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Do girls still do that? The 'hard to get thingy' I mean

decode55:
So you're back & you didn't/couldn't holla abi?

Yeye girl

pele luv

sylvalord:
[color=grey]Are you a uniben student?[/color]

no... why?

LegendarySage:
destante, amokeme, benromeo39, vizier007, MsAnne, nellie6, sylvalord, omolodmilkman93, mzhorlah, where are you guys?

am here boo... we v started exams thats why iv not been frequent here...

Personally, I don't see anything wrong abt it, maybe a little wired tho

The word 'marriage' scares the hell outta me

Hmmmm..., good for him (if true) and if it's not, I don't think its should be any body's headache
we should all learn to mind our business

The fear of poverty is the beginning of wisdom anyways, nice job... and may God crown all ur efforts in Jesus name

Guilty of no 8...

prettyboi1989:
M sure in ur mind u fink m looking for a girl as a friend, its ma cuzn, koleosho, lemme knw if u knw ha, dunno ow 2 find ha in such busy environment eva since I bin around

I dont think I know the name... iv asked pple and they dont too.. if you are in sch, just come to debby hall to announce her name because, the only koleosho I know is in eco

prettyboi1989:
Olamide, abit light skinned and on the slim side.

lol... am sure she has a surname..

prettyboi1989:
Still waiting for ur response

name?

Wow! 10k a month
May God help you and open financial doors for you parents in Jesus name.

tranxo:
well, from your pic (fine school), you probably placed your school on a very high level, so.............lol

lol..... you are really funny. nice try

tranxo:
Lol. I think I know why.

oya help me out, why?

i take where a person schooled/schooling personal duno why

Cybermugu1:
The ones wey dey pain me pass na the ones wey dey shout Apc, pdp for NL... jobless mofos. #PovertyIsMoreDangerousThanEbola

NnamdiN:
lol now this is funny

;Dbuh is true na

politic tho!

Babygal4eva:
It was raining heavily that day i remember cause i was also pissed that they took so long to finish and people who came by 10 had to pack far and had to either charter a bike or walk down to the hall(very far in case y'll don't know) in the rain btw... not because the talk was boring(which it was) but those that stay far away nko that just wanted to say congrats and see the graduates face should they have waited for the dignitaries or whatever to finish their useless tales from the past? but then again it is a private uni so OP you gats no choice, just close your eyes and pay it.

exactly, its a private uni! If he like he should use all the social media, it won't change anything! Btw, hope you were not among them o

NnamdiN:
PS* There are rules and regulations in federal schools as well, and some level of discipline, just a little more freedom* If you were one of the parents and had a flight to catch or some other pressing issues to attend to, would you have stayed? If all the parents had left, who would the school punish? Call it rude but I like the fact that the graduating students bruised the school's ego by walking out on a meaningless program.

anyways, people have different up bringing. My father will send me back in if I was among the students. Its your child's convocation ceremony! Sercrifising a day wouldn't hurt (it was just delayed for an hour o not 5hrs) anyways, its not abt the parents, I think the OP just wants to use that to make pple reason with him. The main issue is the thing was boring and they were tired, so they left.
And its 25k we talking abt here not 100. Some pple spend 25k in 2days in sch. So just pay the money

NnamdiN:
oga stop assuming, when has it ever been compulsory to listen to long and boring speeches they had a time frame and went beyond it. They're graduates already jare, they should free them abeg. @OP try tweet to linda ikeji

its compulsory because its a private uni, am sure the op knows this. If it were to be a federal sch than the OP might have a case, because there are no rules or decipline what so ever, if you like attend, if you like don't. And in my opinion, its better not to even attend any program at all than leaving b4 the end. It doesn't just make sense

You guys lack decipline I must say, thats just so rude! Imagine walking out of the program? Its even embarrassing so the students that stayed for the extra 1hr, did they die Anyways, on the brighter side, 25k is not much so you guys should pay and stop making noise!

