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The issue of submission always crack me up.
What exactly is submission?
And what are you submitting?
Submission bla bla bla is always propagated by men whose marriage lacks affection.
The main thing in a marriage should be affection, it makes the chemistry between the couple thick, it brings respect and understanding.
If a woman is doing laundry chores and she picks up some of her husband wears to wash alongside with hers, there is nothing belittling nor wrong with it,
She did it out of love and not because it is a law.
Even the issue of money, who earns higher stuff,
If there is affection in a marriage, even if the wife is earning millions monthly and the husband is earning 50,000 , it should not cause an issue in marriage.
It should not be a criteria for humiliating or intimidating him.
In marriage, the couple should be covering each other back,
Not because of "submission bla bla bla "
But because of Love and affection.

Cuties are born in July

This is painful.
Why playing with the lady's emotion if he was not serious about marrying her
She should take heart

ultron12345:
dont be deceived my brother. Amarabae is a popular johesu warrior on NL. She wanted to study medicine but couldn't, she then opted to train as an auxiliary nurse. Since then she has risen through the ranks and today is an auxiliary matron. She's just here denying her profession the same way after fighting for johesu, she denied her fellow johesuites from ubth when they had accident.

She's just bitter.

This boy again.
You just crack me up this morning.
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On a serious note,
The culprit is a quack, quote me anywhere!
Let's allow the police to do their investigation.

Tallesty1:
Then stop making stupid posts and comments.
Yea, same way politicians do. You're a nurse, we all know that already so stop rubbing it in, it is disgusting already
This would have been a better comment but no, the urge to let everyone know who you are didn't allow you to make a simple comment and just leave.
I can tell you categorically that nobody is following you around on Nairaland. You are on every thread so there is no need for that. Don't tell me about mornings because you clearly don't know what to do with one.
I pity your patients sha because na your type dey leave syringe for person nyash to reply a quote on nairaland

I thought that you are a matured guy, you just exposed the childishness In you.
Running mouth bla bla bla like a woman,
So gayish.
What exactly is wrong in saying that the culprit is part of the auxiliaries that are staining the image of nursing?
You lack comprehension skills or what.
You left the main point to just attack me,

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Get your dark aboki face out of my mention.
Ewu awusa


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soberdrunk:
I agree with the mob on this one, they need to torture the nurse and make her confess as soon as possible because every minute reduces the chance of ever seeing the baby again.......

I tells you.
Who knows the other criminalities that do take place in the mushroom private hospital.
Lord have mercy

Tallesty1:
You're gradually becoming mad. We are talking about a missing baby and the pains the mother is going true and you're talking about your noble profession? Can you tell us a profession that doesn't produce some bad eggs? Do we all not know that most nurses are heartless and wicked? Please don't get me angry this morning.

I don't want silly mention pls.
I don't have the strength.
I sympathize with the mother,
Most of these mess occur in some private hospitals where there are many quacks parading as what they are not.
This is morning, respect yourself .
Stop following me around like a monitoring spirit.
This is a beautiful day, don't want to start it with argument.
Thanks.

Very sad

The so called "nurse" is likely an auxiliary quack ,they are trying to destroy the image of our noble profession.
They are mostly found in private hospitals where doctors train them to be what they are not.
This is a bad news, both the "auxiliary " and the doctor that owns the mushroom private hospital should be arrested, interrogated and charged to court.

Draei:
Really, many of them can't put a stop to it? That's fallacy. They can't put a stop to it and yet many of them are scared of making a public statement about their unreasonable sex life.

You see armed robbery, homicide, rape, etc, you see them as what, unnatural and can be halted right? but you see homosexuality as natural which cannot be stopped by most of these psychologically impaired beings? okay ride on.

