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Truvelisback:
U should have heard from her first. I hope ur mom isn't that violent type?

You are asking the right questions Op just created another thread telling us that aunty wants him back and I asked him what led to the slap,I decided to peruse through his profile and saw nothing and instead of people to ask the right questions as them slap mama dem dey shalaye.

You asked a sane question if his mother was a violent person.

Bola146:
No matter what, she did a great mistake

Have I said anything to give the impression that I am siding the lady?
I don't use emotions or sentiments to address issues the lady didn't just slap the mother without reason or provocation,as it is said for every action there is an equal or opposite reaction.

So OP should tell us what led to what,that is how you solve issues and offer advice.I didn't take sides or addees the matter on ground because it isn't complete.

finishmatter:
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

Dooh kpele,it will be alright

What happened between her and your mom?

Start from the beginning so that we can know how to advice you.

finishmatter:
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

"WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love"
Yet we see them stay with trashy men because of the love they have for them and their kids just to ensure the marriage works and the home isn't broken even though the mumu husband is willing to frustrate their effort tell me who is selfish here.

Bros,comot from road abeg stop to dey shalaye

eminikansoso:
My wife is my half, my children are my friends and my mother is my life, my everything
Iya ni wura iyebiye.
Mothers are incomparable, I don't know about yours but many mothers out there are still finding ways to better the lives of their children.

Nobody is dragging that with you just go and be her second husband, it's just sad that your father isn't also incomparable and in that picture of yours as well maybe that's how your kids won't regard you and claim their mom as incomparable too.

Better learn to love everyone and stop the unnecessary hostilities you want to add between mothers and daughters in law it's unnecessary.

Even your wife loves her parents and they are incomparable hopefully you won't be offended when she doesn't see the need to count you in her life.

LMAO

Shebi I created a thread to address this https://www.nairaland.com/6777828/why-men-outraged-over-paternity

That when men don't call themselves to order and be faithful they will spread their tentacles everywhere men should call themselves to order and stop causing HBP on their fellow men by forcing them to father other men's children.

Stay chaste and faithful dear men and paternity fraud will be a thing of the past

Datboredberry:
Advice to the men: women don't owe you sex...

It's humiliating when you create senseless threads asking us to advice you on how you can convince your girl to go to your place... Etc...

Encourage your women to be chaste... Shun immorality... Abstain from sex till you're married...

But if continue to community diçks... Don't be mad when she puts a price on it...

Insanity is taken advantage of in this part of the world...

Let me just add to this,men if you want virgins be chaste,but no you will want to confirm if she is a virgin

Who will now marry the non virgins you cannot be expecting female virgins when there are no male virgins preach chastity to both and stop embarrassing yourselves because las las you will end up with the non virgins.

You can't always eat your cake and have it

Advice men to stop seeing women as sex gadgets that they can always slut shame (they are on the forum shouting clitocurrency like street urchins)

Advice guys to stop doing Yahoo to impress women.

Advice guys to stop thinking that once they have money women will chase them,it is reasonings like these that make women see men as money making machines because most of these men have no ambition or manners/characters so the only thing attracting women to them is money.

Some men even enable this because they claim that it doesn't matter for a man to have good character he should just have money hence the cycle continues.

In a nutshell you are what you attract a mannerless man with bad attitude but money will always attract women for the sake of money.Your men need this advice more because they don't work on their personalities but want to make quick cash because they believe that once they impress a lady with money what more does she want so why then are men now complaining that women are after money when na money in the first place dem use take attract the ladies

Abi the money don finish?

Ekejoestar:
Divorce.

One of the reasons to always choose your mother over your wife.

Yes, because your mother doesn't have a husband and your father will gladly choose your wife for you abi?

You boys should be mature enough to understand the place of a mother and wife and stop setting unnecessary hostilities between women.

Kukuma don't marry since you want to be your mother's second husband.

Stephendeals:


$400 Million up for split down the middle

The future is female


Feminism is looking more like a movement to make laws favourable for women and grant them superiority (advantages) over men, not a fight for equality or equity.

Must you embarass yourself don't you know that the divorce laws are fair and women like Adele and Carrie Underwood paid monies to their ex-husbands.
Study the divorce laws before spilling rubbish to rub feminism in the mud.

Vinnie2000:
Reason Why Smart people like Ronaldo, Wizkid and Davido will NEVER marry their babymamas!

Modern ladies are very smart! They use love, sentiments and emotions to Trap Rich and made men!

Once they have gotten a Slice of his Wealth, They Jet Off!

Guys Have to be Smart!

It is obvious many of you lots don't know how divorce processes work.

The one who earns more pays support most times because it is assumed that the other spouse sacrificed to make the other spouse to be where they are.

It doesn't always support women the laws are fair and were mostly made by your fellow men.Adele paid money to her husband even Carrie Underwood paid to her husband.The system works and because women are the main beneficiaries doesn't mean it always favours women

miniziter:
Why do foreign wives forbid bearing the husband's name.

Because there is no where in the world where that is compulsory.

Names are just a nomenclature and deciding to answer your husband's name is a choice

Palema007:
I would have ignored you totally TSOM but a lady's reputation is at stake here. I will type this once and leave you to your unfruitful self. AmazonTopaz is not Marialavina or RuthDaniels.

