Lust has a good grip on this generation but there's hope with God.
We all suffer from Lust but it depends on the degree.
There is Hope brother. If you can go to God and ask for help.
Take your time, clean up, pray and study the Word and be consistent with it... You will definitely see great changes.
Though it's not easy but with the help of God, it's possible.
You can't just fold your hands and give up on yourself. You can't just fold your hands and surrender to Lust forever. You can't just lay low to demonic slavery.
You have to put up a fight holding unto God. Victory is always assured with Him.
ChildOfDoom: To think I thought womanizing will be better than gambling. I was wrong.
With gambling, you only mess up your finances. But with womanizing, you mess up both your finances and your life/health.
Battling with complications/infections from raw sex with multiple partners. I have painful urination, my wind pipe is messed up, probably from mouth action. Spots erupting from different parts of my body every now and then. My genitals looking weird/enlarged from raw extensive/continuous thrusting of both holes of women.
Once I survive this, I am going back to masturbating (I once started with this as a teen) to cure my high libido. I don't mind doing it multiple times.
It may not be easy for it to suffice, considering I may yearn for physical touch of the mammalian glands and skin to skin. But I have to protect the little left of my life somehow.
When people see money, they think of something productive to do with it. But 70 percent of today's youth (including me) are foolish. We either think of drugs, betting, women and all sorts of rubbish
Bro.. Truth be told.. You are in a path to doom and you are accepting your fate to be so.
There is HOPE for REDEMPTION if you can run to GOD for HELP.
We are all suffering from one challenge or the other but it is never our FATE.
YES mistakes have been made but there is HOPE with GOD.
Change is Constant. Choose to Change and commit to it. Don't allow the devil deceive you into believing that this is your fate.
Pls don't die in your Sins...there's no redemption if you do... Only Regrets.
Fight for Redemption Now!!!!!
ChildOfDoom: I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.
It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).
The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.
I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.
Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work
But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.
The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.
I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.
Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me
Brother I feel you but 40 days without food is no joke bro. You can develop Ulcer and other ailments. You can even loose your life in the process if care is not taken.
My advice is that you eat at least once per day to help you stay alive, healthy and strong.
Don't just fast and pray.. Take actions too. Search for jobs.. Submit your CV to many places.
Talk to friends and family if need be.
May God give you the grace for the labor and grant you your heart desires in Jesus Name Amen.
michaelwestern: My name is Samuel and I'll be undergoing a 40 days water fast starting today.
Water fast means I'll only take water for the whole 40 days.
The prayer requests for the fast
1. Increase in IQ: I'm a graduate but I still have a very low IQ, I can't think or reason at a normal rate. I might be a little above functionally retarded.
2. Spiritual growth: I can speak in tongues but it's been a long time since I prayed or read the Bible. I hope the fast will help
3. Mental stability: I've been depressed and suicidal for at least 12 years now. I was on antidepressants for about 4 years and it helped but I stopped because of the side effects. I hope the fast will help
4. Financial Stability: I'm 33 and still live with my mother with no hope reasonable employment because of my IQ. I'm also like over 60k in debt. I'm hoping the fast will help with that.
You are in a relationship with a girl and she's still maintaining communication with her Ex and you come here to write it so that we can advise you 🙆🙆🙆
Omo eh.. Something dey wrong with your head and masculinity!
McSaviour: I'm currently in a relationship where my girlfriend maintains communication with her ex-boyfriend, which is causing me significant distress. The uncertainty surrounding her intentions and the nature of their interactions is unsettling. I'm seeking advice on how to navigate this situation and determine whether her behavior is a sign of unresolved feelings or a harmless friendship.
I formatted my book in Google docs using Times New Roman size 12 font and 1.5 line spacing, it came out around 136 pages.
Then I now reformatted it with same Times New Roman font but size 14 because size 12 was too small when I previewed it on Google docs and it came out 163 pages.
What do you guys think??
Is Times New Roman size 14 okay??
Question no. 2:
How can I add my book name atop all the pages of the book on Google docs??
I clearly understand you. But you can't exempt the guy like that.
The story is like two people that went for robbery but one told the other not to come with life gun. But the colleague didn't ahere. He shot someone during the operation out of frustration.
If the Police comes around.. They will arrest the two thieves!
DarkJeddi: He gave her contraceptives,which she conveniently forgot to take..
Where do we start and stop to apportion blames?
