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Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 8:48am On Mar 14, 2019 |
truthisgood: Amen!!!!!!!,thanks my brother, and to everyone who have advised in a good and bad way thanks to you all. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Empressabbie(f): 8:48am On Mar 14, 2019 |
DMerciful:And how are you sure I'm not married? You think all men behave like this? My husband is my best friend not my boss. He can advice me but not command, and we both understand that. Like I said, grow up. 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by syntekelite(m): 8:50am On Mar 14, 2019 |
so for the op na by dressing? if you know how many churchy deeper life dresser girls act porn in their closet, character is more important than dressing.. so her putting mormon skirts to please you will automatically make her less promiscuous,thats assuming she is... 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by ACE1010: 8:50am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Katier00: What are you talking about?? Are you sure you're ok 1 Like
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Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by ACE1010: 8:53am On Mar 14, 2019 |
DMerciful: Thanks man..... Respect 2 Likes
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Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by mechanics(m): 8:54am On Mar 14, 2019 |
It seems it's her friends that's making her to dress like that or the present fashion trend, just correct her in love, don't insult her, and also put her in prayers, she will definitely change |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 8:55am On Mar 14, 2019 |
uneducated: Thanks a million,and to everyone who have helped to advise me positively, I stand a better enlightened |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Chyxki: 8:55am On Mar 14, 2019 |
If I'm the one, i'd hold my peace and not try to make peace... cos I smell her mother's tacit back-up. This I feel would help me position well to guard my home. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Empressabbie(f): 8:55am On Mar 14, 2019 |
ushafe:You can tell her but you can't force her. That's what I was saying. He said 'two captains can not live in a ship", who is the captain he is talking about? You have to respect the other person's decision, it's her life. He is very controlling and rude. 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 8:55am On Mar 14, 2019 |
waka2: I have done that |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by DMerciful(m): 8:59am On Mar 14, 2019 |
You are married and you don't know how a married woman should dress?How many times have you seen married men wearing saggy jeans with visible boxers? Why do you encourage married women to dress like 19yrs old girls? To compete with them? That your husband condones indecent dressing is not a standard for all men! Good day! Empressabbie: 2 Likes |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by KingAfo(m): 9:02am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Souqwaqif:Guy grow up. When did you guys start reporting to parents. Na big mess up. STOP THAT!!! Fashi the parents. Don’t call them often, don’t be too quick to return their calls either. GET RESPECT FROM HER PARENTS FIRST. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by fortunechy(m): 9:05am On Mar 14, 2019 |
ur woman, ur woman.... is she ur wife? do u legally married to her? Meanwhile, if u 're not yet married to her, u don't have 100% control over her. The issue is that the isn't yet ready to settle down. she's still want to flex. sit her down and talk things out with her. 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by calebify1(m): 9:09am On Mar 14, 2019 |
nicepoker101:They are the same that's why she'll support her na 2 Likes |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by andyanders: 9:15am On Mar 14, 2019 |
This time around she put on a very short gown that makes her look like a prostitute on her WhatsApp profile. Op, from the statement as quoted above by your good self, your woman having to use one of those seductive pictures of hers on her whatsapp profile shows that she is trying to impress someone out there. She cannot come out of her present life style no matter what because already she is getting attention she is looking for. She cannot take your advise at this stage unless she becomes a victim of social media exposure that could lead to her been harmed or find herself in danger. Many people stating herein that it is her life and she can dress the way she wants has no moral value hence their comments. A responsible woman must express herself outside through the way she dresses. For a sudden change, she is trying to impress someone out there that she is getting attention from. If she is dressing seductively in your own house where maybe in you stay in your own personal flat or house and not in a public yard, there is nothing wrong with them. A woman who dresses seductively to attract her husband is a perfect woman. When a woman who has kid/s start dressing seductively by showing off to the outside world, she must be doing that for someone out there she is getting attention from to your own detriment because when people see her, they will know that she is not responsible and go after her lustfully. You have every right by calling or expressing your anger on her by saying that you were ASHAMED of her current behavior and I wouldn't know the reason why some people herein are saying that you shouldn't have used that word on a woman who has a kid for you and you love. That is total nonsense. For me, going to call her parents into the issue is not the best at that point maybe you have your reasons though. Always try to sort out your marital issues with your partner as the head of the house. Always try to find out her reasons for such a behavior first before any public disclosure. Since from your write-up, you explained that you have on several occasion called her to express yourself that her dressings has changed and you do not want such and she continued shows that she cannot change. Since you have morals and maybe at this point, it seems you are just cohabiting and not married yet, you can take a walk as she cannot change from her present behavior because you cannot force her to live in isolation as she cannot express her life style anymore. She might try to hide her present behavior and be doing her thing at your back and that could turn out to be the worst. 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Nobody: 9:37am On Mar 14, 2019 |
