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priceaction:
just ask, how is his father or mother? You think naija politicians will just go to the street and pick someone?

It doesn't matter who they are, he is young and let's hope he uses his position positively, that's what matters. At least, youth leadership will start from somewhere.

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Yezzy:
For security purpose I'll ask some basic questions before u can be added. Thanks for ur cooperation.

Is the group still active?
If yes, can I get the WhatsApp number? Thank you

Home of QUEENS and KINGS
HEBRON...
We are cool like that

The emphasis on the female gender is too blown.

lexy2014:
pls show me in my write up where I said its a bad thing

I was asking a you question

PSTEMMA1960:
are u now trying to tell us that it was her father that arranged the meeting with these two president？the girl is doing her best, i don't know why once u are from a rich home in Nigeria people always think/feel that u don't have any talent..

Is just very sad. Nobody picked the home they were born into, so people need to stop hating..

lexy2014:
I don't think d dude is criticizing her neither is he saying she should kill herself. All he is saying is that she got a "little" push from dad 2 appear in top gigs b4 she made a name.that we can't deny not that she has always been an exceptional DJ. Let's b honest with ourselves

And is that a bad thing?

Oh wow! This is amazing.... and interesting at the same time, now I look at Mr P in a different light. I mean, he is definitely an intelligent young man. Learnt from his story too. Looking back, I've lost somethings due to ego and pride. And another thing? It's very healthy to talk to the right people! The Remi part broke my heart! It's crazy painful.

Toks2008:
You don't get it.. ladies just hate being ignored even if you are a tour wooing them,they may keep saying No but they enjoy the attention but the moment you ignore them they just tend to hate it.

That "attention" is actually disturbance to serious minded people.. If someone turns you down, please let the person be. How do you even notice you are being ignored sef?
Why would anyone want to be with someone who act the bold anyway? People are different so you can just generalise like that.

Laslim:
Pls where is d boi mother? Just asking o

She is fine.

Cute boy..

EternalTruth:
i reside in Edo State. When next you visit it by God's grace next year don't hesitate to let me know so i will join you guys.
I am serious please.
Tourism is my profession

Really?

When I saw it on Instablog I knew it will soon get here. Anyways, this must really be deep because amara is a gentle person, so I'm thinking she has bottled alot.

TheFisayo:
Hi, you can send a message to this email; thefisayo@gmail.com

Just did, thank you

zillonnair:
No, we are an adventure group! There is a difference! Tour groups wants to make money, adventure group are low budget travelers...

So like how much did each person pay? Or contributed?

TheFisayo:
This new park gets me excited! I have officially started my tour for the year, and I started with the newly launched recreational park at Alausa, Ikeja Lagos named Johnson Jakande Tinubu Park (JJT Park).

It was launched by the present Governor of Lagos State; Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode to honor the past Governors of Lagos State – Brigadier Mobolaji, Johnson Rtd, Alhaji Lateef Jakande, and Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

I think the idea of the park makes a lot of sense, and it is very futuristic in terms of improving tourism in Lagos Nigeria, and like I said in my recent video on YouTube, I am PROUD OF LAGOS, & I am proud to be a Lagosian.

Now straight to the review of the park, I would like to start with something interesting!

>>>READ THE REVIEW HERE: https://thefisayo.com/6-things-johnson-jakande-tinubu-jjt-park-review-new-park-lagos/



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sirBLUNT:
the way you guys are quick to call women olosho at any slittest opportunity makes me wonder if you all have a functioning brain

A lot of them were raised by the bold, they didn't know or experience what it's like to be under a decent parent or caregiver, or have promiscuous sisters. So you won't blame them... is just their family orientation.
I feel sorry for them instead.

The humiliation some ladies allow themselves go through is just irritating!
Why agreeing to see a man you haven't met before in a hotel room? And you had to call him for money to fix your phone?
Worst is you didn't have enough money for transportation
Haba!

You should stay at home if you don't have. is not by force to go out.. If you can't invite him over to your house, then wait till you have money, not just for transportation, but you might get hungry too.
This life is simple dan'Allah!

Alot of premature guys roaming, so don't blame him atall for behaving like that because you refused him sex, the guy didn't do anything wrong here to me, he treated you the way you presented yourself simple!

