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Islam for Muslims / Re: Sharafa Gbadebo Is Not A MUSLIM by Alhajiemeritus: 5:03pm On Aug 24, 2021
Empiree:
lol oro bobo yen ti su mi fa cheesy
lol.
He is a very confused human being.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Sharafa Gbadebo Is Not A MUSLIM by Alhajiemeritus: 7:06am On Aug 24, 2021
Empiree:
You dey waste your time with this guy. Salafis or alhusunnah are Sufi and kefei according to him as long as those alhusunnah and salafi are not with Jabata.

Anyone that goes against Jabata is not Muslim. He doesn't understand that not everybody is an expert in religion. He should rather focus on his plumbing career but he thinks he can have option on religious issues.

I like tackling him whenever I'm less busy.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Sharafa Gbadebo Is Not A MUSLIM by Alhajiemeritus: 2:01pm On Aug 22, 2021
NeoWanZaeed:



Laughing..

Which salafi.. alaro salafy abi Abdul fatah Sarumi salafi..

So that's how prophet Muhammad said we should do nikkah?
Anabi said we should do walimah Quran?
Anabi said we can sujud to greet?

Ma worry.. roddu is coming for una today.. laughing..

Agbako Sufi ni lagbeni.. omo iya alhaji isa alanjonu
Lagbeni doesn't sujud to greet.
I'm not even sure you know Lagbeni self.
N.B**I am not a supporter of Lagbeni.
Culture / Re: Sango Was A King Before Becoming Deity – Alaafin Of Oyo by Alhajiemeritus: 2:00pm On Aug 22, 2021
theInterpreter:
we know


iku baba yeyeyes
Sango had 3 wives
he even snatched Ogun's wifelol
jokers everywherecheesy
I'd like to see proof of your "original history"

if you don't know
Oya left Ogun for Ṣàngó
go read
Lol
You mean, I should go read?
Me?

Let's just leave it like that.
Let me ask you, where was Ogun when Oya left him for Sango according to your history?
Culture / Re: Sango Was A King Before Becoming Deity – Alaafin Of Oyo by Alhajiemeritus: 1:14pm On Aug 22, 2021
theInterpreter:
we know


iku baba yeyeyes
Sango had 3 wives
he even snatched Ogun's wife
Sango and Ogun didn't even reign during the same period.
Double check on your historical records.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Sharafa Gbadebo Is Not A MUSLIM by Alhajiemeritus: 12:05pm On Aug 22, 2021
NeoWanZaeed:
Ofcourse.. I know his dogs would want to defend him
.


If you want to defend him.. just bring dalil that supports his actions
Lagbeni is Salafi not Sufi
Celebrities / Re: Bbnaija 6: Whitemoney & Tega Mocks KAYVEE'S Mental Illness, KAYVEE WITHDRAWN by Alhajiemeritus: 7:18pm On Aug 16, 2021
AmandaTalks:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXSvSYRxnpA
Shey na Vlogging make this guy wear wig?
Guys that dress like ladies annoy me. Including those guys that do comedy skits.
Crime / Re: MR ORAFU Is Missing by Alhajiemeritus: 7:35pm On Aug 14, 2021
noeloge82:


Not seen yet , no communication from anyone nothing at all
Na since June you post this o and this is August.
Na wa o.
Wetin Police dey do na?
Romance / Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Alhajiemeritus: 7:40pm On Aug 07, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
Try clubhouse app.
Employ a maid.

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Education / Re: SOS !! My Law Degree And Care Is At Stake, Please Nairalanders Come To My Rescue by Alhajiemeritus: 7:37pm On Aug 07, 2021
MRL1MPoPoTM:
Good morning guys. I am a law student who just graduated from the university, I will be going to law school on October, the problem I have right now is that the date of birth I used in my Jamb registration, 6 files in the university and NIMC is 10th- January- 1995. I collected my WAEC result yesterday and I saw 1st- January 1995 written on it. I heard that my WAEC date of birth can't be changed. I want to register for Law school and I intend using my WAEC date of birth to fill in the gap.. Pls I also want to know if the JAMB date of birth will reflect in my university statement of result (I don't it to pls). Also we were told to bring either Driver's licence, Voter's card or National ID for law school, the problem is that I have an ID card that has my JAMB date of birth and I can't use it because I now want to change the date to use my WAEC date, pls can I get a Voter's card bearing different date of birth from my national ID, pls help me I'm confused. Your quick response will be highly appreciated. Mods pls help a brother move this post to the front page, the deadline for law school registration is 13th August.
lol �
Just go and swear affidavit.
Food / Re: How Many Slices Of Bread Can You Eat In One Sitting? by Alhajiemeritus: 6:51pm On Aug 07, 2021
Four slices.
Fashion / Re: The Beard Gangs, How Do You Cope With Itchy Beards? by Alhajiemeritus: 6:15pm On Aug 06, 2021
PatrickOkunima:
I'd love to join the beards gang, but can't bear the itching.

