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Why do some guys assume flashy ladies have nothing to offer? I mean, some of this women can afford the kind of lifestyle they chose to live. Funny thing is, the ladies in question may not even ask for stuff, but the men are buying willingly, trying to impress and later come on here to complain. I don't get it.
Don't judge a book by its cover, see the content, and if you are not fine with it, drop it and let go!
Is that simple. But if the same thing keeps happening to you,, then you are the problem.. change your mentality and circle.

tessygirl:
I always try. but I know it. I check my weight, and it is on the high side. I am so scared dear. lol. I don't know if it is the thinking that causes it.

I think it is.. just try to get your mind off it, eat healthy, exercise and be happy

tessygirl:
I eat less, but I can't reduce yet. do you know what I can do again? I am even scared that if I eat all those you mentioned, I might just blow off. Any recommendation? I don't want to be fat.

I'll recommend you take the bold off your mind. The mind is very powerful., it might just be in your head not that you are necessarily veering fat.
Just eat healthy and be happy, that's all you need

queenice7:
so my close cousin is a naive and good girl. she has been broke and be begging me for little little things for sometimes coz of the troubles faced by her parents. she's a final yr student. recently she met a much older soldier man in the captain level. the man claimed to love her and is willing to take care of her. the man bought a lot for her on their first date and lured her to his place that same day. I don't even understand how she said de man did it, tho he has a car. thereafter forced her to av sex with him. it wasn't her will coz he asker her for sex in his house after locking up everything, she refused and he tried forcing her, then she, didn't want it to be like she was forced, gave in to his demand. and since then the man av been calling and apologising and promised to give her 100k, I mean 100 good thousands. she was waiting for him to send it to her account as promised Buh the soldier kept on prosponding it, saying he has been busy at Maiduguri. when he finally came back after almost 2 weeks of the promise. he now said that if my cousin needs the money, she should come and satisfy (have sex) him first before it will be given to her cash and he gave her 3 days. my cousin here is a very good girl, she isn't into runs and even the man himself testifies this, she needs the money so much buh she is scared if it could be a scam or if the man may be a ritual killer or sth. should she go or flee from this soldier man??

What I can understand from your post;

1. Your cousin has longer throat,
2. You both(if not same person ) have already been enticed with the money (as a result of number 1)
And lastly, that man is not giving her any money when she eventually sleeps with him. And darling, you don't have a case... Instead he will beat her up!

Your "cousin" has already spent the acclaimed 100k in her head. She is just looking for a good justification for the mens rea.. which is "she needs the money and her parents can't provide. I mean this is even annoying, aren't you her relation? Or let's say you are tired of helping her, how about her friends? Or if that's not an option, how about providing services for students in school? No matter how small, that way she can put body and soul together. And imbibe a simple lifestyle, she will definitely survive!

And the way you said "a good 100k" is kind of disturbing... 100k is a small money, when she sleeps with him for the money, her eyes will clear (that's if any money will be given)

ipobarecriminals:
jezebel

Did you miss the part where he tried to RAPE her in the presence of her children?

Double celebration.. Congratulations to her.
The highlights tho or is it the camera?

Rubbiish:
Regarding the fake friends i believe he was just trying to play with words...But how do u cope with the load?

@ the bold, you don't assume for him, he typed that himself. Anyways, he understands my post and that's what is important.

Rubbiish:
What kind of discipline are u talking about?
He should avoid friends because he wanna go into marriage?

Don't take it out of context, read his post again... then understand mine too. He feels he is not spending wisely... and sees going to marriage as the solution.
And again, he called them fake friends so they are not friends

SimplyFabulous:
You are so wrong. Am a very disciplined man. Spending on drinks and fake friends doesn't mean am not disciplined.

Yeah, I may be wrong, but from your initial post, I don't think I am.
You said and I quote "But because am single, i just spend carelessly on drinking and helping fake friends that are only there when they need your money.
I have thought deeply that it might benefit me more to get married and know i have a family to take care of instead of drinks and fake friends"
From the bold, you are spending carelessly because you are not married and you feel getting married will curb all that. In other words, you feel it's the answer, and that was why I said you should discipline yourself. Getting married should not be a dependent variable to using your money wisely. That's all I'm saying.

Your motive of going into marriage is wrong (my opinion )
You need to discipline yourself and cut some habits before you go into it.. don't be in a haste, be calm and work on yourself, everything will fall in place

So sad my wifi is not strong enough

PierreDeFermath:
iya yii. [b]You go like money o. [/b]Visible kitchen would be a perfect selling point,if I would have to visit a restaurant,I would like to see the processes of food preparation through the transparent glass doors.

Lol, yes naw, who doesn't? Money must be made o

Well, there are still some very good restaurants around, I for one plan on owning one someday.
And my kitchen will be visible so people can be confident of what they are eating

tosyne2much:
Wetin you find come this kind thread? it

Lol, I don't know too o. I'm out

Chuknovski:
may be they are campaigning safe sex

This should better be it.. because that's the only reasonable explanation...

I'll really love to have one... but I don't think it can retain heat or ice too..

Lookingforadvic:
Not jealous! If I want to I can get a white man and have a child like that..

I am just saying it is unfair why someone who purposely disobeyed and disobeys Gods law is blessed whilst me who followed what he told me to do, he just destroyed my life.

My mum was my life what am I supposed to do now

I don't even feel like existing anymore

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But your parents won't support so there is a clause.
I'll advice you to mind your business and face your own life, you will find happiness that way.
Stop comparing your life and path to another person's .
You see what they want you to see. And really let go of the bitterness (it's all over your post) not healthy atall

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Slayer2:
Hehe, which state are you in?

Taraba state

Slayer2:
The weather is cool over there? I guest you are not in the south region, if not here be like hell fire, in fact I am beginning to think hell fire will be positioned in the south on judgement day or God is just angry with Niger Delta people because it's freaking hot here!

What do you now want people in sokoto to say?

Slayer2:
Lol, how is your day going?

Oh well, fine.. Thank God. The weather is cool, so it's turning out to be a nice day

Slayer2:
Yeah sure, going great now that you are here, so that's not your real face? That small girl emmanuella have infect you ba

She is small but mighty. I actually heard the "not my real face" joke before I saw the face behind it

Slayer2:
Yeah sure, going great now that you are here, so that's not your real face? That small girl emmanuella have infect you ba

heheheh yes o

Slayer2:
Well young lady, we cross parts again once on this faceless forum filled with the good, bad and ugly

You are also pretty as well, you look a bit like me facially though but you know this could be us

Lol,
And that is not my real face
Hope your day is going well?

She is really pretty...
Congratulations to her

She is really pretty...

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Slayer2:
Don't worry I won't break your heart, ayam not like that naw, I am gentle as a dove dear

Lol, God bless you

Slayer2:
No I have nor been heartbroken before because I can't love, I never dated in school because I was busy with studies until I was done and then I discovered the problem.
Instead I am the one breaking hearts which is worries me

No I have never taught about love that way, I feel love is beautiful because when I see people all around me, in movies. It's just beautiful..

Well done sir

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