₦airaland Forum

babane2016:
I collected my registration certificate today at abeokuta

that is good bro. Congrats. Is true that you will be paying tax after this?

bt2017:
Use DHL airlift. A week can reach Nigeria. WhatsApp+8618902790535

DHL is expensive bros. U don't know whether the dude wanna sell it.

robinso01:
I thought she's on full Nigeria dress. well congratulations.

she be my village person lol. Why did she had to lie? Nigerians eh

Acidosis:
Oga relax, at least 8-9 out of 10 world's richest men are married with kids.

You can be married and achieve your dreams, and you can decide to be unmarried and miserable.

I am not against it. I am against the too much concentration. Haba... Are we the only one in the world?

Abeg I no fit kill myself. Things like this drive people into the wrong hands, until they become miserable.

People who carry this marriage talks for head have led a lot of others into miserable marriage. Some even go as far as matching people together.

When I was still in school, our neighbor almost got my sister married. Like WTF. He started jokingly but we had to tell him to stop. Today, my sister is married to a man that loves her and us, so much that he does his best to make sure everything is fine.

I saw another one did same stunt to someone close to me, bugging the young man's life with marriage talk, every call is turned to marriage talk, while the dude was chasing a multi-million naira deal that was being threatened at that time... Imagine calling someone to greet them and 2 minutes into the call it turns to, "who are u dating now" "when are u getting married" and all that. I mean dude was forking worried about his deal he has worked hard for in last 1 year and it's being threatened, to which the bone head never knew what he has been through but he still manage to call 3 times and all you do in this instances is talk about marriage. Dude had to send text next day to warn him to put a complete stop to it.

Everybody should have their priorities and you don't have any forking right telling anyone to get married since you won't bear a kobo of the cost that comes with it.

Sterope:
Don't mind the ignorant dude.

Is it a pack that is 500 naira Abi Na single one pad which is placed between the leg that is 500 naira?

What do you think about the idea of reusable sanitary pad?

Please do help me with answer so I can find solution. I get intrigued when people complain in Nigeria. It stirs me into action to find a solution.

Thanks.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes sir,
Hippolyta gives them concoction soup whenever they look for her trouble and she is the mood to give them a taste of her medicine.
I hail sir.

Is it a pack that is 500 naira Abi Na single one pad which is placed between the leg that is 500 naira?

What do you think about the idea of reusable sanitary pad?

Please do help me with answer so I can find solution. I get intrigued when people complain in Nigeria. It stirs me into action to find a solution.

Thanks.

Teespice:
I thought it was only me.

the money i spend every month on sanitary pads no be am. I use three packs per month and I have to keep extra just in case so imagine those whose can't afford same.

nobody is saying that pads should be totally free but not as expensive as it is.

Is it a pack that is 500 naira Abi Na single one pad which is placed between the leg that is 500 naira?

What do you think about the idea of reusable sanitary pad?

Please do help me with answer so I can find solution. I get intrigued when people complain in Nigeria. It stirs me into action to find a solution.

Thanks.

ideology:
hahahaha Toks is a cool in matters like this but making marriage look like achievement is what I will never support.

In fact, from 30, building an empire, touching lives and seeing the world is my priority.

u dey mind dem? In Nigeria marriage is an achievement... Their mates in developed world's are touching lives making discoveries tech and all that but what do we have here?

Marriage, fork, born, add to the population of 200M...

If I say I no hate these people are their reasoning, Na lie I talk.

OfficialDad:
Don't allow societal rules and set down principles to force you into marriage.

If you get married and lack peace and comfort in the said marriage, then you're not better than a dead man.

Chase luxury and personal comfort first

Be wise, and yield a solid advise from a single dad.

dem no dey hear. I just hate this country and their reasoning.... Haba.. We are already 200M can't u guys just do without this stupid marriage talks?

Kai!

humblenature:


"Information transforms and lack of it deforms"

What is seun and mark zuckerberg doing? Is their business on the land?

Thank God you said it was your opinion. I forgive all your write up.

just ignore the dude.. Controversial post generate frenzy

pocohantas:
True talk. When I was younger, they used to share it in schools. They do sensitization programmes, then share it for school girls. I don't see those things no more.

Few weeks ago I realised I don't even know how expensive things have become. So, I started keeping my receipts and going through them. I wonder how millions of Nigerians are coping.
These things shouldn't be expensive.

Organisations should stop declaring mouthwatering PAT and take up some of these things as corporate social responsibilities.

Minimum wage is N18,000 ba? God help us in this country.

I could remember that the before the advent of always pad, una dey use tissue paper... Please tissue paper is still cheap o.

cliqtips:
Are you for really now ??

They tried. That could have slowed the spread of the fire before anything. I believe it happened in Onitsha... Bros they are better than u who sit waiting for firefighter and do nothing pending the arrival of the firefighters.

SalamRushdie:
His family is about to start a time share chartered flight business so OBO is just leveraging on it to trend once more

the guy will die if he does not get attention... He likes being in public eyes too much, no Nigerian female celeb seeks attention like this dude it so freaking disgusting... If all you say here is true.

