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mrpoul:
There's this girl, I have been dating for about 6 months now. And there is something I noticed about her which I always try to ignore. But recently, I have been having a lot of thoughts about it. Okay, every week I give her money either when she comes to my house or she will call telling me that she have issues that needs money. The problem now is that her phone got bad and she needs about 4k to fix it, she called and told me about it. I told her I don't have money that the little I have I want to use start a small business. But eversince, I told her, I won't be giving her that I'm trying to sort out myself. She has refuse picking my calls. So I wanted to know if it is a norms to be giving your girl friend money every week or whenever she has problem or I should let her be?

You give her money every week??
Do you give your parents money every week?How about your younger siblings??

She has used kanyamata on you!







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Rozcol:
Yes ooo ooo ooo ooooo, money is meant to be spent on women stop been stingy and since you do have sex with her you must pay directly or indirectly kos she's not your wife,don't leave the fornication aspect while you hammer on the billing. Pay your dues to her promptly or you remain single till you are capable

Did he tell you he sleeps with her?

Assuming he had sex with her,why should he pay? They both fücked each other.They both enjoyed it.Why will he be the one to pay her?

The girl too is stingy if she can't spend on him too.

Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme!!








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Ritualists everywhere!








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Mkingz:
To boost your confidence,you need to have substance and by that i mean you should be a person of value...people are naturally attracted to valuable things so read books,go to the gym and be stable financially..your low self esteem will vanish immediately.

How can I be financially stable?

Can you put me through what made you financially stable?
I'm a student.







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PeaceJoyLove:
Every state has its law. Some can extend from 10 to 20years. It also depends on the length of the marriage. Her marriage lasted 7 years.....she may pay for 5 years.

Mehn!!

Spending money on someone you are not even married to anymore.
I can imagine that feeling when it's time to pay for the month.

Thanks though.







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PeaceJoyLove:
I like Kim and Kanye. They both did prenup. If you marry an American spouse esp, and your brain did not tell you to get a prenup, you will regret it. I wonder why people do stupid things when you know the law in the US in this regard is too strict. Look at how Dre is paying that woman too. Kanye made sure he put co parenting too in the contract. Just look at how Kim is still following the man everywhere. That's a man with brain. Even JayZ respected that guy. Despite JayZ not associating with him when he was in the marriage, I am sure he is proud of the Kanye. Kim no send anyone ooo... As rich as she is she would collect more from Kanye if guy man isn't smart. But wise man put the clause in his prenup. If you like allow love block your sight, you will understand it too by fire by force. Just imagine vomiting 200k out of 1.5 every month cos you married a man you are parting ways from. Not funny. That's 13.3% ooo. Even more than tithe. That's for someone who you are parting from ...someone who isn't making you happy again. A man for that matter oooo. That one too is claiming he needs the money to take care of the children...like the children will be eating 200k monthly. Some things dont make sense at all. All the way prenup. Get the crap outta my house the way you came. If you dont woman up to learn from me while with me, you are a big fo..ol. Anyway, that's not my portion IJN.

Is the spouse going to be paying that amount forever?







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linearity:
They had a prenup, prenup don’t shield you from child & spousal support if your ex truly want to go after you.

Prenup only protect assets, child & spousal support is about your income vi-sa-vi the income of your ex.

Wow!
Thanks for the enlightenment






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gtrust:
Prenuptial things

I don't think they did prenups!










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mii4u:
Done... U bin dey fear? Lol

No joke with me oh
You raised my hope that day,I was now checking my phone, expecting alert

Thanks








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