I'm going bald and it's getting worse by the day, so I'll be left with no choice but to be having skin cut, as in gorimapa. But it would make more sense if I leave some beards to go with the new look.

Is there anything I can use to stop my beards from itching?

I'll appreciate your comments.

Thanks in anticipation.

Edited:

The comments I have seen so far indicate that kids have taken over Nairaland, the romance board at least. It's unfortunate really.
I don't think beards really itch, I think it's a myth.
If yours does, use hair-cream.
Agriculture / Re: Updated Price Of Grains And Location. by Alhajiemeritus: 10:15pm On Aug 04, 2021
shariff84:
groundnut of 55k is dried peeled groundnut,while the 5k own is fresh one for boiling and eating instants.lolz
okay, thanks for clarification.
Agriculture / Re: Updated Price Of Grains And Location. by Alhajiemeritus: 7:12pm On Aug 04, 2021
shariff84:
beans as of today:- brown beans such as oloyi,drum,olotu and iron brown 60k,iron white 55k,white beans 52k.white maize 23k,yellow maize 24k,sorghum white 24k,red 25k,millet 24k, locust beans 27k,local rice 45k,paddy rice 18k, groundnut 55k, bambara nut 55k,agusi 8k,fresh groundnuts 5k,onion 23k,pearl millet 24k.
you mentioned groundnut 2 times with different prices.
Check again.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Should Sahih Hadiths Really Be 100% Accepted? by Alhajiemeritus: 9:04am On Aug 02, 2021
Abdoolbuster:


It is the same people who collected and transmitted the Qur'an that collected and transmitted the hadiths also. If you must reject the hadiths then you must reject the Qur'an they transmitted too. This is the Dilemma of abdools
Wrong.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Should Sahih Hadiths Really Be 100% Accepted? by Alhajiemeritus: 9:03am On Aug 02, 2021
compton11:
yes cos Bukhari collected those Hadith from people after like 400 years after prophet!


And some are not reliable
Imam Bukhari didn't even write Sahih Buhari
Food / Re: N150 Tomato With Pepper In Birnin Kebbi (picture) by Alhajiemeritus: 12:52am On Aug 02, 2021
Romanoff:


They are quite far from me jor. I am considering buying from jos if I see people coming to Abuja from there. At least, once a month.
Jos is nice too.
Someone recently told me he bought a basket of Tomatoes for around 7000 during his wedding.
He bought from Pepper Market Deidei
Food / Re: N150 Tomato With Pepper In Birnin Kebbi (picture) by Alhajiemeritus: 10:10pm On Aug 01, 2021
Romanoff:
Here in Abuja, tomatoes is from 300 and it's not the red big tomatoes o. It's the slim watery type.

The firm red big tomatoes starts from 500.
It will be nice of you can enter Abuja Village markets for your shopping.
Family / Re: I Don't Feel To Good About A Future With My Sibling by Alhajiemeritus: 7:45am On Aug 01, 2021
MikeAterezzi:
It is said you do not choose members of your family.

My younger sibling and I were separated due to a family feud involving my maternal and paternal families. It would later take us a couple of years to behold each other again. We used to have a promising relationship as siblings at first but things are not the same way now.

Our relationship may become the next standard for Fahrenheit temperature scale if care is not taken.

I do not understand how someone can say 'I don't hate you' for people to hear, but will not acknowledge your existence throughout the day, or want anything to do with you. And if I try (goodness knows I do) to get close to her, she gets up and walks away or locks herself up somewhere till I'm gone. Almost every time you ask a question about something she keeps mute or gives flat out responses like 'mmm', 'i don't know', 'yes', 'no'. Even when she hears the questions correctly she acts deaf and this almost always puts any conversation (or monologue, because I will be talking to myself) on a bad footing.


I'm not without fault. Sometimes I don't see myself as a sibling because I don't think I'm up to the standard. I have dealt with feelings of humiliation and degradation in my former settlements, and I really hoped to see my nuclear family, so I can get away from these feelings of lowlifeness taking blame and ridicule upon myself.


