on her WhatsApp profile.

On seeing it, I replied that I am ashamed and disappointed in her and as a result I refuse giving her the money she demanded.

She knows why I was angry and why i made such comment and instead of her to apologize she told her mother that I said I was ashamed and disappointed in her, her mother called me to ask me why I said such, I explained to her that its because I have been correcting her on her dressing but this one was too bad, she said OK and that's all.

Its over 5 days now I have not heard any thing from her and her mum. So I just kept silent too because the last that happened I was the one that called for a meeting with her parents to sort it out.

This time around I may not do such again.

However, if there is a better way you can advise me on this I will appreciate. Since her dad may not be in the know.

Thanks

adekalumichael:
A supposed rape case now turned homicide.
In the court of law, you won't be exonerated for killing a supposed criminal.

KANUISALIVE:
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We say no cattle grazing, We build ultra-modern market and in return you want to do cattle grazing thereby causing trouble, we no want benue occurrence in our land.

Its high time Biafrans becomes serious

martineverest:
but he is the king of the community

martineverest:
that's pure hatred from those men towards the fulanis...the king is the leader of that community and has the traditional right to sell the land he owns,except it belongs to individual.

the anger and outrage is because the land is sold to a Fulani man.....

Elliot2:
Don't mind her her,they are all pretenders. I once dated a girl who always preach about love n all DAT. whenever I wanted to give her money she will decline. Sometimes I had to sneak in the money into her purse,and when she gets home I then let her know. However,when this babe changed it for me with constant demands,I had to run.

PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

Mizwisdom:
This life is a mystery. I can picture the mother trying to keep the boy away from his father as a kid, a man who did not contribute anything to his welfare. She was the one with him through childhood sicknesses, she did the hard work but now that he's all grown, the young man rebels and decides to search for his dad against her wish
The dad will surely reap where he did not sow, he'll turn the guy to a bank where he can withdraw money at will. After a few years the young man will learn the true nature of his father but he won't still severe the relationship. His father will use him until his last breath meanwhile the mum will gradually soften her stance (wetin she go do before?) It always ends this way and the cycle continues.

Olawalesmarter:


Ilorin King is A Yoruba Man, And the Emir title is from Muslim and they are all Muslim in the city and state so what the fuss is all about? Must everyone be a Bloodsuckers and Canibal like you ? it is your mentality for violence that wasted 3 million of your generation....... You do this .... you do that ...... A yoruba man is still the second Richest man In Africa right now, You think everything is about flexing muscles, importing goods from abroad and selling fake products? You are just Crazy

Another Another name for 'Yoruba nation' is slavery. No wonder they are comfortable feeding from the crumbs of the fulani. Becos of their love for slavery and crumbs they waved bye bye to Kwara State. They can't labor, invent, trade, initiate or produce hence their love for crumbs and slavery.
(Mo for 'Yoruba nation' is slavery. No wonder they are comfortable feeding from the crumbs of the fulani. Becos of their love for slavery and crumbs they waved bye bye to Kwara State. They can't labor, invent, trade, initiate or produce hence their love for crumbs and slavery.
When Biafra (God's kingdom) comes, they will all perish in d hands of their masters,