tosyne2much:
I've been so fine oooo... It's really been a while sha

tosyne2much:
Yes I read it.. But in that sense, she doesn't have a choice than to swallow her pride and accept her fate knowing that you can't always meet up to your standard in life.. There are situations in life when you will have to compromise your standard

tosyne2much:
Why would a man comfortably harbour his wife in his parents house and see nothing wrong in it? Some things don't just seem right even though it's not stated in the law

Even without being married, there was a point I was no longer feeling comfortable staying under the roof of my parents not to talk of bringing a wife into the same house. I will rather leave my father's duplex and live with my wife in a one room apartment

bobokeshington:


She's not ready to drop a dime

bobokeshington:



The guy said he can only afford like a room self con but the lady feels its small and she is even ready to drop a single penny...
And you know you ladies know how to get a man to do your wish especially when he's in love....

sofigail:
Hello,I need a phone friend to chat with.kind of dealing with depression .
You can drop your number.
No insult please.

bobokeshington:
I have a friend who is getting married soon but still lives with his parents. Although, he stays separately in another apartment but still in that same building. He said he isn't buoyant enough to rent an apartment that suit his Lady's standards.

So is it okay for him to get married in his parents house or he should just find a means to move out?

Redhot111:
if of all the plantain selling points in ur area ur brother goes ahead to buy this one, will u applaud him? As 4 me I will tag him olosho patron.

Reference:
I'm with the lady on this one. Nigerians are besieged by poverty mentality that views cost only not considering value. No one wants to pay for anything. This rush for the bottom thinking has eroded standards, branding and professionalism. If we commanded the world thought there will be no mercedes benz, LVMH, liverpool or CNN. Look at our equivalents. Those who want to be successful are mocked and derided. Funny enough we are an import dependent people who see foreign products, services and brands and boast about them yet when it 'local' it is immediately taboo. If she was based abroad or a foreigner based in Nigeria no one will question it but excuse it. If Nigerian Neymar was bought by Enyimba for a hundred million naira all hell will be let loose. But we will be quick to engage quack 'engineers' who will work unprofessionally for peanuts and collapse all our investments and then bkame the devil.

She has set her standards and will be patronised by people of like minds. If they don't see value, they will stop. If she is responsive they will get the best plantain meal ever made and tomorrow when she hits the world stage the same Nigerians will vent again in insecure envy. That has been the story of our doctors, engineers, chefs, seamstresses, sportsmen and women who have dumped this country to locales that value their oroducts and services and have encouraged them to become successful and outstanding in their fiekds of endeavour.

Let us remain here with our crab mentality, dancing around poverty. If you cannot spend, you cannot earn and the society implodes under the suffocating weight of ignorance and backwardness. The reason Elon Musk will risk millions in space development is because he knows he wil earn billions from the products of his venture. If he was a Nigerian in Nigeria will take his money, build a hundred mansions, buy a dozen private jets and begin to sabotage political government for ekected office.

All you naysayers had better call up that lady and encourage her with objective, critical reviews rather than just criticism. Change your thinking.

Redhot111:
so am I supposed to eat packaging, am I supposed to eat labour, abi I go eat delivery, OK make I eat value added tax? Bros that shit is damn expensive. But all I can say is that girl is an olosho and she knows wat she is selling and also knows her targeted audience. Whoever buys Dat shit would be buying it jst because he wants to eat. Na pple wey want buy kpekus go go chop Dat bole

Asowari:
that is a lie

henrylowe:
We both know that these set of people can be [b]very annoying [/b]due to their awkward way of thinking. They easily lash out to anyone who doesn't subscribe to their opinions because they always feel they are right



Now down to the question. Who is more rude?

Ogunleke48:
I don't support the aspect of the Lady being older than the Guy... The Lady may not be submissive

AntiBrutus:
I hope you don't kill someone soon, outta your jealousy and insecurity.

adorablevic:
am so sorry dear, take care

Rolly83:


O so sorry wish I could take you out. You look nice.. .

adorablevic:
why dear??

Bagehot:


If you guys were so fantastic, why dont you replicate the same thing back home? I really hate getting into this type of convos, but you people are tiring. "We developed Lagos" - the same Lagos that houses 239 other Nigerian tribes- as though the remaining scores of tribes are useless pan-handlers. We developed Keno and P.H . . . We developed xyz . . .

Only people who have not been to the East would be fooled with the silly boasts one reads here daily.

Bagehot:


Has it crossed your mind that your paths just never cross? You school in Bleep Community School, they go to Grange / A-Hall. You go to university in IMSU / LASU, they school abroad. You vacation in your home-town, they vacation in some exotic location. When you get to travel, you fly economy, they fly 1st class - or better still, PJ. You occasionally hang out at Quilox (regular), they are in V.I.P . . .

Even on the rare occasions you meet, you are most likely intimidated, and tongue-tied. In the even rarer occasion that you become acquainted, and you are invited to their private parties and hang-outs, you would in all likelihood not enjoy it (you are surrounded by folks casually wearing Rolexes, and talking about trips to Ibiza, and the only exotic location you have been to is Olumo rock).

My brother, the path of the rich, and poor hardly cross, and even when they do, there is no guarantee they would hit it off. Even when they hit it off, their peculiar circumstances come with its own baggage - only a spirited gold-digger would brave these without faltering.

Unless, you can prove to me that the paths of regular folks (not to mention poor), and rich folks cross frequently . . .

pinnket:
I've got nothing to say...



The rich just wanna keep getting richer. I'm sure the love between the two if them is 20% while what each family stand to benefit from the other is 80%.


Don't let money, connection, or family determine your marriage because you alone will either enjoy or suffer it alone when a wrong choice is made. Let love be your driving force.

#TeamLove

fpeter:
How will the wealth go round?

Tydie0:
10 years old? I'm not understanding

thesicilian:

Haha
If it's bigger enough there's nothing wrong with it being used as a home for a sports club or even the National Team for friendlies.

Sagamite:



Can a relationship do without kini?

What kind of question be that?

Of course it can survive.

No froplem!

I would be in the relationship but I know for gaddamn 1500% sure that I would be smacking other girls.

Not 50% sure. Not 100% sure. 1500% sure.

I never take any girl seriously until I am hitting it. NEVER!

You are not my girlfriend except I am smacking that, I am a free agent.

Even if I have smacked it and then you, start withholding, then I am on loan to another club. I can sign papers there.

Fawklicant:


Guy leave story. We see grown men and women everyday in need of help on the streets everyday in form of beggars, how many have you given 10k?

martyns303:


didn't see her as anything, it was just a random act of kindness.

Faxole:
The only thing black youths are good at discussing is relationships. Go on YouTube and you'll be hard pressed to find a single black channel dedicated to talking about intellectual/scientific subjects and interesting ideas. If it's not BkChat relationship nonsense, it's make-up and hair advice. Even currently in Nigeria, if the average youth isn't talking about Big brother Naija, they are talking about football. After you all will be wondering why black societies are all backward.

priceaction:
just ask, how is his father or mother? You think naija politicians will just go to the street and pick someone?