LieDetector:
I should give it some more time right. Honestly I can't figure out why I'm so much attached to this girl. Left for me I'd choose to let everything go for now. Maybe have a heart to heart when the semester is finally in full swing considering I'm a student. Same with her. I'd have regained my true self by then. Thanks so much for your advice sis. It's golden and I appreciate.

On another note, are you a relationship expert?

Your best bet now is to distance yourself... Cut the emotional ties by deleting anything that remind you of her.

goldman777:
The truth is women see a guy as weak when he does all their biddings the very nice guy syndrome ur have to balance it with stern or hard no surprises.i can't always be wat u want me to be kind of guy.it shows ur in control and not just a zombie or puppet that can be toyed with that's where you got it wrong.hope u learned from this being nice to a lady is a good thing but being stupidly nice the only thing she will see is a complete puppet and weak minded man.who is easy to manipulate

everything is dead and not sure i want to do it again even if i get married. I wont be doing this again.

IdeyFindWife:
It speaks a lot for early influences and why parents need to keep them positive around kids because of their pivotal impacts on shaping life outlooks, character and orientation especially when sustained.

Hypocrisy and self-denial usually pits folks against accepting that them cleaning up has great start-out impacts on they kids especially in providing that positiveIf baseline & reference point for fundamental perspectives.

It looks fun for everybody running around right now challenging older traditional institutions, belief systems and calling for their outright abolishment without viable, tested substitutes but the fact is these structures actually delivered up to a reasonable extent.

If she was being raised right around some raggedy-arssed ratchet gangbanger mofos or if lowlife ghetto rats had access to shaping her, other indicators would've been there too.

All in all, let's give her some few more years.

We seem to share same ideology... If 50% of Nigerian parents are aware of what you are talking about here, we wouldn't have people forking dickkss on BBnaija.

DonVikings:
Bakere, you criticised Buhari yesterday, Pigs and Idiots licked your crouch. Today, they will come for your head like..

Even if the Igbos do not co-ordinate their agitation properly... you have got to give it to them for being so passionate about it. Can you even fight for Nigeria? You are mocking them but they are doing what you have never done, fighting for a country they believe in, it doesn't matter whether they do it right or wrong but all i want to let you know is that I am still waiting for the day Nigerians will passionately push for a cause like the igbos have been doing for decades!

Thegeneralqueen:
God-fearing,slow to anger,not that wealthy,caring,romantic....lets just leave our lives like the best of friends no trust issues give me this anytime any day honey I'll be forever
submissive to you

another lie

Chikita66:
Care and undivided attention.


Doooooorrr!

lie

Doerstech:
Some are not like this.....in some places you see it clear as it's bn prepared......BUT General everything about meat in Nigeria is shitty

I want to change that industry so bad and I need support of the entire country.

UklassautosnPro:
Thanks for connecting with us. Yes we are selling along with the house. If you have the money pay for this property don't look at the location but consider this as a future investment!

Thanks

I understand bro. It is due to proximity to Lagos for business reasons. I really like the house but I am not thinking of leaving my current location for the aforementioned reason.

MissRaine69:
We are smart and terribly cynical with a dash of sarcasm!

huh oh well.

GurlFriend:
You have serious issues

He is right!

MissRaine69:
Based on that post I would say a lot....but then one can argue he was barking up the wrong tree
He is the one that erred in his choices it was the lure of the physical that got your bro in the state he is in . Once he found out that the woman was only about material gain he had already fallen in love .....she then left him for the other guy with deeper pockets
And here we are

all of you are just assuming. I didn't reveal nothing here. Assume all you want!

If you are smart, you should guess why I refused to go indepth by now.

Pearllait:
I will try not to write an Epistle but I hope you understand my point. Let me start by saying, this happens to both male and female. it's so unfortunate it is happening to you but if i were you, i would close all forms of communication lines to help myself because it is really not worth it. POINT NUMBER1; She told you she has a boyfriend... (gud) Some persons would say, this generation has to do with games, we start a game and who ever wins wins (which i obviously don't believe in and by God's grace i will not need to struggle before winning the heart of any man). So.... it's really not about the PLAYING HARD TO GET. My dear, cut off from her. If she keeps calling you, it's a choice whether to pick or not to pick. if she sends you WhatsApp msg, read but don't always reply.

POINT NUMBER 2; She told you she has a boyfriend yet she still uses every means possible to speak to you. my dear, it's either 1. She's playing with your emotions and just want you around because her "SUPPOSED" Boo is out of town. 2. It's either she was disappointed when via your actions of not contacting her anymore made it look like a slap on her face and 3. or.... there's more to it that we still don't understand.

Now let me ask you. Would you rather have someone who genuinely wants to be with you or have someone who someday might wake up and say this to you "IT'S NOT AS IF I DIDN'T MAKE IT CLEAR FROM THE ON SET THAT I AM OR I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP"
Which would you prefer??


