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Blessedmercy8:
I don't have time to read trash; a lengthy one at that.

Buzz off!

I just can't belive am in my 20s, freaking reasonable and x30 richer with far reacher prospect than a grammarian 41 year old.... I thought have seen it all
Have never in my life seen a broke and childless female of 41 years old. You amaze me....
I have come to realise some of these nairaland peeps are not worthy to lace the shoe of some people they insult here...

Blessedmercy8:
Imagine the kind of question you're asking and it's you men that are shouting all over the place how a woman should marry a man managing. If someone listens to your advice, how will a washing machine be possible?

By the way, did she tell you she doesn't have a washing machine?

The same you that will dish out wrong advice is the same you that will mock the person when they can't meet up.

Brand new Washing machine is just less than 50k as at last year... how wretched can someone be that won't be able to afford it... You need a man to buy you washing machine ?

Blessedmercy8:
What is bringing all these stupid rhetorical questions?

A simple yes or no question I raised, you're here downloading what will befall all the female in your lineage. Like seriously... Do you think there's sense in all the crap you said up there?

In fact, from your write-up you are the one sounding frustrated like one who's without hope. Gush!

I see the way many of you have been ranting and spewing trash all over the place and it only means one thing. Frustration.

Look let me tell you, I will choose until i select the best still looking hot and presentable than all the under 16 female members of your family.

It's not by age. Its the Glory of God.

Like I said, it is not the truth you seek, its the certainty that you are on the right path you created (Trailblazer), a path that's probably hunting you now but just have no choice than to keep on holding to the belive so you can shame your imaginary enemies.... You know the truth but adamantly putting yourself in the denial state.... You've open phone early in the morning and come to Nairaland. That speaks more of you.... You serve a living God, but you didn't let God take control over your marital life....


It has never dawn on you that this life is not a video game that you can replay, and am perplexed you are living your life based on "Patient Dog will eat the fattest bone"
You've been searching for the right man since when dollar = 150 Naira till its now 700 Naira...
You are probably reading this comment still with the mindset that God will not forsake its own and all your wish will come through even at late hour and u'll come to shame Nairaland men. You are the type that belive there's always happy ending

Blessedmercy8:
God bless you.
Only you saw it from my perspective!

I know what I'm saying because as a single, I know the expenses I incure not to talk of when the number increases. I'm not saying we are going to remain at a level but the naira no longer has value. Under 2 weeks 100k is gone except you want to be forgoing so many things that make life comfortable and who doesn't want comfort?

But I beleive you missed the part where the guy said "due to age"...
Seeing the comments you reply to so far and how misologist your reply have been. I beleive You are not trying to find the answer to a question, you are simply trying to confirm something you desperately want to believe...
So far, you have refused to beleive whatever you are not used to believing

iLegendd:
Those of us that earn more than that even while we sleep are not ready to marry you people (especially when you have character issues or materialistic). All we want is great sex, no infection, and peace of mind.

We will f*ck you and still f*ck your bestie behind you because she too wants a man with money and this makes her vulnerable.

After men with money are tired of using you, you'll still settle with a man who earns less or stay single or be a rich man's babymama.

Your job is not to leech your husband, but complement his effort with yours. Be a great woman (not a social media queen who sleeps around) so that you can get a great and rich man.

I just pity her or any other girls using there friends success in nabbing a well to do man as a yard stick.... 80% of broke girls now are looking for financially stable men. 90% of financially stable men are looking for financially stable women. Remaining 10% will only consider broke girls with great body and moderate beauty....

Rubbiish:
At your age u don't have a child, no husband, you are fast approaching menopause & ur fertility rate is fast dwindling. U think worrying about a married man with an understanding wife should be your problem now? Wait till u get to 50 years body go tell u.

I was once like u & hated poor people going into marriage till a very close friend changed my mentality. He got married with virtually nothing, but today he is hitting contract worth millions. A lot of us were raised with napkins, even when ur parents got married there is high chances they were still managing, but they raised u. U think u are doing anyone by posting nonsense about marriage?

U are no longer far from reality, u are already in ur 40s, just 10 years from now, u will understand what it means be a single lady without a child, husband or family. Those u are mocking now will look far more better than u. Keep on deceiving yourself...