Whatever is going on, and obviously there's more to the issue than she's letting on,she and only she is the architect of the whole show.
God bless you for the insults. The girl is loose, I agree but why will the guy sleep with her raw and release inside of her. This is clearly a case of two people who were not thinking of the consequences of their actions. The girl is now pregnant and the only way the guy can find out if he's the one is to run a DNA test.
I don't support Abortion especially when the baby has started growing.
AllBlack: The way you young fools just casually and easily mention DNA TEST like it is buying tomtom in a shop. This is clearly a case of a loose girl with no sense that this guy should run from and you are here giving trash advice.
Advice her to carry the pregnancy and deliver. Then go for DNA test to know if you're the Father. If you are.. Take care of your child but if you are not.. Go your way.
Run away from abortion. It may not end well.
Lakebib: Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
You should be looking at Marketing and Business Administration.
Marketing can be backed up with the skill of Digital marketing after graduation. The world needs marketers. It can never go out of proportion.
Business Administration can be backed up with the skill of Business Analysis after graduation. The world needs it as well and can never go out of proportion.
I guess you should go for Business Administration because you can find marketing in it.
Be ready to become equipped with the skill of Digital marketing and Business Analysis after school. You will be an asset.
DJInfluence: Hey everyone, I need some constructive advice.
Which of the following courses offers better career prospects both in Nigeria and internationally?
Please share your reasons for recommending one over the others:
Business Administration
Industrial Relations and Human Resource Management
Marketing
Public Administration
@mod, if this thread can be moved to the main page for better visibility, I'd appreciate it!
Seems you have not learnt from your lessons. Look at what you passed through from one STD and you still have mind to be fornicating raw. Omo you na baba o!
Till HIV go show face before your head go correct.
GeeM: Recently, I got entangled with a lady that had terrible STI. I have always been a fan of raw sex because I don't feel anything with condom.
This lady in question is someone you could describe as a homely girl; wife material, so I never suspected in my wildest imagination that she would be carrying such terrible infection.
We met about 6months ago at a friend's wedding and exchanged pleasantries after which I collected her number. From then we started talking and our conversations went so well that one thing led to the other and we linked up and had it raw. Few days after the sex, I started experiencing this burning sensation in my private part and asif something was biting me at the tip of my penis. That was how my predicament began. I tried all the antibiotics I knew to no avail. This forced me to go to the hospital and see a doctor who prescribed another set of antibiotics yet it didn't work. I even took injections since tablets wasn't working yet no result.
Then my test results came out showing that I had antibiotics resistant strain of gonorrhea. This type of gonorrhea was resistant to the normal antibiotics used to treat it but luckily for me it was sensitive to a particular antibiotics but very expensive. One injection of the antibiotics cost 30,000 and I needed to take morning and night for atleast 3days. That's how I spent over 180k treating infection.
When I informed the babe about what I was passing through, she became very angry saying that I'm insulting her. That was how that relationship ended. After that incident, I became very cautious with the way I view women. Though I still enjoy my raw sex but I'm more careful how I go about it. Babes plenty but to find clean one no easy. Skin to skin dey sweet but na infection spoil am.
Complete your studies first and see what the future holds for you
aysnoopy: Despite my writing limitations, I hope you'll overlook any errors and focus on my message. I completed my civil engineering studies and finished my service year in November 2016. I'm based in Ibadan.
In February 2018, I secured a connection with the zonal director of a federal government agency, leading to a casual staff position with a monthly stipend of 20k. The initial plan was to gain an advantage for future employment opportunities. By around 2020, the salary increased to 30k.
After three years with the agency, I learned about an upcoming recruitment in 2021. Despite seeking assistance from my boss, the zonal director, she didn't provide the support promised. Although I continued working and searching for other jobs, success eluded me.
In November 2022, my boss retired, and the new zonal director pledged support for my education, leading to my admission into a HND to B.Eng conversion program at KWASU. The sponsorship continued under another new director, but my concern persists due to the stagnant 30k salary, supplemented irregularly with site visit stipends.