Find other sources of income, then focus on buying a land now not building it, you can even resell the land after some time. In addition to that, if your sister is not a handicap or mentally unstable, please encourage her to also get something doing to assist you with the responsibilities. Hanhan! @24 with a 60k salary.. The responsibilities are too much on you. And I think you shouldn't add marriage to the equation now.

makydebbie:


Their money, their wedding, their business. My village people cannot get me to the extent that I'll be worried on how people decide to spend their money.

Lol please leave village people alone. Nigerians love to dictate to people how they spend their money. As long as they are private citizens, they can spend it wherever and however they want! they are not your federal government!
Same thing too, they will be choosing your charity for you, mtchew

They should chanel their anger and frustration to the right authorities.

Hotshawarma:
to be honest though...the best place to find true friendship is from "childhood friends"

Not in all cases..

Me too, for like 2week straight up! Like everyday. So annoying

brainpulse:
People in this part of the world are damn too dumb and illiterates. The designer actually used the artist as market photo shot or model for his/her design and the artist will be paid for the photo shot. It is done all over the world. The designer reserve the rights to model with his/ her design except you plead/pay extra charges for you cloth not to be used for model.
How can she steal a cloth and the tailor didn't report to the police.
And people's comments here also very dull

Some didn't even read the story well, but the Nigerian youth syndrome... They gladly hate collectively on someone perceived to be better than they are, or living the life they hope to live. And they do it blindly but with joy. Most of the hate comments on her page are from women.
I don't know if they don't realise how silly they are, I mean, how can you go to someone's page on social media, followed the person, write a hate comment, with your own data leaders of tomorrow indeed.

I think at 33 you should have a mind of your own and not have your father dictate(he can guild you) what you should do, who you should marry or not marry. Well, it's a good advise, but I certainly won't want to marry into that kind of family. Seems like one who would give the wife alot of headaches(should incase you don't meet up to his obligations or dictates)

But what kind of a father threatens to disown has own son because of a house in the village? With what I can understand from your post( I may be wrong ) you are building a house for him and not even yourself.
If he wanted a house so badly, why didn't he build one before he married your mother? If not having a house didn't stop him from getting married, then I say it's unfair for him to mandate you to.
Parents should be loving and not selfish.

Reading comments from guys here, just gives me an extra motivation to pay alot of attention to raise my boys well.. so many senseless and perverting comments, makes me wonder what kind of homes they all grew in

It's gonna be an awesome 2018!!!!!
All those you constantly check on and hold dear to your heart, but they don't return the favor? those you sent Christmas messages to and they read without replying? Please DROP them like a BAG OF BEANS! you don't need that heavy baggage.

Drop! Drop! Drop! Like it's HOT! and yes, #AttitudesHot� give room for people who actually care and not some people who believe is their right to be nasty or Ignore you without a reason, simply because they can!

Stop giving excuses for the trash "friends" throw at you!
Stop accommodating such people all in the name of;
"they are way back" or "we go way back" some WBs (way backs) can be useless! Peel the dead skin off your feet!

Never ever tolerate someone who uses what they know about you to hurt or berate you. No honey, that's not a friend!
COMMUNICATE your displeasure to them, and if they don't make EFFORTS to change?.. PLEASE DROP THEM!

Learn to define your relationships, mutual, platonic, intimate or otherwise.
Please enough of messing with the word "FRIEND" that should end with 2017!

you may know alot of people,
you may see alot of people around, but
not all should be classified or labelled as a friend! (Either by introduction or to yourself) Know WHO is actually your FRIEND and label accordingly. It has to be a mutual something!

There is a difference between
a colleague,
a course mate,
a roommate,
a project partner,
an acquaintance,
a church member
a school/work colleague
A secondary school/class mate
You don't have to rank them all up as "my friend" if you want to associate with someone as your friend, that's fine but please make sure that person is ready to reciprocate that feeling clearly!

Call people by their titles in your life. You have to mow off the weeds else your fresh grass won't glow! Please CUT AND DROP!
Friendship should me mutual, learn to define and re - define your relationships. The fact you were play mates with someone while growing up, or childhood friends doesn't mean one person should still force the relationship if the other is not corporating.. that's when redefinition comes in.