You just spoke my mind.
I beleive she's an orphan, coz no single African parent will open there eye for there daughter's life to be like this....
I don't really want to judge you, but how come, what really went wrong in your life that led you to this stage!...
41 years, no child, let's even forget about husband. You mean 41 years, no child, no money, no property to your name and u are still being picky ?.... ... I appreciate the fact you left that unreasonable 40 years old man that's earning 100k and wants to marry 41 year old liability when in fact, he should be looking for 33 years below with something doing to marry.... its like that man is destined for poverty.....
You must really have a great body with youthful face for this guy to even look your side.... That guy will readily see 29 years very beautiful female ready to jump at the offer, even you self know..... Talk less of now being ridiculously looking for Self made man

You really think a right thinking financially stable man that fits your kind of dream man will leave out of the thousands of option around him and take an old age whose body will soon start experiencing wrinkle at 50? You really have no adviser......
To be candid, At present, to be realistic, if you are a lady and not financially stable or have breast and yansh with fresh body, you have 80% probability of just being used as sex object by a financially stable man and later dumped for young blood.... but trust me, for u, even if you have breast and yansh, your age have already put you to a great disadvantage. Unless you are a virgin which am sure you are not, you even first have a very hard time to convince any man you have no child with past free of hookup....

You at 41, zero child, when chances of getting pregnant depreciate greatly from 35 years upward how many years remain to enter menopause. Forget menopause, you mean, as a female, in your 40s, your first child will be in nursery school ?!!!! You are not scared ? Jesus chriist!!!!.....

maureensylvia:
Instead of napkin and tie pant, y not use cloth diapers, it looks more cool, good for the environment, saves you lots of money too..I know some of my pals that uses it and it looks nice on there babies

Although I used disposable diapers(Pampers) for my kids cos I don't have the time to wash and rewash

You don't have washing machine ?
In this century ?

xavuv:
Sir, 3.3 last price

Price for foreign used.
Make I no even talk much coz I fit vex send soldier to you for serious drilling....

xavuv:
noting to fix
call: 09011280997
location : osogbo

Price: 3.5 mil ( negotiable)

3m for 2011. I beleive you self have seen your thievery nature.... better change for good....

michaelpenz:
Toyota Corolla 05/06

3months old.
Owner is a priest, who wants to relocate to UK.

Price is 2.5m and you are paying me 5% for bring it to your notice( oso-ahia)

Please don't call to ask me how much.
Location is in the East.

Only serious buyer should call.
07039762244

Clown

Obidient4life3:
I need RMB. What's your rate?

No rmb at the monent

NapoleonHill:
I'm sure you're not doing well in person. If you were, you will not advise your fellow man to do this to himself.

Someone that's still collecting pocket money from home. Anybody that accept that offer will see shege. That's all

thegrinch:
Na Only for Lagos you go see Jobless man advising person wey wan get job!

For Comparison, check the Above poster... That is a sensible person!

Only 3 category of people reason like you

1) People with CGPA that's nothing to write home about and still have no self value

2) People with no hope of making it in life

3) People still living under there parent


Earning 150k monthly with no incentive in Lagos is still living below poverty level..... it will take you donkey years to be able to afford Corrola 2005....
I belive you are still being spoon fed, reason for thinking these funds are big...

tunjidachosen:
Everything is not all about money...if it aligns well with your future goals and ambitions, then take it and get the experience..money can't buy experience. The most important thing for a fresh graduate is to learn first hand, the money is important but more important is the experience. Just be sure that they are well structured so that you can even learn not just the job but how an organisation is setup and run.

I can't belive I live in same country with a misologist such as owner of this quoted comment.
Is it that bolded comment he will tell his landlord, Transport driver, food seller, internet company.... Or you've forgotten work start from 9am and end 6pm. Meaning no side hustle, income is only depended on the meagre salary.... OP only saving grace have to be if he's still collecting pocket money from his parent

vivavik:
Please don't fail to take up this opportunity,
1. You would gain experience
2. Leave your comfort zone and stretch yourself for greatness.
3. Never say never, something great can come out of it.
Don't place monies ahead of knowledge, I made this mistake as a start up and I wasn't too happy afterwards.
Most importantly pray about it. I prayed and God made me recover.

By No 2, I guess you mean "leave your comfort zone and stretch yourself for Slavery"

By the time Hunger wire him and he start begging his friends for money, he will know what he has enmeshed himself in. A company put in contract that you can't leave till end of 2 years, you think they don't know the hardship he's coming for....
In Lagos, you want to survive on 50k with no free accommodation, no free transportation, no free feeding.

First of all, he can't get anything apart from face me and face you house where room will be in oshodi and bathroom will be in agege....

Let's say he spend 1k per day on food which is almost impossible. That's already 30k per month.

Brooooooo. Monday to Saturday - 50k.... 9 to 6pm, Erasing any mindset of side hustle....... To even think of the fact this company made applicants write exams and strict interview. That company will reap its fruit for this wickedness....

aikyg:
Take the offer. As a graduate trainee, you'll have the opportunity of a steady income while you improve your technical and administrative skills. Two years is just 24 months. Make sure that you spend the two years wisely. Invest in certifications and do not spend money on unnecessary things. Good luck!

Hear yourself. 50k monthly, no accommodation, no feeding, no transport.
You know how much is data subscription alone per month ?

alphabbey1:
I need to buy something worth 250$ on ebay. Looking for the right plug to make the purchase....
I have an address to ship to.

