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OP just tell bloggers to go sit down and compose good posts. Everything else will fall in line!

MrEdimulo82:
God knows I resent eye service alot....I too know ism, no one's better than me ism, boss pikin wanabe.....God knows I can't stand such environment. Hence, I created mine and go against a culture of degrading Co workers, if u are not a team person be prepared to learn don't come and be forming voltron or superman for here...we all need each other. Na only me finish d work is a sin in my firm. We serve each other.

For making this comment, go to Spar and collect small bottle of cold zobo, I will pay later.

bonetalk:
Underpayment

If you feel you are offering more than you are paid, office of the HRM should hear your footsteps on their door.

Henrylenovo4363:
Lack of confidence in my fellow workers -customers and as such, heavy work on my desk. too much on me.

Make your employers realise how everyone is good when given the chance. When work is assigned to you and you find anyone idle, carry then along and report accordingly that they helped you achieve the desired goal.

Egein:
No salary this december.

For most private sector, I just found out this is a trend. December salaries come next year. That said, hold yourself, spend below budget and avoid unnecessary borrowing.

Sijo01:
Bad belle
Eye service
Insincerity

That's normal and a show that you are working. However, don't let fear of uncertainties grip you to bow to their demands. Always do the right!

Slaybaby1:
Yes I did... Any where its still undergoing construction.
I have not gotten my taste yet.

This person is not female nah

No slaymama abi queen has ever taken this posture before. So the guy is even a stylist and an inventor. Don't quote me please, am drinking panadol this morning!

No comments!

2019 will be decisive.

I just need another Donald Trump. Just come from nowhere and we will elect you president.

How does her offence result to Human Trafficking?
Just send them to Kuje maximum first

By the time Aliens start admiring you ladies. .. . Just hoping it won't be too late.

The day this our daddy GO start preaching I Timothy 6:6-10 is the day, his members will start changing church like our "Politician prostitutes".

Na play o

Please bring two bottles of zobo, so we can start frying?

Alphasoar is back!

That time you your son don't want to agree to become what you want, las las, you go bow as long as the road wey em follow dey release better money.

And to think, Simi senior Falz . . . Hmmmm

And so . . .?

Nigerian politics has nothing new to offer other than frequent cross carpeting and backstabbing.
Today's friends are tomorrow's enemies.

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scratch my back today, tomorrow I will do same to you!

yinkus204:
Please what is the age of our goalkeeper

19

A typical Nigerian agency reply

tuege:
After reading all the arguments about hardwork and smartwork, I think it's time for the next post from OP.
Please come forward and continue with what you were saying. Thank you.

Are you not satisfied or their argument got you confused?

Bloggers, you see your life . . .

Be yourself, no faking and is all good to go!

Lemme spread mat for here first first . . .

They say love is blind. I agree.

By the time one daddy GO pray for this love and it now gets healing and miracle sight and discovers that it is 10 years difference . . .


Well, I reserve my comment . . .

The Fashionista that styled this dress is 'almost wicked'. Other of her fashioned dresses look good but this one . . .

shallysgirl:
Lies.
They resolved a problem I had (was debited twice on a pos) over the phone. Didn't visit the bank for one day, they kept me updated. It took some time Sha, about 2weeks.
I think they are very efficient and they have good customer care services.

1 in a 1000

Economist abi?

They already know what 'job market' means?

Congratulations and goodluck to them all!

Security first

Today we shall do a short post on the four things we have noticed that kills relationship and the one thing that keeps it on the move. Relationships per se, may not just be that of boy and girl. Relationships are the ways people and/or things get connected to one another. It could exist between lovers, family members, parents and their children, man and pets.

The best in life is being in a relationship that you love and that has grown with time. Finding oneself in a truncated relationship(s) is not always a good feeling.
The four things we have noticed are discussed below.

A past unattended.
In this write-up, we shall concentrate on relationship that has to do with lovers - married or intending couples. When two people come together for the sole purpose of helping each other to attain their individual and collective goals, they come with their different pasts. Many people tend to kill and silence their past lives. But do we really have to? I don't think so.
Why? Oh because, the past will be forgotten but can also be remembered. We remember things in the two state of mind we could be - happy or sad. When we remember things in the former, we tend to have reasons to keep the fire burning but when it is the later, we look for fire extinguisher.

How then can the past be attended?
Settlement, Round table! Sounding not too easy to the ears but that could be the only escape route to a vomited past because by the time it comes out maybe in the sad mood of anyone, the mess would have been cleaned up.

How is it done? It is done by confiding in each other what we went through, saw and encountered before we met each other. We laugh about them, get irritated and/or feel disgust about the other. That is nice, because the door of the relationship just opened and all is free to walk out. At this juncture, let your feelings be made known to each other, those invisible are watching, lols!

What can be done at this time? It is either settled now or at a later 'fixed' time. It does not have to take ages. You can all settle it now by just crying on the shoulders of each other, walking away from each other for the meantime or 'fighting' each other about it 'in the moment'.
By the time you guys have settled whatsoever past hurts and mistakes you have encountered, you can always utilize that old saying that 'silence is the best answer to a fool'. You can be walking on the street with your SO and someone yells, 'OLOSHO', you can just simply whisper, 'oh, is that what he wanted to say after all these noise, lwkmd? Hahaha'. And you just walk away. Are you imagining that king of shame that person will walk away with?
But when you guys have not settled that past and your SO is hearing that for the very first time from a stranger, and the person is like, 'My School Bag, what's he saying? Is that true, I mean are you . . .? You can always guess what follows.

Superiority complex
I for once have not believed that gender is meant to separate people but meant to administer and address different functions and responsibilities. So, in a relationship, it should be something like, get the water while I get the fire. Everyone compliments each other.
But for some, they have to show why they are 'genderically' different from each other. They start forming boss around the whole place. It is either, 'I bring the larger money in the house' or 'do I for a second look like your mate?', 'can you talk to your father or mother like that' or 'who says you can't also do the chores or cook around here?'.
When it has gotten to this stage, exchange of blows within a short time is inevitable.

A future not reached so soon
Many people go into relationships with hiiiiiiiigggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh expectations. They lose it when the expectations seems not be attainable within a given period of time. I know a relationship that nearly crashed like the Boeing 747 crash of 1977. They met each other and saw a 'prophetic' future for each other with the type of certificates each of them possess. The man is a first class graduate from of the best institutions in the country and is currently serving in one of the country oil firms and having hope of permanent job there after service.
The lady on the other hand has a second class degree of the upper class division and currently submitting well outlined CVs to major banks that had advertised for vacancies at the time. All hopes dashed when their expectations was not in line with what they had in mind. The lady couldn't secure any banking job but settled as a reporter in a media house and the young man was not retained but was duly referred to another firm but was softly rejected and had to start a road side mechanic shop to make ends meet.
It was not up to six months until they broke the Heart and went separate ways. When people trust riches to the detriment of their personal success and happiness, it leads to frustration and depression.
Aim High and don't jump High but instead Walk High. Success should be a process.

Immaturity
My father will always say that boys and girls are never qualified for relationships. Relationships are meant for matured people or adults. It is for people who can manage their own excesses and the excesses of someone else in a matured way. When people who are immature meet each other, they start match that can't be played 90 minutes times the whole number of years they would leave on earth. Their own adventures never end. It grows to a more silly level each new morning. That is why they would always have headache about little issues that could be handled in a very simple way.

The one thing that keeps relationship going is Communication. Matured communications, not petty kind of talks. Communication is not only a talking thing but also a doing thing. It should be an act that manifests in giving and showing of affection and concern for each other.

Thanks for reading, use the comment box and tell us your views before you leave.

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