Dayjhihannon01:
that's good to know!! Lemme get u something

lol

Dayjhihannon01:
I'm soo sorry to know..... Happy birthday to you and get well soon please.. Hope u are now back to ur feet?

getting better, thank you

benromeo39:
This space is for destante, amokeme and Xtarxhyne. Family farm keep off.

hehehe I no fine reach na

babygirlfl:
Is this what he told you? Are you sure that's what definitely happened? I ask because there is something about this story that does not sound right.

yeah thats that happened iv seen things for myself too, iv meet the lady

shizzleStar:
Welcome!

Yes now i understand, you are quite young....that means he is 34. You need some maturity before you fully delve into marriage, that's acceptable. The onus is still on you to make a decision, explain this to him in a nice way. In 4years time....you, 25...him, 38. If he decides to wait (which i doubt), fine...and if he doesn't, wish him well and you both move on.

Seems he is so much into you thou...you want 4yrs time and he wants 1(next) year...why not reach a compromise? 2years...thats after you must have graduated and gone for NYSC, that's fair enough isn't it? Give him this alternative and see how he takes it.

God luck!

he is 33. 2yrs is too short anyways, we ll talk abt it again. Thanks so much, I really appreciate

shizzleStar:
He seem to have a good heart so its understandable thats she is in love with him.........he is under no obligation to love her or marry her. When he met her they had an agreement to which both parties kept their own part of the bargain, that was the deal, so he does not have to love her. As a matter of fay he has nothing to fear, when the child grows up and asks her dad why he didn't marry her mum, let him tell her exactly what transpired and the agreement they had. She has absolutely no reason to hold him to ransom. This is the problem withe 'most' women, they are so selfish, ingrates and hypocrites. She claims she loves him, why did she collect the gift of a car in exchange for a child? why didn't she have the baby for him unconditionally. She is a liar! she only loves his money and benevolence.


Like i said earlier, the bulk is on your table. It is so unfair of you to ask him to wait for 4years, that's selfish. How old are you? He is ready and willing to marry you and has your mums approval, you need to make a decision and asking him to wait for 4years is unacceptable and no sensible man will do that, what is the guarantee that you will not ditch him...so waiting for you is a no..no.

As for the child, you owe her no explanation for marrying her father. You neither snatched him from her mother nor forced him to marry you, that being the case, you are immune from upbraid or culpability.

thank you so much for really taking your time to reply, God bless you
and abt me telling him to wait for 4yrs, am just 21 in 300l, so do you understand the reason I said 4years now?.

Oh my God rip to them all..

So what were the police doing when the man was being dragged out??taking cover I suppose
jungle justice has to stop!

shizzleStar:
Interesting to hear he loves you so much and your mum also appreciates him, you really should have no problem with the child cos she is his daughter and maybe very soon, ceteris paribus you will be her [i]step[/i]mum too...lol.

What are the contents of the text? does she threaten him? does she curse him? is she trying to make life unbearable for him or you? what? i really want to know what her problem is as to why she sends him 'disturbing' text messages. He has not wronged her in any way (judging from what you said at least).

Did you ask your man why she keeps sending him those 'disturbing' messages and what was his response?

she is in love with him... she is been trying all she can to make him feel same way, there was dis day she told him 'whn timi(not real name) grows up am going to tell her I loved you with all my heart buh you never felt same way' can you imagine that? And he is saying he wants to get married to me next year(asin he is really begging, he told my mum abt it, and she told him its upto me) I told him am not ready for that one now if he can wait for 4year, then we can start talking about that. I am really scared, I feel am too young to entangle myself in this kind of situation. I dont want to marry him and the daughter will hate me or thinks am the reason her dad didn't marry her mum

shizzleStar:
oh i see, in other words they had an agreement and both were true to it and kept their part...good.

So has he made up his mind to love again? If he is asking you to marry him and you really like him, you can consider since he seem to be a straightforward and sincere person, the age difference can be overlooked. 13years gap is big but isnt the most ridiculous of age differences, what matters most is your happiness and as long as a strong bond exists between you two, then its settled.

Baring objections from your folks amongst other considerations, you may consider him, its upto you......you have a choice to make

we started dating in may, honestly he really loves me so much, and my mum likes him too(thats a plus) sometimes I just wish the child/baby mama ish is not In the picture. Tho I dont have any problem with the child(she stays with me most times whn am back from sch) but the mum, the text msges she sends to him are disturbing