Now faced with the decision to quit, I ponder whether to risk unemployment and search for a better opportunity or endure the current job's limitations, considering my advancing age. Despite ongoing self-improvement efforts and learning civil engineering software, I seek advice on whether to pursue a new job or maintain my current position during the B.Eng program.
nairalanduser23: She doesn't priotize our sex life. She can use her energy for so many thing and saves the last for sex. Sometimes even when we are about to have sex, quarrell can start right there in the bedroom. She wants me to pray more but when I try to start trying to pray it more it seems she becomes more troublesome and frequency of quarrelling increases
Bro.. I feel your pain. Sorry about the negative development.
If you are into pornography and masturbation... Pls stop... It could be the cause.
These vices brings chastisement, insult, shame and mockery into the life of a man.
If you put a stop to it... You will definitely see changes like Magic.
If you are not into the above vices, then you need to talk to your wife about her behavior or you arrange for both of you to go for counseling.
Never forget to pray about the negative situation.
May the Lord come through for you and your family in Jesus Name Amen.
Remain blessed.
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nairalanduser23: I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.
Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.
She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.
I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.
The case is serious but I will advise you to tread with caution.
No matter what she says, it's better you avoid laying your hands on her.
Don't share violent words with her. When she's violent, be polite and remain calm. It's not easy but that's where the power lies.
Call her whenever she's calm, sit her down and talk sense into her.
Talk with her mum too.
Pray about the negative behavior. Ask God for divine intervention. This is one of the ways Satan uses to destroy marriages. Don't give in to the temptation!
Be the mature one brother. Love her regardless.
All shall be well in Jesus Name Amen.
Remain blessed.
Rapture2021: Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.
I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore
Believe me when I tell that you are under a serious bondage bro.
The same issue applies to pornography and masturbation.
The demon behind this evil act is not allowing you get a real girlfriend or wife not to talk of a kid at your age with all of your money... It's a serious spiritual battle which you need to fight bro.
What you are into is a serious mortal sin and the end of it is death.
Believe me bro.. I'm telling you the absolute truth as my big bro. You have a serious spiritual battle to fight.
I know this has caged you for years and is not letting go... There's an evil spirit behind it.
You need to call it quits bro.. Visit a genuine Man of God or a priest if you are Catholic for serious prayers.
You need to stop this act now that you are still aware...
Remain blessed.
xin5: As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age. My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established. I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop. I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.
The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months. Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself. But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.
You can't resist the temptation without discipline and being Vitaly connected to God through consistent prayers and study of the Word.
Be conscious of your triggers and set good principles to combat them.
Its a serious battle which should be fought well armed with the Armour of God.
CandidAdmin: I just don't get it. I mean if you aint extra, extra careful, you'll easily fall.
Someone who I know to be fervent in spirit just fell because of that same sin. I'm not judging, I'm just curious. Why? Question of the day - How do you resist the temptation?
Accommodate him. Advice him to look for a job as soon as possible. Thank God he's a graduate.
Battlefield2: Seriously, I'm pained right now,how can one decide to be stvpid and senseless at the same time Before I begin, I swear to God who made me, this is not a lie,this is a true story....The story may seem long
So I have this friend, a close friend that works in a bank in Lag, he lives In his family house because his parents are late and he earns 70k plus,though he complains every now and then that the salary isn't much, if he collects salary by month end, before the 10th of the following month,he is already calling me for help on transports and all that and once in a while I help him with 1k or 2k to take transports and all that.
Last weekend,he was discussing with me on WhatsApp about car washing business,telling me it's lucrative and all those....I didn't pay much attention to it until he called me on Thursday and started crying...I asked him the problem,he told me a cousin of his sweet talk him into car washing business that it is lucrative and he can earn as much as 5k a day washing cars and he dropped the bombshell
He told me he sent in his resignation letter on Monday and Parked out of his family house telling those ones that he has been transferred to another branch, he moved to the one room apartment the car washing company provided to him n 3 other guys and started work. He said he hoped in his mind that if he can make 5k a day, he can save as much as 3-4k daily and that is a big improvement to the bank work
The reason for the lamentations now was things are not the way his cousin told him,he said since last week Monday up till this moment, they have only washed maximum of 3 cars per day and at the end of the day, the owner only gives them 5h each in which he used for eating. I requested for video call on Sunday and he is seriously looking lean and unkempt
He apologized that he didn't seek an advice from me or anyone before taking that bold move, he told me he is seriously depressed and wants me to profer a solution to him
Problem now is,he told me he is ready to quit the work and come to a different state that I am in other to restrategize.....I don't know what to tell him because I don't have much too and I'm struggling too because I'm sure if he comes,I will be fully responsible for feeding and all that Moreso,I can't tell him "No" because right now,he has no where to go,his parents are late and he has already packed out of his family house rendering him homeless,moreso he is my very good friend
So I seek an advise from you all Pls advise me, I'm confused!
