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Christianity EtcRe: Share Your Best Easter Quotation by amokeme(f): 8:58am On Apr 01, 2018
My daddy says No Condemnation because he is risen! He arose! My JESUS lives forever more! Salvation is my birthright because I belong to him who died and rose on the 3rd day! Hahahaha death could not hold him captive!
People may have mocked you, said terrible things about you and made you feel worthless... BUT the good news is that, the master died for you!! Meaning you are not worthless! He AROSE today so you can be full of worth! How sweet my Lord is! Thank you father to the birth of GRACE.
By divine standards, i passed God's quality control to be brought into this earth for exploits.... so who are you to say contrary about me?? Did you die for mehuh No! But the one who died for me and rose on this day so I may never fail again said I am a god on earth! And that is the mentality I walk in consciously! I am not ordinary! My Jesus is risen! My salvation is secured! My exploits are awakened! My spirit soul and body are transformed! My Jesus is alive now and forever more!
Happy Easter!!!!!!!!!! He is risen!
FamilyRe: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by amokeme(f): 5:39pm On Mar 27, 2018
Mutemenot:
Tnx bro. You guys are wonderful. I feel the plenty love from Nairalanders. Much love to you all
I'm a lady.
You are welcome
FamilyRe: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by amokeme(f): 10:04am On Mar 27, 2018
Bjgirl1:
It's not easy, lost my husband recently,I wanted to commit suicide cos I thought I would never cope or survive for a week without him, it's been hell, those advising you to cry cannot understand, I've cried and still crying, lost weight cos I refused to eat for almost 5 months,he died in September, since he left nothing got meaning to me again, just living my life as it is. The more I cry,the more my health is deteriorating. I have no advise for you but will read other comments so as to gain one or two things from here as well cos i can't be consoled right now, just waiting on God's divine intervention.
Crying won't bring him back... you need good support system. My mum was in your shoes, she could help, if you don't mind.
FamilyRe: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by amokeme(f):
Mutemenot:
Hi my colleagues!!
My Dad passed away, I tried to be a man but within me im dying in pains. I have had more time here reading threads and comments just to let the pains off my mind but I haven't found a lasting consolement. May I have a way forward from you guys ? embarassed
So sorry for the loss.

Go through the pain and allow the pain go through you. Never try to suppress it, whenever you feel emotional? Please cry it out! Never allow all the "you are a man, be strong" get to you.
You are first human before you are a man.

I notice most consolers don't understand that kind of pain ( especially when you are very close to your father),some haven't been in your shoes before... so its easy to just say "it is well, he is in a better, be strong for your mum" everybody expects you to be strong for somebody, nobody really tells you to be strong for yourself. Which is sad.

Be careful not to loose yourself to this situation (depends on the circumstances that surrounded his death.) Because getting your real self won't be easy.

Now let me shock you, TIME is not going to heal the pain! No, it's not going to do that. You hear all the "time heals everything"? Is not applicable in this situation, so you can as well prepare your mind and don't think time will heal or take the pain away.

TIME is only going to change the way you react towards the pain, not heal it. You see they are totally different.


Lastly, and very importantly, please, surround yourself with good support system. Good friends, be happy, whatever it is you were doing before he died, be it a project, and exam, work or anything, get yourself busy with it. Don't let the grief stop you. Because your daddy is gone, abandoning anything you ought to do won't bring him back. Do them so you don't regret it later. Please and please take care of yourself, don't bottle any emotions you feel, everything is going to forever remind you of him, you can't escape that. So like I said earlier, go through the pain and allow the pain go through you.

May the holy spirit comfort you and your family.


