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I feel it's unjust to judge a case without full details. This is just her part of the story. We have not heard from the husband or mother-in-law. Cos there is no way that woman travelled all d way just to come and slap her. What did she do?. A respectable and respectful wife and daughter-in-law will still show respect irrespective of the circumstances. The was she is talking shows otherwise. The mother-in-law is wrong no doubt. But we shud knw what happened first b4 judging.

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Oga she no love u. That's it. She has no feelings for u. My sincere advice is for u to divorce her n remarry. Once u start enjoying ur new bride u will be happy u left her. If u stay a few more years it may be too late to leave n restart ur life.

Reading what is here now makes me feel depressed especially for our media. There were so many female n male law students present at that protest who testified openly over this dean's steady sexually harassment on dem and other vices. Yet, d did not include all dat. I was there during de protest. These students were pained. Ask any law student in the University of Calabar and the will play this dean's tape for u. Just try and ask. This man is a beast. I graduated from Unical n I have law students as frnds. Ask anyone. N may God punish all media pple dat take money n twist facts. God will punish dem. Petitions have been written against this man up to National level. No reaction, action or probe of any kind. He is very powerful in Unical. Just ask any law student dat graduated from Unical or is still a law student.

Either she is sexually fragile or she does not love you or she is a lesbian.

U better take dis issue very serious. It's really a strong negative sign. Blatant disregard to ur authority in dat manner is so so wrong. At least she wud have tried to convince u for ur approval. Is it that her journey is more important than her husband and marriage? This is a reflection of lack of respect for her husband and value for her marriage. Take this matter very serious Oga. U can tell her u wanna end the marriage and watch her reaction. Cos apparently she does not even care.

U have been patient and mature in ur actions. I admire men like you. Don't throw her out. Just ensure she ceases any communication with dat guy cos she may try to be smart and careful about it while still keeping in touch with him. They may change method of communication and even phone numbers. Keep monitoring her movements. But u shud also spice up ur marriage. Take her out on a romantic outing or something. Reassure her of ur love and make her understand her actions may destroy the family.

Trust me you will never forgive urself if dat idiotic and cursed cousin of urs harm ur sisters sexually. God who made you witness his crimes wants you to do sth about it. Take action now or regret later. After camp u will be backbto ur house b4 u report fully at ur PPA. If u come bak after 3 weeks and hear anytin from ur sisters and still decide to play about it den God will punish you.

Wen my eldest bro caught a young man peeping at my sis bathing, my bro beat him so badly using even stick and stones. D injuries he retained were so serious dat my bro had to be arrested. After a couple of days he was released. The parents of the culprit were not satisfied and d had to venture into fetish n diabolic means to harm my bro. But God been pass dem. However, dat was d last time he tried such nonsense. There are men dat wud kill ur cousin on d spot for trying d nonsense he did.

Oga, protect ur sisters. U are d only person who can ryt now. Don't hate him, deal with him.

She is selfish and wants to take advantage of you. She has observed you are a gud man with a gud heart and strongly believes you will insist and eventually accept her condition. For a woman to make such demands reveal a lot. In the end, she will always value her family more than you. Just relax and wen she puts to birth n d baby is of age den go and get ur baby. Helping her family shud be by choice not by force. If u sue her for custody the case will favour cos u have better capacity to care for the child. You will win. So just relax. Ur child will still be urs. Las las she will be the one to loose.

She is selfish and wants to take advantage of you. She has observed you are a gud man with a gud heart and strongly believes you will insist and eventually accept her condition. For a woman to make such demands reveal a lot. In the end, she will always value her family more than you. Just relax and wen she puts to birth n d baby is of age den go and get ur baby. Helping her family shud be by choice not by force. If u sue her for custody the case will favour cos u have better capacity to care for the child. You will win. So just relax. Ur child will still be urs. Las las she will be the one to loose.

Lekan239:
did you know if the guy could afford taking care of his wife and child?

She is selfish and wants to take advantage of you. She has observed you are a gud man with a gud heart and strongly believes you will insist and eventually accept her condition. For a woman to make such demands reveal a lot. In the end, she will always value her family more than you. Just relax and wen she puts to birth n d baby is of age den go and get ur baby. Helping her family shud be by choice not by force. If u sue her for custody the case will favour cos u have better capacity to care for the child. You will win. So just relax. Ur child will still be urs. Las las she will be the one to loose.