Well I am talking from what I have seen.
Homosexuals find it hard to stop it.
Some of them even continue doing it even after marrying an opposite gender.

mhisbliss:
Good thing you said there about not being able to study a baby's sexual orientation, because they're not intelligent to the point of knowing what sex is all about at that age, when people get mad, you cant easily cure them, thats how homosexuality is, its a mental problem, we're talking about homosexuals and excluding those who're stuck in between gay and straight, they're bi sexual, what would you say about such people? They're two people in one body? One is into guys and another is into girls? These are the rare oddities you get to see in nature

You really believe in the stuff called bisexual?
I don't.
It's either a guy is straight or gay.
A bisexual guy is a gay just trying to pretend as straight.
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All the same, the focus should be on how homosexuality can be eradicated in a person if really it is abnormal.
Any suggestion

iamJ:
I rather be gay than marry u, hope that answers ur question

ok dear but that was an innocent question though

mhisbliss:
Answer these questions since you have a baby

If your baby is still a toddler, have you noticed it getting sexually attracted to anyone?

When its being mischievous and you discipline it, did it cry?

Did it know the difference between right and wrong?

Is he inclined towards males or females

Is it aware of its sex organ?

Answer them without insults then you'll know that nobody is born gay so its unnatural, society, association and environment plays a vital role in homosexuality

Well you can't study a child sexual behaviorials until they enter into teenage age.
Then from teenage age you can judge.
There is no way you can study a child of 10years down of this stuff.
When homosexuals say that the feeling started from birth, I think they mean that when they became conscious of the sexual being in them, they discover that they do have affection for the same gender.
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If homosexuality is unnatural, then it can be easily stopped
But many of them just can't stop it, I suspect something natural to it.
I may be wrong

iamJ:
gbam, all of them had the feelings from childhood, in secondary school, I know 1guy that kissed another guy because he liked him
He was beaten, gay is a natural thing, it's just painful to accept but it's there and will always be there


Many have to hide who they are and love in pains

Are you a gay?
Sorry if you find the question as inconvenience .
I want to understand something

For some people ,homosexuality is a mental issue,
For some people, it is a spiritual problem ,to some, it is a medical problem.
For you to judge homosexuality as natural or not, you must first ask if those homosexuals started having those feelings from childhood or they were just coerced into the act.
Many homosexuals do say that they grew up having those feelings, its just there right from time,
Don't you think that it means that there may be something natural?
If it is natural, does it have any biological or spiritual undertoned causative factors?
The issue of homosexuality is confusing.
And still open for continuous deep research.

So your wife is like a slave that you order around?
If any young man goes into marriage with this your mentality, such a person will never enjoy the marriage.
Whenever you see a married man nagging about "submission" then know that there is no affection in his marriage,
When there is an affection in the marriage, it will take nothing for a wife who is doing a laundry chores to take her husband's wears and wash off especially if the man is the busy type.
She is not washing it because it is a law but because of Love.
Building and maintaining affection in marriage should be the aim of anybody married and not all this submission thing.

Lilisticlili:
Children are blessings from God after marriage yes true but that is a layman understanding because modernised prostitues today under he guised of "slay mamas" have children without marriage but the married ones looks out for it.

So what's the main essence of having children as most people disagrees with it and prefare to live childless.



Happy children day to Lalasticlala amarabae

The decision to have a baby must be made when one is physically,emotionally etc ready.
Yes children are blessings.
They bring something unique into your life,
Mere looking at a child that comes out from your body as a woman is a wow feeling.
Children are unique.
Whether the child was born in marriage or before marriage,
For me, it doesn't matter,
I don't go about judging people's decision and choice.
Have a nice week dear

Simple thread.
Trolls will keep derailing the thread,
Arguing nonsense.
Leaving the main context of the write-up and focusing on irrelevant things.

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Ike kwuru

Get more closer to God.
Let your career/work together with things of God occupy your time.
Enter into a relationship with a responsible person,
Delete all those girls phone number,
Block them on social media,
Etc
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Good luck

Rickyuzzy:
So true, I made a post, I expect counter and intelligent arguments and all I get some shallow.minded individuals. Most people on nairaland need to grow up. Really they need to. It's just sad really

Very sad reality my dear.
Many of them are bitter useless souls that are looking for who to infect with their bitterness.
Try quora, it's more matured than here

In my opinion,
Homosexuality is a result of an abnormal sexual orientation development.
I may be wrong or right.
They need help and not condemnation.
Many of them can't stop it, it's deep in them.