Yeah... I'm talking from experience. It's been 4 years and it still seems like yesterday.
BusinessRe: Fatima Dangote And Jamil Abubakar's Wedding In Kano (photos) by amokeme(f): 2:28am On Mar 16, 2018
tiger28:
I concur ! The rich MUST marry the rich. They have MANY things in COMMON. They all study in the SAME expensive school, they have the SAME exposure, they hang out in the SAME social circle, SAME friends,their parents move in the SAME circle so its a given that they will marry each other. This is an experience that I personally know. Who wants to deal with a spouse that will kill one with so much insecurities whenever the rich marries the poor?? They wont have anything in common but lots of insecurities. On a local level, how can a girl/guy that goes to British international school relate with a girl/guy that goes to Owode high schoolhuhNIL! Realest talk!
HealthRe: This Is What Your Kidney Would Look Like, If You Dont Drink Much Water (photos by amokeme(f): 2:19am On Mar 16, 2018
Austinio:
saw same picture on Facebook with caption THIS IS KIDNEY STONE due to too much drinking of COKE
Me too..,

Anyways, as regards water.. I'm a heavy drinker! My mum instilled the culture in me (the whole household). I'm always drinking water, asin when I'm bored, I just think of water, when I wake up to pee (or anytime atall) I drink water to replace the lost fluid cheesy is so"bad" that I don't even like soft drinks.
EducationRe: Perfect Payback For Lecturer Who Failed Me For 6 Years In The University by amokeme(f): 6:48pm On Mar 14, 2018
I pray for this kind of forgiving heart. Your grace of forgiveness is really huge OP.
FashionRe: Reasons Why You Should Dress Well by amokeme(f): 11:12pm On Mar 10, 2018
I just admire it when people look neat and good. And you don't have to break the bank to achieve that. I love seeing guys in neatly sewn native attires tho.
BusinessRe: Fewa Otedola: Meet Femi Otedola's Autistic & Only Son (Photos) by amokeme(f): 10:28pm On Mar 10, 2018
Throwback:
Indeed the son can never be his heir or manage a company, as he cannot manage himself being a patient of Down's syndrome.

The dark skinned daughter is the one he had outside wedlock and borne by a Muslim woman his Catholic knighted father and mother rejected, before he married his fair wife.

As karma will have it, the first daughter is the only one that is a carbon copy of the father
, all the other children from his marriage look like their married mother.
Is karma for a child to look like her own father? I don't understand..
RomanceRe: Yoruba Demon Keeps Lady Waiting On A Date And Gleefully Watches by amokeme(f): 12:20pm On Mar 10, 2018
enonche85:
My point exactly,...if I see a lady reading my chats while am waiting for the past 15mins, I don waka be dat!

...no time for nonsense abeg!
Way to go!
If you are running late, courtesy demand you call to explain the reason and not just reading and not replying. Haba. 30 whole minshuhhuh
RomanceRe: Yoruba Demon Keeps Lady Waiting On A Date And Gleefully Watches by amokeme(f): 12:12pm On Mar 10, 2018
Fxwarrior:
From experience its actually what you ladies want. I have found out that being nicey is a huge turn off on Nigerian ladies.

They insult those who cherish them and fall over heads with those who no send them. Experience have taught me this. Girls even find you appealing when other girls are around you groveling on you.
You need to check yourself if that is the kind of women you have been meeting. Check to know the attractions, because your experience is really a sad one. And change your circle.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Demon Keeps Lady Waiting On A Date And Gleefully Watches by amokeme(f): 1:38am On Mar 10, 2018
Smh lipsrsealed
And he thinks it's funny? Sociopaths on the increase.
How can she even wait for someone who is clearly reading her chats without replying for 30 whole mins?? shocked
Car TalkRe: Lady Shows Off The N35m Gwagon Her Parents Bought For Her (Photos) by amokeme(f): 12:30am On Mar 09, 2018
Originalsly:
Hmmm.....poor man mentality. .... lots of poor people....poor people with money showing off on poor people without money.
Please help the poor around you and don't dictate people's charity for them.
TravelRe: Tasty Foods For The Northern Nigeria Traveller by amokeme(f): 5:00pm On Mar 01, 2018
sorextee:
Baba, if u never chop am, u dey miss big time.. That thing make sense die. Grounded pepper. U feel it crunchy in ur mouth. Delicious. Rich in protein
I ate it very well, especially when I was in daura, they make the best fara. OMG! I want some now cry
And if you buy to prepare yourself, it won't taste as good.
RomanceRe: I Served My Boyfriend With Jollof Mixed With My Shit – Ex-girlfriend Discloses by amokeme(f): 9:27pm On Feb 28, 2018
Ahhhhhhhhhh! Ladies are not smiling o shocked
RomanceRe: Wife Matter by amokeme(f): 11:20pm On Feb 25, 2018
greiboy:
I don't get you againhuh
Never mind
RomanceRe: Wife Matter by amokeme(f): 11:06pm On Feb 25, 2018
greiboy:
Interested in the op? grin
In the question I quoted
RomanceRe: Wife Matter by amokeme(f): 10:16pm On Feb 25, 2018
greiboy:
Bro, what do you want now?
Start a thread... maybe.
I'm also very interested lipsrsealed
CareerRe: How Do You Handle Older People Under You At Work? by amokeme(f): 4:41pm On Feb 25, 2018
Respect is reciprocal. You are being paid to do a job, same goes for them too.
They are not your "uncle/aunty or family members" that's a working environment, keep it so. Don't "familitise" it.
Do the Job you are paid to do simple.