Johnnyboy6757:
please where in Calabar did u buy this oranges?? Because I just bought mine. I bought 5 piece of oranges for 100 naira just this evening. So please stop spending fake news. Thanks

This is not fake. Watt market and Marian market are the two most popular markets in Calabar. And if u check any of these markets oranges sells at #200 for 5.

If she is all the things you highlighted. Den u r fortunate to have such an outstanding woman in ur life. Trust me curved Bak is better dan curved attitude. Marry her or u will regret it till d day u die.

There is anoda man Oga. And your wife never loved you to start with. Love forgives. U better confirm the paternity of d child wen u can.

Simply send her out of d house and remarry. Cos trust me u will eventually die of depression. I'm sure u even look older than you age now. U deserve to be happy. Shalom

It may just be becos she wants to make u happy with regards to sex. Maybe someone is encouraging her to be more active sexually with u.

Women like being taken care of Oga. And she has seen someone to take good care of her.

Crazy indeed. But u wud have opened d door for her n attempt to confirm if she is mensing for real. But as she no call u after dat day, she never loved u.

There is nothing wrong with that. Her brother is a visitor. You shud serve your visitor b4 eating urself. U sef. N stop smoking. It's not gud for u.

My dear. Let him be. I've heard stories like dis a million and one times. Don't try to help or save him. I'm sure u guys indulged and accomodated his dirty habits all this while and it accumulated to what u r facing now. Let him face d world on his own. If he comes back to his family; fine. If he doesn't just keep praying for him. But do not send money for him or try to bring him bak into d family except he is remorseful.

I think asking if she is wife material is rather irrelevant cos even a baby shud knw dat dis one will eventually kill u if u marry her. I understand if u r in love already advising u will b useless but I will still advise u anyways.

DON'T EVER MARRY THIS GIRL. She is not gud for u. Most girls have been spoilt at home by their parents n d men dat will marry dem will suffer for it. Don't be amongst such men.

You are super selfish. If u suggested one child. Den u shud b the one who facilitates it. Which kind demon u be sef. D man will b very stupid to accept a vasectomy.

It's not a big deal. She won't rape you. I don't see this as an issue at all. It's just to ignore her. Except you are worried about falling for her gimmicks eventually. But if u are confident, den it's not an issue. Just ignore her. She calls, u take d call, discover it's her n end d call instantly. She won't rapture u to her presence. It's not a big deal at all.

Pls which Glo r u guys talking about. I have MTN, Etisalat n Glo lines. N Glo remians d most reliable network for now. Whether na browsing or calls. There was a time Glo network was better rubbish but u see currently. No network for naija near glo.

Your brother is under a demonic spell. Try and help him.

She does not love u. Take it or leave it. Even Mary used to visit Joseph in the Bible.

Run for ur life. She shud b grateful u wanna marry her n set her up and willingly help. So where will all her money go to? Run o

Keep working on leaving her. U can try redirecting ur focus to anoda lady. U r just addicted to her. Maybe u have been with her for too long n love her too much. U need to try but it won't b easy. Just take a bold step n bear d pain no matter how severe. After a while you will get over her.

Keep working on leaving her. U can try redirecting ur focus to anoda lady. U r just addicted to her. Maybe u have been with her for too long n love her too much. U need to try but I won't b easy. Just take a bold step n vesr d pain no matter how strong. After a while you will get over her.

Believe me bro, if u don't leave that woman now, u will end up frustrated after a decade with her. It is better to live in d corner of a roof dan to live with a bad woman at home. I've seen such scenarios n men who felt d cud salvage d situation or d woman will eventually change. But it will only get worse. I understand u may have deep feelings for her n its a tough decision.

Maybe there was a time Glo net was unstable n poor. But for now, Glo is the best network for both calls and data. I have both MTN n Glo sims. Initially MTN was d network I cud always rely on but not anymore. Many pple still judge Glo based on their performance years ago. But swearz if u try Glo net now, u go believe.

Two ways to look at it. Both men and women enjoy sex n though men tend to demand more n appear unable to control their sexual urge, women most times enjoy sex even more Dan men. So except the wife is just frigid or sexually unresponsive, den she is may be cheating.

In any case, he shud try to discover why his wife denies him sex. Cos "I'm too tired" is a baseless excuse. Women do not require much energy for sex.