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iamJ:
I rather be gay than marry u, hope that answers ur question

ok dear but that was an innocent question though

mhisbliss:
Answer these questions since you have a baby

If your baby is still a toddler, have you noticed it getting sexually attracted to anyone?

When its being mischievous and you discipline it, did it cry?

Did it know the difference between right and wrong?

Is he inclined towards males or females

Is it aware of its sex organ?

Answer them without insults then you'll know that nobody is born gay so its unnatural, society, association and environment plays a vital role in homosexuality

Well you can't study a child sexual behaviorials until they enter into teenage age.
Then from teenage age you can judge.
There is no way you can study a child of 10years down of this stuff.
When homosexuals say that the feeling started from birth, I think they mean that when they became conscious of the sexual being in them, they discover that they do have affection for the same gender.
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If homosexuality is unnatural, then it can be easily stopped
But many of them just can't stop it, I suspect something natural to it.
I may be wrong

iamJ:
gbam, all of them had the feelings from childhood, in secondary school, I know 1guy that kissed another guy because he liked him
He was beaten, gay is a natural thing, it's just painful to accept but it's there and will always be there


Many have to hide who they are and love in pains

Are you a gay?
Sorry if you find the question as inconvenience .
I want to understand something

For some people ,homosexuality is a mental issue,
For some people, it is a spiritual problem ,to some, it is a medical problem.
For you to judge homosexuality as natural or not, you must first ask if those homosexuals started having those feelings from childhood or they were just coerced into the act.
Many homosexuals do say that they grew up having those feelings, its just there right from time,
Don't you think that it means that there may be something natural?
If it is natural, does it have any biological or spiritual undertoned causative factors?
The issue of homosexuality is confusing.
And still open for continuous deep research.

So your wife is like a slave that you order around?
If any young man goes into marriage with this your mentality, such a person will never enjoy the marriage.
Whenever you see a married man nagging about "submission" then know that there is no affection in his marriage,
When there is an affection in the marriage, it will take nothing for a wife who is doing a laundry chores to take her husband's wears and wash off especially if the man is the busy type.
She is not washing it because it is a law but because of Love.
Building and maintaining affection in marriage should be the aim of anybody married and not all this submission thing.

Lilisticlili:
Children are blessings from God after marriage yes true but that is a layman understanding because modernised prostitues today under he guised of "slay mamas" have children without marriage but the married ones looks out for it.

So what's the main essence of having children as most people disagrees with it and prefare to live childless.



Happy children day to Lalasticlala amarabae

The decision to have a baby must be made when one is physically,emotionally etc ready.
Yes children are blessings.
They bring something unique into your life,
Mere looking at a child that comes out from your body as a woman is a wow feeling.
Children are unique.
Whether the child was born in marriage or before marriage,
For me, it doesn't matter,
I don't go about judging people's decision and choice.
Have a nice week dear

Simple thread.
Trolls will keep derailing the thread,
Arguing nonsense.
Leaving the main context of the write-up and focusing on irrelevant things.

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Ike kwuru

Get more closer to God.
Let your career/work together with things of God occupy your time.
Enter into a relationship with a responsible person,
Delete all those girls phone number,
Block them on social media,
Etc
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Good luck

Rickyuzzy:
So true, I made a post, I expect counter and intelligent arguments and all I get some shallow.minded individuals. Most people on nairaland need to grow up. Really they need to. It's just sad really

Very sad reality my dear.
Many of them are bitter useless souls that are looking for who to infect with their bitterness.
Try quora, it's more matured than here

In my opinion,
Homosexuality is a result of an abnormal sexual orientation development.
I may be wrong or right.
They need help and not condemnation.
Many of them can't stop it, it's deep in them.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
I have seen marriages where the woman is far older than the man.
Age is just a number

Hahaha that's a bomb.
Goodnight!
Get ready for tomorrow's thread, it will be hotter than today.
Love you all.
Those who insult and those insulted,
Don't take it to heart.
Sweet dreams

Congratulations to Madrid

Ugomba:
I remembered a half Asian lady they bullied out to deactivate.
Many ladies have been bullied out to deactivate.
Weak sisi ass men everywhere.

Half Asian?
Here in romance section?