Masturbation is evil & demonic. Capable of destroying your life not only career. It's a tool used by the devil to ruin many great men of 21st century.
You have to stop bro. Pray and ask God to help you.
If things are not moving well in your life, I can guarantee you that masturbation is one of the biggest causes.
Same with his brother... Pornography!
IamdbuII: Due to the fact that I want to focus on my music career, I decided to cut off relationships and as body no be firewood and I no dey carry hook up and since I love to be alone and focus all I do when konji comes is to jgiribolibilibilibili
But my career has not been moving at all and am confused because I have beautiful songs just see the one below
But you should have talked to her about it. Advise her to stop before the habit ruins her and her future.
She's already getting addicted at a very young age. And you know what it means...
Pornography is a tool the devil uses to cage great people. Before you know it, masturbation comes along, fornication, lesbianism and all vices!
I can tell you for sure that she needs help and sincere advice. Confront her politely and tell her the truth behind this negative habits. It will destroy her life if she does not stop.
Please, make out time, go and talk to her physically. It will do slot of good. Call her occasionally to check on her to make sure she has stopped.
The habit is demonic and it ruins a lot of people.
questioner: My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter. We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.
Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.
Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor. Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue. She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob. My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.
The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night. The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons. Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.
The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router. She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.
Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly. I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret. She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.
Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.
My question is 1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her 2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
Nothing is wrong with you and nothing is wrong with your feelings.
My simple advice is to get yourself together and get married. You're no longer a kid. You don't wanna die single. You might wanna leave a part of you on earth before leaving.
You're lucky someone is still out for you. Go for it babe. Marriage is sweet. It's always what you make of it. Forget the horror stories and happenings. Be close to God and He will make your home peaceful and lovely.
Remain blessed.
EriMma1: This may sound weird but it's my situation now.
I have been a single and independent lady for a very long time. Though I really looked forward to settling down in my 20s and thirties but because I was the over careful type, I couldn't as I kept being picky due to men's character and behavior.
Fast-forward to my lat 30s, I began to lose interest and started getting more comfortable as a single. The upheavals in today's marriage also got to me. As in the way marriages are packing up, the cheating aspect, abuse and domestic violence in marriages all further affected me and changed my whole perception of the union called marriage. So I unconsciously resolved to remain single as long as I'm happy, comfortable and financially independent.
Some of the reasons I also made up my mind are. As a single, Im very much at peace, with no one dictating what and when I should do things or get out of bed. I love my bed. No one is body shaming me when I add on some pounds due to excessive eating and no one is questioning my eating habits as its sometimes the case with some married women. Also running errands when you don't feel up to it just because hubby wants you to do it. Some men can send their wife on errand like crazy and me I hate running errands.
No one is disturbing me when I need time alone which could last for hours. I love my space and privacy. So the thought of having to give up all that scares the hell out of me.
Now, back to the matter.
Recently, some close spiritual leaders in my denomination have been trying to match make me with a single pastor and that one too is shining teeth that he has seen a jimjim sister. When they now openly mentioned it yesterday with the said man around and he too was nodding and agreeing to the proposal, it dawned on me that these people are not joking. When I got home, i sank into my comfy space and began to fret. I mean... The thought of giving up all that freedom is just so scary. I suddenly discovered that marriage no longer excites me and my inner self was fighting it. Also, the thought of carrying pregnancy for nine months with all the stress of looking after babies, tending toddlers ( poo poo) and that motherhood life made me sick instantly. The thought of joggling my job with family life gave me the chills. I see how my married mates struggle with this. Huh. Men...
I don't know. I don't feel cool about this cos it makes me feel like I'm about to be put in a cage and everything about me is going to change.
Now, before you talk about me not loving the man, I think I fancy him and can love him cos he looks so much like my ex of years ago. So that is out of the question. He is a happening lovable man but....... I no longer feel excited about marriage. at least, from what played out yesterday.
Do I need any form of therapy cos my family won't hear of it but this is my situation now ooo... Hmmm
After doing it, don't be surprised when your life starts moving backwards and you start experiencing chastisement from God.
