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My dear relax. Whatever negative you put your mind to tends to make you negative too and weigh you down. Try and be positive and rise above the negativity!

Since he doesn't compliment you, keep on doing whatever good you are doing. Good things speak for itself... If not everyday, it will surely.. someday!

Don't ever ask him again for compliments. Try and be good to him always. Thank anyone that compliments you but don't look for it because of your good works.

Every good thing you do, do it for God and not for human beings. He is one that will reward you. Look up to Him always! He always has a way of making things turn to your favor.

Remain Blessed.

Be focused on your goals!!! Make money legitimately! Avoid Sin like plaque!!!
Do everything in your power to please God!!!

If you do this, your will attain your full potential

Half bread is better than none. If the job is cool and the distance is okay. I will advise you to be doing it for now while searching for a better one. It will keep you sane and improve your network.
Pray always so that God will assist you... He knows what you want and what you are passing through.

Man's pocket is not suppose to dey empty... E get why.

Please help me out with a job. Am a graduate

Please house I seriously need a job. I studied Library and Information Science.
I will appreciate the help.

Bro. Don't ever regret this and don't ever start anything with a lie. Always tell the truth... You never know where your blessings lie.
God Almighty is watching! He is the one who will open doors for you and not your lies.
Truth might make you loose somethings in life but at last it will save you. Nothing in this world worths lieing for.

Keep on living righteously even if it did not pay you in this world, it will definitely pave way for you in Heaven.
Don't ever listen to anybody who will tell you to lie to get anything in this life.. Pls don't do that.

If you tell the truth and later got disappointed, commit the matter to the Holy Hands of God and move on. He will surprise you in unimaginable ways!

Remain Blessed.

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Bro. Sex before marriage is hard to resist with a woman beside you but with God nothing is impossible.

Sex before marriage has its own consequences like unwanted pregnancy and Stds and even death.

Our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and so we should keep it sacred till the right time.

Feeding your body all the time will make it strong to overcome you and lead you to Sin... So try and tame it atimes by not feeding it.

If the woman beside you is a potential wife... The only way not to have sex with her is to first discus it with her.... Set strict standards for yourself and maintain it. Avoid being with her in a lonely place or laying in same bed with her.

Pray and read the word of God always.

Finally, if you are not yet ready for marriage... No need to have any woman in your life cos you can't dine with the devil and expect to win.

Baba marry one woman if you wish to have peace.

Amen. Big thanks to the poster. May God Almighty bless you!

This is what is ravaging the world now and 95% of the world are suffering from it.

Let's make our new year resolutions on this and watch our lives change drastically.

May God grant us the grace to do this in Jesus Name Amen. e

Always Pray and never loose focus on God. The devil knows he can't defeat you, so he always try to make you spiritually weak so that you can cannot pray as you do and when you succumb, you will definitely fall.

The secret is to always pray and read your Bible. Avoid watching indecent foreign films, unfollow or block anyone in your social media that posts immoral things. Avoid looking at females too much especially admiring them. Avoid looking at females that dress indecent, once u see them.. Just look away and go. The devil uses all these things to lure you.. Don't fall for it.

Fill your phone with the things of God and delete everything that does not please God. Use Godly pictures as wallpaper. Keep your phone away from you before you sleep at night..

Avoid friends that discus rubbish. Always know that the devil is watching and waiting to make you spiritually weak so that you will fall into his trap. Be determined and vigilant. Reading the Word of God will always keep the Spirit of God around you and in you.

Pray!

Remain Blessed bro.

Bro I feel your pain. I am so sorry about that.

First mistake is checking your wife's phone. Please let's not do this no matter what!
Secondly, Suicide is the worst mistake you will ever make in this life. Please don't try it cos God Almighty will not be pleased with you!

Finally, the good news is that you can still reconcile and live in peace with your wife. You only need to talk things through with her. Divorce is not the Solution!
Go to the Chapel and talk to God First before talking with your wife.

Treat her with patience and love. It shall be well brother.

May Our Lady Mother of Perpetual Help come to your aid and assist you as you do this in the Mighty Holy Name of Jesus Christ Amen.

A girl opened her laps for 2 tattoos to be drawn in them...She also wears waist beads and you think she's normal?
No sane and well brought up girl will do that.... Only wayward girls!

The Holy Bible says by their fruits we shall know them.

Better run for your life! And if you are not yet ready for marriage... Better stay single till that time for your own good!