All I wanted was to experience what I saw other siblings and their parents (those who even had one) share but I seem to have received the biggest shocks of my life:


1. Because I didn't live with this family from a tender age I am almost seen as an alien, or a spy, or generally treated with very soft suspicion. Whether I was thought to be an ally to their 'enemy', or I am a reminder of a chapter that should be closed, I do not know.

2. Because the manner and environment in which I was socialized differs from my current family (female dominated), there is a lot of friction and misunderstanding, like one party expects the other to follow rules or 'go through the window'. There are also similarities.

3. Since I have witnessed what family division can do, and how it has impacted marriages, behaviour and generations of both sides of my family negatively, I just wanted unity and felt sorry for my families, but they don't seem ready to patch things up. So I look odd in the family.
I can't blame them though. I just fear for the younger generation.



Now regarding my sibling: I'm not sure if I'm preoccupied or obsessed but it baffles me that we don't relate. I thought that was how siblings behaved but it brings fear and sadness that we may never be together.

TAKE NOTE: "BE TOGETHER". Those words made me afraid for I wasn't sure if I was bonding with a sibling, or a lover. This invisible line did not help matters at all, and it made me do things which put me in a difficult spot. We had a few fights and I had done an immoral act to her, or should I say, physical assault, and this has put me even under more scrutiny in the eyes of ma maternal famille
These things make me feel like a predator, say a rapist or a paedophile. I do not wish to cause harm to her or anyone, as it is not a sign of true sibling charity. These feelings make me doubt myself. You may imagine how a convicted thief would feel if we held our purses tight everytime.

I even felt angry when nothing was done about it; it was brushed under the carpet like nothing happened. It only opened my eyes and reinforced knowledge as to why families do not report incidences of domestic or sexual abuses. Had I the final resolve I would have coolly walked into a court to face the law. But then I learned what it meant to be merciful.

If I thought about what people did to me I might become unforgiving. I may make life difficult for people who asked for forgiveness but I don't think I wanted to do that. I just wished unity and good will reigns in our hearts.

This sibling has chosen to pretend like it's okay but I can sense the disgust and loathing reeking from her masked politeness. Any attempt to discuss or communicate is met with resistance and the eagerness to make me feel sad. I tried meeting in private, but hey! 'Do you want to repeat what you did'? Is the question on the hearts of observers in the house. If I try to make a public approach then I will seem to cause tension before others in the family. So there is almost no chance of ever communicating.

Now, the catch is we see each other everyday and this means constant shunning, constant entreaty for forgiveness, constant hurt, constant reflection, even constant (avoided) temptation as some actions gestures my relatives make only make me question my ability to become better. Almost all I see is people trying to deal with their inner bias and prejudice but waiting for signs of relapse so it can be said of me: "Ehenn! I said it."

IF I WAS AN EX-CONVICT, I'D PREFER GOING BACK TO PRISON.
Walk far away and never come back.
You've bleeped up already, you abused your sister?
Like molestation kind of?
Just go far away, maybe you guys might later meet in the future or heaven.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Should Sahih Hadiths Really Be 100% Accepted? by Alhajiemeritus: 8:29am On Jul 31, 2021
Baker77:


قاتل is pronounce as qo'tala while قتل pronounce as qotala..check dictionary
You do not understand my point.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Should Sahih Hadiths Really Be 100% Accepted? by Alhajiemeritus: 6:20pm On Jul 30, 2021
Baker77:

@op,I will implore you seek more clarification from scholars of hadith..for contradiction number 4

The hadith said (fight)قاتل not قتل(kill) these are simple Arabic terms.
Na Gymnastics be this my bro...
You know say Quran self came with no districts na old Scholars dey give am the marks, whether above or below, that's why we have different recitation methods.
Same with this, you can either call it (fight)قاتل or قتل.
Depending on the chain/part your Hadith was narrated from.
Peace.
Agriculture / Re: Xmas Broiler Broading In Pictures by Alhajiemeritus: 9:34am On Jul 25, 2021
From pages 1-7...
Why are you guys placing your feeding tray on the ground?
Crime / Re: MR ORAFU Is Missing by Alhajiemeritus: 9:07am On Jul 25, 2021
How far?
Islam for Muslims / Re: The Blood Of Jesus, Set Me Free. by Alhajiemeritus: 8:19am On Jul 23, 2021
ANTIlSLAM:


I don't think you're a real Muslim, if truly you're one you should be aware that your god allah wishes to have a son

Quran 39:4

If Allah had willed to choose a son, He could have chosen what He would of that which He hath created. Be He Glorified! He is Allah, the One, the Absolute.