as for me sha i had like a woman to dress sexy when she"s at home with me.bum shorts and all .makes me happy.buluku is a no no |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by PRINCEVICKEY: 9:40am On Mar 14, 2019 |
my brother ...i know u may not like my comment cos my opinion may be different.... if u r facing dis when dating now and u r not yet married....expect worse thing when u r finally married.... imagine telling the mother and she is not saying anything ...that really means she is supporting her daughter.....involving the father is like putting his respect in the mud...cos there is no respect for the father at home .....is better u leave such girl and look else where for a good gal..broken relationship is better than a broken marriage....cos am sure if u marry the girl .... ur relationship will not last 1yr ...is either she kill u or frustrate u....mark my words. Souqwaqif: 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by anonymuz(m): 9:46am On Mar 14, 2019 |
DMerciful:I understand how you feel, the fact is that there are certain words that isn't good to use while expressing your feelings. I can rebuke in manner that shows respect. 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by stuffs4me(m): 9:46am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Katier00: I feel sorry for the unfortunate man that will marry this one because he will train bastard kids that are not his. 3 Likes |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Strech(m): 9:47am On Mar 14, 2019 |
And the most annoying thing about this olosho, you fall deeply in love with them. That leaving them is like killing yourself. I don date one before weh just Dey share for every guy for we area. To leave come become issue. E reach extent weh I no Dey talk with ma mum self, because my mum happens to know about the lady fuckology. It got to a point where I wanted to choose the useless girl over my mum. All that one na story now sha. Back to the issue. The simple truth is, any woman that will not respect you.LET HER GO. 1 Like |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 9:49am On Mar 14, 2019 |
sgtponzihater1: Alright I will. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 9:52am On Mar 14, 2019 |
sweetrace: I have done this over and over again. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by stuffs4me(m): 9:53am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Clefayomide: Some people really find it very difficult comprehending a little writeup such as this. The OP did not report her to anybody it was the wife that took the issue to her mother and father. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Psoul(m): 9:55am On Mar 14, 2019 |
My brother, I'm very sorry to say this to you. You lack the will, quality and ability to control the home u established. How come that your family issues should be settled by either ur farther out mother in-law? This is unacceptable. If u friend on them to settle petty issue like this, what will happen wen bigger ones come? Now, let me criticize the other of ur action. Pls don't threaten ur wife of not giving her money cos u have little issue with her. She's not ur girlfriend nor ur housegirl. She may have requested this money which u agreed to give, why bringing it into a different case. All u need do is keep talking her out of that which u don't like. Tell her how she is different from those she want to imitate. Teach her not to sacrifice morality on the alter of trending fashion. Tell her that even ppl are complaining about her behind her. This will make her say to herself... So ppl are not even impressed about my fashion and that may discourage her, My brother, the most important is to be in control of ur family. If u fail, ur in-laws will control u and may destroy the family. My 10kobo advise. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Ekugbeh(m): 9:58am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Souqwaqif:you are having issues with your spouse cos of dressing? Na wa o when others are praying for the ones posh dressing sense. Life sef. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:01am On Mar 14, 2019 |
feelme3: God bless you!! |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by akiOYIBO: 10:01am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Souqwaqif:You are giving d girl and her mum the impression that you care too much for them. For u to engage them at first instance shows how much a weakling u are and now they are playing hard games on u. Ask urself, if she respects me why should I keep correcting her and she keeps making trouble with it? My friend d greatest mistake u wil do is to engage anybody including d father. What are u stil doing wit a gal that disrespects u. U are a big fool. If she has ur baby, fine, then keep d relationship at that level. Take care of her and ur baby and thats d end, find a gal dat respects u to spend ur life. U av seen d signs nw but u wont heed to it. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 10:04am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Whois: Sorry sir,I did that to prove its not money that is the issue between us but the senseless dressing of a mother that has a daughter to bring up in a decent way. |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 10:06am On Mar 14, 2019 |
correctyourself: How can we leave together when I work outside the state where is running her school program |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Strech(m): 10:08am On Mar 14, 2019 |
SapphireFort:didn't you hear when he said, he has corrected her on several ocation? And didn't you hear where he said, she her self reported the issue to mum? Or you just decided to be plain DUMB!!! |
Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by Souqwaqif: 10:08am On Mar 14, 2019 |
boomssey: If no positive outcome from my complaints to her dad,and no apology from her,this will be my next option. |
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