Bro.. Don't react in anger!
Call your wife to order...sit her down and talk to her. You both should have a proper understanding of each other. Let her know that her actions are not cool with you but settle it amicably with her.

As for her family, it's dependent on how you communicate with them. Try and communicate well with them and you will see changes.

Finally, it seems your work keeps you away from your family often. Try and do something about it.

Pray always and be close to God! Remain Blessed.

Employ someone in your chemist. Take up your new job.
By doing so u have two streams of income.

You can go to the chemist on weekends.

Oketwin:
By watching it till it bcoms boring.

Big Lie!

Satan66:
Jesus himself masturbates

God have Mercy on you for you don't know what you are saying!

evil spirit is controlling you. Denounce it now or you perish.

Satan66:
Porn is good for the spirit.
Do not let anybody lie to you.

The spirit speaking through you is Evil.
Pornography is bad and leads to doom.
Its a Mortal Sin against God and can cause Death/condemnation to Hell

Brother I feel you.

Pornography is a big threat and a big enemy to our generation and destinies. Believe me.. This addiction if not stopped can ruin your life.

Pray to God Almighty to forgive and deliver you. If u really wish to stop, God will do the miracle.

Don't wait till the urge comes before you study the Bible. Study your Bible everyday atleast for 15min or 30min and pray always.

Desist from watching romantic films, nude pictures and impure videos.

With God on your side, the urge for this addiction will dissappear.

My Sister, if u know what is good for you, stay away from such guy. He only wants to sleep with you nothing more.

Any guy that abuses his woman is capable of doing anything.

Focus on God and your education. The right and well behaved man will come for you.

I really wonder what this world is turning into...
What exactly is this Big brother program meant for?
What is the positive aim?
What are we really promoting?

First class students from Nigerian Universities are looking for job. Graduates are struggling in the society. Non-graduates cannot find help. People of positive impact in the society are not highly recognized. All these people are not recognized and appreciated but rather we waste our resources on worthless things, programs and people who promote negativity.

May God have Mercy on this world especially Nigeria!

Bro.. Don't answer to pressure or pride. Answer to your pocket and follow your heart. Na Man u b!

On point bro

Thank God for His Love and Mercy on your Life Sir. More Grace to you in Jesus Name Amen.

Strong words! Actions speak better than words! I value and support your vision.My prayer for you is that God will perfect your plans/vision. God is your strength Sir.

I wish you well in Jesus Name Amen.

Bro. You are not the only one struggling.

It's a gradual process. Keep praying and study the Word of God (Bible).

Run away from every occasion of sin ie desist from anything that make u to sin.

By God's grace, it shall be well

Pornography, Masturbation, using of bots to satisfy urge.

These things are the keys to HELL. Believe me!
I have been into this but by the grace of God, I have vowed to stop cos it's very bad and it offends God.

My brothers and Sisters, pls if you are still practicing these things, I am begging you to put an end to it. Heaven, Hell, Death is Real. Nobody wants to die and go to Hell but these sins can destroy you, your future and when u die without repenting from it, you will definitely find yourself in Hell.

I pray the Almighty God to grant His Mercy and Grace to those still in this Sins to repent and put an end to this evil practice in Jesus Name Amen.

Acrofab:
This has lasted for over 15years. It started after I ate in the dream. Have gone for tests and nothing was found out except malaria and typhoid.

Have prayed and fasted but when it seems the movements is subsiding, I found myself eating in the dream again and the movements will increase.

It is really making life unbearable to me cos the only time I don't feel the movement is when i am sleeping.
Please if you know what I can do to free kindly let me know.
please your help is needed.

You need high spiritual prayers. If you are a catholic, meet spiritual priest for counseling and prayers. If you are not, meet any true spiritual person for counseling and prayers. If it requires deliverance, that will be better.

Secondly, go for scanning to check your whole inner body to know what's really wrong

I pray God Almighty to grant you the healing you need through Jesus Christ Our Lord Amen.

thesicilian:
You may be able to win the verbal argument with your friends, but deep down inside you know that secular music and movies will stunt your growth as a Christian.

Definitely!
I agree!

Waking up every Morning even when am not faithful to God! That's one heck of a miracle!

Guys please learn to control yourself over girls.. Imagine having sex with a girl against her will, how on earth is it enjoyable! I know some girls are really attractive but self control is the way! Show her that u are disciplined, she will respect u for that... Some may even call u juu-guy but maintain! Respect is not given by force, u have to earn it!

Wow!