Na so English hard you or you are just capping?

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Islam for Muslims / Re: The Blood Of Jesus, Set Me Free. by Alhajiemeritus: 8:19pm On Jul 19, 2021
Ọmọ
As all of una ppl don share blood of Jesus finish.
Which one go remain?
The blood go don dry na.
After all these days.

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Food / Re: Ram With 5 Horns Sold At A Market In Lagos Ahead Of Sallah Celebration. by Alhajiemeritus: 7:29pm On Jul 19, 2021
Genetic mutation.
The gene coding for horn formation mutated.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Should Sahih Hadiths Really Be 100% Accepted? by Alhajiemeritus: 7:02am On Jul 19, 2021
falopey:


Hadiths were written by Muhammed’s close companions, those that walked, ate and spoke with him. You that was born yesterday want to disapprove the first hand account of the followers of the prophet
Hadith was not written by the Prophet's close companion, this is false.
Muslims need to seek knowledge about Islam.

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Agriculture / Re: Updated Price Of Grains And Location. by Alhajiemeritus: 5:18am On Jul 19, 2021
shariff84:
30k,100kg bag.its dried.
Which month will the price go up?
Business / Re: If Diamonds Have No Resale Value Why Do People Buy It Always ? by Alhajiemeritus: 8:03am On Jul 16, 2021
chatbot1234isba:
i just want to know, thanks.
who said it has no resale value?
Diamond is the hardest substance present in nature and it's used in heavy industrial manufacturing.
Used in Cutting, Grinding, Smoothening other materials.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: ...... by Alhajiemeritus: 11:12pm On Jul 05, 2021
Empiree:
Alfa dey for Yorùbá land fa. I noticed him sometimes two years ago on fb. Technology brought out unknown alfas. He's very learned Islamically and in western education. He dey speak big grammar too like one of your politicians grin

He surfaced on social media with his knowledge of geomancy in 2019 I think. His name is Shorinola Ahmed a former student of uni-ife I think
Na Alfa Lagalaga.
Isn't there a Hadith where the prophet said anyone visiting a fortune teller and believing in what he said, his prayers won't be accepted for 40 days?
So what's the Alfa talking about.
Talking about Prophet Yunus.....
Islam for Muslims / Re: Should Sahih Hadiths Really Be 100% Accepted? by Alhajiemeritus: 8:40am On Jul 05, 2021
AntiChristian:
Sahih Ahadith are as reliable as the Qur'an cos they were all transmitted by the Companions of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam.

You will have to meet those scholars that understands to explain your doubts to you.

Once you have it in your mind that the Ahadith are doubtful then know that you'll soon disbelieve in the Qur'an too as Allah refers to the Ahadith by saying in many places "Obey Allah and His messenger" i.e. we obey Allah by following the Qur'an and we obey the Messenger by following his examples.

Allah says:
Indeed in the Messenger of Allah (Muhammad SAW) you have a good example to follow for him who hopes in (the Meeting with) Allah and the Last Day and remembers Allah much. (Qur'an 33:21)

The Ahadith are the records of his examples. So casting aspersions on them is also doing same on the Qur'an.

Sometimes the Qur'an gives the complete ruling and sometimes the hadith gives the complete ruling. At other times the ahadith explains the Qur'an and the Qur'an can also explain the ahadith. The Qur'an and Sunnah are what the Prophet left behind.

And there's no contradiction between an hadith and the Qur'an as the Prophet practice the Qur'an while alive.

I'd like to point out something to you, Hadith isn't just the collections about the prophet, it's also collections about the followers.
Having said that, it's important for everyone to understand the Science of Hadith. Get the knowledge of Hadith.
Usulul Hadith most importantly.
I won't tell you whether all Sahih Hadiths are reliable or not, but I know only the Quran is infallible

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Culture / Re: The Oyo Versus The Benin - My Experience From Ozanagogo Trip by Alhajiemeritus: 11:35am On Jul 04, 2021
SlyDev:
I believe yoruba named Bini ile ibinu because they are always angry and ungovernable. The same can be said of igbos now, they are aggressive and because of everyone for himself they are not easy to lead.

I think Igbos were people Oranmiyan met at Bini, he then expelled them southward.
Lol
Highly plausible.
They are always � angry.
A research should be done on this.

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