If they notice you are timid they will use it against you especially if they are yorubas too. Don't let that happen
EducationRe: Redeemer's University Holds 13th Matriculation Ceremony (photos) by amokeme(f): 9:39pm On Feb 23, 2018
But why is the admission so late?
EducationRe: Redeemer's University Holds 13th Matriculation Ceremony (photos) by amokeme(f): 9:38pm On Feb 23, 2018
Euouae:
grin grin grin


After paying 800k, you go con tell me say my son fail. I go grive Bulldozer go the school go uproot one building
Then talk to your child to be serious, in CU A ZERO unit or one (irrespective of the unit) carry over can land you an extra year. So you warn the child seriously to behave

LaudableXX:
Untrue! They accept people older than 21 years. Where on earth did you get your story from?? shocked Even in universities abroad, old age is no barrier to getting an education. They encourage diversity.
CU don't admit above 20
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 4:09pm On Feb 23, 2018
yunggeeben:
Am a teacher too... can you link me with any of those clients please
This is a smart person, @naturalwaves please link him up.. God bless you.
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 4:07pm On Feb 23, 2018
naturalwaves:
I have dealt with people like him before. Going by his posts, you can tell that his vitupuration is due to inner anger and frustration. He is also in shock. I do not really blame him though because I understand. I sent him a PM, he didn't reply. I actually wanted to counsel him and maybe show him screenshots of credit alerts and some negotiations so that he will stop looking down on himself.
cheesy you are very nice. I don't have time proving points to people like that mbok.
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 10:55am On Feb 23, 2018
J2381:
says who? Can you tell me how you know this? Like you have the stats of rich parents and the school their kids attend?
What school in the whole of egbeda pay over 300k for a termhuh That's 900k a session! Ok, the school you teach, what is the fee like?

In fact, you know what? Don't answer that. Like I said, definition of rich is relative meaning we both have different definition to what rich means, (because I didn't think you understood that in my previous reply judging from this your comment)

So don't worry, to you its impossible so you can never understand. Have a great day sir.
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 10:22am On Feb 23, 2018
J2381:
so you think parents in Egbeda are poor? Is that what you're insinuating?

six or seven? If you can't see the joke in that post, then I'm sorry.

You speak as if poor and average people don't reside in those high brow area.
Oh your pay is 7 figures, thank Thank God for your life.

Poor and average live everywhere but, they are not the target market sir. Can a poor person pay more than 5 million or even a million as school fees in this present Nigeria? Abi what are you on abouthuh? Or you don't understand what "your network determines your networth" meanshuh

Rich parents in Egbeda don't take their children to schools in Egbeda funny enough, but I know you will falsify this. Oh well, definition of rich is relative tho. Someone who pays 300k as school fee is not my definition of rich, it may be yours.