DCmaverick: Good day guys, without wasting much of ur time i want u guys to advice me on this. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for a year nw and she is a virgin,and i also don't want to disvirgin her now until i marry her. But nw she is Insisting On Me to do it with her{Disvirgin her} nw, which i don't want to until we get Married.
So Guys Please Advice Me On This.
Should I Disvirgin Her Now That She is Asking For it or Should I Wait Until We Get Married??
Get rid of every bitterness and hatred in your heart. It's a trap used by the devil to manipulate you into destroying your own family totally.
As much difficult as it seems, with GOD all things are possible. They can still Change for the better.
This is the time to show them all the Love you can give. Be intentional and consistent about it no matter what happens... Please don't give up!
Prayers!!!
Pray always, ask God to grant you the grace to carry this cross. Ask Him to help you. Ask Him to turn the kids and the whole situation around for good. Believe me, He will answer you.
It is well with you and your family my dear.
Don't give up on your kids. Change is constant.
Anobody: I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.
They both left secondary school and working to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turning his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.
My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extend of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.
What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.
I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp.
I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.
Go to a well known hospital and meet the gynecologist
Immaculate755: Good afternoon Nairalanders. Please I need your input on the predicament I found myself in.
Roughly 3 months ago, I discovered something like a lump in my breast the left side precisely but it wasn't painful if not pressed. Initially, I didn't see it as something serious until clear fluid began to show on the nipple when pressed and the size of the lump seems reduced when water is being squeezed out.
3weeks after the discovery, I went to see a Medical Doctor in a Federal University Health Centre where I'm schooling. I narrated my ordeal to her and asked me to pull off my T-shirt for her to see the lump in the breast which I did.
She did visual check only. No examination or anything. she said it nothing to worry about that it normal.
She then asked of my age? Told her I'm in my mid-twenties (was specific when telling her tho). Her response was that it normal. Then I told her about some researches I made on the internet, that I think it should be normal if am still in my teens prolly because of puberty. Her response was still the same couldn't believe my ears.
Later told her about the nipple discharge (clear liquid) coming out when pressed. She laughed it off and said maybe it breast milk. I was very vexed and told her what's that suppose to mean, saw the vexed look on my face she then apologized that she didn't mean that way that's normal. She asked if it painful? I said no if not pressed and she gave the same response as usual.
It has been over 2months now I met the Medic but can't get it off my mind. The thought of the lump being cancerous that it'll better if the lump is examined on time has been on my mind ever since then.
Please Medics/Health Practitioners come to my aid, is the Medical Doctor right about lump not being cancerous?
Most times in life, bitter experiences teaches us more than timely advice or wisdom. Free the dude... Let him learn his lessons the hard way. Am sure that those kind of lessons are long lasting!
Supreme145: It's not in my nature to bother about people's relationships but this is happening to someone that's like a brother to me. He has been dating a girl for a year now and it's obvious this girl doesn't love him but he won't just give up. He keeps throwing money at her in a bid to win her love.
Things got messier when this girl met a particular guy some months back... This guy happens to live in the compound of my club mate so I know him well. The girl has begged my guy to free her that she's in love with someone else but this guy no gree instead he's planning to attack the innocent guy.
He confided in me that the girl has not let him touch her since she met this other guy, that's over five months now. I once overhead the guy boasting to his friends that he's a redpiller because someone else is taking care of his girlfriend while he does the knacking free of charge. He's even flexing everything that my guy buys for the girl. All pleas to my guy to free this girl has fallen on deaf ears.
My club mate told me that the girl has been with the guy for over one month now, my guy comes to town once a week to see the girl, gets her stuffs and this girl will just go back to the other boy that is even jobless.
My guy is finer and far richer than this new guy, he's planning to start a business for this girl and I've been trying to change his mind to no avail. It's no longer normal, I would've said he's charmed but the girl has begged him to free her but he refused. The guy is even the one flexing the sample of the products he sent her. Everything she has done to drive him has failed so she just relaxed and enjoying the money.
This simping is on another level, it hurts me to see my guy in this kinda situation. I've gotten him picture proofs that the girl is cheating but he won't change his mind. The girl even admitted that she's been having sex with the guy buy he's claiming its a lie and the girl is trying to drive away.
Romance › Re: Is There A Hope For Me? by AmbassadoR100(m): 5:54pm On Mar 28
or Should I Wait Until We Get Married??