It's quite pathetic that while others have moved on, you are still on the street of Nairaland reminicising and reposting fake stories dated back to almost a decade now. Pity! Perhaps you should make a book of these stories and read them to your grandchildren, that's if you are ever fruitful enough to have some! Ewwwww. What a miserable lowlife dingbat! Don't bother to respond I won't read. I won't be caught engaging you...nah. I won't encourage one whose life goes about in a circle, I can only try to remember you in prayers. Who knows the chains of stagnancy upon you can be broken,then you will move on like others have.


AmazonTopaz/ Ladyhippolyta88 I'm so sorry I got to see the allegations against you just now, today I made a random search on RuthDaniels and I saw the posts Son of Mark made claiming you are Ruth/ Maria/ Diddy. I just couldn't let you bear that brunt. So sorry dear. Hope you are good and this isn't too late.

I am fine thank you.I even forgot about this because I have moved on my only regret was feeding him with the attention he craved for then.He is fond of posting lies and accusing people who disagree with him here to be what they are not.I really felt insulted that day and the worse part was that he refused to be corrected but then he is of no use to me so what he thought of me wasn't my problem.

I have learnt better to move past nonsense and will carry this into the new year people like him are not worth my attention.

Thank you and have a blessed year ahead.

budaatum:
Someone put Biden in orange disguise.

https://www.bloomberg.com/opinion/articles/2021-12-20/president-biden-s-economic-performance-has-proved-unbeatable

Just yesterday the US stocks closed at a all time high

feedthenation:
---MAGAs are not happy with Trump---

https://www.rawstory.com/trump-grill-vaccine-mandate/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

'Trump is a fraud!' Disillusioned supporters rage after being denied service at Trump Grill over vax mandate

Some supporters of former President Donald Trump were left disillusioned when they tried to eat at the grill located in Trump Tower, only to be denied service for not being able to show proof of vaccination.

The supporters filmed a video of their ordeal, in which a security officer explained to them that they needed to show proof of vaccination in order to get service.

"They're under a mandate," the officer said of the restaurant. "They don't want to get in trouble... In any case, right now I'll tell you now, they aren't going to seat you."

"Trump is a fraud if he enforces this!" one upset supporter can be heard saying as the officer spoke.

Pro-Trump anti-vaccers showed up at Trump Grill in NYC today after he said he was against vaccine mandates. They were denied service and the police were called. “Trump is a fraud if he’s enforcing this!” pic.twitter.com/s65q25LrEw

— Ron Filipkowski (@RonFilipkowski) December 23, 2021

Oh they are already mad,those people are sick

obixcel:
Biden's economy is so poor, his approval on the issue is currently lower than Jimmy Carter in 1977

Yet America has recorded 5 million jobs in his first year in office.

Trump never got that you seem to be ill informed about the Biden boom,you are just lying and spouting nonsense even gas prices are low.

Biden has done well in his first year only a dull brain will believe your lies when the facts are there to see.

feedthenation:
Trump pushes back on Candace Owens: 'People aren't dying when they take the vaccine'

“Oh no, the vaccines work, but some people aren’t the ones. The ones who get very sick and go to the hospital are the ones that don’t take the vaccine. But it’s still their choice. And if you take the vaccine, you’re protected,” Trump told Owens.

“Look, the results of the vaccine are very good, and if you do get it, it’s a very minor form,” Trump continued. “People aren’t dying when they take the vaccine.”

Trump recently shared during a sit-down interview with former Fox News host Bill O’Reilly that he has received his COVID-19 vaccine booster shot.

Trump pushes back on Candace Owens undermine the COVID vaccine:
“People aren’t dying when they take the vaccine.” https://t.co/rqxnJunCOu pic.twitter.com/7VSk8zXLAJ

— philip lewis (@Phil_Lewis_) December 23, 2021

Even the orange head is smart enough to realise that republiQans are killing their own base with vaccine misinformation .
I never expected this of agent orange but I will take it.

*Waiting for Q-anon wing nuts to come up a conspiracy on why Trump said this

dasparrow:
I pray she gets healed. I knew she's not pregnant. Aisha Buhari is a 50 year old woman so I knew she is not pregnant.

Actually there are women who still see their periods in their early 50's and can get pregnant.50 is not the bench mark some women never enter menopause at 50 years

Kobojunkie:
1. The husband doesn't need to stop working in order to help nurse his wife and baby back to health. In most cases, all he needs do is help feed and care for the baby, help prepare the wife and baby for the day - bath them, prepare food, and make them comfortable before he leaves for work and repeat after work. Millions of husbands/men across the world do this every day, so I see no reason why the Nigerian man should claim exceptions for himself.

2. The tradition is wrong and needs to be revised. It diminishes the man's experience as a 'helper' in his own marriage.

3. Wrong! A marriage is an agreement between a man and woman...no third-parties are included in the contract. The moms ought to stay in their own marriages instead.

Are you surprised that when you suggested that men should be more involved with taking care of their kids the average nairaland man being a reflection of some Nigerian men believe that helping their wives with their kids translates to them not working anymore.

These men are shallow and it is painful to see.