On the other hand, she might have no one but still contemplating if she wants to try again probably due to certain circumstances and reasons best known to her. But i will still say CUT OFF FROM HER FOR NOW OR CUT OFF COMPLETELY AND MOVE ON

Having experienced this before, OP, seeing that it is a lady that dropped it here for u, better follow this advice. Trust me, it beats everything any guy here had told you.

Leave her alone.

Deji63:
Weak men don't have steady marriages. Be the man you wish for your sisters and daughters. You treat women trashy your daughters get treated worse

as much as I understand what you are portraying here, not disputing it, there should be a balance cos if you over do nicest, they WI change your name to sissy, weakling, pest, too soft!

daben1:
other guys don't care about you, a guy starts caring and you start complaining of him being overly caring... Thunder go fire am... I remember when my guy's girl was crying saying my guy is heartless... And at the end of everything, that same fool said she likes his heartlessness, imagine!!

na that same heartlessness I go show this one now. I have both. If I can show it to my own blood when they cross a line, who are you not have a taste of my soullessness?

daben1:
this is one of the weak men tundebaba234 is talking about

lol bros, free the guy.

Chikita66:
Anumanu!!!

same to you anuofia

Divay22:
Wow
So much you've done... But I'll still tell you, it's not just one gender thing, guys do it to ladies also..
It hurts, you've been played .but don't make this experience of yours make you go hard on a lady.(all ladies ain't the same)
Don't go and hurt a good and loyal girl all because you think we're all the same..
Be nice, but know when to draw the line. Live within your means..Not everything a girl ask, you'll do all because that's just you. Sometimes decline (Tell her you can do it , but this time you choose not to and watch her reactions only then you'll know who you're dealing with)

But for now, work on yourself while you wait for who's worth it.

Yimu

Well, you all always say not all girls are the same, including this one that made me create thread lo. She even gave sermons of how she was treated badly and under valued by Mr Bad boy.

Though we will continue to communicate, but that word she said to me killed it. She will never see the good again and if she gets tired she can walk away.

I have to proof a point that I am very much in control of everything and not that I have lost my senses just because I decided to treat better than the other guy.

Lol

Divay22:
Don't go bad because someone who doesn't see your worth, choose to treat you unfair.
If you change, you'll also get hurt.

yeah, I learned that the hard way. So I am learning to balance things.

I won't go bad but I won't make it easy either. The attention and care they get will be reduced to the barest minimum.

There was something she said in a heated argument that made me see how I am viewed by her.

But what she doesn't realize yet is that I can be extremely good and I can be extremely soulless. If it worse, I may not even forgive you in years to come.

My ex did something when I was with her, hardly said no, always want to do something to make her happy. Then she abused everything, going as far as telling me plan ahead and too clingy.

I endured for a while until I changed after we broke up, changed so much that by the time we broke up and she came back, she held on to the image of old me and that kept giving her false hope to even demand things from me like she did in the past. She couldn't believe I had changed.

She refused to accept the fact that I had changed and the old me is dead! She held on to that image for another 2-4 years and begging in between.

I who used to count a few thousands, though very young then, and send to her reduced it to 100 naira and 200 when she ask or I tell her I don't have or simply use laugh to cover it.

This was a girl I bought brand new phone for, SIM and airtime when she lost her phone.

She used that phone for as long as 4 years after we broke up. The guys that were getting into her head couldn't change it for her. That is why I say I know my worth! I know a lot of guys wouldn't do what I did. Basically I hardly do use and dump. I can be at my chest that I don't need to fork a girl before doing anything for her... Not because I am stupid! I have done this multiple times but idiots with fish brain roam the earth!

At one time, she told me she was hungry, this was after we broke up. Of course I refused to flinch. I told her to search their house and laughed on phone while talking. She did that at various times and but was not getting the message.

But one day, it became obvious that if she was dying and I had the opportunity to save her, I wouldn't do it. But this same me was the only one calling the day she fainted when we were dating. When she woke up, they told her I had been calling.

Yeah, she called me one day that she needed help to get a tooth ache treated. And that it was severely hurting. She told me the amount and that she has tried to get it but nobody to help (oh yeah... We are rare). The money wasn't much and I had it but I refused to give it!

Since then, she got the message.


The shocking thing is that she did apologize multiple times within those years she was trying to make amends but knowing who I am, I didn't let go off atrocities with ease. She even offered sex to appease me. She thought I was like guys who sees sex as something... I declined for long but had later and I still didn't accept her.

I have to confess I did a good psychological damage so much that if she hears my name now ,according to her brother, her reactions is somewhat put off. When the brother told me, he said he doesn't know what happened between I and his sister that any time he mentioned my name to let her know we chatted, her countenance changes. I told the brother why? It is a lie... I know why!

Whatever I have accomplished today and the continued hurstling is as a result of my encounter with that ex. At one point I was down and she became wicked and heartless!

I am both evil and good, just let me know which one you want and I will serve it to you hot!

Why I am telling you this? We all have evil but we manage to control them. There two souls in one body. What you get depends on your approach.

As for the current one, I don't have anything much to tell her now. She will get the message from my cold attitude towards her. After all, women are expert at using body language when they want to treat a guy badly. So let the game begin!