If you can't draw wisdom from what I've said or what naturalwaves has said, then it's fine. Enjoy your world of "its not possible"
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 10:16am On Feb 23, 2018
naturalwaves:
Does he seem to you like someone that gets a 6 figure pay? I honestly do understand his frustrations . He is not even ready to learn and he claims to be a former teacher. Look at his mannerism and approach. Only a mushroom school in Egbeda could have employed such kind of person.
Oh well, whatever he says he earns is his business. I only hope is true because the bold is a very negative attitude on him. I mean, you even offered to PM him and look the way he replied. I was surprised. People are too blind to opportunities and yet complain of being stuck, how can someone who claims to be a teacher be asking another person private information about who and where he tutors?(how unprofessional) That means he doesn't see a problem divulging such info if asked by a stranger. People like him are reasons parents are very selective with the kind of tutors they let in. Just imagine this. shocked

He will result to name calling now and "lol" will be added.
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 9:44am On Feb 23, 2018
J2381:
the students I taught attend private schools. That's in Egbeda area of Lagos.

Yes, just because I haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. No doubt, but seeing is believing. If I was resident in Lagos, I would want to meet you just to know that friend of yours who charge 25K for 2 hours.
I'm sorry but how much do you expect a parent in the egbeda area of Lagos to pay per hour? You should be happy if they can pay 2k per hour sef.
And at the bold, that is a very wrong attitude, but as you said earlier you are doing well financially, so thank God you don't need the money or connection. Because a smart person will want to build his network and maybe probably I can help refer him to someone, but like I said, thank God you don't need the money as you are already earning 6 figures.(as stated in one of your replies to someone )

Now, are you aware some children come to Nigeria for holidays from abroad? The normal thing is their parents get lesson teachers to teach them for the duration of their stay here. Have you been contracted by one of this parents before? Maybe not.

And like naturalwaves mentioned referrals are powerful.

Do you want to compare schools in the GRA part of Lagos, the island, banana island and other highbrow area of Lagos that pay over 5 million a term as school fees to the egbeda you mentioned? smiley

You are free to doubt, exposure is key, and lastly have in mind, Your network determines your networth
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 12:08am On Feb 23, 2018
naturalwaves:
Hahahahahahaha. Bro, you're so funny o. A 6 figure pay is just anything from a 100k. What's the big deal about that? As for proves, what prove do you want??
I know most people don't know how viable teaching is but you will be shocked subsequently. Oya, let's communicate via PM. After that, you should understand better.
At the bold, exactly. They don't know and they doubt out rightly.

Just like any business, you have to know the right people. And one of the reasons most youths can't move forward is pride.

Someone in the same field as you is telling you his experience, instead of the lacking individual (s)to humble themselves and inquire more on the topic privately, noooo o. They will be arguing blindly and wonder why they are still in the same financial level.
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 11:55pm On Feb 22, 2018
J2381:
I was once a teacher. I'll have to ask you where in Nigeria do they pay 5K an hour. Even if it's extra morals.

This isn't about making mouth, it is about facts and figures. Beside, if you're good, why do you have to plead with a parent to pay you 5K an hour or more?
Since you were once a teacher, what kind of students do you tutor? I mean what kind of schools do they attend? Very important.

You haven't experienced it doesn't deny it's existence.
BusinessRe: 5 Ways To Make N5000 A Day In Lagos by amokeme(f): 11:50pm On Feb 22, 2018
J2381:
Bros the thing baffle me oh. Even for Lekki, dem no dey charge per hour. Lol
I know someone who normally charge 25K(some of his colleagues charge even more) for 2 hours, just for one subject. you know the interesting part? The subject is not even maths or English.
And the lesson can be 3-5 days, depends on how the parent wants it.
Bottom line? your target market is all that matters.

People are making money with things ordinary people take for granted.
HealthRe: Handsome Reward For Egg Donors: Are You Interested? by amokeme(f): 10:58pm On Feb 20, 2018
Kennydoc:
Donor keh. I be man o.
cheesy lol, I was wondering....


Anyways, how's the turn up been? Recommendable? (Knowing how we react to such things in this part of the world)
HealthRe: Handsome Reward For Egg Donors: Are You Interested? by amokeme(f): 9:52pm On Feb 20, 2018
Kennydoc:
I will give the details to those interested, who send a PM.
But generally, it is a safe process. That I'm very sure of, cos I've been involved in it for the past one year.
As a donor or consultant?

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