You haven't seen or being in touch with a childhood friend for 15 years and all of a sudden your paths cross.. please redefine to see if that person still qualifies to be your "FRIEND" before you open your mouth and start introducing him or her as a friend.

Know your place in the life of people and act on that lane. That way, we won't hurt ourselves. In the situation of mix signals? Please be a grownup and communicate to know where you actually stand.

All the safe treading just so you don't offend someone while displeasing yourself have to end with this year!
Stop worrying about pleasing everyone. Give yourself peace!

If there is any "friend" that makes you feel your life is not as great as theirs? Drop! drop! drop!
If there is anyone that makes you feel like you have to pretend to have it all together in order to fit in? Drop! Drop! Drop!
If there is anyone that make it seem they are doing you a favour by being friends with you? Drop them like a purging poop!
Fake friends?
Trashy friends?
Frenimies?
Fake family?
Toxic people? DROP THEM LIKE A SMELLY TRASH and apologise to yourself for all the foolishness and stupidity you let yourself tolerate this year and over the years from those people.

No! They can't go into your new phase with you. Eliminate what doesn't help you evolve. If a person doesn't synchronise with you spiritually and mentally, please for the love of yourself DROP them without an apology!

Does it mean you hate them? NO!
Does it mean you don't wish them well? NO!
Does it mean you will stop praying for them? NO!
Doesn't mean you will stop talking to them or hold grudges or keep malice with them either, it only means you know your place in their life and you are acting accordingly on your lane!

You need your sanity intact to make the most out of 2018 because it is your NEW DAWN!

A true friend will behave in a kind and very pleasant way toward you and anything that concerns you.
A true friend will always exhibit a positive attitude towards you.
A true friend takes genuine interest in you.
A true friend find ways of being a help or source of inspiration to you. Friendship shouldn't be parasitic.

True friendship is all about RECIPROCITY! being REAL and OPEN to each other without fear of being judged, criticised or mocked.

Friendship is to be nourished by the pleasure of shared interest and mutuality not competing or down casting the other emotionally.
I urge and appeal to you, define, evaluate and redefine what and who you want into your space today being the end to 2017 and don't start a new year tomorrow with some loads and baggage of crap all in the name of "friendship"
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TWC wishes you a happy and prosperous 2018!
Tobi Ezekiel,
Writer- Total Woman Concept.

http://www.tobiezekiel.com/2017/12/friendship-define-evaluate-and-redefine.html
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Sugar97:
Been trying the link but its not opening.

My cramps are usually severe and my mum usually discourages the use of drugs. Pls do u know of any other ways to reduce the pain?

Go for a scan for ovarian cyst, just to be sure there is nothing else triggering the pain, not all cramps are normal.
After the scan, if there is nothing, then use cataflam or volt fast(oral) you can also buy a hot water bottle(since your mum is against drugs)

Donnetimmy:
I'm glad someone is bringing this up.
God bless u OP.

Amen thank you

SAMBARRY:
my mom beat me till I almost lost my eye as a kid .I can never forget that experience.

Offence was using the tipex she said I shouldn't touch to paint my nails and even when I apologized she beat me to stupor that I was taken to the optamologist but thank God I can still see

I also remember she will beat me anytime I use left and force me to use right,meanwhile I'm a natural lefty.now I use right but I subconsciously still use left but I notice when I'm holding something with my left hands that left hand begins to shake or I remember her screams and anytime I try to control the shaking it doesn't stop till I change it to right.I barely do things with left hand.Even if I carry something with left it will fall

The Bottom line of this story is that the damaging effects of emotional abuse doesn't just die a natural death as parents assume,it grows to adulthood and the crazy thing is that it's in the memory,which is indelible

Parents and caregivers need to change their orientation towards bringing up kids.sometimes sef the negative effects makes me sometimes think I overpamper wura.correct YOUR children lovingly and firmly and not turning them to little slaves like they're emotionless.so many times I will cry on the staircase.I see some kids doing this too.

Forcing kids to go to school THEY don't like without giving a Damn why they don't like that school isn't fair on kids

OMG. I'm so sorry.., I can't say I can relate to what you are saying.. but I completely understand. I believe you won't treat your children or others same way...

Talkwell:
That last line na d exact thing I b plan,I con reason orphans I go adopt by God's grace.

Nigerian parents are the worst type of parents in africa

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