This have been gotten
Thanks to Jamebex

God1000:
Callisthenics here.

Can our own buhari and Tinubu do this? they will fall down immediately

Biden despite his age is still very agile, I see him seeking re-election in 2024, or Kamala Harris will take the mantle of leadership.

As for Donald trump, he's going to prison very soon for malfeasance.

Calisthenics, Malfeasance

Bro, u are good with words

Xscape1993:
Is it first body paint?

All this rubbish question never end ?
Why in God's name will you be expecting ancient of days car like this to be first body paint....

Terah76:
Hello guys, I just bought a naija used 2010 Corolla with bad ac. Took d ac for fixing, d tech. Advice we flush d system due to d fact dat d compressor is bad and d system showing signs of black colouration, I bought a used compressor 22 manual, he flused d condenser since it was still new and change d condenser filter, removed d valve and flushed d whole system using cooking gas according to him, and recharge d system.
But d cooling was not effective except wen I'm driving, he advice I drive and observe, within a week no changes as per cooling, so wen I pressed d H valve with d car key I saw very black gas/ oil coming out. Please what do you advice I do, d tech. Said d compressor is having low pumping hence need to be changed.

Go and buy brand new compressor. Used compressor will always be 30/70

CokeBar:
08060379711

Evevning

10k RMB Needed Right now


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alphabbey1:
I need to buy something worth 250$ on ebay. Looking for the right plug to make the purchase....
I have an address to ship to.

Still needed please

I need to buy something worth 250$ on ebay. Looking for the right plug to make the purchase....
I have an address to ship to.

Those that got admitted into University of stirling, was ielts compulsaried ?
Coz if I should do this ielts by September beacuse of them, I'll probably ignore this there admission and apply to US Schools...

I for buy this ride, but v8 engine, na, not today

10k RMB Highly needed
Come with your rate




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RADIO1:
When I was growing up I have this cousin that stay with us during her university. She was very close to me in fact my best cousin. After school she was very lucky and got a big job with big cash that she sponsor herself in travelling to Europe, America and Canada for holiday . I notice her character change especially when you ask her for money she becomes upset and say some annoying words So I have to give her space.
Futunately for me God bless me and I got a very big job too with cool cash. Now the problem is most people don't call me to check on me or even chat with me. Almost every one calling me is asking for money or favour. Nobody care about me all there just want is money. My friends start bringing various business plans for me to establish them. Is not that am selfish but am choke up with different people calling you for money at once. My friend that are in my place of work are using iPhone 13 Pro max and me is still using huwei and I get bigger salary than some of them. The people in my place of work are calling me stingy guy and asking me how do I spend my money because I don't take good care of myself. Land I have nor get, house am still a tenant, cloths I still buy cheap cloths because because I keep giving in which I know God will bless me.
The most annoying part is some of my friends get entitlement mentality. One call me and told me he has not eaten today and very broke then I reply him that I would give him 5k to see road then he shouted that I am bigger than 5k and I reply him with anger if he want the money or not. Another one go collect loan in which he was not able to pay and the next thing he send me message for one evening that he needed money to pay the loan before night go reach as if he keep money in my account. Another one always call me in which I dey wire money to am constantly because he try for me when I get nothing but the problem is he keep asking me money every week and the more I give him the more he keep asking thinking I don't have plans for my money. Some will call u when u are broke and once u tell them that u are broke there won't believe you and will keep intestify the begging. There are many instances in which I can't mention because some of my friends are in nairaland and I don't want them to know am talking about them.
Now let me go to girls. Most girls throw themselves on me which let me to loose interest with them because there are after my money. Now I only follow girls that are rich or richer than me because I believe she will follow me for love and not money because she don't need my money.
From conclusion I can say I understand why my cousin was behaving like that because right now am in her shoes and I know what it means to have little money.
Please I type very fast. Don't mind my grammar and spelling

Have been in this shoe since 2 years ago till present. You've not seen billing. Buy a car first, you will almost change your sim card.
And trust me, all what you are doing now is called wasted investment. The people that will later help you in life are not your friends, not even your relatives. Total stranger. Yes, Total stranger....

berakahroyals:
Toyota Camry Le 08 be Buy n Drive...
Everything working standard ok .. .
Location: Ile iwe bstop.
Lagos
Price: Distress @1.9m settlement 30k
Call/Whatsapp: 08023970954

Before you put problem onto the buyer's neck, Converse with owner on issues affecting the ride and put it transparently here...
And don't dear say the car is 100% OK. That will definitely be the world greatest lie.....

ucsparks:
what's the RMB rate as at today?

You are engaging someone that wants to sell rmb @ 80, Its like you don't like peace of mind.

20k RMB/Yuan Available
Alipay, Bank Or Wechat
Rate: 97